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Presented  to  the 
LIBRARY  of  the 

UNIVERSITY  OF  TORONTO 

by 

Professor 

Mlihael  MLllgate 


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»• 


FRANCIS  AND  RIVY,  AUGUST  1914. 


Francis  and 


Riversdale   Grenfell 

{Memoir 


BY 


JOHN     BUCHAN 


THOMAS    NELSON    AND    SONS,    LTD. 

LONDON,   EDINBURGH,    PARIS,   AND   NEW  YORK 


First  Published  October  1920 


I  SHOULD  like  to  dedicate  this  little  book  to  the 
Twins'  brothers  and  sisters  :  especially  to  their  sister 
Dolores,  who  was  rarely  absent  from  their  thoughts 
— or  they  from  hers.  J.  B. 


Dtgno  I  che  dov'l  Vun  I'atro  ^induce 
Si,  che  com'  elli  ad  una  militarot 
Cosi  la  gloria  low  insieme  luca. 

DANTE,  Paradiso,  xii.,  34-36. 


Ah,  that  Sir  Humphry  Gilbert  should  be  dead  : 
Aht  that  Sir  Philip  Sidney  should  be  dead  : 
Ah,  that  Sir  William  Sackeuill  should  be  dead  : 
Ah,  that  Sir  Richard  Grenuile  should  be  dead  : 
Ah,  that  brave  Walter  Deuoreux  should  be  dead  : 
Ah,  that  the  Flowre  of  Knighthood  should  be  dead, 
Which,  maugre  deadlyest  Deathes,  and  stonyest  Stones, 
That  coouer  worthiest  worth,  shall  neuer  dy. 

GABRIEL  HARVEY,  1592. 


CONTENTS 

I.  1880-1889  .      .  *  .  ..?•-•  i 

II.  1900-1904  .      .  »  .  .  .  20 

III.  1904-1905  «   .  .  •  •  •  53 

IV.  1906-1907  i,   .  »  »  t  .  81 
V.  1907-1909  »   *  y  •  *  •  IO^ 

VI.  1910-1914  .   .  .  •  *  .  153 

VII.  1914  .   +  .   .  *  .  186 

VIII.  1914-1915  ^  ;  ''.*  •  >'  •  •  f  .  207 


ILLUSTRATIONS 

Francis  and  Rivy,  August  1914         .       •  Frontispiece 
The  Twins  at  the  Age  of  Eight .       .        to  face  page      7 

The  Twins  with  the  Eton  Beagles     .       .  „       „         14 

The  Twins  with  Lord  Grenfell  at  Malta, 

April  1901     *       .    jfpl     .     '/.    „  „       „        24 

The  Twins  after- the  Kadir  Cup        .       .  ,,       ,,        62 

Francis  at  Polo     .       .       .       .       v       .  ,,       ,,        94 

Rivy  on "  Cinderella "        .       ,       •       •  „       )9       104 

Francis    on   "  Michael "   and    Rivy    on 

"  Cinderella  "  161 


PREFACE. 

BY  FIELD-MARSHAL  LORD  GRENFELL,  G.C.B.,  G.C.M.G. 

THE  Twins  wrote  to  each  other  almost  daily,  and 
when  Francis  went  to  the  Boer  War  they  settled 
to  keep  each  other's  letters.  A  large  collection 
was  found  after  their  death,  and  when  examined 
it  seemed  to  their  family  \vorthy  of  some  form  of 
publication.  Mr.  John  Buchan,  who  was  one  of 
the  Twins'  greatest  friends,  most  kindly  undertook 
to  prepare  a  memoir.  It  is  intended  that  any 
profits  derived  from  the  sale  of  the  book  should 
go  to  benefit  the  finances  of  the  Invalid  Children's 
Aid  Association,  a  branch  of  which  was  founded 
in  Islington  by  Rivy  in  1912,  and  in  which  both 
brothers  were  greatly  interested. 

On  September  5,  1880,  when  quartered  at 
Shorncliffe,  I  received  a  telegram  from  my  brother 
announcing  the  birth  of  the  Twins.  Thus  the 
family  of  seven  sons  and  four  daughters  had 
increased  to  a  total  of  thirteen.  Of  these,  eight 
went  to  Eton,  four  of  them  being  in  the  Eleven ; 


x  PREFACE. 

one  entered  the  Royal  Navy,  and  five  of  them 
died  in  the  service  of  their  country — Pascoe,  the 
eldest,  killed  in  the  Matabele  rising  ;  Robert, 
I2th  Lancers,  my  A.D.C.  in  Cairo,  in  the  charge 
of  the  2ist  Lancers  at  Omdurman  ;  Reginald, 
1 7th  Lancers,  of  illness  caused  by  service  in 
India  ;  Francis  and  Rivy  in  the  Great  War.  All 
the  surviving  brothers  served  in  the  war,  one 
as  Brigadier-General,  and  three  as  Lieutenant- 
Colonels. 

My  various  military  appointments  and  duties 
kept  me  out  of  England  most  of  the  time  the 
Twins  were  children  and  boys  at  school ;  but  on 
the  death  of  their  father,  when  they  were  sixteen, 
I  became  their  guardian,  and  our  friendly  rela- 
tions of  uncle  and  nephew  became  much  more 
intimate  and  more  like  those  of  father  and  son. 
I  was  known  to  them  as  "  The  Uncle,"  and  was 
accustomed  frequently  to  hear  the  phrase,  "  Go 
it,  Uncle." 

I  remember  arriving  on  a  visit  to  them  at 
Eton  and  finding  their  room  strewn  with  answers 
to  their  appeal  for  help  to  build  new  kennels 
for  the  beagles,  of  which  Francis  was  master. 
They  were  then  at  the  zenith  of  their  popularity 
and  success  :  Francis  in  the  Eleven  and  Master  of 
the  Beagles,  Rivy  Whip,  and  both  members  of  Pop  ; 
and  I  felt  my  position  as  Sirdar  of  the  Egyptian 


PREFACE.  xi 

army  to  be   a  far  inferior  one   to  that  of    my 
nephews  at  Eton. 

Later,  at  a  review  of  a  large  number  of  Public 
School  Cadets  by  the  Queen,  I,  in  my  official 
capacity,  was  standing  close  to  Her  Majesty  to 
announce  the  names  of  the  various  schools,  when 
the  leading  company  of  Eton  Cadets  marched 
past,  and  I  was  alarmed  to  hear  the  usual  signal 
whistle  of  the  Twins  to  me,  with  the  exclamation 
"  Hullo,  Uncle  !  " 

Francis  was  my  godson,  and  began  his  military 
career  in  my  regiment.  When  staying  with  me 
as  extra  A.D.C.  at  Malta  he  received  his  com- 
mission in  the  King's  Royal  Rifles  in  1901. 

The  visit  of  the  Twins  to  Malta  had  a  decided 
effect  on  their  future.  They  met  interesting  men 
of  the  army  and  navy,  and  began  to  realize  the 
vast  extent  of  the  British  Empire,  and  also  their 
own  ignorance  of  its  history  and  geography. 
They  had  never  even  heard  of  Napoleon  III.  and 
the  last  French  Empire !  Our  daily  readings, 
especially  the  History  of  Our  Own  Times,  en- 
larged their  understandings  and  made  them 
eager  for  further  instruction  and  more  knowledge. 
From  that  time  dates  the  remarkable  assiduity 
with  wrhich  they  pursued  their  studies,  both  in 
languages  and  history,  especially  military  history, 
and  laid  themselves  out  to  meet  men  of  culture 


xii  PREFACE. 

and  distinction,  whose  acquaintanceship  they  felt 
would  be  useful  in  the  future. 

Each  was  invariably  in  the  other's  mind,  and 
they  sometimes  had  premonitions  of  harm.  When 
Francis  fell  ill  at  Inverness  writh  what  seemed 
at  first  only  a  chill,  Rivy,  who  was  staying 
with  me,  said  he  must  go  to  Francis.  Oddly 
enough  he  was  quite  right,  as  when  he  arrived 
in  Scotland  he  found  him  very  ill  with  typhoid 
fever,  no  telegram  or  warning  having  arrived. 

Rivy  settled  down  to  a  financial  career,  and 
when  travelling  in  America  he  studied  the  man- 
agement of  railways  and  methods  of  business. 
While  there  he  astonished  a  friend  of  his  father's 
by  asking  him  if,  as  a  favour,  he  might  work  in  his 
office  next  to  one  of  his  clerks.  "  Why,  certainly 
you  may,"  was  Mr.  Morton's  answer.  "  I  am 
an  old  man,  and  have  often  been  asked  for  a 
holiday,  but  this  is  the  first  time  any  man  enjoying 
a  holiday  has  asked  me  for  leave  to  work." 

While  taking  their  occupations  seriously,  as 
companions  they  were  most  cheerful  and  humor- 
ous, original  and  quaint  in  their  points  of  view, 
and  very  amusing  in  the  simplicity  of  their  ob- 
servations. Many  were  the  instances  of  their 
sympathy  and  kindness  to  others.  Francis  on 
one  occasion  sat  up  all  night  with  a  porter  at 
the  Bath  Club  who  had  smashed  his  hand  in  an 


PREFACE.  xiii 

accident,  and  this  was  at  a  time  when  he  was 
preparing  for  an  important  examination.  Happy 
days  were  spent  at  Butler's  Court,  which  was  open 
to  them  and  their  ponies  whenever  they  cared  to 
stay,  and  I  was  much  struck  by  the  efficient 
management  of  their  stud.  Their  affection  for 
my  children,  shown  in  so  many  ways,  was  a 
delight  to  me  and  to  their  mother,  and  the  atten- 
tion shown  to  the  villagers  and  old  employees  of 
Wilton  Park  made  them  very  popular. 

As  children  they  had  adopted  Lord  Burnham, 
who  lived  close  by  at  Hall  Barn,  as  a  most 
intimate  friend.  He  was  much  amused  on  one 
occasion  when  they  stayed  with  him  during  the 
holidays  for  a  ball,  and  appeared  wearing  large 
pairs  of  white  gloves  borrowed  from  the  footmen, 
whose  billycock  hats  they  also  wore  in  church 
the  next  day.  After  Francis's  death  Lord  Burn- 
ham  wrote  a  most  beautiful  and  touching  lead- 
ing article  in  the  Daily  Telegraph.  They  were 
devoted  to  him  and  his  family,  and  their  affection 
was  reciprocated. 

The  Twins  sympathized  with  all  in  sickness 
or  sorrow  ;  and  in  the  greatest  affliction  that  can 
happen  to  any  man,  they  arrived  to  stay  with 
me  and  made  themselves  most  useful  and  helpful. 

In  1901  Francis  began  his  military  career  in 
the  King's  Royal  Rifles.  The  strong  wish  to 


xiv  PREFACE. 

join  the  cavalry,  which  I  think  had  always  been 
in  his  mind  (three  of  his  brothers  having  been 
in  cavalry  regiments  and  two  in  the  yeomanry), 
could  not  be  carried  out  at  that  time  for  financial 
reasons ;  but  this  was  an  abiding  desire,  which 
the  attractions  of  so  good  a  regiment  as  the  King's 
Royal  Rifles  did  not  quite  eradicate.  He  did 
well  in  the  regiment,  and  on  his  death  the  colour- 
sergeant  of  his  company  wrote  to  me  to  say 
what  an  efficient  company  officer  he  had  been, 
and  what  care  he  had  taken  in  the  instruction  ot 
the  men.  One  reason  why  he  desired  to  transfer 
from  the  infantry  to  the  cavalry  was  that  the  effects 
of  enteric  still  clung  to  him,  and  he  found  the  long 
route  marches  of  the  infantry  almost  unbearable. 
But  he  always  acknowledged  that  his  short  service 
in  the  King's  Royal  Rifles  had  greatly  assisted  him 
in  his  career,  and  that  he  acquired  there  the 
soldier-like  qualities  of  training  and  discipline. 

On  his  return  to  England  in  1907  we  saw  a 
good  deal  more  of  each  other,  and  it  was  delightful 
to  see  his  happiness  in  the  cavalry,  and  his  deter- 
mination to  master  all  obstacles  which  would 
prevent  him  from  joining  the  Staff  College.  I  had 
the  opportunity  then  of  reading  his  criticisms  and 
notes  on  manoeuvres,  which  were  excellent  and 
commended  in  the  regiment.  In  my  opinion  he 
would  have  eventually  taken  a  high  place  in  the 


PREFACE.  xv 

army  as  a  cavalry  leader.  He  loved  his  squadron 
and  his  regiment,  and  he  left  no  stone  unturned 
to  fit  himself  for  eventual  promotion  and  command. 

A  course  at  the  Cavalry  School  at  Netheravon, 
and  several  visits  to  his  friend  Colonel  Felines 
at  the  French  Cavalry  Establishment  at  Saumur, 
together  with  his  attendance  both  at  French  and 
German  manoeuvres,  show  by  his  voluminous 
notebooks  that  he  had  taken  the  greatest  trouble 
thoroughly  to  study  cavalry  training,  tactics,  and 
command. 

He  possessed  the  highest  ideals  of  discipline  in 
the  conduct  of  war,  tempered  by  a  happy  power 
of  commanding  the  affection  and  obedience  of 
men,  especially  of  his  own  squadron.  His  desire 
for  knowledge  was  insatiable,  and  he  used  every 
endeavour  to  achieve  his  objects.  I  remember, 
quite  in  the  early  days,  finding  Rivy  and  Francis 
in  their  small  room  at  the  Bath  Club,  notebooks 
in  hand,  and  Dr.  Miller  Maguire  lecturing  to 
them  on  military  history  with  all  the  care  which 
he  would  have  bestowed  on  an  audience  in  the 
United  Service  Institution. 

On  the  30th  August,  after  the  first  month  of 
war,  I  found  Francis  at  No.  17  Belgrave  Square, 
the  temporary  and  well-appointed  hospital  of 
Mr.  Pandeli  Ralli,  where  I  told  him  that  he  had 
been  recommended  for  the  Victoria  Cross.  He 


xvi  PREFACE. 

received  my  news  with  surprise  and  said,  " r  his 
honour  is  not  for  me — my  squadron  gained  it " ; 
but  he  was  greatly  pleased  when  Lord  Roberts 
and  Lord  Grey  came  to  congratulate  him. 

When  able  to  move  he  came  down  to  me  at 
Overstone,  and  there  I  had  the  sad  task  of  break- 
ing to  him  the  news  of  Rivy's  death.  His  brother 
Harold,  whose  brigade  was  being  inspected  by 
the  King  that  morning,  was  taken  aside  by  his 
Majesty  and  told  that  Rivy's  name  was  mentioned 
among  the  casualties,  and  he  came  right  away  to 
Overstone  to  tell  me.  Francis  received  the  news 
quite  calmly,  but  from  that  moment  he  was  a 
changed  man  in  everything  but  his  enthusiasm  for 
his  regiment  and  his  desire  to  get  back  to  the 
fighting  line. 

His  Majesty  showed  gracious  and  kindly  in- 
terest in  both,  and  gave  Francis  a  special  interview, 
the  account  of  which  I  quote  from  his  diary  : — 

"  On  Monday,  February  22,  1915,  I  was 
ordered  to  go  to  Buckingham  Palace  to  receive 
my  Victoria  Cross,  driving  there  in  khaki  with 
my  sister.  Was  shown  into  Clive  Wigram's  room, 
who  told  me  of  the  heavy  loss  of  the  i6th  Lancers. 
A  few  minutes  before  eleven  we  went  into  the 
equerry's  room,  and  he  took  me  upstairs  to  the 
King's  room,  which  I  entered.  He  was  alone  in 
the  room,  which  looked  like  a  study,  with  many 

(2,187) 


PREFACE.  xvli 

Indian  ornaments  about.  The  King  came  for- 
ward and  shook  hands  with  me.  As  my  right 
hand  was  wounded,  I  was  only  able  to  use  my 
left.  Both  remained  standing  and  talked  for 
some  time  about  the  war.  He  had  heard  of  the 
heavy  loss  of  the  i6th  Lancers,  and  that  we  had 
been  sending  out  some  1 5-inch  howitzer  guns 
which  wrould  greatly  strengthen  us,  and  every 
day  we  were  getting  stronger.  I  asked  the  King 
if  he  had  visited  the  prisoners  who  had  come 
from  Germany.  He  said  he  had,  and  described 
how  badly  some  of  them  had  been  treated,  and 
spoke  strongly  against  the  Germans.  He  then 
stepped  back  and  took  my  Victoria  Cross  out  of 
a  small  box  and  pinned  it  on  to  me,  congratulating 
me  on  getting  it.  He  said  how  sorry  he  was  for 
the  loss  of  my  twin  brother.  I  said  I  had  not 
deserved  the  Victoria  Cross,  and  hoped  he  would 
allow  me  to  convey  to  the  men  who  really  deserved 
rit  his  kind  congratulations  and  good  wishes.  I 
said  I  hoped  in  the  future  the  decoration  would 
urge  me  to  go  forward  and  do  a  great  deal  more  for 
him  and  for  England,  as  the  army  thought  only  of 
him  and  loved  both.  My  interview  then  ended/' 
Early  in  April,  having  recovered  from  his 
second  wound,  he  returned  to  France.  The  last 
letter  received  from  him  was  to  his  sister.  It  is 
dated  the  i8th  of  May  : — 

(2,187)  B 


xviii  PREFACE. 

"  On  the  I4th  we  remained  in  pouring  rain 
in  trenches,  bitterly  cold,  and  then  reached  the 
camp  at  3  a.m.  very  tired,  and  my  feet  a  little 
frost-bitten.  On  the  I5th  and  i6th  we  rested, 
and  are  moving  back  again.  I  am  writing  to 
you  from  a  trench.  We  are  up  to  our  knees  in 
mud,  and  it  has  rained  since  yesterday  when  we 
came  here,  but  we  are  all  hale  and  hearty.  My 
boots  and  puttees  are  soaked,  but  must  remain 
so  for  three  more  nights.  I  never  felt  fitter, 
though  tired  of  this  sort  of  warfare.  I  hope  I 
never  get  shelled  again  like  the  other  day.  It  is 
a  very  high  trial  sitting  still  and  enormous  shells 
bursting,  blowing  all  the  ground  up,  able  to  do 
nothing,  and  just  waiting  for  your  turn." 

His  turn  came  the  day  after  this  letter  was 
received..  On  the  a8th  of  May  I  received  a  letter 
from  Lord  Charles  Beresford,  who  had  just  arrived 
from  France.  He  announced  the  death  of  Francis, 
shot  through  the  heart,  dying  in  a  quarter  of  an 
hour.  He  had  come  over  with  an  officer  who  had 
attended  his  burial.  It  was  better  to  have  got  the 
news  in  a  sympathetic  letter  from  an  old  friend, 
rather  than  a  curt  telegram  from  the  War  Office. 

By  his  last  letter  to  me,  after  the  fifteen  hours' 
bombardment  on  the  i3th,  when  the  Ninth  stuck  it 
out,  I  gathered  that  whatever  happened  he  would 
never  retire,  but  meant  to  do  or  die.  He  had  great 


PREFACE.  xix 

charm,  good  looks,  strength  and  purpose  in 
important  things ;  was  utterly  careless  in  the  con- 
ventionalities of  life,  too  much  being  crowded  into 
the  same  day ;  but  in  greater  questions  he  had  a 
strong  will,  great  determination,  and  would  not  be 
denied.  No  loss  was  more  genuinely  felt  than 
Francis's  and  Rivy's  death. 

I    received    a    large    number    of    letters    and 
telegrams. 

"  ROYAL  PAVILION,  ALDERSHOT. 

"To  FIELD-MARSHAL  LORD  GRENFELL, 

"  OVERSTONE  PARK,  NORTHAMPTON. 

"The  Queen  and  I  are  grieved  beyond  words  that  your 
gallant  nephew  has  fallen  in  battle.  I  was-  proud  to  give  him 
his  nobly-earned  Victoria  Cross,  and  trusted  he  might  live  to 
wear  it  for  many  years.  Our  heartfelt  sympathy  with  you. 

"GEORGE   R.I." 

"May  1915. 

"  Deeply  grieved  by  sad  news.  Please  accept  and  convey 
to  his  sisters  my  heartfelt  sympathy  in  your  great  sorrow. 

"ALFONSO   R." 

"G.H.Q.  May  zSth. 

"To  FIELD-MARSHAL  LORD  GRENFELL, 

"  OVERSTONE  PARK,  NORTHAMPTON. 

"Will  you  let  me  condole  with  you  on  the  loss  of  your 
gallant  and  distinguished  nephew  in  the  Qth  Lancers  after 
having  been  twice  wounded.  His  record  of  gallantry  is 
unsurpassed. 

"FIELD-MARSHAL  SIR  JOHN  FRENCH." 


xx  PREFACE. 

From  COLONEL  HON.  C.  WILLOUGHBY,  gth 
Lancers. 

"  Francis  joined  the  Ninth  just  about  the  time  I  got  com- 
mand when  we  were  stationed  at  Rawal  Pindi.  I  was  very 
pleased  to  get  him  as  a  subaltern.  He  was  one  of  the  hardest 
working  officers  I  ever  knew,  always  doing  his  best  whether 
at  work  or  play,  thereby  setting  a  high  example  to  others. 
His  good  horsemanship  and  quick  eye  soon  made  him  a  very 
valuable  cavalry  officer ;  this  combination  also  brought  him 
to  the  fore  in  the  polo  world,  where  he  did  such  good  work 
for  the  regiment  in  after  years.  The  Ninth  have  lost  a  good 
officer,  a  high-principled  gentleman,  and  a  real  good  sportsman. 

"  As  you  probably  know,  Francis  was  a  dear  friend  of  ours ; 
I  was  very,  very  fond  of  him." 


From  COLONEL  DESMOND  BEALE-BROWNE. 

"  Francis  has  left  a  memory  and  example  that  will  never  fail. 
A  braver  soul  never  stepped.  His  high  ideals,  and  boundless 
enthusiasm  for  the  regiment  and  the  cause  in  which  we  are 
fighting,  was  an  example  we  shall  never  forget,  and  the  regi- 
ment is  indeed  proud  to  think  that  it  had  Francis  Grenfell  in 
its  ranks.  I  only  so  regret  he  did  not  live  to  hear  the  praise 
bestowed  on  the  regiment  which  he  loved  so  dearly,  and 
whose  honour  he  had  done  so  much  to  maintain. " 


From  MAJOR-GENERAL  VESEY  DAWSON. 

"  I  must  send  you  a  line  of  sympathy  in  your  great  sorrow. 
I  know  how  much  you  will  feel  the  loss  of  your  two  nephews, 
and  I  do  indeed  feel  for  you.  I  feel  that  the  loss  is  really  the 
country's,  for  we  do  not  produce  too  many  gallant,  brilliant 
soldiers  such  as  the  one  who  is  just  gone.  He  would,  I  think, 
have  gone  far  in  the  profession  if  he  had  lived,  and  it  seems 
indeed  sad  that  he  should  have  been  taken." 


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From  MAJOR-GENERAL  HON.  JOHN  LINDLEY. 
******* 

"He  was  a  right  gallant  soul,  and  the  very  embodiment 
of  all  the  manly  virtues  that  go  to  make  a  cavalry  leader, 
and  the  cavalry  have  sustained  a  loss  well-nigh  irreparable. 
Modest,  bold,  and  as  cool  as  a  cucumber,  it  will  be  many  a  day 
before  the  men  of  his  squadron  and  the  gth  Lancers  get 
another  leader  like  him. 

"  Well,  he  has  gone  to  join  his  twin  soul,  and  a  more  gallant 
pair  never  entered  this  world  together." 

From  LIEUT.-COLONEL  EDGAR  BRASSEY. 

"  I  feel  I  must  write  to  you  to  express  my  deepest  sympathy 
in  the  sad  news  about  poor  Francis.  Whatever  else  this  war 
may  bring  about,  the  absence  of  the  Twins  can  never  fail  to 
be  noticed  and  lamented.  I  have  known  them  for  over 
twenty  years,  have  played  cricket  with  them,  hunted  with 
them,  and  played  polo  with  them ;  and  for  myself,  I  can  say 
that  there  is  nobody,  even  in  the  long  list  of  friends  who  have 
gone  in  this  last  nine  months,  who  will  be  missed  more  than 
Francis  and  Rivy.  We  may  be  sure  that  neither  would  have 
wished  to  be  separated  or  to  die  a  more  glorious  death,  and 
the  example  of  the  Grenfell  family,  not  forgetting  poor  Robert, 
who  was  also  a  friend  of  mine,  will  stand  for  ever  in  the  annals 
of  the  British  army/' 

From  MR.  CHARLES  MURRAY  of  Loch  Carron. 

"  I  must  send  one  word  to  say  with  what  sorrow  I  read  of 
dear  Francis's  death.  He  is  almost  the  last  of  Alasdair's 
close  friends  who  has  remained  to  us,  and  he  always  kept  up 
his  friendship.  Only  the  other  day  he  came  in  to  cheer  me 
up  when  I  was  ill  in  London,  and,  as  with  Rivy,  it  is  a  great 
break  with  the  past.  I  ever  hoped  that  Francis  and  Rivy 
would  live  to  distinguish  themselves,  and  that  Francis,  a  keen 


xxii  PREFACE. 

and  good  soldier,  would  follow  in  your  footsteps  and  some  day 
lead  British  forces  in  the  field.  It  could  not  be,  and,  with 
others  of  the  best,  the  boys  have  gone  from  us,  and  I  know 
how  deeply  you  will  feel  the  blow." 

From  WALDORF  ASTOR. 

"The  deaths  of  Francis  and  Rivy  mean  an  irreplaceable 
loss  to  their  friends,  and  bring  grief  to  all  who  knew  them 
intimately.  We  are  all  forced  to  bear  trouble,  anxiety,  and 
bereavement,  but  apart  from  this  there  is  perhaps  the  greatest 
tragedy  in  the  real  loss  inflicted  on  the  country.  Never  will 
two  persons  like  them  be  found. 

"  Kipling  asks  in  a  poem,  '  Who  dies  if  England  lives  ?  ' 
One  feels  inclined  to  say,  '  How  can  England  live  as  one  has 
known  her  if  such  as  these  die  one  after  the  other  ?  ' 

"  None  of  the  blows  caused  by  the  war  have  been  so  hard, 
and  have  even  by  comparison  tended  to  diminish  this  one,  or 
to  lessen  the  grief  I  and  many  others  feel." 

From  the  DUKE  OF  TECK  (MARQUESS  OF 
CAMBRIDGE). 

"  I  have  just  heard  the  sad  news  about  the  death  of  poor 
Francis.  I  am  so  deeply  sorry  for  you  in  the  loss  of  your  other 
nephew.  What  a  blank  the  death  of  the  '  Grenfell  Twins  ' 
will  cause  to  a  good  many  people,  my  wife  and  I  amongst 
them ;  but  to  you  it  means  much  more,  and  I  ask  you 
to  accept  my  deep  and  heartfelt  sympathy  in  your  great 
sorrow." 

From  SIR  HEREWARD  WAKE,  King's  Royal 
Rifles, 

"  I  am  so  grieved  about  Francis.  I  would  like  to  send  you 
a  word  of  -sympathy.  Francis  compelled  the  love  of  every 
one  who  knew  him,  and  there  are  hundreds  of  people  who  will 


PREFACE.  xxiii 

mourn  his  death.     I  think  there  never  was  a  more  gallant  pair 
of  soldiers  or  Englishmen  than  those  two/' 

From  DR.  MILLER  MAGUIRE. 

"I  esteem  it  an  honour  to  testify  to  the  great  merits  of 
your  brave  nephews,  Francis  and  Rivy  Grenfell.  I  had 
intimate  knowledge  of  their  zeal  for  their  noble  profession, 
and  all  connected  with  its  study,  almost  to  the  date  of  their 
death.  They  excelled  in  cavalry^  exercises  and  in  the  ardent 
devotion  to  that  particular  branch. 

"  Francis  was  making  himself  well  versed  in  European  and 
American  campaigns,  and  no  doubt  would  have  been  placed 
high  in  any  Staff  College  tests  had  he  been  spared  ;  but  almost 
from  the  desk  of  study 

'  He  rushed  into  the  field,  and,  foremost  fighting,  fell.'  " 

It  was  on  April  14,  1915,  that  I  said  good- 
bye to  Francis.  He  walked  home  with  me  round 
Portman  Square,  after  dining  with  his  sister.  He 
was  cheerful  at  the  idea  of  rejoining  his  squadron, 
but  no  doubt  the  knowledge  that  Rivy  would  not 
be  with  him  was  in  his  mind.  He  spoke  with 
enthusiasm  of  his  squadron  and  regiment,  and  the 
chances  of  war,  and  was  very  hopeful  as  to  the 
future.  He  was  happy  in  the  belief  that  the  most 
distinguished  regiment  in  the  army  was  the  Qth 
Lancers,  and  that  he  commanded  the  best  squadron 
in  the  best  regiment  of  the  best  fighting  army  in 
the  world.  He  mentioned  that  he  had  refused  a 
Staff  appointment  after  being  twice  wounded,  being 
so  greatly  impressed  by  the  unanimous  response 


xxiv  PREFACE. 

which  was  made  for  his  call  for  volunteers  to 
save  the  guns  at  Audregnies.  This  touched  him 
deeply,  and  he  said  that  no  offer  of  Staff  service 
would  ever  induce  him  to  leave  his  squadron. 

We  said  good-bye,  and  I  think  both  felt  that 
we  should  not  meet  again.  Of  that,  personally, 
I  had  a  strong  presentiment. 

The  Twins,  so  happy  in  their  generation,  are 
now  together  ;  freed  from  the  feverish  anxieties 
they  suffered  ere  they  went  to  war,  they  are 
linked  in  a  new  and  better  life,  surely  for  them 
one  full  of  activity  and  high  service. 

"  Time  takes  them  home  that  we  loved,  fair  names  and  famous, 

To  the  soft  long  sleep,  to  the  broad  sweet  bosom  of  death  ; 

But  the  flower  of  their  souls  he  shall  not  take  away  to  shame 

us, 

Nor  the  lips  lack  song  for  ever  that  now  lack  breath. 
For  with  us  shall  the  music  and  perfume  that  die  not  dwell, 
Though  the  dead  to  our  dead  bid  welcome,  and  we  farewell." 


i 


FRANCIS   AND 
RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL 

CHAPTER   I. 

1880-1899. 

CE  when  Rivy  had  had  a  bad  smash  at 
olo  he  spent  some  time  in  hospital.  "  It 
seems  odd  to  say  so/'  he  wrote  to  Francis,  "  but 
I  enjoyed  it  immensely.  What  lucky  people  we 
are,  taking  an  interest  in  so  many  things  !  This 
was  another  side  that  I  had  not  yet  seen."  I  set 
down  these  words  at  the  beginning  of  this  short 
record,  for  they  sum  up  the  attitude  of  the  two 
brothers  to  life.  Few  people  can  have  had  a  larger 
share  of  the  happiness  of  youth,  for  not  only  had 
they  ample  opportunity  of  action  and  experience, 
but  they  bore  within  themselves  the  secret  of 
joy.  They  never  ceased  to  wonder  at  the  mag- 
nificence of  the  world,  and  they  carried  a  divine 
innocence  into  soldiering  and  travel  and  sport 
and  business,  and  not  least  into  the  shadows  of 


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2    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

the  Great  War.  In  the  comfortable  age  before 
1914  they  were  among  the  best  known  and  most 
popular  young  men  of  their  day,  and  some  picture 
of  their  doings  may  be  of  interest  as  a  memorial 
of  a  vanished  world.  The  coming  of  war  upon 
their  eager  life  is  a  type  of  the  experience  of 
all  their  countrymen,  and  a  revelation  of  the 
inner  quality  of  that  land  which  has  so  often 
puzzled  herself  and  her  neighbours.  But  I  write 
especially,  as  the  friend  of  Francis  and  Rivy, 
for  their  many  friends :  who,  before  memory 
dies,  may  wish  some  record  of  two  of  the  most 
endearing  and  generous  spirits  that  ever  "  before 
their  time  into  the  dust  went  down." 


I. 

Francis  Octavius  Grenfell  and  Riversdale 
Nonus  Grenfell  were  born  at  Hatchlands,  Guild- 
ford,  on  September  4,  1880,  the  twin  sons  of 
Pascoe  Du  Pre  Grenfell  and  Sofia  Grenfell  his 
wife.  Family  history  would  be  out  of  place  in 
such  a  narrative  as  this,  and  I  do  not  propose 
to  discuss  the  intricate  question  of  the  Grenfell 
pedigree,  and  whether  kin  can  be  counted  with 
the  great  figures  of  Sir  Richard  Grenville  of  the 
Revenge,  or  Sir  Bevil,  the  Cavalier,  of  Lansdown 
Heath.  It  is  sufficient  to  say  that  they  came  of 


A  MEMOIR.  3 

an  old  Cornish  strain,  which  in  their  case  was 
double-distilled,  for  their  parents  were  cousins. 
A  Grenfell  fought  at  Waterloo  and  lost  a  leg  ; 
their  mother's  father,  Admiral  John  Grenfell  of 
the  Brazilian  Navy,  was  Lord  Cochrane's  second 
in  command,  and  performed  many  famous  ex- 
ploits, notably  the  cutting  out  and  destruction  of 
the  Spanish  flagship  Esmeralda,  in  the  midst  of 
an  armed  squadron.  His  brother,  Sydney,  wras 
a  British  admiral,  distinguished  in  the  China 
War.  Their  father's  brother  is  Field-Marshal 
Lord  Grenfell.  Of  their  own  brothers,  Pascoe 
served  and  died  in  the  Matabele  War  ;  Robert 
fell  gloriously  in  the  charge  of  the  aist  Lancers 
at  Omdurman  ;  Harold  did  brilliantly  as  a  column 
commander  in  South  Africa  ;  and  Arthur  won 
the  D.S.O.  at  the  Battle  of  the  Somme.  A 
cousin,  Claude  Grenfell,  was  killed  at  Spion  Kop  ; 
and  all  the  world  knows  of  their  other  cousins, 
Lord  Desborough's  sons,  wrho  will  live  because 
of  Julian's  poetry  and  their  mother's  exquisite 
memoir  in  the  literature  as  well  as  in  the  history 
of  England.  There  are  many  famous  fighting 
stocks  among  our  people,  but  there  can  be  few 
with  a  more  stirring  record  than  this. 

A  word  should  be  said  of  their  uncle,  their 
mother's  brother,  because  he  was  a  hero  of 
romance  to  the  boys  in  their  youth,  and  they 


4    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

loved  to  dwell  upon  his  amazing  doings.  Francis 
and  Rivy  were  always  gentle  in  their  ways,  and 
for  this  very  reason  they  had  a  weakness  for  a 
stout  swashbuckler.  Admiral  Sir  Harry  Grenfell 
was  a  British  sailor  after  the  eighteenth-century 
pattern.  His  gallantry  was  proverbial  in  the 
navy  of  his  day,  and  he  had  various  medals  for 
saving  life  at  sea.  There  must  have  been  much 
of  Julian's  spirit  in  him,  for  he  had  an  insatiable 
zest  for  adventure  and  fighting,  and  when  he 
could  not  get  it  in  the  way  of  duty  he  went  out 
to  look  for  it.  Among  other  things  he  was  middle- 
weight champion  of  the  navy.  There  is  a  story 
of  him  with  which  Rivy  once  delighted  an  Amer- 
ican public  dinner.  He  went  ashore  with  some 
brother  officers  at  Constantinople,  and  drifted  to 
a  music  hall,  where  he  found  an  immense  Turk 
offering  fifty  dollars  to  any  one  in  the  audience 
who  could  knock  him  out  in  five  rounds.  Harry 
Grenfell  promptly  accepted  the  challenge.  He 
put  on  the  gloves  wrongly,  and  stood  awkwardly, 
so  that  the  challenger  thought  him  a  novice  and 
gave  him  some  easy  openings.  Taking  advantage 
of  one  of  them,  he  stretched  his  antagonist  on 
the  floor.  On  recovering  his  senses,  the  Turk 
advanced  to  the  footlights  and  announced  in  the 
pure  accents  of  Limehouse,  "  GenTmen,  the 
hexibition  is  closed."  Then,  going  over  to  Gren- 


A  MEMOIR.  5 

fell's  corner,  he  shook  him  warmly  by  the  hand, 
whispering,  "  You're  no  bloody  lamb."  There 
is  another  tale  which  may  be  apocryphal,  but 
which  the  Twins  cherished  as  an  example  of 
how  their  uncle  looked  at  things.  Once  Admiral 
Grenfell  was  dispatched  in  his  ship  to  some  Pacific 
isle  to  arrest  and  bring  to  Sydney  a  chief  who  had 
eaten  a  missionary.  The  chief  was  duly  arrested, 
but  during  the  long  voyage  back  the  British 
admiral  came  to  entertain  the  highest  respect 
for  his  qualities  as  a  man.  The  upshot  was  that 
he  dumped  him  down  on  some  desert  island  and 
returned  to  report  to  his  superiors  that,  having 
gone  most  carefully  into  the  case,  he  had  come 
to  the  conclusion  that  the  missionary  had  been 
entirely  in  the  wrong. 

II. 

The  first  seven  years  of  their  life  were  spent 
at  Hatchlands.  As  the  youngest  members  of  a 
large  family  they  were  a  perpetual  delight  to 
their  sisters,  and  their  brothers  vied  with  each 
other  in  directing  their  small  feet  in  the  paths 
of  sport.  They  were  solemn,  self-possessed  chil- 
dren, quiet  in  their  ways,  and  as  inseparable  as 
the  two  sides  of  a  coin.  They  would  lurk  peace- 
fully for  hours  in  corners,  and  once  a  short- 
sighted visitor  sat  down  on  them  on  a  drawing- 


6    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

room  sofa  and  nearly  smothered  them.  As  babies 
they  were  not  so  much  alike,  but  as  they  grew 
older  they  became  perfect  doubles,  puzzling  every- 
body, including  their  mother,  who  often  gave 
the  wrong  one  medicine.  At  Hatchlands  they 
acquired  two  red  fox-terriers,  known  as  the 
Gingers,  who  were  as  much  alike  as  their  masters. 
Only  the  Twins  knew  the  Gingers  apart,  and 
only  the  Gingers  could  tell  which  twin  was 
which.  They  had  an  air  of  serious  cheerfulness, 
especially  in  their  misdeeds,  which  was  so  en- 
dearing that  it  disarmed  wrath  ;  and  they  played 
their  confusing  twinship  for  all  it  was  worth. 
Once,  when  they  had  been  quarrelling — for,  in 
the  immortal  phrase  of  the  Irish  R.M.y  they 
"  fought  bitter  and  regular,  like  man  and  wife  " 
— their  mother  caught  up  one  (she  did  not  know 
which),  set  him  on  her  knee,  and  scolded  him 
heartily.  When  she  stopped,  the  culprit  said  in 
a  calm,  meditative  voice,  "  You  certainly  do  look 
very  jolly  when  you  are  angry,  'cos  your  eyes 
shine  so."  They  were  very  unpunctual,  and 
had  always  convincing  excuses.  "  Why  are  you 
late  this  time  ?  '  their  father  once  asked  de- 
spairingly. "  Well,  it's  all  the  fault  of  the  house- 
maid," was  the  answer.  "  She's  so  selfish.  She 
won't  lend  me  her  stud,  and  mine  has  gone  down 
a  rabbit-hole  "  One  of  their  traits  was  a  genius 


THE  TWINS  AT  THE  AGE  OF  EIGHT. 


A  MEMOIR.  7 

for  getting  hold  of  the  wrong  word.  They  used 
to  give  sixpence  to  the  Christmas  "  waits, "  till 
their  father  reduced  the  bounty  because  of  the 
growing  number  of  the  applicants.  "  Only  pen- 
nies this  year,"  the  Twins  announced  to  the 
waiting  mob,  "  'cos  there's  a  chrysalis  in  the 
City."  This  habit  long  remained  to  them.  At 
school  they  invited  their  parents  to  come  down 
and  see  the  new  chapel  "disinfected'  by  the 
Bishop. 

Having  seven  brothers  adepts  at  every  form 
of  sport,  Francis  and  Rivy  were  early  "  entered  " 
to  most  games.  They  played  a  kind  of  polo, 
mounted  on  walking-sticks,  at  the  age  of  four. 
They  soon  learned  to  ride,  and  when  hounds 
met  anywhere  in  the  neighbourhood  they  invari- 
ably contrived  to  be  run  away  with  by  their 
ponies,  and  avoided  lessons  for  that  day.  Their 
first  pony  wTas  a  communal  possession  with  the 
name  of  Kitty,  an  aged  family  pet,  which  they 
took  charge  of  and  groomed  themselves.  Pres- 
ently Kitty  grew  so  infirm  that  she  had  to  dis- 
appear from  the  world.  They  were  told  that 
Kitty  had  gone  to  stay  with  her  mother,  and 
complained  that  it  was  cool  of  her  to  go  off  with- 
out consulting  them.  A  little  later  the  coachman, 
in  a  moment  of  forgetfulness,  presented  them 
with  one  of  Kitty's  hoofs.  Said  one  twin  to  an- 


8    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

other  in  bewilderment,  "  What  an  extraordinary 
mother  poor  Kitty  must  have  !  '  At  that  time 
they  took  a  very  solemn  and  matter-of-fact  view 
of  life.  At  their  first  pantomime  they  saw  a 
rustic  ballet  of  beautiful  "  farm  workers,"  and 
for  some  time  afterwards  perplexed  the  occupants 
of  every  farm  they  visited  by  asking  where  the 
pretty  girls  lived.  At  their  second  pantomime 
they  were  with  their  uncle  in  the  stage-box,  and 
argued  so  vigorously  with  the  clown  that  he 
climbed  up  beside  them,  to  their  mingled  joy 
and  embarrassment.  Their  engaging  gravity  had 
no  self-consciousness  ;  they  talked  to  their  elders 
as  they  talked  to  each  other.  A  relation  who 
pronounced  certain  words  in  a  bygone  fashion, 
once  at  breakfast  busied  himself  at  the  sideboard. 
"  Who  says  tui  and  who  says  corfee  ?  "  he  asked. 
The  serious  voice  of  Rivy  replied,  "  Personally 
I  always  say  coffee,  but  I'm  too  small  to  have 
any." 

In  1887  the  family  moved  to  Wilton  Park, 
near  Beaconsfield,  where  their  father  had  spent 
most  of  his  childhood.  It  had  belonged  to  Mr. 
George  Du  Pre,  his  uncle,  who  for  nearly  forty 
years  had  been  M.P.  for  Bucks  and  a  colleague 
of  Disraeli.  There  the  Twins  were  in  clover, 
and  could  indulge  to  the  full  their  love  of  games 
and  passion  for  animals.  In  the  park  they  raced 


A  MEMOIR.  9 

their  ponies  and  hunted  rabbits  with  the  Gingers  ; 
they  acquired  several  ferrets,  and  the  favourite 
home  of  the  ferret  bag  was  the  best  armchair  in 
the  drawing-room.  The  worst  poacher  in  the 
village  was  their  habitual  ally,  and  became  so 
much  attached  to  them  and  the  family  that  he 
had  to  be  made  under-keeper.  They  had  a 
cricket  ground  where  they  practised  assiduously, 
and  were  bowled  to  by  the  sons  and  grandsons  of 
the  boys  who  had  bowled  to  their  father.  They 
organized  boys'  matches,  arranging  everything 
themselves.  Their  mother  once  asked  them  to 
let  her  know  what  they  wanted  for  tea  after  the 
match.  "  Don't  trouble,  mother,"  was  the  an- 
swer. "  We  have  ordered  two  hundred  buns." 


in. 

In  1887  they  went  to  Mr.  Edgar's  school  at 
Temple  Grove,  East  Sheen,  where  their  seven 
brothers  had  been  before  them.  At  that  time 
they  were  bent  on  learning  every  game,  but  had 
no  ambition  to  excel  in  lessons.  They  both 
played  cricket  and  football  for  the  school,  and 
occasionally  brought  home  a  prize,  the  wrong 
twin  being  invariably  congratulated  on  the 
achievement.  In  their  schooldays  their  spelling 
was  original  and  ingenious.  To  one  who  was 


io    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

about  to  become  their  brother-in-law  they  wrote  : 
"  I  can  giatcherlate  you,  she  is  a  niece  girl." 
Apropos  of  a  wet  day  they  achieved  this  memo- 
rable sentence  :  "It  pordanpord."  The  word 
deserves  admission  to  the  weather  vocabulary 
of  the  English  tongue. 

In  1894  they  went  to  Eton,  where  their  grand- 
father, father,  six  brothers,  and  many  cousins 
had  been  before  them.  They  began  in  Mr. 
Arthur  Benson's  house,  but  next  year  went  to 
that  of  Mr.  Walter  Durnford,  who  was  one  of 
the  chief  family  friends.  Their  name  was  suffi- 
cient passport  in  that  home  of  long  traditions, 
for  three  of  their  brothers  had  played  in  the 
Eleven,  and  they  rapidly  became  very  popular 
and  dominant  figures  in  the  school.  In  1898 
Francis  was  Master  of  the  Beagles,  and  Rivy 
Whip.  At  the  time  the  pack  was  most  indif- 
ferently housed,  so  the  Twins  raised  a  fund  to 
build,  on  the  piece  of  land  known  as  Agar's 
Plough,  the  kennels  which  are  now  in  use.  They 
wrote  letters — generally  wrongly  addressed — to  a 
multitude  of  old  Etonians,  including  the  late  Lord 
Salisbury,  and  received  subscriptions  and  letters 
— notably  one  from  Lord  Rosebery — which  they 
cherished  as  heirlooms.  "  The  Head  Master," 
Mr.  Durnford  writes,  "  was  never  safe  from 
having  his  majestic  progress  through  the  playing 


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fields  arrested  by  one  of  the  Twins  conveying 
some  petition  concerned  with  the  great  project, 
and  the  Bursar — not  renowned  for  his  acceptance 
of  new  ideas — capitulated  before  the  unceasing 
attack."  In  1899  Francis  was  in  the  Eleven, 
and  in  the  match  against  Harrow  at  Lord's,  at 
a  critical  point  in  the  game,  he  and  Mr.  H.  K. 
Longman,  of  Mr.  Radcliffe's  house,  made  170 
runs  for  no  wickets.  That  year  he  established 
a  bold  innovation.  Formerly  the  two  Elevens 
kept  apart  at  lunch  ;  Francis,  though  it  was  his 
first  appearance  in  the  historic  match,  decreed 
that  they  should  sit  together,  and  ever  since  this 
excellent  practice  has  been  followed. 

At  Eton  they  showed  little  interest  in  books, 
and  later  were  wont  to  lament  to  each  other 
that  they  had  left  school  wholly  uneducated. 
But  they  learned  other  things — the  gift  of  leader- 
ship, for  instance,  and  the  power  of  getting  along- 
side all  varieties  of  human  nature.  They  dis- 
covered, too,  an  uncommon  knack  of  obtaining 
what  they  wanted  by  their  gentle  persistence 
and  radiant  charm  of  manner.  They  had  a  way 
of  taking  things  for  granted,  and  giving  large 
orders  which  were  generally  fulfilled.  Being  de- 
sirous to  have  flowers  on  their  small  window-sill, 
they  wrote  to  the  gardener  at  Wilton  to  send  them 
some  "  rowderdendrons."  It  appeared  afterwards 


12    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

that  they  meant  geraniums,  but  an  under-gar- 
dener  was  discovered  faithfully  digging  up  an 
enormous  bush,  which  would  have  filled  their 
little  room,  let  alone  the  window.  They  always 
worked  in  couples,  and  used  their  similarity  in 
looks  shamelessly  for  various  unconstitutional 
purposes.  During  the  winter  one  would  answer 
for  both,  so  that  the  other  could  get  off  to  hunt. 
Once  the  trick  was  badly  given  away  by  the 
huntsman  appearing  at  supper  with  blood  trick- 
ling down  his  sleeve.  Taken  unawares,  he  ex- 
plained that  he  had  had  a  fall  on  a  heap  of  stones. 
Hunting  had  now  become  a  passion  with  both, 
and  during  one  exeat  they  settled  to  go  to  Melton, 
hired  horses  to  meet  them  at  a  very  early  train, 
and  ordered  a  hansom  to  be  at  the  door  at  6  a.m. 
The  cab  never  appeared,  and  they  missed  the 
train.  They  managed  to  get  half-way  to  the  meet 
in  a  slow  train,  and  then  took  a  special  and  had  a 
first-class  day.  Coming  back  in  the  evening  they 
told  Frankie  Rhodes  the  trouble  they  had  had, 
and  he  insisted  on  paying  for  the  special. 

Both  of  them  had  an  astonishing  gift  of  getting 
on  friendly  terms  with  every  sort  of  dignitary. 
The  complete  simplicity  and  candour  of  the  two 
slim,  dark  boys  was  not  to  be  resisted.  There  is  a 
legend,  probably  untrue,  that  Francis  once  bor- 
rowed a  sovereign  from  the  Head  to  tip  a  hunt- 


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servant,  and  got  it  !  Another  tale  can  be  vouched 
for.  After  one  of  the  many  consultations  about 
the  new  kennels,  Dr.  Warre  walked  down  the 
street  with  his  arm  in  Francis's.  He  stopped  to 
speak  to  some  one,  and  at  the  same  moment 
Francis  met  a  friend,  upon  which  the  Head  over- 
heard the  following  conversation.  Said  the  friend, 
"  Fancy  you  walking  arm-in-arm  with  the  Head  ! 
Why,  he  terrifies  me  !  "  Said  Francis,  "  I  don't 
see  why  the  poor  man  shouldn't  have  pals  among 
us.  It's  bad  enough  to  be  Head,  without  having 
to  go  without  pals."  And  here  is  an  adventure 
of  Rivy's.  He  was  asked  by  Miss  Bulteel,  who 
was  then  in  waiting  on  Princess  Beatrice,  to  tea 
at  Windsor  Castle.  He  marched  in,  and  ascended 
the  first  staircase  he  saw.  There  he  found  a 
kind  old  lady,  who  asked  him  whom  he  wanted 
to  see,  and  on  Rivy's  explaining  told  him  he  had 
come  in  by  the  wrong  entrance.  She  sum- 
moned a  liveried  giant,  and  bade  him  show 
the  way  to  Miss  Bulteel 's  room.  The  giant 
bowed  low  to  Rivy  and  walked  backward  before 
him  along  several  passages  and  up  and  down 
staircases.  Finally  the  crab-like  progress  halted 
before  a  door,  and  with  another  low  bow  Rivy 
was  asked  what  name.  When  he  gave  it  the  giant 
drew  himself  up,  flushed  and  said,  "  Oh,  is  that 
all  ?  You  can  go  in."  Afterwards  Rivy  found 


14    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

out  that  he  had  wandered  up  the  Queen's  private 
staircase,  that  the  old  lady  was  the  Empress- 
Dowager  of  Germany,  and  that  the  footman  had 
taken  him  for  a  foreign  royalty.  This  was  not  the 
last  of  Rivy's  odd  experiences  in  court  circles. 

Mr.  Walter  Durnford  has  been  so  kind  as  to 
set  down  his  recollections  of  the  Twins. 

"  I  have  been  asked  to  contribute  to  the  memoir  of  Francis 
and  Riversdale  Grenfell  something  bearing  on  their  life  as 
boys  at  Eton.  It  is  not  a  very  easy  task,  for  though  their 
memory  is  still  fresh  and  strong  in  the  mind  of  the  writer,  life 
at  school,  with  its  regularity,  its  ordered  course  of  work  and 
play,  does  not  present,  as  a  rule,  startling  features  or  occasions 
which  lend  themselves  to  description.  Month  succeeds  month, 
and  year  follows  year,  with  such  quiet  regularity  that  almost 
before  one  realizes  the  change  the  small  boy  has  grown  into 
the  big  boy,  and  the  big  boy  is  preparing  to  take  his  place 
in  the  great  world. 

"  The  '  Twins ' — for  so  we  always  called  them,  and  it  is 
indeed  impossible  to  dissociate  them  in  our  memory — came  to 
Eton  in  1894,  and  a  year  later  entered  my  house,  where  their 
brothers  Harold,  Arthur,  and  Robert  had  preceded  them — 
a  funny  little  pair,  so  like  one  another  that  they  were  the 
despair  of  masters  who  only  saw  them  occasionally  ;  and  even 
their  tutor,  who  saw  them  perpetually,  never  really  knew  them 
apart  till  the  last  year  they  were  at  Eton.  Francis,  writing 
to  him  after  Rivy's  death,  says  :  '  Rivy  used  to  like  you  best, 
I  think,  when  some  one  gave  him  a  yellow  ticket  and  you 
used,  when  you  came  round,  to  pretend  to  be  furious  and 
curse  me  instead  of  him.' 

"  Like  most  brothers,  they  fought.  In  the  same  letter 
Francis  writes  :  '  You,  who  used  with  difficulty  to  part  us 
after  fighting  in  old  days,  know  what  we  were  to  each  other  ' ; 
and,  indeed,  they  had  at  bottom  that  love  for  each  other  which, 


y 


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it  seems  to  me,  only  twin  brothers  have ;  nor  do  I  believe  that 
they  were  ever  happy  if  for  many  hours  they  were  separated. 

"  To  say  that  they  were  diligent  would  be  absurd.  They 
vexed  the  souls  of  masters  in  whose  forms  they  found  them- 
selves, and  on  whom  they  sometimes  played  off  their  wonderful 
likeness  with  diabolical  ingenuity ;  they  vexed  the  soul  of 
their  tutor,  who  had  to  see  that,  somehow  or  other,  they  scraped 
through  their  tale  of  work.  But  it  was  impossible  to  be  angry 
with  them  for  long,  for  their  invincible  cheerfulness  blunted 
the  wrath  of  justly  indignant  teachers ;  and  all  the  time  they 
were  learning,  unconsciously  perhaps,  but  still  learning,  the 
lessons  which  were  to  make  them  so  greatly  beloved  in  after 
life — lessons  of  kindness,  of  thoughtfulness,  of  perseverance, 
of  straight  and  honourable  conduct — the  fruit  of  which  will 
be  seen  in  the  later  pages  of  this  book.  So  the  years  slipped' 
by — happy  years  for  both  of  them — until  they  found  themselves 
in  that  position  which  is  perhaps  the  most  delightful  that  the 
English  boy  can  attain  to — '  swells/  with  troops  of  admiring 
friends,  and  a  recognized  position  as  people  of  mark  in  the 
school.  Such  a  position  is  not  free  from  danger,  and  boys' 
heads  are  easily  turned  by  it ;  but  the  Twins  never  lost  the 
simplicity  which  was  one  of  their  most  engaging  characteristics, 
and  they  retained,  as  all  boys  do  not,  the  heart  of  a  boy  to 
the  end  of  their  schooldays." 

Mr.  Durnford  notes  how  little  they  changed 
during  their  school  life.  It  is  the  testimony  of 
all  their  friends  at  all  their  stages.  They  possessed 
a  certain  childlikeness,  the  ardour  and  innocence 
and  unworldliness  of  the  dawn  of  life,  the  charm 
of  which  was  never  rubbed  off  by  experience. 
The  one  change  during  the  Eton  years  was  that 
Rivy  began  unconsciously  to  charge  himself  with 
Francis's  future.  A  list  of  their  school  friends — 


16    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

even  of  their  intimate  friends — would  be  so  large 
as  to  be  meaningless,  but  I  fancy,  looking  back, 
that  their  closest  friendships  were  with  Waldorf 
Astor,  Lord  Esme  Gordon-Lennox,  Lord  Francis 
Scott,  and  Paul  Phipps.  From  a  letter  of  the 
last-named  I  quote  a  sentence :  "  Even  in  those 
days  Rivy  had  begun  to  adopt  the  protecting, 
almost  paternal,  interest  in  Francis's  career  which 
he  preserved  all  his  life.  In  the  summer  in  which 
Francis  got  into  the  Eleven  it  was  Rivy  who  took 
out  his  twin  and  sternly  made  him  practise  field- 
ing, just  as  in  later  life  he  would  conscientiously 
read  some  book  which  he  had  heard  recommended, 
not  for  his  own  instruction  or  amusement,  but 
in  order  that  he  might  pass  it  on,  if  found  suitable, 
to  Francis." 

IV. 

The  summer  of  1899  was  their  last  term  at 
Eton.  The  time  was  coming  very  near  when  their 
paths  must  diverge.  Their  father  had  died  in 
1896,  and  they  lost  their  mother  in  1898.  Wilton 
Park  had  been  given  up  some  time  before,  and  the 
family  was  scattering,  their  many  brothers  being 
already  settled  in  various  professions.  Their 
uncle,  Lord  Grenfell,  was  their  guardian,  and  few 
guardians  can  ever  have  fulfilled  more  devotedly 
and  successfully  their  trust,  as  this  narrative  will 


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bear  witness.     I  quote  from  a  letter  written  by 
him  in  September  1898  from  Cairo  : — 

"  MY  DEAR  TWINS, — By  the  death  of  your  mother  I  become 
your  guardian,  and  shall  have  to  settle  with  Cecil  as  to  your 
future  careers.  .  .  .  You  may  rely  upon  me  to  do  all  I  can  to 
help  you.  But  you  are  getting  on  now,  and  soon  you  will 
have  to  depend  on  your  ov/n  energy  for  your  success  in  life. 
You  will  not  be  rich,  and  you  will  have  to  work  for  your  living, 
as  your  father  and  I  have  had  to  do  before  you.  Though  you 
have  both  been  good  boys,  and  have  all  the  feelings  of  gentle- 
men, and  have  never  caused  your  father  or  mother  any  anxiety, 
you  have  neither  of  you  (as  far  as  I  can  learn)  taken  any  great 
interest  in  your  studies.  You  must  remember  that  in  your 
future  life  you  will  not  be  able  to  do  nothing  but  amuse 
yourselves,  and  I  do  trust  that  for  this  next  year,  whether 
you  remain  at  Eton  or  not,  you  will  work  hard  and  try  to 
learn  all  you  can  to  improve  your  minds  and  fit  yourselves 
for  the  future. 

"  I  always  received  so  much  kindness  from  your  father 
and  mother  when  I  was  young,  that  you  may  depend  on  my 
helping  you  as  much  as  I  can  ;  and  when  I  am  in  England 
my  house  will  always  produce  a  corner  for  you  and  a  bottle 
of  the  best.  You  have  your  brothers  also  to  advise  and  help 
you.  But  to  be  successful  in  life  you  must  depend  on  your 
own  exertions,  and  therefore  I  hope  you  will  work  hard  and 
learn  to  be  punctual  and  support  your  masters. 

"  Read  your  Bibles,  and  shoot  well  ahead  of  the  cock 
pheasants ;  and  if  you  are  ever  in  any  difficulty  that  your 
brothers  can't  help  you  in,  come  to  your  very  affectionate 

"  UNC-LE  FRANCIS/' 

"  P-S. — Since  writing  this,  I  have  heard  of  dear  Robert's 
death.*     He  died  a  gallant  death  for  his  Queen  and  country. 
.  .  Well !    he  is  with  God — and  your  mother — and  there 
we  can  afford  to  leave  him." 

*  At  the  Battle  of  Omdurman. 

(2,187)  o 


i8    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Both  would  fain  have  followed  the  main 
Grenfell  tradition  and  become  soldiers,  but  their 
means  forbade.  One  of  them  must  choose  a 
more  lucrative  calling,  and  the  duty  fell  to  Rivy, 
as  having  entered  the  wrorld  a  few  minutes  later 
than  his  Twin.  In  any  case  he  would  have  given 
first  choice  to  Francis,  to  whom  he  had  come  to 
regard  himself  as  in  loco  parentis.  In  this  assign- 
ment Francis  was  the  luckier,  for  he  was  born 
for  the  army.  Indeed,  both  wrere,  for  it  is  hard 
to  believe  that  Rivy  had  any  aptitude  for  high 
finance,  and  he  had  beyond  doubt  the  makings 
of  a  fine  soldier.  There  was  a  very  real  differ- 
ence between  their  minds :  for  Rivy,  as  we  shall 
see,  discovered  later  a  restless  interest  in  politics 
and  a  good  deal  of  ambition  for  that  career,  while 
Francis  never  wavered  in  his  devotion  to  his 
profession  ;  but  the  aptitudes  of  both  might  well 
have  been  satisfied  by  the  multifarious  require- 
ments of  modern  soldiering. 

When  they  left  Eton  the  Twins  seemed  exact 
replicas  in  tastes  and  interests,  and  they  were  as 
like  as  two  peas  in  person.  That  summer  Francis 
went  to  Inverness  to  join  the  Seaforth  Militia, 
with  a  view  to  a  commission  later  in  the  6oth. 
He  stayed  at  Loch  Carron  with  his  friend  Alasdair 
Murray,  who  a  few  months  later  was  to  fall  with 
the  Grenadier  Guards  in  South  Africa.  While  he 


A  MEMOIR.  19 

was  out  stalking  one  day,  Rivy  arrived,  was  shown 
to  his  room,  and  changed  into  a  suit  of  Francis's 
country  .clothes.  When  he  rang  the  bell  a  foot- 
man appeared,  who  looked  once  at  him  and  fled. 
"  Something  terrible  has  happened  to  Mr.  Gren- 
fell  on  the  hill,"  he  told  his  fellows  in  the  servants' 
hall.  "  His  ghost  is  sitting  in  his  room  ! ': 

Francis  caught  typhoid  that  autumn  in  Inver- 
ness, and  for  several  months  was  seriously  ill. 
In  December  1899  he  was  sent  off  to  the  Cape  for 
a  sea  voyage,  and  so  began  those  wanderings 
which  were  to  fill  the  rest  of  his  life.  Meantime 
Rivy  had  become  a  decorous  clerk  in  the  Bank  of 
England.  The  Twins  had  left  boyhood  behind 
them. 


CHAPTER   II. 
1900-1904. 

To  pass  from  the  proud  position  of  a  leader  at 
school  or  college  to  the  blank  insignificance  of 
the  outer  world  is  a  trying  experience  for  most 
people,  but  the  Twins  were  not  conscious  of  any 
difficulty.  They  were  too  utterly  unsentimental 
to  moon  over  the  past  ;  they  had  always  been 
very  modest  about  themselves  and  their  accom- 
plishments, and  they  were  profoundly  excited 
about  the  new  life  which  lay  before  them.  Rivy 
was  soon  absorbed  in  the  City  (after  making  a 
fruitless  attempt  to  enlist  when  war  broke  out), 
learning  a  strange  jargon,  puzzling  over  un- 
familiar standards  of  value,  and  beginning  to 
lament  a  defective  education.  Francis  had  a 
harder  fate.  Typhoid  checked  him  on  the 
threshold  of  soldiering,  and  he  had  the  unpleasant 
duty  of  spending  a  year  in  trying  to  get  well. 

He  sailed  for  South  Africa  in  December  1899, 
for  the  sake  of  the  voyage,  intending  to  return 
by  the  next  boat.  At  the  Cape,  however,  he  fell 

to 


A  MEMOIR.  21 

in  with  his  brother  John,  who  was  acting  as  war 
correspondent,  and  was  fired  with  the  wish  to  see 
another  brother,  Harold,  who  was  then  in  com- 
mand of  Brabant's  Horse.  During  the  voyage 
out  he  had  suffered  much  from  what  he  thought 
was  lumbago,  but  which  was  really  an  affection 
of  the  spine  due  to  the  fever,  and  his  time  in 
South  Africa  was  one  long  bout  of  pain.  He 
went  by  sea  to  East  London,  and  then  up  country 
to  join  Harold.  He  trekked  for  some  days  in  a 
springless  wagon,  which  did  his  back  no  good, 
and  finally  collapsed  in  a  Dutch  farm  eighteen 
miles  from  Cradock,  and  had  to  finish  his  journey 
lying  in  a  chair  on  a  cart.  After  some  days  in 
Cape  Town  he  went  to  the  baths  at  Caledon, 
where  his  health  improved  ;  but  the  return  voy- 
age in  March  1900  knocked  him  out  again,  and 
he  came  home  worse  than  when  he  had  started. 

But  an  English  summer  and  a  Scots  autumn 
cured  him.  The  Duke  and  Duchess  of  Somerset 
took  him  yachting  with  them  in  the  Hebrides, 
and  those  windy  seas  restored  him  to  health. 
One  of  the  party  was  the  Gaekwar  of  Baroda,  of 
whom  Francis  reported  :  "  I  have  made  pals 
with  the  Maharajah,  and  am  going  to  dine  with 
him  in  London,  and  he  is  going  to  show  me  all 
his  jewels  and  Indian  costumes.  I  believe  his 
pearls  are  like  eggs.  He  asked  me  to  stay  with 


22    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

him  in  India — he  has  got  over  300  horses,  very 
good  tiger-shooting  and  pig-sticking.  He  said, 
'  Your  visit  won't  be  official,  so  you  need  bring 
no  suite.'  He  pronounced  it  like  *  suit,'  so  I  said, 
6  All  right,  only  my  old  blue  one.'  Lady  Anne 
Murray  allowed  him  to  camp  at  Loch  Carron, 
where  he  killed  his  first  stag  and  his  first  salmon. 
Here  is  his  record  of  two  days,  in  a  letter  to  Miss 
Sybil  Murray  :  "I  left  Loch  Carron  yesterday  ; 
beastly  day — pouring  and  blowing.  However,  I 
fished  hard  at  Balgey,  got  bored  and  soaked,  and 
at  4— just  as  Donald  said  it  was  hopeless — whack  ! 
a  salmon.  In  the  end  we  got  five  trout  and  one 
salmon.  This  morning  I  got  up  at  6.30,  went 
on  the  hill,  and  after  a  good  stalk  got  up  to  four 
beasts.  One  rose,  then  another,  and  flukily  and 
luckily  I  got  both — one  a  fair  beast,  the  other  a 
good  one.  By  this  time  it  was  12.30.  I  ran 
home  to  Loch  Carron,  ordered  a  cart,  had  a  glass 
of  the  best  port,  and  set  out  in  torrents  of  rain 
for  Balgey.  Met  Donald,  who  said  I  was  luny. 
Fished  in  a  fearful  storm,  and  at  6.30,  very  dark, 
misty,  and  wet,  whack  !  a  salmon.  Up  at  6.30, 
two  stags  ;  four  miles'  run  home,  fourteen  miles' 
drive,  salmon  ;  three  miles  on  here — not  a  bad 
day  !  If  that  is  not  sport,  what  is  ?  Did  you 
ever  hear  such  luck  as  two  salmon  in  two  days  to 
a  novice  ?  " 


A  MEMOIR.  23 

In  October  he  was  back  in  London,  where  he 
was  passed  fit  by  a  medical  board,  and  ordered 
to  Cairo  to  join  the  militia  battalion  of  the  Sea- 
forth  Highlanders.  He  had  himself  measured  for 
a  kilt,  which,  as  he  says,  made  him  very  shy. 
After  some  hunting  with  Rivy  at  Melton,  and 
various  shooting  parties — at  one  of  which  he  was 
shot  in  the  leg  by  a  neighbouring  gun  on  two 
successive  days  ! — he  sailed  in  November  for  Egypt. 

There  he  spent  the  better  part  of  four  months, 
working  for  his  army  examination,  playing  a  good 
deal  of  polo,  and  occasionally  riding  steeple- 
chases. He  found  the  life  boring,  for  he  was 
eager  to  get  into  regimental  work,  and  Egypt, 
while  the  war  was  going  on  in  South  Africa,  was 
too  much  of  a  backwater  for  a  soldier.  Lord 
Cromer  greatly  impressed  him,  and  he  saw  a 
good  deal  of  him  as  a  friend  of  Windham  Baring's. 
:  To  hear  him  talk  is  worth  hearing,"  he  wrote 
to  Rivy,  "  as  he  is  quite  the  biggest  man  we  have 
—in  fact,  in  his  place,  bigger  than  Chamberlain. 
He  has  told  me  not  to  chuck  polo,  and  that  work 
five  hours  a  day  is  ample. "  He  got  his  commis- 
sion in  the  6oth  in  May  1901,  when  he  was  at 
Malta,  whither  he  had  gone  in  the  end  of  March. 
There  he  acted  as  an  extra  A.D.C.  to  his  uncle, 
Lord  Grenfell,  who  was  then  Governor,  and 
laboured  to  cope  with  the  intricacies  of  Maltese 


24    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

etiquette.  On  one  occasion  the  Archbishop  of 
Malta  attended  a  large  reception  at  the  Palace, 
and  his  devout  flock  wished  to  kiss  his  hand  as 
soon  as  he  appeared  in  the  doorway.  Francis 
attempted  to  move  him  on,  and  was  haughtily 
told,  "  You  do  not  know  who  I  am.  I  am  the 
Archbishop."  The  extra  A.D.C.,  knowing  only 
one  brand  of  archbishop,  sought  another  member 
of  the  Staff  in  despair,  saying,  "  The  door  is  quite 
blocked,  because  that  old  gentleman  has  gone 
luny  and  thinks  himself  the  Archbishop  of  Can- 
terbury." At  Malta  Rivy  joined  him  for  a  little, 
and  the  Twins  rode  many  races  on  their  uncle's 
ponies.  There  used  to  be  an  irritating  bell  rung 
in  a  chapel  close  to  the  Palace,  and  one  day  to 
the  joy  of  the  household  it  suddenly  stopped. 
Lord  Grenfell,  anxious  to  discover  the  reason, 
found  that  the  Twins  had  driven  the  bell-ringer 
from  his  post  by  pelting  him  with  coal ! 

On  their  way  home  it  is  recorded  that  in 
Paris,  in  some  cafe  or  other  public  place,  they 
forgathered  with  a  French  soldier.  In  their 
zeal  for  information  they  asked  him  in  their  best 
Ollendorff,  "  Qu'est-ce  que  vous  pensez  de  1'affaire 
Dreyfus  ?  '  The  question,  delivered  in  a  clear, 
boyish  voice  at  a  moment  when  French  feeling 
on  the  matter  was  hectic,  secured  an  embarrassing 
attention  for  the  travellers. 


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A  MEMOIR.  25 

In  the  autumn  of  1901  Francis  was  with  the 
6oth  at  Cork,  whence  he  sailed  in  December  for 
South  Africa.  He  indited  a  farewell  letter  to 
Rivy,  "  the  final  time  I  will  write  you  about  my 
affairs  before  we  meet  again,  you  a  wealthy  City 
man,  and  I  a  poor  subaltern  with  a  V.C."  There 
are  some  characteristic  messages.  "  Send  me 
cuttings  out  of  papers  sometimes,  such  as  very 
good  speeches,  debates  or  leading  articles  in 
the  Times  [he  had  always  a  craze  for  leading 
articles].  You  might  send  me  a  few  big  races 
and  some  hunts,  also  any  of  our  pals'  weddings, 
big  cricket  matches,  or  any  divorce  of  some  pal 
of  ours,  or  anything  startling  in  the  papers.  .  .  . 
Work  hard  at  the  City,  keep  fit,  teetotal,  and  mind 
the  girls  "  [his  sisters],  A  month  later  he  was 
planted  on  a  hilltop  near  Harrismith. 

The  last  months  of  the  South  African  War 
were  not  an  enlivening  moment  to  start  on  the 
profession  of  arms.  The  great  hours  of  the 
campaign  were  over,  and  the  war  had  become  a 
thing  of  barbed  wire  and  blockhouses,  varied  by 
more  or  less  futile  "  drives  "  when  the  Boer 
commandos  evaded  the  snares  ingeniously  set 
in  their  sight.  Francis  would  have  been  very 
happy  in  the  "  drives,"  and  did  his  best  to  get 
his  old  friend  Harry  Rawlinson  *  to  take  him 

*  Now  General  Lord  Rawlinson. 


26    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

with  him ;  but  the  discipline  of  the  army  confined 
him  to  garrison  work,  and,  instead  of  being  with 
the  hunt,  he  had  to  content  himself  with  the 
duties  of  earth-stopper.  His  letters  chiefly  tell  of 
meetings  with  other  bored  friends,  such  as  Francis 
Scott,  in  casual  blockhouses,  and  of  the  amassing 
of  live  stock.  "  I  have  no  right  to  any  horses  ; 
however,  I  have  two  good  riding  ones,  including 
a  polo  pony  and  three  cart  ponies/'  .  ..."  I 
have  bought  a  Cape  cart  of  a  Dutchman,  newly 
done  up,  for  £ i o.  I  really  gave  him  £10  as  a  tip, 
and  he  went  and  stole  the  Cape  cart."  .  ..."  I 
have  now  got  four  ponies,  two  good  ones.  Rather 
an  odd  thing  happened  about  one  of  the  ponies  we 
commandeered.  First  time  I  used  him  was  to 
send  him  to  get  some  milk.  Funnily  enough,  it 
seemed  he  belonged  to  the  milkman."  He  started 
polo  under  difficulties,  and  complained  that  no 
shooting  was  possible  at  Harrismith,  as  "  all  the 
buck  lay  the  same  way  as  the  Boers."  He  dis- 
covered that  he  had  been  meant  by  Providence 
for  cavalry  rather  than  infantry — a  discovery 
hastened  by  the  arrival  of  the  I4th  Hussars. 
"  By  Jove,"  he  writes,  "  there  is  a  difference 
between  cavalry  and  infantry.  I  mess  with  them. 
At  mess  the  sergeant-major  says,  *  What  will  you 
drink,  sir  ?  I  have  only  whisky,  lime-juice,  and 
champagne.' "  It  is  difficult  to  see  how  this  re- 


A  MEMOIR.  27 

sourcefulness  in  drinks  can  have  mattered  much 
to  Francis,  who,  like  Rivy,  was  a  consistent  tee- 
totaller ;  but  he  liked  a  lordly  way  of  doing 
things.  "  The  only  way  I  can  make  you  feel 
what  this  life  is,"  he  wrote,  "  is  to  compare  it 
to  your  being  asked  to  stay  at  Melton  for  five 
or  six  months,  being  offered  mounts  every  day, 
hearing  of  the  best  of  sport,  and  seeing  every 
one  going  out  and  not  being  allowed  by  your 
taskmaster  to  go.  That  describes  this  job  ex- 
actly ;  only  with  hunting,  you  know,  you  can 
hunt  next  year  or  a  year  to  come,  but  here  I  know 
I  shall  never  get  another  job  of  Boer  pursuing." 
He  deeply  sympathized  with  the  view  of  an  Eton 
friend  who  turned  up  one  day  with  the  words, 
"  O  Lord !  Twin,  which  is  the  way  to  England  ? 
I'll  not  be  a  soldier  a  week  after  I  get  home ! " 

The  tedium  of  those  Harrismith  days  was  not 
improved  by  Rivy's  letters — for  from  now  onward 
the  Twins  maintained  a  methodical  correspond- 
ence. Rivy  was  enjoying  that  golden  time  which 
comes  only  once  in  life — a  popular  young  man's 
first  entrance  into  the  great  world.  He  was  by 
way  of  learning  the  ropes  in  the  City,  and  engaged 
in  small  but  complex  transactions  on  Francis's 
account,  since  he  had  the  management  of  the 
latter's  slender  patrimony.  The  letters  are  full 
of  City  gossip,  which  greatly  perplexed  the  lone 


28    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

soldier  at  Harrismith.  "  Love  to  all,  including 
the  Jew  man  who  helped  to  make  £27  for  me. 
Southern  Pacifies  sound  good,  and  are  in  the 
papers.  I  can't  find  Leopoldinas  anywhere  under 
City,  Stock  Exchange,  or  Markets.  What  does 
Yankees  mean  ?  Yankee  what  ?  I  can't  find  that 
either." 

In  January  1902,  Rivy  was  given  a  post  in  the 
office  of  the  Charter  Trust,  of  which  his  brother 
Arthur  was  a  director  and  Lord  Grey  chairman. 
But  he  had  plenty  of  time  to  spare  for  amuse- 
ments, and  his  letters  were  full  of  tantalizing 
accounts  of  runs  with  the  Quorn  and  the  Belvoir 
and  the  Windsor  drag,  dances,  week-ends  at 
Cliveden,  Ascot,  and  Westonbirt,  parties  in  Lon- 
don, endless  bachelor  dinners.  Rivy  was  always 
an  excellent  letter  writer,  and  at,  this  stage  had 
not  the  acute  educational  interest  which  ap- 
peared later,  though  I  find  him  advising  Francis 
to  learn  the  Times  leaders  by  heart  to  improve 
his  style,  "  because  they  are  very  good  English." 
Usually  his  epistles  are  vivid  diaries  of  his  doings. 
The  record  of  old  runs  is  apt  to  be  "  like  mouldy 
wedding  cake,"  but  here  is  a  description  of  a 
day  with  Waldorf  Astor's  drag. 

"  I  rode  Jim  Mackenzie's  runaway ;  they  put  an  india- 
rubber  bit  in  his  mouth  which  was  useless.  We  started  over 
the  rails  at  Hall  Barn,  and  then  went  right-handed  up  the 


A  MEMOIR.  29 

hill  to  the  farm  at  the  top.  Near  the  farm  my  quad  took 
charge,  so  I  sat  back  and  rode  at  one  of  those  large  white 
gates,  hit  it  very  hard,  pecked  very  badly,  and  was  shot  off. 
I  was  soon  up.  We  then  checked  in  Slough  road.  We  started 
off  again  down  that  ride  where  I  once  fell  over  a  hurdle  with 
the  drag.  The  grey  *  ran  away  and  took  full  charge  ;  first 
down  a  steep  hill  over  some  rails  ;  then  across  the  road  into 
a  plough,  where  I  got  a  little  pull ;  then  over  about  four 
fences,  and  then  in  jumping  a  small  one  he  landed  on  his  head 
and  lay  there  for  about  five  minutes.  I  took  the  saddle  off 
and  let  him  get  his  wind  ;  then  I  hacked  to  the  check,  which 
was  at  the  Gerrard's  Cross  gate  of  Wilton  Park.  We  started 
again  up  the  park  over  the  stile  in  the  corner,  then  right- 
handed  over  those  two  wire  fences  between  the  farm  and 
Pitland ;  then  bore  a  little  to  the  left — you  know  where  I 
mean — through  the  fence  between  the  larches  and  that  steep 
lane.  I  remembered  there  was  a  pit  somewhere  there,  but 
couldn't  remember  where.  To  my  horror  I  found  myself 
unable  to  stop  about  five  yards  from  it.  So  I  sat  like  a  mouse, 
and  the  brute  slithered  half-way  down,  then  jumped  about 
ten  feet,  and  away  again,  as  it  was  open  at  the  bottom.  Dal- 
meny  thought  I  was  dead,  when  to  his  surprise  he  looked  down 
and  saw  me  half-way  across  the  next  field." 

Rivy's  letters  contain  lists  of  the  friends  he 
ran  across,  the  ladies  he  danced  with,  and  occa- 
sional gobbets  of  political  news  like  this  :  "  Rose- 
bery  wrote  to  the  Times  yesterday  to  cut  off  all 
relations  with  C.-Bannerman ;  which  has  made 
rather  an  excitement."  Or  bibliographic  notes 
such  as  :  "I  will  send  you  out  next  mail  a  very 
good  book,  Science  and  Education,  by  Professor 

*  It  turned  out  afterwards  that  this  grey  had  at  some  time  or 
other  had  its  jaw  broken  on  both  sides,  with  the  result  that  it  got  the 
bit  against  the  jaw  bone  and  could  not  feel  it. 


30    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Huxley,  which  I  have  marked  in  several  places — 
a  sort  of  book  you  can  read  over  again.  I  have 
often  noticed  lately,  in  the  leading  articles  in  the 
Times,  '  as  Professor  Huxley  says.'  Printing- 
house  Square  has  rarely  had  a  more  faithful 
adherent.  But  here  is  a  record  of  a  startling 
adventure. 

"  I  got  a  wire  from  Horace  Farquhar  [Lord  Farquhar] 
asking  me  to  go  and  dance  at  10.30,  so  I  dined  at  home  and 
went  round.  On  taking  off  my  coat  I  asked  if  there  were 
many  people.  '  Yes,  my  lord — the  King  and  Queen/  I 
walked  upstairs  where  a  lot  of  people  were  standing,  and  I 
ought  to  have  stayed  there.  But  like  an  ass  I  barged  into 
the  drawing-room,  where  every  one  was  standing  at  attention. 
The  King  walked  up  and  shook  me  warmly  by  the  hand.  I 
didn't  know  whether  to  kiss  it  or  kneel  down  or  what,  so  I 
just  calmly  said,  '  How  do  you  do,  sir  ?  '  At  that  he  started 
off  in  the  most  fluent  French.  '  What,  sir  ?  '  More  fluent 
French.  '  I  beg  your  pardon,  sir  ?  '  I  didn't  understand  one 
word  he  said,  so  he  repeated  the  French,  in  which  I  caught  the 
words  '  tante  '  and  '  malade.'  *  I  beg  your  pardon,  sir  ?  '  I 
said,  standing  on  one  leg.  Then  he  said  in  English,  '  And  how 
is  your  aunt  ? '  '  Very  well  indeed,  sir.'  '  Oh  no,  the  one  who 
has  been  so  ill.  I  am  so  glad  she  is  much  better/  '  Thank 
you,  sir,  she  is  very  well/  I  simply  didn't  know  what  to 
do  or  say.  '  Are  you  going  to  stay  here  long  ?  '  (I  thought 
he  meant  stay  dancing.)  '  No,  sir  ;  I  am  going  away  early/ 
'  I  hope  you  will  stay  here  some  time,  as  you  are  such  a  great 
traveller.  How  do  you  propose  to  go  home  ?  '  (He  meant 
home  to  France.)  '  I  thought  of  going  by  the  Underground, 
sir/  That  put  an  end  to  it.  I  gave  a  sort  of  bow,  and  went 
over  and  shook  hands  with  Lady  Farquhar.  I  then  sneaked 
into  the  corridor,  where  we  stood  about  for  some  time.  After- 
wards I  saw  Horace  Farquhar,  and  he  said  the  King  had 


A  MEMOIR.  31 

taken  me  for  a  Frenchman  called  Paul  de  Jaucourt,  nephew 
of  Mrs.  Hartmann,  who  has  had  bronchitis.  Princess  Pless 
heard  my  conversation  with  the  King,  so  I  asked  her  if  I  had 
made  a  blazing  fool  of  myself.  She  said  I  had  got  out  of  it 
very  well,  and  never  noticed  anything  except  she  could  not 
make  out  why  he  spoke  French.  After  I  had  gone  out  he 
asked,  '  Who  was  that  ?  '  '  Grenfell !  '  *  Good  gracious,  I 
have  been  talking  French  to  him  and  asking  about  his  aunt ! 
Why  didn't  they  tell  me  ?  '  He  was  rather  sick,  I  believe, 
as  he  hates  making  mistakes.  .  .  .  Everybody  has  heard  the 
story,  and  roars  with  laughter/1 

In  March  Francis  was  allowed  to  join  his 
brother  Harold's  column  in  the  Western  Trans- 
vaal, and  for  the  next  three  months  had  all  the 
movement  he  wanted.  It  was  just  after  Lord 
Methuen's  contretemps,  and  the  Boer  general  op- 
posed to  them  was  the  redoubtable  Delarey.  He 
found  himself  among  old  friends,  such  as  Jack 
Stuart-Wortley  and  Freddy  Guest,  and  the  details 
of  the  life  approximated  to  the  cavalry  standard. 
"Old  H.  is  splendid.  Catch  him  roughing  it! 
He  has  got  an  Ai  tent  he  bought  at  home  with 
every  sort  of  thing  inside.  We  halt,  and  in 
about  five  minutes  it  looks  as  if  we  had  been 
there  for  ever.  .  .  .  On  trek  his  bridles,  buckles, 
boots,  breeches,  etc.,  look  as  if  he  was  at  Melton 
hunting,  they  are  so  clean.  I  have  got  three 
niggers  now,  and  hope  to  be  the  same/'  On 
ist  April  they  just  missed  rounding  up  a  Boer 
convoy,  and  Francis  was  speedily  disillusioned 


32    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

as  to  what  galloping  meant  in  that  kind  of  war. 
"  Your  opinion  is — and  mine  used  to  be — that 
you  saw  Boers  and  galloped  at  the  charge,  same 
speed  as  the  Derby  ;  but  it  is  very  different. 
Here  you  have  a  horse  with  a  kettle  hung  on 
him,  coat,  mackintosh,  water  bottle,  cap,  man, 
200  rounds  ammunition,  and  into  the  bargain  a 
great  crock.  You  can  imagine  the  pace  we  go." 
He  was  pessimistic,  too,  about  the  war  and  its 
progress.  "  How  they  can  say  we  have  conquered 
this  country  Heaven  knows.  If  you  leave  your 
blockhouse  you  get  sniped,  and  if  you  go  out 
with  500  men  you  get  jolly  well  kicked  back 
into  camp.  The  Boer  roams  about  the  whole 
country  as  he  likes,  and  yet  it  is  ours."  On  the 
nth,  however,  he  obtained  his  desire,  and  was 
for  the  first  time  in  a  serious  action  at  Moedwil, 
where  his  column  had  six  killed  and  fifty-three 
wounded.  "  Up  to  now  I  had  no  time  to  notice 
wounded,  or  even  to  feel  in  a  funk.  But  the 
moment  the  show  stopped  I  felt  as  if  I  had  had 
a  good  shaking  and  hated  it."  He  was  mentioned 
in  dispatches,  to  his  intense  annoyance.  "  Let 
those  that  deserve  it  be  mentioned.  My  job  was 
only  a  sort  of  head-waiter's." 

On  the  6th  of  June  peace  was  signed.  Harold 
started  for  home,  and  Francis  found  himself  in 
Johannesburg.  There,  as  the  army  broke  up, 


A  MEMOIR.  33 

he  met  a  host  of  friends,  and  sampled  also  the 
local  society.  He  played  polo,  raced,  sold  horses, 
speculated  a  little  like  every  junior  officer  at  the 
time,  and  was  lucky  enough,  through  good  advice, 
to  make  in  diamond  mines  a  considerable  sum 
of  money,  which  enabled  him  to  think  seriously 
of  going  into  the  cavalry.  Spurred  on  by  Rivy's 
entreaties,  he  did  his  best  to  learn  something 
about  gold-mining,  and  became  terribly  confused 
in  his  earnest  study  of  the  markets.  He  gives 
amusing  pictures  of  the  queer,  cosmopolitan  life 
of  the  place — amusing  because  they  are  the  work 
of  a  shrewd  and  yet  most  ingenuous  observer. 
Every  one  who  remembers  those  days  on  the 
Rand  will  appreciate  such  a  note  as  this :  "  Old 
B.  has  made  a  lot  of  money  here.  The  other  day 
he  found  in  the  card-room  a  Jew  learning  poker. 
He  gave  £10  for  another  Jew's  seat,  and  then 
took  £300  off  the  learning  Jew.  He  wasn't  born 
yesterday." 

Presently  he  returned  to  his  regiment  at  Har- 
rismith,  and  stayed  with  it  till  the  end  of  the  year. 
He  had  outstayed  his  leave  on  the  Rand,  and  when 
he  arrived  at  Harrismith  was  put  under  arrest. 
The  man  who  preceded  him  in  his  interview  with 
the  commanding  officer  was  overcome  by  the 
heat,  and  was  carried  out  in  a  dead  faint.  When 
Francis  was  led  into  the  presence  he  observed 

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34    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

cheerfully  to  the  colonel,  "  I  hope,  sir,  you  are 
not  going  to  be  so  hard  on  me  as  you've  been  on 
that  poor  chap/'  Risu  solvitur  curia. 

Sir  Hereward  Wake,  who  was  with  him  during 
those  months,  writes  :  "I  played  with  Francis, 
Geoffrey  Shakerley,  and  Roddy  Brownlow  in 
what  was,  I  think,  the  first  polo  tournament 
Francis  played  in.  It  was  at  Harrismith.  There 
were  thirteen  teams  in,  and  we  (i.e.  the  6oth) 
won.  We  used  to  have  the  most  awful  rags  in 
the  mess  in  those  days,  and  I  will  never  forget 
Francis.  He  was  by  far  the  worst  of  us,  though 
he  was  a  teetotaller. "  He  made  strenuous  efforts 
to  get  away  from  South  Africa,  and  an  A.D.C.- 
ship  to  Lord  Dudley  in  Ireland  and  the  chance  of 
service  in  Somaliland  were  discussed  in  turn  in 
the  brothers'  letters.  But  nothing  happened  till 
the  battalion  was  ordered  to  India,  and  Francis 
returned  to  England  in  February  1903. 

At  this  period  Rivy's  letters  are  the  better 
reading.  New  horizons  were  opening  up  for  him 
everywhere,  and  he  gave  Francis  the  benefit  of 
his  enlightenment.  That  summer  and  winter,  in 
the  intervals  of  dancing,  polo,  and  hunting,  he 
reflected  profoundly,  and  his  own  and  Francis's 
careers  were  the  object  of  his  thoughts.  He  had 
discovered  that  he  was  very  badly  educated,  and 
was  determined  to  remedy  the  defect.  "  It  don't 


A  MEMOIR.  35 

matter  a  damn,  I  do  believe,  not  having  learned 
at  Eton  as  long  as  one  does  so  now."  So  he  set 
to  work  at  a  queer  assortment  of  books,  and  sent 
the  results  of  his  cogitations  to  Francis.  Here  are 
some  extracts : — 

"  Any  one  can  improve  his  memory.  The  best  way  is 
learning  by  heart,  no  matter  what,  and  then,  when  you  think 
you  know  it,  say  it  or  write  it.  After  two  or  three  days  you 
are  sure  to  forget  it  again,  and  then,  instead  of  looking  at 
the  book,  strain  your  mind  and  try  to  remember  it.  Above 
all  things,  always  keep  your  mind  employed.  One  great  man 
(I  forget  which)  used  to  see  a  number  on  a  door,  say  69,  and 
try  to  remember  what  had  happened  in  all  the  years  ending 
in  69.  Or  see  a  horse,  and  try  to  recall  how  many  you  have 
seen  that  day.  When  riding  or  walking,  try  to  recollect  the 
sayings  or  events  in  the  last  book  you  have  read,  or  the  daily 
paper.  Asquith  always  learns  things  by  heart.  He  never 
wastes  a  minute  ;  as  soon  as  he  has  nothing  to  do  he  picks 
up  some  book.  He  reads  till  1.30  every  night ;  when  driving 
to  the  Temple  next  morning  he  thinks  over  what  he  has  read. 
Result :  he  has  a  marvellous  memory,  and  knows  every- 
thing." 

"  I  am  reading  Rose's  Napoleon,  and  will  send  it  to  you. 
What  a  wonder  he  was  !  Never  spent  a  moment  of  his  life 
without  learning  something.  ...  I  went  and  saw  the  Corona- 
tion from  Montagu  House.  The  usual  show,  but  I  had  a  good 
yarn  with  Francis  Scott.'1 

"  I  enclose  a  copy  of  an  essay  from  Bacon's  book.  Learn 
it  by  heart  if  you  can.  I  have,  and  think  it  a  clinker." 

"  Since  ist  June  I've  read  Macaulay's  essays  on  Chatham, 
Clive,  and  Warren  Hastings.  Then  an  excellent  book,  Map 
of  Life,  by  Lecky  ;  Bacon's  Essays  ;  Life  of  Napoleon,  by 


36    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Rose,  and  Last  Phase,  by  Rosebery.  I  have  also  finished  Life  oj 
Macaulay,  most  interesting.  I've  always  wondered  how  our 
great  politicians  and  literary  chaps  lived.  ...  I  also  send 
you  a  Shakespeare.  I  learned  Antony's  harangue  to  the 
Romans  after  Caesar's  death  by  heart.  I  am  also  trying  to 
learn  a  little  about  electricity  and  railroad  organization,  so 
have  my  time  filled  up.  I  tried  to  buy  Moltke's  Life,  but  it 
is  255.  !  Pickwick  Papers  I  also  send  you.  I  have  always 
avoided  these  sort  of  books,  but  Dickens's  works  are  miles 
funnier  than  the  rotten  novels  one  now  sees.  We  shall  have 
to  start  a  correspondence  comparing  the  books  we  read. 
Probably  you  will  hate  the  ones  I  like,  and  vice  versa,  but  I'm 
sure  you  will  love  Give." 

"  I  have  learned  one  thing  by  my  reading  and  conversation 
with  professors.  You  and  I  go  at  a  subject  all  wrong.  Don't 
read  Life  of  Wellington  and  the  history  of  his  wars,  but  take 
a  period  and  study  it  as  a  whole." 

There  are  pages  of  explanation  of  City  matters, 
which  Francis  cannot  have  read  unmoved,  as 
Rivy  during  the  summer  contrived  by  injudicious 
investment  to  lose  a  considerable  sum  of  money 
for  him.  It  is  curious  to  find  Rivy  with  his 
ambitions  herding  among  the  rastaquouere  crowd 
of  minor  speculators,  intent  on  little  gambles  in 
matters  where  he  had  no  serious  knowledge. 
Sometimes  the  wave  made  by  some  big  vessel 
carried  forward  his  small  cockle-shell,  but  more 
often  it  submerged  it,  and  there  was  a  sad  ex- 
planatory letter  to  his  partner  at  Harrismith. 

About  this  time — when  such  explanations  were 
over — Rivy  took  to  lecturing  Francis  on  his  duties, 


A  MEMOIR.  37 

and  tried  to  inspire  him  with  his  own  aims. 
"  H.  writes  to  Arthur  that  you  have  the  wildest 
ideas — want  to  return  at  once,  get  into  a  cavalry 
regiment  and  play  polo — and  that  the  sooner  you 
chuck  polo  and  look  at  the  serious  side  of  life 
the  better.  I  am  awfully  disappointed,  as  I 
hoped  to  plug  at  the  City  and  get  to  the  top  of 
the  tree,  and  you  at  the  top  of  soldiering,  instead 
of  a  loafer  who  only  plays  polo.  England  would 
have  finished  the  war  sooner  if  we  had  had  more 
Kitcheners  and  fewer  polo  pros."  That  was  all 
very  well,  but  in  nearly  every  letter  of  Rivy's 
there  were  lyrical  accounts  of  his  own  games  at 
Ranelagh  and  Roehampton,  and  a  good  deal 
more  about  horse-coping  and  bachelor  dinners 
than  about  books.  Francis,  in  his  Harrismith 
solitude,  may  well  have  considered  that  his  phy- 
sician himself  needed  a  little  healing.  And  when 
at  Christmas  the  same  earnest  apostle  of  self- 
culture  went  to  Paris  on  education  intent,  the 
exile  in  South  Africa  may  have  reflected  that  he 
too  would  be  ready  to  follow  a  path  of  duty 
which  led  through  dinners  at  the  Embassy,  Les 
Folies  Dramatiques,  Maxim's,  and  the  Cafe  de 
Paris. 

One  pleasant  trait  of  Rivy's  was  that  he  felt 
bound  to  pass  on  to  Francis  any  good  talk  he 
heard,  and  faithfully  to  describe  his  week-ends. 


38    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

He  was  at  Terling  when  the  news  came  of  the 
signature  of  peace  in  South  Africa. 

"Lord  Rayleigh  is  a  very  scientific  fellow;  in  fact,  he  is 
about  a  generation  in  front  of  his  time.  I  don't  think  I  have 
ever  enjoyed  a  Sunday  so  much.  Lady  Rayleigh  is  Arthur 
Balfour's  sister.  The  party  included  Arthur  Balfour,  Lord 
and  Lady  Ribblesdale,  Lord  and  Lady  Cobham,  Miss  Lyttelton, 
Lord  and  Lady  Cranborne,  and  Mr.  Haldane,  K.C.,  who  is 
supposed  to  be  the  cleverest  lawyer  and  philosopher.  It  was 
ripping  to  hear  those  fellows  talk. 

"  On  Saturday  Balfour  got  a  cable  from  Kitchener  to  say 
the  voting  was  going  very  close,  which  sent  me  to  bed  with 
rather  a  headache.  However,  they  kept  the  telegraph  office 
open  all  night,  and  at  ten  o'clock  Sunday  morning  he  got  a 
telegram  to  say,  '  Delegates  have  signed  peace ;  Secretary  for 
War  is  consulting  Prime  Minister  about  publishing  news.'  In 
the  afternoon  he  got  another  telegram  to  say  that  they  would 
publish  the  news  at  four  o'clock.  I  was  rather  in  hopes  that 
they  would  keep  it  till  Parliament  met  on  Monday,  and  then 
one  would  have  got  it  about  five  hours  in  front  of  everybody 
else.  After  dinner  on  Saturday  they  discussed  peace.  Balfour 
said  he  did  not  like  the  telegram  at  all,  but  what  made  him 
hopeful  was  that  the  City  was  so  confident.  In  all  probability 
the  City  knew  more  about  it  than  he  did,  as  he  only  heard 
the  news  from  Kitchener  and  Milner,  against  telegrams  from 
all  over  Africa.  This  came  as  rather  an  eye-opener  to  me 
when  one  considered  that  fellows  in  the  City  were  looking  to 
Arthur  Balfour  as  knowing  about  ten  thousand  times  more 
than  they  did.  .  .  . 

"  I  had  a  good  talk  to  Haldane  late  in  the  evening  about 
America,  the  Shipping  Combine,  etc.  He  said  that  the  great 
difference  between  the  American  and  the  Englishman  was 
that  the  American  boy  was  always  thinking  how  soon  he 
could  get  on  in  business,  while  the  latter  was  always  thinking 
how  long  he  could  keep  out  of  it.  .  .  . 

"  Ribblesdale  is  the  best  fellow  you  ever  met.    For  five 


A  MEMOIR.  39 

minutes  he  talks  about  Shakespeare,   and  for  ten  minutes 
about  fox-hunting." 

It  was  on  this  visit  that  Rivy  heard  Mr.  Balfour 
and  Lord  Rayleigh  praising  Alice  in  Wonderland. 
Deeply  impressed,  he  bought  the  book  as  soon 
as  he  returned  to  London  and  read  it  earnestly. 
To  his  horror  he  saw  no  sense  in  it.  Then  it 
struck  him  that  it  might  be  meant  as  nonsense, 
and  he  had  another  try,  when  he  concluded  that 
it  was  rather  funny.  But  he  remained  disap- 
pointed. He  had  hoped  for  something  that  would 
afford  political  enlightenment. 

In  February  1903  Francis  came  home,  under 
orders  for  India.  I  think  it  was  on  this  occasion 
that  Rivy  met  him  at  Southampton  and  found 
that  he  had  omitted  to  bring  any  money.  Francis, 
having  spent  all  his  during  the  voyage,  was  in  the 
same  position.  Both  happened  to  be  wearing 
suits  of  an  identical  brown.  Stewards  and  other 
people  expecting  tips,  pursuing  Francis,  were  sud- 
denly and  awfully  faced  by  the  apparent  duplica- 
tion of  their  quarry.  They  gave  up  the  quest  and 
retired  to  reflect  on  their  sins. 

The  brothers  were  together  for  the  better  part 
of  seven  months,  so  their  faithful  correspondence 
ceased.  They  lived  with  their  sister  Dolores  at  17 
Hans  Row,  and  had  a  pleasant  summer  of  balls  and 


40    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

polo-playing.  Their  likeness  was  a  great  amuse- 
ment to  them,  and  often  at  dances  they  would 
change  partners,  who  were  quite  unconscious  of  the 
difference.  Rivy  used  to  breakfast  at  eight  and 
leave  for  the  City,  while  Francis  got  up  at  a  more 
leisurely  hour,  to  the  confusion  of  a  new  parlour- 
maid. "  This  is  a  funny  place, "  she  declared. 
"  One  of  the  gentlemen  has  had  two  breakfasts,  and 
the  other  has  disappeared  without  having  any." 

In  September  Rivy  departed  for  America  "  to 
learn  business,"  taking  with  him  a  case  of  his 
brother's  champagne  as  provender  for  the  road. 
He  visited  many  cities,  both  in  the  United  States 
and  in  Canada,  acquired  a  mass  of  miscellaneous 
information,  and  made  the  acquaintance  of  Mr. 
Bonb right,  in  whose  London  house  he  afterwards 
became  a  partner.  The  diary  which  he  kept  on 
his  tour  showed  that  he  would  have  made  a 
good  commercial  journalist,  for  he  had  the  live- 
liest interest  in  all  new  business  organizations 
and  mechanical  processes,  and  considerable  power 
of  describing  them.  He  met  a  variety  of  people, 
from  Mr.  Chauncey  Depevv  and  Mr.  Hill,  the 
railway  magnate,  to  some  of  the  American  polo 
players  whom  he  was  afterwards  to  know  better. 
The  trip  was  an  admirable  bit  of  education,  for 
it  gave  him  a  host  of  new  friends,  and  the  weeks 
of  solid  work  which  he  put  in  in  a  Trust  office  in 


A  MEMOIR.  41 

New  York  were  an  excellent  apprenticeship.  The 
diary  is  as  serious  as  the  works  of  Mr.  Samuel 
Smiles,  but  now  and  then  he  deals  with  other 
things  than  business.  In  Denver  he  went  to 
church. 

"  As  I  was  approaching  it  a  nice-looking  man  accosted 
me.  '  Guess  we're  late.  My  name  is  James ;  what's  yours  ?  ' 
'  Grenfell,'  says  I,  wondering  what  he  wanted  with  me.  As  we 
entered  the  church  my  new  friend  told  me  I  might  sit  in  his 
pew.  I  never  enjoyed  a  service  so  much.  It  was  high  church. 
They  had  women  in  the  choir  and  cheery  hymns.  Just 
before  the  sermon  the  Rector,  instead  of  announcing  banns  of 
marriage  as  I  expected,  said,  '  Friends,  Christmas  is  nearing. 
I'm  going  to  have  a  rare  old  Christmas.  These  last  three 
years  I've  been  starving  myself,  but  I'm  going  to  alter  all 
that.  Everybody,  I  hope,  will  join  in  making  Christmas 
happy.  Why,  in  old  times  they  used  to  carry  the  parson 
out  on  a  stretcher.'  I  thought  this  the  most  outspoken,  first- 
class  parson  I  had  yet  struck.'1 

To  his  delight  he  found  Waldorf  Astor  in  New 
York,  and  the  two  returned  home  together  in 
December. 

Meantime  Francis  had  left  for  India,  and 
early  in  November  was  with  the  6oth  at  Rawal 
Pindi.  There  his  soul  was  at  once  torn  with 
longings.  The  sight  of  racing  studs  and  much 
polo  inflamed  his  ambition,  and  the  proximity 
of  the  Qth  Lancers  awoke  all  his  hankerings  for 
the  cavalry.  He  had  wanted  to  join  the  iyth 
Lancers,  but  now  transferred  his  affections  to  the 


42    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Ninth,  which  contained  many  old  friends.  At 
first  he  did  his  best  to  be  patient,  aided  by  a  wise 
letter  from  Harry  Rawlinson  and  some  trenchant 
remarks  from  Rivy.  But  the  longing  could  not  be 
repressed,  and  the  cri  de  cceur  breaks  out  in  every 
letter.  "  I  dined  with  the  Qth  last  week.  By  Jove, 
Mate,  a  cavalry  regiment  is  different  .  .  .  ten  old 
Etonians  .  .  .  nicest  chaps  on  earth  .  .  .  Colonel 
won  the  National  ...  a  fizzer,"  and  so  on.  His 
chief  argument  was  his  great  keenness  on  polo, 
about  which  he  could  rouse  little  enthusiasm  in 
his  own  regiment.  He  argued  thence  to  military 
superiority.  "  David  Campbell  *  is  adjutant,  and 
fairly  puts  in  ginger.  You  can  imagine  a  show 
run  by  David  Campbell,  who  is  very  good  at 
polo,  mad  keen  soldier,  won  the  Grand  National 
and  Grand  Military."  In  December  it  was : 
"  By  Jove,  Mate,  I  do  hate  this  walking.  It 
does  make  one's  mouth  water  to  see  those  chaps 
riding."  He  did  not  much  approve  either  of 
the  way  the  foot-slogging  manoeuvres  were  con- 
ducted. "  The  one  idea  of  the  umpire  is  to  see 
who  has  the  most  men.  If  you  have  a  battalion 
very  strongly  entrenched  and  are  fought  by  one 
and  a  half  battalions,  you  are  said  to  be  beaten. 
Yet  in  South  Africa  fifty  Boers  delayed  and  made 

*  Major-General  Sir  David  Campbell,  who  commanded  the  2ist 
Division  in  the  Great  War. 


A  MEMOIR.  43 

it  dashed  uncomfortable  for  Buller's  whole  army." 
He  finished  off  with  the  novel  plea  :  "  Infantry 
soldiering  is  dashed  rot  and  dashed  expensive. 
I  have  worn  out  all  my  walking  boots,  and  now 
my  calf  has  grown  so  I  cannot  get  on  my  polo 
boots  !  "  In  despair  he  besought  Rivy  to  see  if 
the  Daily  Telegraph  would  send  him  as  corre- 
spondent with  the  Tibet  Expedition. 

So  the  first  part  of  1904  was  passed  by  Francis 
in  a  state  -of  considerable  disgruntlement.  Not 
that  he  was  unhappy.  He  had  fallen  in  love  with 
India  and  the  modest  pleasures  of  a  soldier's 
life  there  ;  but  the  vision  of  the  joys  of  cavalry 
was  always  at  hand  to  tantalize  him.  The  Qth 
Lancers  warmly  urged  him  to  transfer,  and  he 
wanted  it  done  at  once,  that  he  might  have  the 
summer  for  polo  practice  and  then,  as  he  said, 
"  win  everything  next  year/'  But  the  War  Office 
does  not  move  in  such  torrential  fashion,  and,  more- 
over, his  uncle  and  his  relations  generally  were 
doubtful  of  the  wisdom  of  the  step  ;  so  for  months 
there  was  a  complicated  correspondence  in  which 
Francis  filled  the  part  of  the  moth  desiring  a 
star.  He  did  his  best  to  work  for  his  examination 
in  Hindustani,  a  language  which  he  reprobated 
on  the  ground  that  it  was  without  "  literature 
and  fairy  tales."  But  he  very  often  broke  loose, 
and  went  off  to  polo  matches  and  steeplechases 


44    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

up  and  down  India,  excusing  himself  to  the  cen- 
sorious Rivy  thus  :  "  While  working  I  thought 
to  myself,  '  Why  make  life  a  burden,  and  chuck 
everything,  and  then  probably  fail  ?  By  not  buying 
ponies  now  I  cannot  get  a  chance  for  next  year/ 

So  I  got  leave  and  started  off "    The  result 

appeared  in  the  next  letter.  "  Yesterday  I  rode 
in  a  steeplechase.  Arrived  on  the  course  full  of 
dash  and  no  end  of  a  swell.  Left  it  like  the  chap 
who  last  fought  Pedlar  Palmer — black  eye,  stupid, 
hand  like  an  apple,  and  lame  !  "  Then  he  would 
return  penitently  to  his  books.  "  The  munshi 
says  I  haven't  a  chance  of  passing.  By  Jove, 
Mate,  I  am  beginning  to  feel  the  effects  of  never 
learning  Latin  Prose  at  Eton." 

About  this  time  the  correspondence  between 
the  brothers  was  remarkably  candid.  Rivy  had 
a  typist  to  dictate  to,  Francis  scribed  with  his 
own  (usually  damaged)  hand  ;  so  when  Rivy's 
epistles  were  scrappy  Francis  had  something  to 
say.  "  I  have  a  tremendous  lot  to  tell  you,  but 
I  am  so  angry  with  your  letter  this  mail  that  I 
won't  write  more.  It  is  too  bad,  Mate.  I  sweat 
like  blazes  to  write  to  you,  and  I  receive  a  type- 
written letter  from  you  signed  by  an  infernal 
clerk."  Each  gives  advice  to  the  other  with  the 
utmost  frankness.  For  example,  Francis  :  "  Take 
a  tip  from  me,  old  boy :  go  gingerly  with  the 


A  MEMOIR.  45 

reforms  in  your  office.  Don't  rush  in  and  say, 
'  This  is  dashed  badly  done.  In  America  it  is  done 
like  this.'  We  are  all  so  apt  to  do  this,  as  our  family 
is  enthusiastic  and  impatient.  It  only  gets  chaps' 
backs  up  and  makes  everything  more  awkward." 
And  Rivy  :  "  You  say  the  races  are  awful  rot. 
Why  the  deuce  do  you  attend  them  then  ? 
Oughtn't  you  to  be  spending  your  time  much 
better  ?  If  you  spent  the  time  with  a  book  in 
your  hand  instead  of  at  some  silly  race  meeting, 
where  you  loaf  the  whole  day,  it  would  do  you 
more  good."  And  again  on  the  cavalry  question  : 
"  I  would  like  to  see  all  your  ponies  break  down 
and  draw  your  nose  to  the  millstone  [sic].  At 
this  moment  you  look  on  the  Ninth  as  everything. 
In  a  few  years  you  will  probably  be  looking  on 
them  as  the  greatest  rotters.  Remember  that 
the  majority  of  men  who  have  become  great 
have  done  so  through  the  necessity  of  having  to 
work  to  get  their  bread  and  butter."  But  Francis 
occasionally  got  back  on  his  mentor.  "  Yours 
of  zQth  February  to  hand — rather  a  rotter.  It 
does  seem  funny  you  starting  polo  again.  Here 
am  I  in  the  home  of  polo — a  ground  half  a  mile 
off — and  I  haven't  played  at  all,  and  don't  seem 
to  want  to.  Your  letter  saying  I  was  so  out  in 
£  S.  D.  made  me  put  up  all  my  ponies  for  sale." 
Francis  had  considerably  outrun  the  constable 


46    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

in  his  expenditure,  and  Rivy  had  taken  him 
gravely  to  task,  adding  morosely  that  things  were 
so  bad  in  the  City  that  stockbrokers  were  begin- 
ning to  pick  up  cigarette  ends  in  the  street. 

His  wrestlings  with  Hindustani  had  soured 
Francis  on  the  intellectual  life,  towards  which 
Rivy  sought  to  goad  him.  His  letters  contain 
some  sensible  remarks  on  the  Tariff  Reform 
controversy  then  raging,  but  that  is  all,  save  for 
the  flickering  interest  in  art  revealed  by  one 
postscript :  "  What  is  the  name  of  the  chap  who 
did  the  pictures  of  naked  ladies  at  Hertford 
House,  and  those  things  in  the  Duchess's  room 
at  Blenheim  ?  Not  Boucher,  wras  it  ?  "  Rivy,  on 
the  other  hand,  was  grappling  manfully  with  his 
education.  In  January  he  was  reading  Creevey, 
and  much  struck  by  his  resemblance  to  Sir  Henry 
Campbell-Bannerman.  "  It  shows  that  the  times 
of  Pitt,  which  I  have  always  looked  on  as  beyond 
reproach,  differed  very  little  from  our  own."  At 
Terling  he  met  Raymond  Asquith — "  whom  I 
have  always  heard  of  as  the  cleverest  person  of 
the  day  " — and  was  much  impressed  by  Raymond's 
habits.  "  When  I  arrived  at  the  Rayleighs'  there 
were  a  whole  lot  of  fellows  talking  in  the  smoke- 
room  and  blinking  at  the  fire,  except  one.  Of 
course  you  can  guess  who  it  was — Asquith  reading 
in  a  corner.  In  the  train  coming  up,  while  I  read 


A  MEMOIR.  47 

four  pages  of  my  book  he  read  twenty  of  his." 
He  was  desperately  afraid  of  getting  the  reputa- 
tion of  a  flaneur.  "  Harry  Longman  said  to  me 
quite  seriously,  '  I  congratulate  you,  Rivy.'  '  What 
for  ?  '  says  I.  '  I  hear  you  and  Francis  are  mil- 
lionaires.' .  .  .  What  a  curse  it  is  the  way  our 
family,  especially  you  and  I,  seem  to  get  talked 
about !  Serious  people  look  on  people  who  are 
always  talked  about  with  suspicion.  I  hate  being 
a  sort  of  Jubilee  Juggins  of  the  gossip  world." 

He  procured  a  coach,  with  whom  he  read 
history  several  hours  in  the  week,  and  he  strove 
to  move  in  intellectual  society.  "  I  had  a  topping 
evening.  I  had  written  to  ask  two  professor 
chaps  to  dinner,  one  of  them  von  Halle,  head 
professor  in  Berlin,  the  other  Mackinder.  You 
would  have  laughed  if  you  had  seen  them.  They 
came  and  dined  at  the  Bath  Club  at  8.15.  About 
7.30  I  got  into  such  a  funk  at  what  the  devil  I 
should  say  to  them  that  I  got  Cecil  to  come  as 
well.  However,  as  always  happens  with  that 
sort  of  chap,  they  were  most  easy  to  talk  to  and 
most  entertaining."  He  attended  political  meet- 
ings, notably  Mr.  Chamberlain's  in  the  City  ; 
he  dined  with  Lord  Rosebery  the  evening  before 
the  opening  of  Parliament,  and  he  treasured 
every  fragment  of  good  talk  he  heard  to  send  to 
Francis.  At  Easter  he  went  again  to  Paris,  and 


48    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

wrote  an  amusing  account  of  a  stag  hunt  at  Fon- 
tainebleau.  What  with  one  thing  and  another  he 
had  a  most  varied  spring  and  summer,  and  his 
diary  is  filled  with  polo  matches,  City  gossip, 
and  the  record  of  dinner-table  conversation  in 
about  equal  proportions.  Here  are  some  speci- 
mens of  the  last : — 

"  Met  Jack  Morgan,*  who  told  me  this  anecdote.  His 
mother  went  to  see  an  ostrich  farm  in  California.  The  keeper, 
pointing  to  two  fine  ostriches,  said,  '  Those  are  Lord  and  Lady 
Bobs.  Bobs  is  a  very  docile  animal,  and  very  nice  to  Lady 
Bobs.  Those  two  are  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Morgan.  Old  Morgan 
is  a  crusty  brute,  and  will  have  nothing  to  say  to  his  wife.' ' 

"  Met  Harry  Rawlinson  in  the  Park.  Talked  of  Stonewall 
Jackson,  his  power  as  a  leader  of  men  and  judge  of  character. 
Lee  was  the  thinker  and  Jackson  the  actor.  Harry  R.  poked 
my  pony  in  the  ribs  and  said,  '  What  sort  of  thing  is  that  ?  ' 
whereat  my  beast  promptly  landed  his  a  kick  in  the  stomach." 

"  After  dinner  went  to  an  '  At  Home  '  of  Mrs.  Sidney  Webb. 
Met  some  rum-looking  coves  there.  Had  a  talk  with  Mrs. 
Webb  about  fiscal  policy.  A  Free  Trader  joined  in,  and  I 
argued  disgracefully,  proved  nothing,  expressed  myself  badly, 
and  was  rather  trodden  on  by  the  Free  Trader,  who  knew  his 
points." 

"  Dined  with  Lady  Salisbury  in  Arlington  Street — a  jolly 
party,  composed  of  Lord  Hugh  Cecil,  Winston  Churchill, 
Lady  Mabel  Palmer,  Neil  Primrose,  Lady  Crewe,  Lady  Aldra 
Acheson,  and  Sir  Edgar  Vincent.  Sat  next  and  bucked  to 
Lady  Aldra.  W.  Churchill  held  forth  at  dinner  to  the  whole 

*    Mr.  Pierpont  Morgan,  the  younger. 


A  MEMOIR.  49 

table,  discussing  invasion.  Salisbury  said  he  thought  that 
if  one  was  going  to  make  a  speech  one  ought  to  do  nothing 
else  the  whole  day." 

"  Dined  with  Lord  Rosebery.  Party  included  Dowager 
Duchess  of  Manchester,  Revelstoke,  Crewe,  Lady  Sibyl  Grant, 
Dalmeny,  Mr.  and  Lady  E.  Guinness,  Brodrick,  Haldane, 
Lady  Gerard,  etc.  After  dinner  Lord  Rosebery  and  Brodrick 
chaffed  each  other.  Rosebery  quoted  some  speech  of  Glad- 
stone's. '  Yes,'  says  Brodrick,  '  but  he  continued  to  say ' — 
and  quoted  some  more  of  the  same  speech.  How  on  earth 
do  these  chaps  get  their  memories  ?  .  .  .  Rosebery  came  and 
talked  to  me.  I  do  look  up  to  that  man.  ...  He  told  a 
story  of  Lord  Robert  Cecil,  who  is  noted,  like  all  Cecils,  for 
his  ignorance  of  horses.  A  case  came  up  in  the  courts  at 
which  reference  was  made  to  a  horse's  knees.  '  Which  knee — 
fore  or  hind  ?  '  asks  Cecil." 


During  that  summer  Rivy  had  a  somewhat 
serious  love  affair.  He  was  not  what  is  commonly 
called  susceptible,  and  made  ready  friendships 
with  women  as  he  made  them  with  men.  His 
letters  are  full  of  the  "  jolly  little  ladies  "  and 
*  capital  girls  '  that  he  was  always  meeting. 
But  now  he  stumbled  on  something  rather  like  a 
'  grand  passion,"  and  he  sighed  in  vain.  The 
experience  made  him  for  the  rest  of  his  life  curi- 
ously tender  and  sympathetic  towards  others  in  a 
like  case.  I  never  heard  Rivy  laugh  at  even  the 
crudest  romance.  For  a  little  he  was  very  miser- 
able, and  in  the  orthodox  way  he  thought  of 
travel.  There  was  another  reason  why  he  should 

(2,187) 


So    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

go  abroad.  The  South  African  market  was  in  a 
bad  state,  and  since  his  work  on  the  Charter 
Trust  was  concerned  with  South  Africa,  he  thought 
it  right  that  he  should  go  out  there  and  judge 
things  for  himself.  At  the  back  of  his  head  was 
a  plan  to  join  Francis  in  India.  Sir  Clinton 
Dawkins  encouraged  the  project,  so  on  23rd  July 
he  sailed  for  the  Cape. 

Meantime  in  India  the  unwilling  rifleman  was 
hovering  about  the  candle  of  the  Qth  Lancers. 
He  applied  for  a  transfer,  and  then,  on  the  advice 
of  his  relations,  withdrew  his  application.  He 
was  much  encouraged  by  a  letter  from  Sir  Douglas 
Haig,  who  was  then  Inspector-General  of  Cavalry 
in  India. 

"  DEAR  FRANCIS  GRENFELL, — I  shall  be  delighted  to  assist 
you  in  any  way  I  can.  First,  I  think  you  wise  to  join  the 
Cavalry,  because  you  will  have  greater  opportunities  of  acting 
on  your  own,  and  more  independence  than  in  the  Infantry. 

"  Next,  as  to  the  regiment.  You  can't  do  better  than  join 
the  gth. 

"  Lastly,  as  to  working  it.  Don't  fret  about  two  or  three 
years'  seniority.  You  must  risk  something,  especially  in  the 
Cavalry.  Officers  seem  to  play  leap-frog  over  one  another  in 
the  most  surprising  manner  nowadays.  So  my  advice  is  to 
take  the  first  chance  you  can  of  joining  the  gth,  either  by 
transfer  or  exchange.  .  .  .  Arrange  to  come  and  stay  with 
me  here  for  two  or  three  weeks,  and  we  will  do  our  best  to 
push  the  matter  through." 

For  the  rest  Francis's  letters  are  filled  mainly 


A  MEMOIR.  51 

with  obscure  details  about  a  buggy  to  be  bought 
at  home,  notes  about  matches  and  race  meetings, 
and  boisterous  complaints  about  the  aridness  of 
Rivy's  epistles.  "  A  very  moderate  letter  from  you. 
.  .  .  You  say  nothing  of  the  National,  nothing 
of  Cecil,  Harold,  Arthur,  the  girls  or  the  uncle. 
Buck  up,  old  boy,  and  make  that  typewriter 
move.  Are  you  so  busy  you  can  only  spare 
time  to  write  '  Yours,  Rivy  '  (badly  written),  and 
even  have  to  hand  the  envelope  to  be  addressed 
by  a  chap  whose  writing  made  me  think  it  was  a 
bill  ?  "  To  which  Rivy  retorts  :  "  The  last  two 
pages  of  your  letter  are  occupied  with  telling  me 
of  a  pony  of  yours  that  was  gelded.  Cannot  you 
find  something  more  interesting  and  instructive 
than  this  to  tell  me  ?  I  don't  care  a  blow  whether 
every  pony  in  India  is  gelded  to-morrow  morning." 
But  the  gelding,  judging  by  his  exploits,  was 
worthy  of  a  letter.  Says  Francis  later  :  "  My 
pony  Snipe  that  was  gelded  has  recovered  wonder- 
fully, and  laid  out  two  syces.  One  he  kicked  in 
the  kidneys.  The  next  day  he  boxed  the  new 
syce,  got  free,  and  caught  him  on  the  eye  with 
his  hind-leg  ;  so  he  also  lies  for  dead." 

In  spite  of  his  anxieties  about  his  future, 
Francis  had  a  pleasant  year.  He  played  in  polo 
teams  which  won  the  championships  at  Poona 
and  Umballa,  and  at  the  latter  place  he  met 


52    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Lord  Kitchener,  who,  to  his  surprise,  knew  all 
about  his  cavalry  ambitions  and  approved  them. 
The  news  that  Rivy  was  to  visit  him  stirred  him 
to  immense  exertions,  for  he  was  determined 
that  the  traveller  should  have  the  best  that  India 
could  offer.  He  was  now  genuinely  in  love  with 
the  country. 

"  It  is  the  best  I've  struck,  once  you've  forgotten  England. 
It  is  not  that  it  is  so  much  cheaper  (which  it  is),  but  the  great 
thing  I  find  is  that  every  one  is  so  much  poorer.  No  bachelor 
seems  to  have  more  than  about  £600  a  year,  and  many  £100,  and 
the  married  about  £2,000.  I  am  looked  on  as  a  Hoggenheimer, 
whereas  in  England  you  contrast  with  fellows  like  Harold 
Brassey.  I  live  like  a  king — servants,  carts,  horses  galore. 
What  more  can  one  want  except  a  wife — but  on  that  point 
there's  a  famine  in  the  land." 


CHAPTER   III. 
1904-1905. 

I  AM  inclined  to  take  the  autumn  of  1904  as  the 
end  of  the  first  clearly  marked  stage  in  the  Twins' 
lives  after  leaving  Eton.  It  was  a  transition  period 
in  which  both  were  trying  to  decide  what  they 
wanted.  Francis  had  not  yet  found  the  military 
groove  best  suited  to  him,  but  he  now  knew  what 
it  was,  and  he  was  on  the  eve  of  acquiring  a  true 
scientific  interest  in  his  profession.  Rivy,  having 
played  about  in  the  City  for  several  years,  had 
acquired  a  good  deal  of  miscellaneous  knowledge, 
which  fell  far  short,  unfortunately,  of  a  rigorous 
business  training.  But  he  had  learned  one  thing — 
the  value  of  education — and  he  was  very  busy 
making  up  leeway.  Indeed,  he  was  educating 
himself  apparently  rather  for  Parliament  than 
for  business,  for  all  his  models  were  orators  and 
statesmen.  Both,  too,  after  experimenting  in  many 
sports,  had  reached  the  conclusion  that  polo  was 
the  game  for  them,  and  were  laboriously  studying 
to  excel. 

H 


54    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Francis  in  India  was  wildly  excited  at  the 
news  of  Rivy's  visit,  and  sketched  the  most  far- 
reaching  programme.  The  whole  sporting  and 
educational  wealth  of  Hindustan  must  be  at  his 
brother's  disposal.  Rivy  hoped  to  arrive  before 
Christmas  and  stay  several  months,  and  this  was 
Francis's  scheme  : — 


"  Go  to  Calcutta.  Stay  with  Curzon  as  Viceroy's  guest. 
Deuce  of  a  dog  !  Just  like  going  to  England  and  staying 
with  the  King.  In  mornings  see  Calcutta  trade.  Afternoon, 
racing ;  see  hundreds  of  pals.  Get  a  little  pig-sticking  (too 
early).  Then  go  to  Cawnpore — biggest  trade  centre  in  India. 
Then  do  Agra,  Delhi,  and  on  to  Pindi ;  see  F.  G. ;  on  to 
Peshawur  and  Khyber  Pass.  Across  to  Quetta  and  see  other 
end  of  frontier.  Back,  play  a  little  polo,  perhaps  Sialkote 
tournament.  Go  to  Lucknow;  play  in  open  tournament  in 
Civil  Service  Cup  race  week.  Pig  stick;  arrange  tiger  shoot. 
If  possible  (doubtful),  you  have  time  to  go  to  Mysore  for  an 
elephant.  This  tiger-shooting  and  pig-sticking  will  take  you 
into  March.  Come  to  Patiala.  If  I  play  for  gth  I  shall  be 
there  practising  for  Inter-Regimental.  Come  to  Meerut 
Inter-Regimental  week.  End  of  March,  compete  in  Kadir 
Cup — pig-sticking,  best  sport  in  the  world.  If  you  only  let 
me  know  in  time,  can  buy  you  three  good  horses.  Train  to 
Bombay ;  arrange  to  see  trade  and  town.  Tip  F.  G.,  get  on 
steamer,  and  leave  about  ist  April,  having  had  best  time  in 
the  world." 


This  delirious  programme  was  not  to  be 
fulfilled.  Rivy  travelled  through  Natal  and  the 
Transvaal,  disliked  Johannesburg,  visited  his 
brother  John's  copper  mine  at  Messina,  north 


A  MEMOIR.  55 

of  Pietersburg,  and  finally  reached  Rhodesia, 
where  he  had  a  little  shooting  and  began  to  enjoy 
himself.  "  Its  crab  is  that  it  is  full  of  English 
gentlemen  instead  of  Jew  boys ;  consequently 
everything  is  run  very  much  a  la  amateur  instead 
of  professional."  But  on  24th  November  he  sat 
down  in  Buluwayo  to  write  Francis  a  melancholy 
letter,  which  is  worth  quoting  for  the  light  it 
casts  on  Rivy's  mind. 

"  I  have  to  write  a  very  sad  letter  to  tell  you  that  I  cannot 
come  to  India  after  all.  The  cursed  City  seems  to  have  turned 
round,  and  a  small  boom  to  be  in  progress.  The  result  is 
that  the  Charter  Trust  want  me  home.  ...  I  have  thoroughly 
thought  the  position  over  the  last  five  days,  and,  greatly 
against  my  will,  decided  to  return. 

"  These  are  the  arguments : — 

"  In  favour  of  staying  my  full  time  in  Rhodesia  and  then 
going  to  India : 

"  (i.)  I  am  comfortably  off,  and  at  present  don't  want 
more  money.  I  am  far  more  anxious  to  be  a  clever  and  common- 
sense  man  with  sufficient  money  than  an  ordinary  rich  '  City 
man  ' ;  and  so  it  is  far  better  for  me  to  travel  and  see  the 
world  and  return  to  England  in  four  months,  which,  after 
all,  is  not  much  time  to  lose,  when  one  has  the  remainder  of 
one's  life  to  spend  in  business. 

"  (2.)  It  is  far  easier  when  you  are  away  from  home  to 
stay  away,  than  it  is  when  you  are  at  home  to  get  leave  to 
go  away. 

"  (3.)  I  went  straight  into  the  City  from  Eton,  with  the 
intention  of  travelling  when  I  was  twenty-three  or  twenty- 
four. 

"  (4.)  I  urgently  want  to  see  you  and  talk  with  you,  Mate. 

"  (5.)  You  have  taken  enormous  trouble  and  expense  on 


56    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

my  behalf,  and  bought  ponies,  and  I  have  bought  a  dashed 
rifle  for  £60  from  John  which  I  don't  want. 

"  (6.)  Clinton  Dawkins  has  sent  me  letters  which  I  sup- 
pose would  help  me  to  go  anywhere. 

"  Arguments  in  favour  of  curtailing  my  stay  here  and 
abandoning  India  : 

"  (i.)  I  have  worked  hard  for  five  years  in  the  City  with 
the  idea  of  making  business  my  career ;  and  to  miss  '  good 
times  '  when  you  have  been  through  the  '  bad  times  '  and 
learned  fairly  thoroughly  your  trade  is  the  same  thing  as  a 
soldier  studying  soldiering  during  a  long  peace  and  then  not 
going  to  the  war  when  the  chance  comes. 

"  (2.)  The  idea  of  my  travelling  in  America  and  Africa 
has  been,  besides  getting  a  good  education,  to  learn  the  oppor- 
tunities that  offer  in  the  countries,  to  turn  them  to  some  good. 
I  have  already  lost  a  good  chance  by  Americans  having  done 
well  (and  especially  the  railways  I  saw)  since  I  have  been  in 
Africa. 

"  (3.)  It  has  been  dashed  good  of  the  Charter  Trust  to 
let  me  go  away  two  years  running  (though  without  a  salary) 
and  see  the  world. 

"  (4.)  In  India  I  should  be  enjoying  myself,  and  should 
learn  nothing  of  business. 

"  (5.)  There  is  a  possibility  of  John  and  Arthur  floating  a 
Copper  Co.  within  the  next  six  months.  Having  learned  all 
about  the  copper,  I  should  look  an  uncommon  fool  if  it  was 
brought  out  and  everybody  made  money  except  you  and  me, 
who  were  playing  polo  in  India. 

"  With  these  opinions,  I  think  it  is  my  duty  to  chuck  my 
pleasure  and  great  desire  and  return  at  once  to  business. 
O  my  God,  Mate,  I  am  sick  about  it  though,  and  fear  you  will 
be  greatly  disappointed." 

So  by  the  end  of  the  year  Rivy  was  back  in 
London,  full  of  large  schemes  of  reading.  In 
South  Africa  he  had  ploughed  his  way  through 


A  MEMOIR.  57 

Lecky's  History,  and  Morley's  Burke  had  whetted 
his  interest  in  that  great  writer.  So  as  soon  as  he 
got  home  he  purchased  Burke  in  twelve  volumes, 
and  Butler's  Sermons,  this  latter  on  the  ground 
that  it  was  a  book  "  that  Chatham,  Pitt,  and  Glad- 
stone studied. "  He  was  very  grateful  for  any 
advice  which  gave  him  a  clue  to  help  him  through 
the  labyrinth  of  his  education.  "  Hugh  Cecil 
told  some  one  that  every  day  of  his  life  he  reads  a 
good  speech  and  tries  to  reason  out  all  the  original 
ideas  which  must  have  brought  the  thoughts  into 
the  speaker's  mind,  and  studies  how  they  begin 
and  end  their  speeches."  Lord  Hugh  was  now  by 
way  of  becoming  his  exemplar  in  many  things — 
"  an  absolute  clinker  and  brilliant  in  every  way  ; 
he  makes  one  roar  with  laughter,  quotes  Shake- 
speare, etc.,  and  makes  most  clever  jokes." 

In  January  1905  he  stayed  at  Hatfield,  and 
wrote  to  Francis  a  long  account  of  his  visit.  The 
Lyttons,  Lady  Mabel  Palmer  (Countess  Grey), 
Miss  Maud  Lyttelton  (Mrs.  Hugh  Wyndham), 
the  Harry  Whites,  Lady  Edward  Cecil,  Lord 
Hugh,  and  George  Peel  were  there. 


"  After  dinner  acted  charades.  They  chose  most  difficult 
words — in  fact,  names  of  people  that  my  education  had  never 
reached — yet  Hugh  Cecil  guessed  every  one.  .  .  .  They  have 
a  most  magnificent  library,  and  a  chapel  bang  in  the  centre 
of  the  house  ;  indeed,  to  go  from  one  end  of  the  house  to  the 


58    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

other  you  have  to  pass  through  the  chapel,  only  the  altar 
being  consecrated.  ...  In  a  quarter  of  an  hour  one  learns 
history  by  simply  walking  through  these  rooms.  ...  It 
seems  to  me  that  people  like  the  Cecils  simply  cannot  help 
being  clever ;  in  each  room  are  pictures  of  Prime  Ministers, 
etc.  Four  of  their  ancestors  have  been  Prime  Ministers  !  .  .  . 
They  fairly  do  teach  their  children.  The  Salisbury  boy,  aged 
eleven,  has  read  nearly  all  the  family  papers.  They  have  a 
little  boy  three  years  old,  and  I  assure  you  he  knows  far 
more  English  poetry  than  me." 

Francis,  too,  was  not  without  his  taste  of 
society.  He  went  to  Calcutta  for  the  Viceroy's 
Cup,  saw  the  races  from  the  Cooch  Behar  box, 
and  dined  with  Lord  Kitchener.  "  Bachelor  din- 
ner,"  he  wrote,  "  and  played  pool  afterwards.  Met 
Hood,*  who  is  in  command  of  a  battleship  here. 
He's  a  proper  good  chap.  Didn't  care  a  damn 
for  Lord  K.  ;  bellowed  at  him  as  if  he  was  Jones. 
Such  a  change  after  frightened  soldiers." 

Rivy's  devotion  to  duty  was  to  be  rewarded. 
On  his  return  to  the  City  he  found  that  he  could 
be  spared  for  a  couple  of  months,  and  on  3rd 
February  he  was  in  the  Dover  train  on  his  way 
to  India,  "  studying  Burke  on  American  Taxa- 
tion." 

Rivy's  Indian  trip  was  one  of  the  most  success- 
ful expeditions  that  ever  fell  to  a  young  man's 

*  Rear- Admiral  Hon.  H.  L.  A.  Hood,  who  went  down  in  the 
Invincible  at  the  Battle  of  Jutland. 


A  MEMOIR.  59 

lot.  Nothing  happened  to  mar  its  perfection, 
and  he  returned  in  three  months,  having  had  his 
fill  of  every  form  of  Indian  sport,  and  having  won 
the  blue  ribbon  of  a  game  which  he  had  never 
tried  before.  He  picked  up  Waldorf  Astor  at 
Brindisi,  and  the  two  of  them  were  deathly  sea- 
sick on  the  voyage  to  Port  Said.  "  Went  to 
dinner,  found  the  captain  and  one  other  out  of 
forty  passengers,  ate  three  courses,  and  was  sick 
between  each/'  is  an  entry  in  his  diary.  He 
arrived  at  Bombay  on  i7th  February,  and  on 
the  i  gth  found  Francis  at  Bareilly.  Francis  had 
grown  a  moustache,  which  just  made  the  Twins 
distinguishable. 

For  the  next  month  Rivy  was  the  intelligent 
tourist  bent  on  seeing  as  many  of  the  sights  as 
were  consistent  with  polo,  pig-sticking,  and  the 
persevering  study  of  Burke.  He  went  first  to 
Agra  ;  then  to  Meerut,  where  he  played  a  good 
deal  of  polo  and  had  his  first  experience  of  pig- 
sticking, riding  Francis's  horse  "  Barmaid  " ;  then 
to  Umballa  to  stay  with  Eustace  Crawley  ;  then 
to  Patiala,  where  the  Settlement  Commissioner, 
Major  Young,  instructed  him  in  Indian  problems, 
and  he  had  a  little  pig-sticking  ;  then  to  Peshawur 
by  way  of  Umballa  and  Lahore.  He  was  back 
in  Lucknow  by  iyth  March,  staying  with  Henry 
Guest,  and  then  on  to  Benares.  At  Bareilly  he 


60    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

went  to  a  "  pig-sticking  week "  with  Francis, 
Henry  Guest,  and  Lord  Charles  Fitzmaurice,  and 
had  four  days  of  it.  His  diary  records  his  dis- 
appointment :  "  Most  of  us  came  to  the  con- 
clusion that  even  if  the  pig  were  there  it  could 
not  be  compared  to  fox-hunting.  One  wants  to 
find  pig  every  fifteen  minutes  to  make  it  really 
amusing.  Another  drawback  to  my  mind  is  that 
when  a  party  goes  out,  if  one  part  enjoys  it  the 
other  members  have  probably  had  no  rides,  and 
so  been  bored  to  death.  Charlie  Fitzmaurice  was 
very  fed  up."  After  that  he  returned  to  Agra 
to  see  the  Pearl  Mosque  again,  and  then  to  Delhi, 
where  he  studied  the  battlefield  of  the  Ridge. 
On  26th  March  he  and  Francis  started  for  the 
ground  of  the  Kadir  Cup  meeting,  which  that 
year  was  held  in  the  Sherpur  country. 

The  Kadir  Cup  is  the  Derby  of  the  sport  of 
pig-sticking,  and  is  run  off  each  spring  in  a  selected 
area  of  jungle.  Rivy  had  been  first  introduced 
to  that  noble  game  exactly  twenty-three  days 
previously,  so  his  boldness  in  competing  may  be 
likened  to  that  of  a  man  who  takes  on  the  master- 
ship of  a  famous  pack  of  hounds  after  a  few 
weeks  in  the  hunting  field,  or  a  novice  who 
leaves  the  jumps  of  a  riding  school  to  ride  in 
the  Grand  National.  I  quote  the  tale  of  his  ex- 
ploit exactly  as  he  wrote  it  in  his  diary.  The  field 


A  MEMOIR.  61 

was  enormous,  there  being  over  a  hundred  com- 
petitors. 

"  26th  March,  Sunday. 

"  Got  to  camp  about  12.30.  Most  delightful  situation. 
Generals  Mahon  *  and  Douglas  Haig  there,  and  we  made 
many  pals.  At  5  p.m.  F.  G.  and  I  went  out  riding  and  schooled 
the  horses,  nearly  slaying  two  wretched  cattle  in  the  attempt. 
Found  a  sow  and  galloped  after  her.  A  jolly  evening,  and 
to  bed  early. 

"  2jth  March,  Monday. 

"  Breakfast  at  6.45.  The  first  round  of  the  Kadir  was  run 
off.  I  drew  General  Mahon  and  Douglas  Haig,  and  rode 
'  Cocos '  first.  We  were  in  the  third  heat,  and  got  away  after 
being  one  hour  on  the  line.  I  was  first  on  to  the  pig,  being 
some  way  in  front ;  but  my  horse  slipped  up  on  the  flat,  and 
so  General  Haig  got  the  spear.  Francis  made  all  the  running 
in  his  heat,  and  won.  We  then  rode  on  an  elephant  and 
watched  the  remaining  heats. 

"  F.  G.  was  beaten  on  position  in  his  second  heat  by 
Barrett.  He  was  first  on  the  pig,  and  did  most  of  the  riding; 
but  it  jinked,  and  Barrett  got  the  spear.  I  was  on  the  line 
for  nearly  three  hours  in  my  second  heat.  We  had  three 
false  starts,  and  lost  our  pig  in  some  very  heavy  goul  after  a 
short  ride.  At  last  we  got  away,  with  every  one  shouting 
at  different  pig  from  the  elephants.  Haig  (again  drawing  the 
same  heat)  and  I  got  on  to  a  very  fast  sow,  and  had  a  heavy 
gallop ;  and  I  speared  her,  only  to  find  we  had  gone  after  the 
wrong  one,  and  the  heat  was  declared  off ! 

"  2&th  March,  Tuesday. 

"  The  line  started  at  8.  Our  heat  was  first  run  off.  We 
were  slipped  up  to  an  old  pig,  and  I,  getting  up  to  him  first, 
soon  speared.  Two  hours  after  I  had  to  run  off  the  next 
round,  in  rather  a  hot  heat  of  Last  and  Kennard.  We  got  a 
good  start  to  a  fast  pig.  'Barmaid'  went  like  a  gun,  and 

*  General  Mahon  had  won  the  Kadir  Cup  in  1888. 


62    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

soon  got  a  long  lead,  and  I  got  first  spear.  F.  G.  drew  White 
and  Learmouth.  He  rode  '  Recluse '  and  cut  out  most  of  the 
work ;  but  the  pig  jinked  right  back,  and  let  in  White,  who 
got  the  spear. 

"  2tyth  March,  Wednesday. 

"  A  red-letter  day  for  me.  The  line  started  at  8.30  for  the 
semi-finals.  Three  heats  were  left  in — two  threes  and  a  four. 
I  was  in  the  four  heat,  composed  of  Barrett  (i5th  Hussars),  Last, 
Neilson  (4th  Hussars),  and  myself.  We  were  quite  two  and  a 
half  hours  on  the  line,  and  had  three  false  starts.  At  last  we 
got  away  to  a  jinking  pig.  Last,  and  I  did  most  of  the  riding, 
with  Barrett  some  way  behind.  Last  nearly  got  a  spear  once, 
and  we  bumped  unavoidably.  The  pig  then  jinked  right 
back  to  Barrett,  who  was  about  to  spear  him,  when  I  came  up 
with  a  rush.  The  pig  jinked  across  my  front ;  he  speared  him 
very  lightly  behind,  while  I  ran  him  through  and  broke  my 
spear.  The  umpire  said  he  would  give  it  to  Barrett  if  he 
could  show  blood,  but  luckily  for  me  he  couldn't.  It  would 
have  been  bad  luck  for  me  if  I  had  lost  this  spear,  as  I  did 
most  of  the  riding.  So  I  qualified  for  the  final.  '  Barmaid ' 
went  wonderfully,  but  got  rather  beat,  as  it  was  a  severe  heat. 

"  On  returning  to  the  line  I  was  met  by  F.  G.  and  General 
Mahon.  F.  G.  then  became  stud  groom.  We  took  '  Barmaid ' 
and  let  her  stand  in  the  river,  and  then  she  had  three  good 
rolls  in  the  sand.  After  an  hour's  rest  we  started  for  the 
final— Prit chard  (and  Lancers)  (on  'Toffee/  the  horse  which 
F.  G.  tried  to  get  me  for  £100,  but  Pritchard  would  only  sell 
'Barmaid'  for  £40),  Ritchie  of  the  I5th,  and  myself.  We 
soon  got  a  good  start  on  a  pig,  and  I  was  on  him  first  and 
drew  some  way  to  the  front,  and  just  got  a  spear  as  he  jumped 
into  a  nullah.  The  mare  jumped  right  over  him  and  knocked 
the  spear,  which  was  smashed,  out  of  my  hand.  The  pig 
carried  my  spear  some  yards.  It  was  a  grand  feeling  as  the 
spear  ran  into  him  to  think  I'd  won  the  Kadir.  Pritchard 
naturally  appealed,  as  I'd  dropped  the  spear,  but  the  com- 
mittee upheld  the  umpire's  decision. 

"  In  the  afternoon  the  Hog-hunter's  Cup,  a  point-to-point 


m 


A  MEMOIR.  63 

over  three  and  a  half  miles,  was  run,  and  F.  G.  won  easily  on 
'  Cocos/  going  a  line  of  his  own  the  whole  way.  This  rather 
made  people  stare,  our  carrying  off  the  two  chief  events  of 
the  day.  F.  G.  and  I  then  went  out  and  found  the  pig  killed 
in  the  final  which  had  been  lost,  and  hacked  thirteen  miles  to 
Gujraula  and  caught  the  train  for  Calcutta.  ...  I  went 
round  to  the  Viceregal  Lodge,  and  found  Nipper  Poynter  as 
A.D.C.  there.  I  shall  never  forget  the  look  of  astonishment 
on  his  face  when  I  told  him  I'd  won  the  Kadir." 


So  much  for  the  interloping  Rivy's  perform- 
ance in  a  "  game  he  did  not  understand."  The 
history  of  the  Kadir  Cup,  and  indeed  of  Indian 
sport,  hardly  contains  a  parallel.  It  was  the 
first  time  that  the  Cup  had  left  India.  He  spent 
the  next  few  weeks  shooting  at  Cooch  Behar 
with  the  Maharajah  and  his  sons,  and  had  a 
variety  of  sport — tiger,  rhino,  and  leopard.  On 
the  whole  he  thought  Indian  shooting  overrated. 
:<  It  is  too  civilized.  *  To  have  been  tiger-shoot- 
ing '  always  sounded  in  my  ears  the  same  as  to 
have  gone  through  a  battle  and  run  great  risks 
of  one's  life.  It  is  not  so.  The  meanest,  most 
diminutive  person  might  as  easily  shoot  twenty 
tigers  as  the  boldest  and  the  fittest.  Yet  it  is  worth 
a  very  long  journey  to  see  the  immense  jungle, 
the  elephants,  and  all  the  wild  and  delightful 
surroundings  of  the  Indian  forests."  He  also 
reflected  a  good  deal  on  the  difficult  question 
,of  the  education  of  Indian  princes  in  England, 


64    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

and  came  to  the  conclusion  that  Lord  Curzon's 
policy  of  discouragement  was  right.  On  22nd 
April  he  bade  a  sad  farewell  to  Francis  at  Bombay, 
and  on  5th  May  he  was  dining  with  Harry  Raw- 
linson,  Lord  Lovat,  and  his  brother  Arthur  in 
London. 

Rivy  spent  most  of  May  in  his  annual  training 
with  the  Bucks  Yeomanry.  In  that  month  of 
gorgeous  weather  he  greatly  enjoyed  himself,  and 
in  his  spare  hours  he  started  a  polo  club  in  the 
regiment.  For  the  rest  his  main  interest  that 
summer  was  polo,  and  he  and  his  brothers  Cecil 
and  Arthur  played  steadily  all  the  season  at  Hurl- 
ingham  and  Roehampton.  To  tell  the  story  of 
those  matches  would  weary  the  reader,  for  of  all 
games  polo  is  the  worst  subject  for  the  resurrec- 
tionist. An  arid  chronicle  of  strokes  and  goals 
achieved  or  missed  cannot  reproduce  the  glamour 
of  those  delectable  days.  A  young  man  living  in 
London  and  regularly  playing  polo  recaptures  the 
delights  of  school  time.  He  is  in  the  pink  of 
bodily  health,  and,  as  a  background  to  his  work 
in  office  or  chambers  or  barracks,  has  that  happy 
world  of  greensward  and  glossy  ponies,  where  of 
an  afternoon  and  a  Saturday  he  pursues  a  sport 
which  combines  the  delicate  expertness  of  the 
tennis  court  and  the  swift  excitement  of  the 


A  MEMOIR.  65 

hunting  field.  Rivy  had  a  most  successful  season. 
"  My  record,"  he  wrote  in  September,  "  is  cer- 
tainly not  bad,  considering  I  have  only  played 
'  for  three  years.  I  have  won  the  Novice's  Cup, 
the  Junior  Championship  (besides  being  in  the 
final  twice),  the  Roehampton  Cup  twice,  and  the 
Rugby  Open  Cup,  besides  most  of  the  London 
Handicap  Tournaments." 

In  May  Francis  attained  the  desire  of  his 
heart  and  joined  the  Qth  Lancers.  Just  before 
leaving  he  had  become  very  keen  on  his  work 
with  the  6oth,  and  was  busy  lecturing  to  his 
company.  '  By  Jove,"  he  wrote,  "  soldiering 
is  interesting  when  you  train  the  men  yourself. 
...  I  think  I  know  Clive  nearly  by  heart,  and 
if  only  I  could  get  hold  of  a  picture  of  him,  I 
could  imagine  him  walking  about.  I  lectured  the 
men  on  him,  which  they  liked  very  much."  At 
last  came  the  moment  of  parting. 

"  I  left  the  regiment  on  Wednesday,  and  dined  on  Tuesday 
as  a  guest  at  a  small  farewell  dinner.  I  am  bound  to  say  when 
the  time  came  I  was  most  awfully  sorry  to  go.  It  seemed  so 
funny  to  think  that  with  the  morrow  I  would  be  no  more  a 
Rifleman,  and  1  fear  for  a  while  I  became  like  Amelia  and  could 
not  restrain  the  bitter  tear.  I  think  they  were  all  sorry  I 
left.  It  is  a  consolation  to  think  I  leave  behind  me  no  regrets, 
as  I  have  never  had  words  with  any  one." 

' 
A  few  days  later  : — 

(2,187)  R 


66    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

"  Here  I  am,  R.  G.,  at  last  a  cavalry  soldier,  and  as  happy 
as  any  millionaire  or  cheery  bankrupt  (whichever  of  the  two 
is  the  happiest).  I  am  already  attaining  the  cavalry  air — 
slap  my  leg,  wear  spurs  with  no  end  of  a  rattle,  and  discuss 
the  infantry  rather  like  we  Etonians  used  to  talk  of  the  boys 
at  Westminster  !  ...  Of  course,  R.  G.,  I  know  that  I  join 
on  most  favourable  conditions,  as  all  the  men  and  N.C.O/s 
have  heard  about  the  polo,  and  about  the  second  day  after 
my  arrival  every  London  paper  contained  an  enormous  picture 
of  R.  G.  This  has  been  a  great  topic  here,  as  all  the  regiment 
think  it  is  me  ! 

"  To-day  the  farrier-corporal  of  my  troop,  who  has  been 
shoeing  my  ponies,  said  they  were  the  finest  lot  of  cattle  he 
had  seen.  Then  says  he,  '  You've  got  a  terrible  wonderful 
name  for  polo  in  the  regiment,  sir/  So  you  see  I  have  joined 
with  trumpets  sounding  and  drums  beating,  and  already  I 
find  that  my  chief  difficulty  is  not  from  want  of  feeling  at 
home,  but  from  being  too  much  at  home  to  keep  a  back  seat. 
However,  I  mean  to  keep  a  back  seat  until  I  know  my  job 
and  have  got  the  measure  of  all  officers." 

The  Ninth  at  the  time  were  commanded  by 
Claude  Willoughby,  who  had  married  Francis's 
old  friend,  Miss  Sybil  Murray  of  Loch  Carron. 
Francis's  squadron  leader  was  Lord  Frederick 
Blackwood.  The  change  woke  all  his  military 
ambitions.  "  I  am  going  to  try,  now  I  am  settled 
down,  for  two  stages — (i)  to  be  adjutant  of  this 
regiment ;  (2)  to  go  to  the  Staff  College.  .  .  .  11 
find  my  four  years  with  the  6oth  have  been  an 
invaluable  experience,  as  I  have  that  confidence 
which  all  possess  who  think  they  have  been 
taught  in  a  better  school.  Though  I  have  been 


A  MEMOIR.  67 

here  only  a  fortnight,  I  find  there  are  several, 
who  are  supposed  to  be  teaching  me,  that  I 
could  teach.  But  I  am  doing  my  utmost  to 
keep  my  mouth  shut  and  learn  all  I  can.  The 
N.C.O.'s  and  men  are  first  class — a  much  better 
class  than  the  infantry.  Of  course  I  find  the 
riding  chaps  superior  in  the  same  way  as  we 
fox-hunters  think  the  huntsman  superior  to  the 
gamekeeper.  If  you  can't  grasp  my  meaning,  it 
would  take  me  so  much  time  to  explain  that  you 
would  become  weary,  so  I  will  leave  you  in  dark- 
ness. The  difference  between  the  cavalry  and 
the  infantry  soldier  is  the  same  as  the  difference 
between  Tom  Firr  or  Thatcher  and  the  leading 
gamekeeper,  or  between  the  huntsman  of  the 
O.B.H.  and  Tom  Boon.  Both,  of  course,  do  their 
work  equally  well,  but  one  is  the  nicer  to  deal 
with."  And  at  the  end  he  becomes  humbler. 
'  By  Jove,  R.  G.,  I  have  never  appreciated  before 
the  good  fortune  and  kindness  we  receive  from 
the  Almighty.  Here  am  I,  a  good  rider  and  very 
fond  of  it,  yet  I  ride  only  the  best  horses.  But 
some  of  the  men  !  A  man  is  given  a  horse  known 
to  be  next  door  to  impossible.  Some  cannot  ride, 
and  are  frightened  to  death.  Yet  they  must  ride 
over  the  jumps  horses  that  cannot  jump,  pull  and 
probably  run  away." 

Francis  shared  a  house  at  Rawal  Pindi  with 


68    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Lord  F.  Blackwood,  and  boasted  of  its  comfort, 
its  quiet,  and  the  opulence  of  its  chintzes.  He 
compared  it  to  its  advantage  with  the  Bath  Club, 
where  Rivy  had  now  gone  to  live.  But  in  July 
he  found  a  crumpled  leaf  in  his  bed  of  roses. 
"  R.  G.,  you  made  '  in  theory '  to  me,  some  years 
ago,  the  observation  that  it  was  in  the  end  better 
to  live  by  oneself  and  not  share  a  house  with  a 
pal.  What  you  said  in  theory  I  have  been  through 
in  practice.  Old  Freddie  has  just  returned.  The 
first  thing  I  spied  among  his  kit  was  a  gramophone. 
He  turns  it  on  morning,  noon,  and  night.  It  is 
quite  comical.  Old  Freddie  is  one  of  the  best, 
but  he  sits,  at  the  age  of  thirty,  the  whole  day 
listening  to  the  same  old  tune,  the  same  old  story, 
the  same  old  *  Bull  and  Bush.'  ...  I  am  trying 
to  work  in  spite  of  the  heat,  Freddie  and  his 
gramophone." 

He  worked  to  some  purpose.  "  I  must  say," 
he  wrote  in  August,  "  I  like  working  far  more 
than  anything  else  when  I  am  at  it."  He  stuck 
steadily  to  his  books,  and  I  find  him  offering  to 
send  Rivy  "  a  clinking  book  of  notes  on  strategy 
of  Jap.  War,  stolen  from  Lord  K."  He  was  de- 
voted to  the  Commander-in- Chief,  from  whom 
he  purloined  books.  Reggie  Barnes  *  told  him  of 

*  Now  Major-General  Sir  R.  Barnes ;  commanded  the  West  Lanes 
(Territorial)  Division  in  France. 


A  MEMOIR.  69 

Lord  Kitchener's  methods  of  work — information 
which  he  passed  on  to  Rivy.  "  He  is  up  at  6 
every  day,  and  writes  till  8.30  ;  then  on  after 
breakfast  till  2,  and  then  two  hours  in  afternoon. 
All  his  correspondence  is  done  by  his  A.D.C.'s, 
who  typewrite  for  him — either  Fitzgerald,  Victor 
(Brooke),  or  Reggie  ;  he  never  gives  anything  to 
a  clerk,  so  that  nothing  leaks  out."  In  October 
Lord  Kitchener  lunched  with  the  Ninth.  "  I 
think  he  likes  us  awfully.  His  first  remark  is 
always,  '  Hullo  !  how  are  the  Ninth  ?  Been 
killing  any  more  black  men  ?  '  "  In  the  Curzon- 
Kitchener  controversy  Francis,  of  course,  took 
the  soldier's  side  and  upheld  the  military  against 
the  civil  arm  ;  but  he  had  a  great  regard  for  the 
new  Viceroy,  Lord  Minto — "  a  sporting  fellow 
who  has  ridden  three  times  in  the  Grand 
National,  and  one  of  the  few  living  who  has 
broken  his  neck  steeplechasing."  At  the  end  of 
October  he  had  the  pleasure  of  informing  Rivy 
that  he  had  come  out  top  in  the  first  part  of 
his  examination,  and  had  won  a  certificate  of 
distinction. 

Upon  this  Francis,  who  had  suffered  a  good 
deal  from  Rivy's  scathing  comments  on  his  lec- 
tures, especially  the  celebrated  one  on  Clive, 
thought  it  was  time  for  him  to  adopt  the  role  of 
mentor.  So  he  thus  addresses  his  brother  :— 


yo    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

"  Now  for  business.  What  good  are  you  doing  in  the 
City? 

"  I  have  been  thinking  about  you  and  your  future  pros- 
pects for  some  time,  and  I  have  quite  come  to  the  opinion 
that  you  are  wasted  hunting  for  money.  In  England  people 
are  very  narrow-minded,  and  the  ruling  idea  (especially  in 
our  family)  is  that  one  must  be  rich. 

"  I  am  beginning  to  think  otherwise.  To  be  rich  is  very 
nice,  but  you  are  no  happier,  and  you  do  your  country  no 
good.  Both  C.  and  A.  have  been  successful,  but  beyond 
buying  extra  hunters,  deer  forests,  and  houses,  to  me  they 
have  not  attained  a  very  high  position.  I  would  rather  you 
chucked  the  City.  I  think  you  should  enter  Parliament  and 
work  your  way  to  the  Cabinet ;  I  would  far  rather  you  suc- 
ceeded in  politics  than  in  the  City. 

"  You  know  Hugh  Cecil,  Milner,  and  Co.  They  should 
all  give  you  advice.  I  hope  you  will  think  this  over,  and  that 
your  thoughts  will  be  guided  rather  by  the  amount  you  will 
help  the  nation  than  by  the  amount  wjth  which  you  will  fill 
your  pocket. 

"  As  we  stand  at  present  we  have  not  done  badly  : — 

"The  Uncle.       .       .       .  General 

"  Uncle  Harry      .       .       .  Admiral. 

"  First  Cousin  Jack  Maxwell  General. 

"  Harold       ..."     .  Colonel. 

"  R.  G.  .       .       .       .       .  Winner  of  Kadir. 

"  F.  G „       „  Championship. 

"Cecil   .       .       •       •       •  2nd  in  National. 

"  It  is  about  time  the  City  chaps  gingered  up  !  Chuck  the 
City  and  become  Minister  of  War,  and  I  will  get  on  the  Army 
Council  to  help  you/1 

To  this  flattering  injunction  Rivy  replied : — 
"  You  discuss  in  your  letter  my  future.     I,  oddly  enough, 


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have  been  thinking  this  over  for  some  months.  In  fact,  ever 
since  I've  travelled  and  read  I  have  more  and  more  seen  that 
money  is  not  everything,  and  my  feeling  has  been  politics 
and  not  business.  But  I  am  convinced  of  one  thing — that 
the  greatest  mistake  one  can  make  is  to  go  into  politics  without 
being  exceedingly  well  furnished,  having  determined  absolutely 
on  your  principles,  and  feeling  that  you  are  prepared  to  back 
them  up  with  all  earnestness,  and,  so  to  speak,  with  your  life. 
Now,  many  people  enter  Parliament  as  Tories  because  their 
fathers  were  Tories,  and  then  find,  after  some  years,  that  they 
did  not  know  what  Tories  and  Liberals  were,  and  that  their 
whole  sentiments  are  really  Liberal;  just  as  you  entered  the 
infantry  because  your  uncle  was  there,  and  found  later  you 
were  born  for  cavalry. 

"  I  really  inwardly  don't  know  whether  I  am  Tory  or 
Liberal,  Free  Trader  or  Protectionist,  and  so  I  have  decided 
to  stay  on  in  the  City  and  earn  a  good  living,  but -shall  not 
do  more  work  than  I  find  necessary  there.  I  have  been  fear- 
fully slack  about  business  in  the  last  six  weeks,  and  read  history 
whenever  I  got  a  chance.  In  this  way  I  hope  in  about  five 
years  to  have  thoroughly  mastered  the  various  opinions  and 
principles  of  our  political  leaders,  and  traced  through  history 
how  those  opinions  came  to  be  formed,  and  discovered  whether 
I  agree  with  them.  At  the  same  time  I  shall  have  my  busi- 
ness, which  will,  therefore,  make  my  reading  a  hobby,  and  I 
shall  be  building  up  some  capital,  and  shall,  if  I  want  to, 
enter  politics  well  furnished  and  keen  and  prepared  to  join 
in  the  contest ;  whereas  so  many  people  who  start  politics  at 
twenty-five  are  bored  with  them  at  thirty-three.  Chamberlain 
never  entered  till  he  was  forty.  ...  I  shall  gradually  try  to  get 
to  know  fellows  of  the  Hugh  Cecil  class,  but  I  want  them  to  see 
me  as  an  earnest,  hard-working  chap,  not  as  a  stupid  stay-at- 
country-houses-go-to-balls  sort  of  idiot." 


Rivy  certainly  read  all  that  year  with  praise- 
worthy  persistence.    He    seems    to   have    found 


72    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

novels  a  toughish  proposition,  and  generally  notes 
in  his  diary  how  he  set  his  teeth  and  plugged 
away  till  he  finished  one.  For  example  :  "  I  have 
finished  Vanity  Fair.  Read  like  a  Trojan  for  four 
days.  It  is  a  good  book.  I  never  thought  Rebecca 
would  turn  out  such  a  hot  'un."  Burke,  on  the 
other  hand,  had  power  to  make  him  forget  time 
and  place,  as  witness  this  entry  :  "  Wednesday  I 
was  to  have  gone  to  a  ball,  but  after  dinner  began 
reading  my  Burke,  and  am  ashamed  to  say  that 
I  read  till  245  a.m."  In  a  letter  to  Francis,  in 
which  he  made  hay  of  the  prose  style  of  that 
laborious  soldier,  he  bids  him  have  recourse  to 
Burke,  "who,  though  elaborate,  is  the  finest 
example  of  the  English  language."  Rivy,  indeed, 
about  this  time  had  a  curious  passion  for  serious 
writers,  and  does  not  seem  to  have  needed  the 
work  on  "  Concentration  "  with  wrhich  Mrs.  Corn- 
wallis-West  presented  him.  At  Eaton,  "  where 
there  is  a  fine  but  ugly  library  that  no  one  uses 
but  me,"  he  read  Venus  and  Adonis,  which  he 
considered  "  delightful,  and  fine  English."  He 
studied  the  Iliad  in  Pope's  translation,  largely 
during  working  hours  in  his  City  office.  "It  is 
a  first-class  book,  full  of  descriptions  of  battles, 
great  orations  of  generals,  both  before  and  dur- 
ing a  battle,  and  wonderful  deeds  of  the  heroes 
interested,  who  slay  everybody."  He  copied 


A  MEMOIR.  73 

extracts  from  Bacon's  Essays  to  send  to  Francis  to 
point  his  lectures  to  his  troops.  He  considered 
Morley's  Life  of  Gladstone  "  a  delightful  book  ' 
(an  epithet  almost  as  unexpected  as  Raymond 
Asquith's  answer  to  the  stock  question  as  to 
whether  he  had  read  that  formidable  work ;  his 
reply  was,  "Often").  At  the  end  of  December 
he  mentions  that  in  the  previous  three  months 
he  had  got  through  "  history  up  to  1860  ;  Vanity 
Fair ;  Homer's  Iliad  (five  volumes)  ;  Grenville 
Papers  (three  volumes)  ;  Life  of  Macaulay ;  a 
fair  sprinkling  of  Burke's  speeches  and  his  Life 
by  Morley  ;  Shakespeare's  Merchant  of  Venice 
(twice)  ;  S.'s  Julius  Ccesar  ;  Europe  and  Asia,  by 
Townsend ;  Oliver  Twist ;  a  little  of  Childe 
Harold ;  a  book  on  Napoleon's  strategy." 

In  addition  to  this  miscellaneous  reading,  he 
discovered  a  restless  interest  in  military  history, 
and  worked  as  if  he  had  had  the  Staff  College  in 
prospect.  All  during  the  autumn  and  winter  he 
was  coached  by  Dr.  Miller  Maguire  in  the  strategy 
and  tactics  of  famous  campaigns — an  arrangement 
in  which  Francis  joined  later,  and  which  continued 
right  up  to  the  outbreak  of  the  Great  War. 

But  the  "  earnest,  hard-working  chap  "  was  not 
averse  to  the  country-house  visits  and  balls  from 
which  we  have  seen  that  he  desired  his  name  to 
be  dissociated.  On  yth  June  he  writes : — 


74    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

"  Went  to  a  first-class  show  at  Londonderry  House.  Talk 
about  the  Patiala  jewels  !  One  would  not  have  noticed  them. 
The  King  and  Queen  and  King  Alfonso  of  Spain  were  there. 
I  got  hold  of  Sybil  Grey,  who  is  just  back  from  Canada,  and 
we  pushed  our  way  through  the  people  ;  stared  at  kings  and 
queens,  elbowed  princes,  jostled  dukes,  stepped  on  mar- 
quises, ignored  earls  and  generals,  and  as  for  commoners  we 
treated  them  like  dirt.  It  really  was  capital  fun.  I  found 
innumerable  pals,  and  had  a  lot  of  chaff.  The  King  amused 
me  very  much.  He  is  a  grand  old  John  Bull,  and  had  a 
broad  grin  on  his  face  from  beginning  to  end.  The  King  of 
Spain  is  a  nice-looking  young  man  of  nineteen.  I  met  Miss 
Whitelaw  Reid.  Her  father  has  just  come  over  as  American 
Ambassador.  He  has  taken  Dorchester  House,  and  I  fancy 
pays  about  £8,000  a  year  for  it.  She  said,  '  I  have  not  yet 
explored  the  whole  house,  but  I  guess  you  could  just  slide 
grandly  down  those  stairs  on  a  tea-tray/  ' 

On  Qth  June : — 

"  I  met  Harry  Dalmeny,  who  amused  me  very  much. 
What  an  extraordinary  chap  he  is  !  Everybody  who  plays 
county  cricket  sweats  blood  and  goes  to  bed  about  10.  Not 
so  Harry.  He  went  to  a  ball  on  Friday  night  and  stayed  till 
3  in  the  morning.  Next  day  he  played  against  Essex, 
and  knocked  up  sixty-five  runs  in  about  an  hour." 

On  1 5th  July  he  was  staying  at  Buckhurst 
with  the  Robin  Bensons. 

"  We  had  a  jolly  party — Sybil  Grey,  Miss  Brodrick, 
Paul  Phipps,  Geoffrey  Howard,  Douglas  Loch  and  his  new 
wife,  and  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Asquith,  the  latter  a  most  charming 
lady.  I  asked  her  how  Asquith  spent  his  time,  to  which  she 
replied  by  going  into  the  minutest  details.  She  told  me  he 
earned  £5,000  a  year  at  the  Bar  (I  always  thought  he  earned 


A  MEMOIR.  75 

about  £14,000),  but  he  is  prohibited  by  his  Parliamentary 
duties  from  undertaking  certain  cases.  She  told  me  he  lived 
entirely  by  rules.  He  gets  up  at  8.45,  and  is  at  his  chambers 
or  in  the  Courts  by  10.30,  and  works  there  till  5.  He  then 
goes  to  the  House  of  Commons  and  stays  till  8,  when  he 
returns  for  dinner  ;  he  then  goes  back  to  the  House  till  12. 
After  that,  regularly  for  every  day  of  his  life,  he  reads  for  two 
hours.  Supposing  he  goes  to  a  party  and  does  not  return  till 
2,  he  still  sits  up  and  reads  for  two  hours,  either  his  briefs 
or  some  serious  book,  and  finishes  up  with  a  novel  in  bed.  In 
discussing  certain  people  she  told  me  that  Arthur  Balfour 
was  not  very  well  educated  in  the  ordinary  sense.  I  wonder 
what  she  would  say  about  you  and  me,  F.  G.  She  would 
probably  compare  our  brains  with  an  Irishman's  whisky 
bottle — empty. ' ' 

In  August  he  went  to  the  Westminsters  at 
Eaton  for  a  polo  week.  The  house  he  thought 
"  the  most  enormous  place  I  was  ever  in,  but 
dreadfully  ugly,  just  like  the  Natural  History 
Museum  with  two  wings  added  to  it."  "  G. 
Wyndham  (War  Minister)  came  over  every  day 
and  brought  Hugh  Cecil.  The  latter  was  much 
interested,  and  said  he  'admired  the  bravery  of 
the  players,  while  he  sat  like  a  miserable  weed  in 
a  tent.' '  In  the  beginning  of  September  he  was 
in  Ireland,  staying  with  Lord  Grenfell  at  the  Royal 
Hospital,  and  playing  a  good  deal  of  polo.  After 
that  he  went  to  Ashby  St.  Ledgers  to  stay  with 
Ivor  Guest,  where  the  conversation  must  have 
been  curious.  "  Ivor  started  an  argument  after 
dinner  which  continued  for  about  three  and  a  half 


76    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

hours  on :  *  Granted  that  one's  time  is  limited,  is 
it  better  to  read  all  the  masterpieces  once  and 
then  read  them  through  again,  rather  than  read 
the  masterpieces  and  then  the  sidelights  referring 
to  them  ?  '  Ivor  argued  that  a  man  would  do 
best  to  read  the  masterpieces  only,  whereas 
Winston  and  Lytton  said  it  was  better  to  read 
other  books  as  well,  so  as  to  check  the  master- 
pieces, for  many  people  learned  far  more  from 
outside  books  than  from  the  very  highest  au- 
thorities." There  is  also  this  note  :  "  Winston 
Churchill  is  undoubtedly  exceedingly  able,  but 
if  you  mention  a  subject  to  him  he  instantly  must 
go  into  an  oration.  We  talked  of  the  Curzon- 
Kitchener  methods.  He  went  into  an  oration 
about  the  Commander-in-Chief  being  an  autocrat, 
and  its  danger,  etc.  By-and-by  I  discovered  that 
neither  Winston  nor  Ivor  had  read  a  word  of  any 
of  the  Blue  Books  on  the  subject."  From  Ashby 
St.  Ledgers  he  went  to  Polesden  Lacey  to  stay 
with  Sir  Clinton  Dawkins,  and  there  he  met  Lord 
Milner,  who  was  gradually  taking  place  along  with 
Lord  Hugh  Cecil  as  the  chief  object  of  his  ad- 
miration in  public  life. 

In  pursuance  of  the  political  training  which 
he  had  laid  down  for  himself,  Rivy  began  that 
autumn  to  practise  speaking.  There  was  then  a 
great  revival  of  interest  in  politics  in  England. 


A  MEMOIR.  77 

Mr.  Balfour's  Government  was  known  to  be  on 
the  eve  of  resignation,  and  everywhere  caucuses 
were  girding  their  loins  and  getting  ready  for  a 
general    election.     In    spite    of    his    cross-bench 
professions,  Rivy  found  himself  ranging  with  the 
Unionists.      Most    of   his    friends   were    of   that 
persuasion  ;    he  was  an  ardent  Imperialist ;    he 
seems  to  have  been  a  convinced,  though  imper- 
fectly informed,  Tariff   Reformer  ;    and   he  had 
strong  views  on  that  question  of  Chinese  Labour 
in  South  Africa  which  was  to  play  so  sinister  a 
part  at  the  polls.    His  first  adventure  in  oratory 
was  not  very  successful.    On   i8th  October  he 
writes  in  his  diary  :    "  Went  to  a  debate  at  the 
London  School  of  Economics,  and  spoke  for  ten 
minutes    on    '  Unpopularity    of   Railways  '  ;   was 
called  to  order  for  straying  from  the  subject ;  had 
to  read  most  of  my  speech/'    His  next  attempt 
was  more  fortunate.    "  Attended  meeting  at  Brix- 
ton,  and  spoke  for  thirty-five  minutes  on  Imperial 
Responsibilities  in  South  Africa.    Biggest  attempt 
I  have  yet  made.    Knew  the  speech  so  well  I 
hardly  had  to  look  at  my  notes.     George  Bowles 
in  the  chair.     Capital  fun.    A  band,  and  a  very 
jolly  evening."    He  also  lectured  somewhere  on 
Conscription,  and  sent  his  MS.  to  Francis,  who 
replied  thus  :    "I  have  read  your  lecture.    What 
must   have   struck   all   who   heard   it,   and   what 


78    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

struck  me  most  when  I  read  it,  was,  how  you 
could  have  said  so  much  and  touched  so  little 
on  the  real  subject." 

On  5th  December,  during  that  uneasy  time 
when  Sir  Henry  Campbell-Bannerman  was  form- 
ing his  new  Ministry,  Rivy  went  to  stay  at  Hat- 
field.  His  account  of  his  visit  deserves  quotation. 

"  Tuesday. 

"  A  large  party,  including  Asquith  and  Mrs.,  Mrs.  Laurence 
Drummond,  Etty  Grenfell  [Lady  Desborough],  Revelstoke, 
Lord  and  Lady  Kenmare  and  Lady  Dorothy  Browne,  General 
Broadwood,  Arthur  Strutt,  Lady  Airlie  and  Lady  Kitty 
Ogilvie,  Dick  Cavendish  and  Lady  Moira,  Miss  Claire  Stop- 
ford,  Edward  Packe,  Micky  Hicks-Beach,  Hugh  Cecil,  and  a 
very  nice  Miss  Asquith.  After  dinner  the  older  ones  played 
bridge,  and  we  played  stupid  games  like  '  snap.'  My  God ! 
Hugh  Cecil  did  make  me  laugh ;  he  is  the  most  amusing  fellow 
you  ever  saw. 

"  Wednesday. 

"  Most  of  the  party  went  up  to  London,  except  four  of  us 
who  shot  partridges.  I  should  have  done  better  if  I  had 
thrown  my  gun  at  the  birds  instead  of  shooting  at  them.  At 
dinner  I  took  in  Miss  Asquith.  Afterwards  I  had  a  long  yarn 
with  Hugh  Cecil  about  politics.  We  discussed  elections  and 
arguing  with  the  working  man.  He  told  me  that  what  gen- 
erally happened  was  that  you  visited  the  working  man  and 
employed  the  finest  arguments  for  about  half  an  hour,  and 
the  only  reply  you  got  was,  '  Oh  yes,  I  quite  understand. 
You  have  been  very  well  educated,  and  I  don't  believe  a 
word  you  say.'  After  dinner  we  did  a  sort  of  dumb  crambo 
acting,  and  I  talked  politics  with  Miss  Asquith,  who  is  ex- 
tremely clever  and,  of  course,  full  of  politics. 

"  In  the  smoking-room  Asquith  and  H.  Cecil  discussed 
the  various  bishops  ! 


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"  Thursday. 

"  We  went  pheasant-shooting.  I  shot  very  badly.  There 
were  a  lot  of  birds ;  we  got  300.  After  tea  I  played 
bridge  against  the  future  Chancellor  of  the  Exchequer.  We 
dressed  up  for  dinner  in  fancy  dress,  and  had  a  cotillon  after- 
wards. I  went  as  a  toreador. 

"  I  made  great  pals  with  Mrs.  Asquith.  I  do  not  know 
if  you  know  her,  but  she  is  an  absolute  clinker.  She  dressed 
up  as  a  Spanish  dancer,  and  did  a  pas  seul  before  us  all.  What 
will  people  say  in  about  twenty  years  when  they  hear  this  ! 
The  leading  lady  of  the  Government  dancing  a  pas  seul,  while 
the  Chancellor  of  the  Exchequer  looked  on  !  Hugh  Cecil 
said  he  thought  he  had  dislocated  the  inner  organs  of  his 
body  from  laughter. 

"  And  now  for  secrets.  .  .  .  [Here  follow  certain  matters 
which  have  long  ago  been  made  public.]  Read  to-day's 
Times,  F.  G.  There  is  about  half  a  column  on  the  political 
situation,  which  gives  you  much  of  what  I  have  written 
above.  Asquith  was  fearfully  perturbed  about  how  they 
got  hold  of  it,  for  only  six  people  knew  the  situation — himself, 
Grey,  Haldane,  C.-B.,  Morley,  Tweedmouth,  and  (proclaim 
it  to  your  ancestors  !)  R.  G. 

"  Mrs.  Asquith  told  me  that  Asquith  had  had  a  terrible 
two  days.  The  Liberals,  having  been  out  for  ten  years,  of 
course  owe  honours  to  a  great  number  of  people.  Innumer- 
able people  had  called  on  him  and  implored  him  to  give  them 
something — men  whose  whole  lives  have  been  given  up  to 
working  for  the  party,  and  now  there  is  nothing  for  them. 
This  to  some  of  them  meant  a  career  finished.  So  you  see 
that  even  being  Chancellor  of  the  Exchequer  and  having  the 
making  of  a  Government  isn't  altogether  honey. 

"  Here  is  an  amusing  story  of  Lady  Curzon.  The  day 
after  Curzon  arrived  there  was  a  bad  accident  at  Charing 
Cross.  Half  the  roof  fell  in,  owing  to  a  girder  snapping.  Lady 
Curzon  said  wittily  that  '  Brodrick  must  have  cut  that  girder 
on  purpose,  but — so  like  him — was  a  day  late  !  ' 

"  Had  there  not  been  this  crisis,  the  party  at  Hatfield  was 


8o    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

to  have  included  Austen  Chamberlain  and  Balfour  ;  but  they 
had  to  stay  in  London  to  pack  up  their  belongings.  We  had 
great  chaff,  as  Austen  C.  was  packing  up  to  let  the  Asquiths 
in.  They  told  me  an  amusing  story  that  happened  last 
summer.  Hugh  Cecil  and  Austen  Chamberlain  had  a  race 
on  trays  along  a  gallery.  Cecil  slipped  off  his  tray  and  won 
without  it.  The  judge  at  the  end  of  the  room  said,  '  The  Free 
Trader  has  won/  '  Yes/  says  Cecil,  '  but  he  has  lost  his  seat 
in  doing  it !  '  " 

In  the  same  letter  Rivy  gives  Francis  a  piece 
of  advice  most  characteristic  of  the  attitude  of 
both  the  Twins  to  life.  They  were  devotees  of 
the  "  grand  manner,"  which  appears  to  do  things 
easily  and  without  effort,  however  much  laborious 
spade-work  may  be  done  in  secret.  Francis  is 
adjured  to  study  the  hill  tribes  against  a  possible 
frontier  campaign  in  the  next  two  years.  "  Do 
not  tell  anybody  what  you  are  about.  For  some 
reason  or  other  people  are  always  inclined  to 
think  a  person  who  does  anything  from  instinct 
more  wonderful  than  if  he  has  practised  at  it 
first ;  just  as  you  hear,  *  Isn't  it  wonderful  how 
So-and-so  plays  polo  so  well,  and  never  practises 
at  all  ?  ' — whereas,  as  a  matter  of  fact,  the  said 
person  has  been  years  practising.  Demosthenes 
was  renowned  for  his  impromptu  speeches.  In 
reality,  he  had  an  underground  chamber  full  of 
looking-glasses,  where  he  used  to  rehearse  every 
single  speech  that  he  made — for  weeks,  and  some- 
times years." 


CHAPTER  IV. 
1906-1907. 

To  Rivy,  as  to  most  people  in  England,  the  ab- 
sorbing question  in  the  first  months  of  1906  was 
politics.  Seeing  a  fight  approaching,  he  conceived 
it  his  duty  to  hurl  himself  into  the  thick  of  it. 
He  had  lessons  in  elocution,  and  discovered 
that  he  breathed  badly  ;  so  he  promptly  had  his 
adenoids  removed,  and,  a  little  later,  a  broken 
bone  taken  from  his  nose.  When  convalescent 
he  went  to  stay  at  Eaton  with  the  Duke  of  West- 
minster, who  had  returned  that  morning  from 
South  Africa.  There  he  found  a  large  party,  and 
had  some  good  shooting  and  hunting.  "  Imagine 
the  change  of  times.  The  meet  was  twenty-six 
miles  away,  and  formerly  they  had  to  catch  the 
8.50  train,  and  did  not  get  back  until  9  at  night. 
Yesterday  Bend  Or  and  I  and  John  Fowler,  with 
Bend  Or  driving,  went  in  a  new  motor  car  he  had 
just  bought  of  100  horse-power  that  could  go 
ninety  miles  an  hour.  It  certainly  frightened  the 
life  out  of  me.  We  were  supposed  to  start  at 


(2,187)  81 


82    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

10,  but  started  at  10.25,  and  arrived  first  at  the 
meet  at  10.55.  .  .  .  Wilfred  Ricardo  was  in  fine 
form.  He  made  me  roar  at  breakfast  one  morning, 
when,  owing  to  his  not  having  a  horse,  he  was 
going  out  snipe-shooting.  '  To  think — ah — that 
I — ah — am  forty  years  old  and  have  never  shot  a 
snipe !  I  feel  the  same  sort  of  sensation  that 
these  big-game  shooters  must  know  when  they 
are  approaching  the  tracks  of  a  rhino.'  " 

After  that,  in  Rivy's  phrase,  "  everything  was 
elections." 


"  I  thought  it  a  rare  chance,  so  have  been  hard  at  it.  On 
Monday  I  went  to  a  meeting  of  1,500  beyond  King's  Cross. 
The  Conservative  candidate  spoke,  but  they  booed  and 
shouted  and  yelled  to  such  an  extent  that  he  had  to  give  it 
up,  and  I  did  not  speak.  Five  were  chucked  out.  Such 
remarks  as  these  :  '  Hold  your  jaw ! '  '  Shut  your  mouth ! ' 
'  Chuck  him  out ! '  '  Where's  Joey  ?  '  '  Pigtails  ! '  amused 
me  much.  Tuesday  another  meeting  at  Bow,  in  the  East 
End.  Much  more  quiet.  The  candidate  spoke  so  long  and 
was  asked  so  many  questions  that  I  only  spoke  about  six 
minutes.  Wednesday  went  down  to  Enfield,  in  Essex,  and 
found  a  huge  meeting  of  2,000.  Felt  in  the  deuce  of  a  funk 
for  a  minute.  There  was  a  perpetual  uproar  of  '  No  Chinese  ! ' 
'  Pigtail ! '  etc.  The  candidate  spoke  for  three-quarters  of  an 
hour,  and  then  they  howled  him  down.  Then  R.  G.  spoke 
for  twenty  minutes  amid  a  continual  roar.  I  had  to  wait 
half  this  time  while  they  yelled  at  me.  Rare  good  fun.  On 
such  occasions  one  is  not  a  bit  nervous,  only  pining  for  them  to 
stop  and  then  give  them  hell.  The  speaker  after  me  began  : 
'  Ladies  and  gentlemen  '  (roars) — '  Gentlemen'  (roars) — 'Gentle- 
men and  others  '  (laughter  and  uproar).  After  interruption — 


A  MEMOIR.  83 

'  One  thing  is  very  sure :  if  they  tax  brains  you'll  get  rich/ 
Thursday  evening  went  down  to  Aylesbury,  and  motored 
seven  miles  from  there  to  a  village  and  spoke  on  Chinese 
Labour  for  thirty-five  minutes.  They  were  perfectly  quiet ; 
only  two  interruptions,  both  of  which  I  sat  on." 


The  next  week  he  went  to  Woolwich,  where  he 
had  a  rough  time  with  Chinese  Labour.  "  They 
kept  interrupting  me  and  yelling  that  they  con- 
sidered the  black  man  to  be  every  bit  as  good  as 
the  white  man.  To  which  I  replied  :  '  Would 
you  allow  your  daughters  to  marry  black  men  ?  ' 
'  Of  course  we  would/  they  all  shouted.  That 
pretty  well  knocked  me  out."  Two  days  later  he 
went  to  Loughton,  in  Essex,  where  he  had  a  real 
success.  "  Just  as  the  meeting  began  they  gave 
me  a  few  points  that  had  been  raised,  and  asked 
me  to  deal  with  them.  I  got  in  the  deuce  of  a 
funk  and  thought  I  was  certain  to  make  a  mess 
of  it.  Luckily,  the  points  that  were  raised  were 
such  as  I  knew  pretty  well  and  could  fit  into  my 
speech  without  very  much  altering  the  trend  of 
my  arguments.  I  spoke  for  three-quarters  of  an 
hour  without  faltering,  and  was  never  interrupted. 
Afterwards  there  were  some  Radicals  there  who 
asked  me  questions,  and  I  had  to  answer  them  on 
the  spur  of  the  moment.  Luckily  again,  I  knew 
their  points,  and  was  able  to  score  off  them, 
which  made  things  even  better."  The  result  of 


84    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

the  elections  Rivy  took  in  a  philosophical  spirit. 
His  chief  grievance  was  that  so  many  of  his  "  pals 
have  been  chucked ;  on  the  other  hand,  Helms- 
ley,  Dalmeny,  and  Thomas  Robartes  got  in." 

Meantime  Francis  was  happy  and  busy  in  his 
new  regiment.  He  changed  to  David  Camp- 
bell's squadron,  and  was  hoping  soon  to  be  pro- 
moted Captain.  His  letters  show  that  he  was 
very  satisfied  with  life — his  friends,  his  work, 
his  house,  and  his  prospects.  It  was  the  time  of 
the  Prince  of  Wales's  tour,  and  at  Christmas  he 
was  engaged  in  the  special  manoeuvres  arranged 
in  honour  of  the  visit,  his  division  being  com- 
manded by  Douglas  Haig.  There  he  met  in- 
numerable old  friends,  and  his  letters  home  are 
chiefly  lists  of  names.  He  kept  open  house  at 
Rawal  Pindi,  and  entertained  the  officers  of  the 
6oth  and  various  German  attaches,  besides  an 
occasional  English  lady.  He  described  the  ma- 
noeuvres in  a  long  letter  to  his  uncle,  Lord 
Grenfell,  which  Rivy  was  good  enough  to  admit 
was  written  in  better  English  than  usual. 

"  To  all  soldiers  the  organization  was  wonderful.  Lord  K. 
refused  any  rehearsal  of  any  sort.  On  Wednesday  night  the 
Northern  Army  was  thirty-five  miles  away — marching  and 
fighting  from  8  p.m.  to  2.30  a.m.  On  Thursday  at  10,  60,000 
troops  were  fighting  hard  twenty-three  miles  from  Pindi. 
At  7  on  Friday  morning  the  whole,  having  slept  in  their 
various  camps  round  Pindi,  and  having  cast  their  khaki,  were 


A  MEMOIR.  85 

paraded  in  tunics,  with  spotless  clothes  and  with  shining 
buttons.  By  3.30  p.m.  on  that  day  the  great  review  was  over 
without  a  hitch  of  any  sort  or  kind.  And  yet  they  say  the 
British  officer  is  a  fool  and  knows  nothing  !  One  squadron 
only  of  the  3rd  Hussars  appeared  in  khaki,  some  of  their 
transport  having  been  delayed.  This,  to  my  mind,  is  wonder- 
ful, and  no  one  who  has  seen  the  transport  out  here,  with 
the  thousands  of  camels,  mules,  carts,  ponies  that  60,000 
troops  require,  can  but  be  amazed.  It  must  be  remembered 
that  individually  not  one  native  servant  or  driver  knows  who 
he  is  or  where  he  is  going,  and  yet  60,000  troops  were  concen- 
trated that  night  without  difficulty/1 

Francis  gave  up  his  r61e  of  host  with  regret. 
"  I  quite  miss  them/'  he  wrote.  "  The  chances 
a  soldier  gets  of  living  under  the  same  roof  as  a 
woman  are  few  and  far  between  in  this  country. 
I  felt  quite  homely  with  ladies  under  my  roof  and 
larky  maids  picketed  in  the  garden." 

When  it  was  all  over  he  went  off  to  Calcutta 
to  a  polo  tournament,  where  Francis  Scott,  who 
was  on  the  Viceroy's  staff,  introduced  him  to  the 
Mintos.  There  he  met  Harry  Rawlinson  and 
consulted  him  about  his  next  step.  He  had  been 
offered  a  post  on  Lord  Kitchener's  staff,  and  was 
for  some  days  in  a  state  of  indecision.  Finally 
he  refused  it.  "  It  is  a  question  of  chucking  the 
regiment  now  and  going  on  the  staff,  or  becoming 
an  adjutant  and  then  going  to  the  Staff  College. 
The  latter  is  far  soundest."  He,  however,  settled 
with  Victor  Brooke  that  if  serious  war  broke  out 


86    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

on  the  frontier  he  would  be  allowed  to  go  there, 
and  he  arranged  with  Lord  Burnham  that  if  the 
affair  were  only  a  small  campaign  he  would  go 
as  Daily  Telegraph  correspondent.  In  the  inter- 
vals between  polo  and  discussions  about  his 
career  he  found  time  to  go  over  a  jute  mill  and 
send  Rivy  a  lengthy  description  of  the  process  ; 
to  pump  a  German  officer,  Count  Krage  of  the 
Headquarters  Staff,  on  the  German  Army  system  ; 
and  to  take  his  full  share  in  the  gaieties  of  Cal- 
cutta. "  In  the  evening  I  went  to  a  State  ball, 
and  enjoyed  it  very  much  indeed.  Danced  in 
a  circle  set  apart  for  P.  Wales,  and  so  found  no 
crush!  What  a  nice  girl  Harry  Crichton's  is! 
By  Jove  !  R.  G.,  these  ladies  do  look  different 
to  the  old  trouts  out  here.  We  had  quite  a 
family  supper  party — Francis  Scott,  Lady  Eileen 
[Elliot],  Harry  and  his  lady,  and  Mrs.  Derek 
Keppel." 

At  the  end  of  January  he  was  back  at  Rawal 
Pindi,  where  he  became  the  hero  of  a  celebrated 
adventure.  I  quote  his  laconic  narrative. 

"  I  went  to  a  domino  dance.  Douglas  Compton,  Freddie 
[Blackwood],  and  I  dined  alone  with  a  bottle  of  pop.  I  went 
dressed  up  by  Lady  Blood  as  a  woman.  Capital  fun,  especially 
as  Freddie  defied  me  to  go  into  the  ladies'  dressing-room. 
When  the  '  Take  off  masks '  sounded,  with  about  sixty  women 
I  went  into  the  dressing-room,  where  they  were  all  powdering 
their  noses.  All  went  well  until  the  time  arrived  when  I  was 


A  MEMOIR.  87 

the  only  one  left  masked.  Some  girl  came  up  and  said,  '  Who 
is  it  ?  I  believe  it's  a  man.'  She  then  started  out  to  find 
her  mamma,  and  I  started  out  to  find  the  door.  For  days 
afterwards  all  Pindi  rang  with  this  scandal.  A  man  in  the 
ladies'  dressing-room  !  The  story  I  heard,  as  told  in  our  mess, 
was  this  :  '  A  man  went  into  the  ladies'  dressing-room,  and 
found  all  the  ladies  undressing.  One  lady  saw  it  was  a  man, 
gave  a  yell,  and  fainted.  All  the  ladies  then  dashed  at  the 
man  to  tear  his  clothes  off ;  he,  however,  flew  for  the  door, 
pursued  by  furious  women,  and  just  escaped.  All  the  hus- 
bands are  now  looking  for  the  man,  and  everybody  is  saying 
what  they  would  do  with  him  if  they  caught  him.'  I  agreed 
with  everybody  that  it  was  dashed  bad  form,  and  could  not 
think  who  it  could  be." 


But  he  was  busy  with  other  things  than  such 
escapades.  He  employed  a  coach  to  come  to  him 
twice  a  week  for  military  history,  and  he  enter- 
tained a  German  cavalry  officer,  Count  Konigs- 
marck,  from  whom  he  learned  much  that  was 
faithfully  recorded  in  his  diary.  He  was  also 
working  hard  at  Hindustani  for  his  examination. 
In  March  his  polo  team  won  the  Inter-Regi- 
mental Cup  in  the  Subalterns'  Tournament,  and 
in  April  he  went  on  leave  on  a  trip  to  the  frontier. 
'  A  capital  chap,  Howell  of  the  Intelligence,  is 
arranging  my  show,"  he  told  Rivy.  "  Remember 
HowelFs  name.  One  day  you  will  see  him  Gen- 
eral, Sir  or  Lord — a  mighty  clever  varmint."  * 

*  Brigadier-General  Philip  Howell  was  killed  in  Aveluy  Wood 
during  the  Battle  of  the  Somme. 


88    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

I  have  before  me  Francis's  journal  of  his  fron- 
tier tour.  He  started  from  Peshawur  on  the  nth 
of  April,  and  travelled  by  Kohat  and  Bannu, 
followed  the  Afghan  border  line,  and  penetrated 
some  distance  into  Waziristan.  The  diary  is  a 
vigorous  narrative,  but  most  of  the  reflections  on 
frontier  policy  are  now  out  of  date.  The  writer 
was  especially  uneasy  about  Russia,  and  has  much 
to  say  about  the  Muscovite  strategic  railways. 
After  his  fashion  he  intersperses  many  good 
stories.  One  is  of  a  certain  border  chief  who 
possessed  a  small '  cannon  and  only  one  bullet. 
Whenever  he  saw  his  enemy  from  the  top  of  a 
tower  he  used  to  let  the  cannon  go.  The  enemy, 
having  to  pass  the  tower  most  days  to  go  to 
work,  used  to  pick  up  the  bullet,  and  every  now 
and  then  an  intermediary  was  sent  to  buy  it  back 
for  two  shillings  !  The  document  was  sent  to 
Rivy,  who  remonstrated  on  Francis's  carelessness. 
"  You  must  really  send  your  letters  in  stronger 
envelopes.  You  say, '  Treat  these  papers  as  most 
confidential,'  and  yet  they  appear  to  have  come 
to  pieces  and  to  have  been  put  into  an  envelope 
by  the  Post  Office." 

In  May  Francis  was  back  at  Murree,  very 
anxious  about  his  English  leave,  since  the  Qth 
Lancers  were  under  orders  for  South  Africa.  He 
hoped  to  get  it  in  October  before  sailing,  and 


A  MEMOIR.  89 

be  in  England  for  the  winter.  At  home  he  pro- 
posed to  do  three  things — to  learn  German  and 
study  Germany,  to  go  over  the  Franco-German 
battle-fields,  and  to  do  a  course  of  topography  at 
Chatham.  A  long  letter  from  Harry  Rawlinson 
in  June  advised  France  instead  of  Germany,  and 
comforted  Francis  on  the  sore  subject  of  the 
transfer  to  South  Africa  on  the  ground  that  the 
dangerous  state  of  affairs  among  the  Natal  natives 
would  probably  soon  lead  to  a  native  rebellion. 
A  letter  from  Francis  to  Rivy  about  this  time  is 
typical  of  the  writer,  who  was  passionately  gener- 
ous provided  his  virtues  could  escape  notice.  '  I 
am  so  grateful  to  you  for  making  me  some  cash, 
and  I  have  been  able  to  put  it  to  good  use.  Our 
riding  master,  K. — such  a  good  chap — could  not 
afford  to  bring  his  wife  and  two  children  to  the 
hills  for  the  summer,  so  I  have  taken  a  house 
for  him.  It  cost  about  £50,  but  it  was  well 
worth  it.  You  have  no  idea  how  awful  it  is  for 
women,  and  especially  children,  in  Pindi  in  the 
hot  weather.  Please  treat  this  as  entre  nous  and 
tell  no  one  else.  K.'s  letter  of  gratitude  is  really 
due  to  you,  for  if  it  was  not  for  you  I  would  be 
begging  my  self. " 

In  June  Francis  went  in  for  his  examination 
in  Hindustani,  which  he  passed  with  honour, 
and  then  departed  for  a  short  trip  in  Kashmir. 


9o    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

The  rest  of  the  summer  was  rather  poisoned  for 
him  by  a  row  which  he  had  in  July  with  a  native 
pleader,  who  ventured  to  race  him  on  a  dusty 
road  in  a  tonga,  and  was  summarily  called  over 
the  coals  for  his  pains.  The  pleader  brought 
an  action  against  Francis  for  assault,  and  was 
emboldened  by  the  behaviour  of  the  military 
authorities,  who  foolishly  tried  to  persuade  him 
to  keep  it  out  of  court.  For  a  few  weeks  Francis 
was  a  prominent  figure  in  the  native  press — 
"  this  brutal  lieutenant,  who  is  a  son  of  a  lord 
and  a  friend  of  the  King's,"  etc.  The  situation 
was  a  delicate  one,  for  the  Qth  Lancers  had  once 
before  got  into  similar  trouble.  Francis,  know- 
ing that  Lord  Kitchener  wished  the  thing  not 
to  come  to  trial,  and  desirous  to  obey  his  chief, 
wras  yet  most  unwilling  to  climb  down  when 
he  believed  he  had  a  good  case,  and  in  the  end 
managed  to  effect  a  satisfactory  settlement  to 
the  credit  of  both  parties.  This  gave  him  an 
occasion  to  expound  to  Rivy  his  philosophy  of 
life.  "  I  have  been  guided  by  a  few  principles : 
(i.)  Form  your  own  opinions  and  never  mind 
other  people's.  (2.)  Keep  to  the  truth  and  have 
it  out.  It  has  always  beaten  lies  and  liars.  (3.) 
What  is  done  is  done,  and  no  amount  of  regrets 
and  groanings  can  undo  it ;  so  make  the  best  of  a 
bad  job.  (4.)  Make  sound  dispositions,  and  leave 


A  MEMOIR.  91 

the  rest  to  fortune.    (5.)  Deal  with  natives  by 
deeds  rather  than  by  entreaties." 

Rivy,  when  his  electioneering  was  over,  went 
to  hospital  for  a  slight  operation,  and  two  days 
later  rose  from  his  couch  to  go  to  the  House  of 
Lords  to  hear  Lord  Milner  on  Chinese  Labour. 
He  was  busy  with  discursive  reading,  princi- 
pally Pope's  Odyssey  and  Disraeli's  Lord  George 
Bentinck — "  also  a  topping  book  entitled  The 
Education  of  an  Orator,  by  Quintilian,  which  is 
a  translation.  It  discusses  the  whole  of  one's 
education  from  the  age  of  about  four,  and  tells 
you  the  best  books  to  read,  how  to  learn  to 
discuss  and  argue,  etc.  What  made  me  get  it 
was  that  in  Gladstone's  Life  I  found  continual 
allusions  to  it,  and  also  in  Macaulay."  A  little 
later  we  find  that  earnest  politician  in  the 
House  of  Commons  under  the  Gallery.  "  In 
the  evening  Joe  and  Balfour  had  a  rare  crack 
at  the  Government.  A  fellow  called  Smith  * 
made  what  is  said  to  be  one  of  the  best  maiden 
speeches  for  the  past  twenty  years.  He  spoke 
for  an  hour,  and  kept  the  whole  place  in  roars 
of  laughter.  Even  in  the  report  in  the  Times 
it  appears  amusing.  You  must  imagine  a  very 
sarcastic  voice,  and  each  time  the  Ministers 
cheered  he  gave  them  a  whack  in  the  mouth 

*  Now  Lord  Birkenhead,  Lord  Chancellor  of  England. 


92    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

with    some    snub.      I    never    enjoyed    anything 
better/' 

Rivy  felt  the  shades  of  the  prison  house 
beginning  to  close  about  him.  A  proof  was  that 
he  was  more  amused  by  politics  than  by  racing. 
Here  is  his  reflection  upon  the  Grand  Military : 
"  I  can  remember  thinking  the  fellows  who  rode 
at  Sandown  most  wonderful  heroes,  whereas  on 
Saturday  it  struck  me  that  there  were  some  rather 
moderate  jockeys  flogging  round  on  very  moderate 
horses."  But  youth  revived  in  May  when,  after 
doing  a  Yeomanry  course  at  Netheravon  under 
Reggie  Barnes,  he  began  his  polo  season.  He 
generally  played  with  his  brother  Cecil,  and  the 
combination  was  highly  successful.  This  kind  of 
sentence  occurs  constantly  in  his  letters :  "  R.  G. 
has  never  been  in  such  form  since  he  played  polo. 
He  got  five  goals — two  runs  down  half  the  length 
of  the  field  and  one  down  the  whole  length,  and  a 
goal  at  the  end  of  each."  But  his  letters  did  not 
please  the  exile  in  India.  "  You  never  mention 
the  family  doings,"  Francis  expostulated,  "  or  the 
gossip  or  scandal  of  the  town.  I  see  in  a  paper 
Lady  Warwick  is  a  Socialist.  You  never  told 
me.  Write  news,  R.  G. — not  Times  articles,  as 
I  take  in  the  Mail.  I  always  understood  the 
advantage  of  a  shorthand  typist  was  the  amount 
they  could  write  and  their  powers  against  fatigue. 


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I  recommend  the  sack  of  yours,  as  he  seems  to 
own  neither  of  these  qualities." 

In  June  Rivy  changed  his  business.  He  had 
met  Mr.  Bonbright  in  America,  and  he  now  went 
into  partnership  in  an  English  branch  of  his 
house,  of  which  the  directors  were  Lord  Fairfax, 
Mr.  Fisher,  and  himself.  His  agreement  entitled 
him  to  twenty-five  per  cent,  of  the  profits,  and  at 
the  moment  the  prospects  seemed  rosy.  Francis 
received  the  news  gravely.  "  Well  done,  R.  G. 
It  does  seem  funny  :  you  a  ^4,ooo-a-year  Johnnie 
and  F.  G.  a  £4OO-a-year-in-debt  chap.  You  de- 
serve all  you  have  got.  But  don't  become  a 
miser,  or  selfish,  and  think  it  necessary  that  you 
should  spend  it  all  on  yourself.  You  can  help 
our  pals  royally." 

The  letters  of  the  brothers  that  summer  are 
amusing  reading.  Francis,  busy  with  work  for 
examinations  and  doleful  about  his  leave,  took  up 
a  critical  attitude  to  life.  He  saw  faults  in  his 
colleagues  which  he  had  not  noticed  before  ;  one 
he  described  with  startling  insight  as  "  the  sort  of 
chap  who  gets  up  things  on  board  ship."  But 
he  was  also  slightly  critical  of  Rivy.  "  Thanks 
awfully  for  the  evening  waistcoats,"  he  wrote. 
*  Did  you  see  them  before  they  started  ?  I 
asked  you  for  the  latest  fashion  !  The  ones  you 
have  sent  I  know  when  I  left  England  were  begin- 


94    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

ning  to  get  out  of  date  in  Putney  ! "  Rivy,  indeed, 
that  summer  was  in  a  somewhat  schoolmasterly 
mood.  Francis,  a  little  bored  with  slogging  at 
Hindustani,  asked  for  an  occasional  novel — some- 
thing that  would  be  "  a  relief  at  night  and  would 
ginger  one  up  for  the  history  books."  He  mildly 
suggested  some  book  like  Mademoiselle  de  Maupin. 
Rivy  replied  by  sending  him  that  gloomy  work,  The 
Jungle,  and  advising  him  if  he  wanted  anything 
more  to  read  Pickwick  again.  "  Windham  Baring 
told  me  his  father  [Lord  Cromer]  always  rereads 
these  old  books,  and  so  what  you  hear  him  quote 
is  only  some  joke  he  has  read  a  hundred  times." 
He  added  the  recommendation  that  Boswell's 
Johnson  and  Macaulay's  Life  were  books  that 
Francis  should  always  be  reading  in  his  spare 
moments.  A  week  later  he  gave  him  his  philos- 
ophy of  reading. 

"  Do  please  give  up  reading  rubbishy  novels.  There  are 
books  that  have  survived  the  critieism  of  centuries  ;  surely 
these  must  be  more  worth  reading  than  worthless  stuff  that 
lasts  about  three  weeks.  Such  books  as  Walpole's  Letters, 
Shakespeare's  Plays,  Boswell's  Johnson,  Macaulay's  Life, 
Lecky's  History,  Morley's  Miscellanies,  and  even  Morley's 
Gladstone  are  all  things  that  are  easy  to  read  and  will  profit 
you  ten  thousand  times  more  than  what  you  call  '  light  read- 
ing.' I  advise  you  to  send  a  telegram  to  Calcutta  and  ask 
them  to  send  you  a  cheap  copy  of  Shakespeare  or  Walpole's 
Memoirs,  and  read  them.  If  on  the  receipt  of  this  you  wish 
me  to  pick  out  ten  or  twelve  books  of  the  above  sort,  well 


A  MEMOIR.  95 

bound,  and  send  them  out,  let  me  have  a  cable  reading  '  Good 
books.'  Or  if  you  still  want  me  to  send  rubbishy  novels, 
send  a  cable  reading  '  Novels/  " 

As  Rivy  then  proceeded  to  give  a  long  account 
of  a  dinner  with  Leonard  Brassey,  a  ball  at  the 
Ritz,  and  the  final  of  the  Handicap  Tournament 
at  Hurlingham,  Francis  may  have  felt  that  his 
mentor  scarcely  did  justice  to  his  innocent  desire 
for  a  little  variety  in  life.  "  I  am  honestly 
played  out  in  this  country,"  he  wrote,  "  and  now 
hate  everything.  We  are  existing,  not  living.  I 
long  for  a  dart  in  England  or  France.  .  .  .  You 
see,  R.  G.,  out  here  one  is  rather  run  down  and 
sometimes  depressed.  The  hot  weather  and  all 
its  discomforts  are  raging.  Last  year  I  slept  in 
the  day,  but  this  year  I  am  fighting  it.  One  can 
read  a  stiff  book  for  a  certain  time  every  day,  but 
a  punkah  swinging  backwards  and  forwards  and 
creaking  and  squeaking,  together  with  a  tempera- 
ture of  over  100  degrees,  drives  one  either  to 
sleeping  or  to  an  exciting  book  in  an  armchair." 
And  he  went  on  to  explain  that  he  was  satiated 
with  the  History  of  Cavalry  by  Denison,  and 
wanted  "  such  books  as  the  Life  of  Madame  de 
Pompadour,  or  Napoleon  as  a  man,  naming  the 
women  as  well  as  the  countries  he  captured." 

With  his  departure  in  prospect  he  wished  to 
give  presents  to  his  friends,  and  especially  to  the 


96    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Bloods.  For  Sir  Bindon  he  suggested  a  good 
sporting  book  with  pictures  of  "  lions  seizing 
goats,  lions  springing  on  donkeys,  etc."  But 
Rivy  would  have  none  of  it.  He  was  deter- 
mined that  Sir  Bindon  should  have  a  "  really 
well- written  book,"  and  suggested  "  The  Life  of 
Chatham,  Walpole's  Letters,  or,  still  better,  Plato's 
Republic."  Small  wonder  that  Francis  began  to 
fear  that  his  brother's  culture  was  becoming  too 
much  for  him. 

In  September  everything  changed.  Francis 
Scott  invited  him  to  Simla  to  stay  with  the  Mintos, 
and  life  was  once  again  rosy.  "  By  Jove,  R.  G., 
this  is  a  holiday.  Here  I  am  in  a  house  with 
stairs,  and  built  like  an  English  country  house. 
I  could  only  gasp  for  two  days.  One  is  simply 
taken  aback  by  the  niceness  of  these  people. 
Lord  Minto  is  the  best,  after  the  Uncle,  I  ever  met. 
He  is  full  of  stories,  and  loves  talking  of  racing 
and  forgetting  he  is  Viceroy.  The  other  day  he 
said,  '  I  always  wish  I  had  been  a  trainer/  Can 
you  picture  any  other  Viceroy  saying  that  ?  .  .  . 
It  is  a  great  business  getting  the  Ameer  to  come 
here.  Formerly  he  had  always  flatly  refused. 
But  the  Viceroy  wrote  him  such  a  kind,  friendly 
letter  that  he  said  he  felt  it  his  duty  to  please  so 
great  a  gentleman." 

He  spent  a  happy  week  at  Simla  in  the  com- 


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pany  of  the  Viceroy  and  Lady  Minto  and  the 
daughters,  who  were  reverentially  known  through- 
out India  as  "  the  Destroying  Angels."  "  After 
tea  we  all  rode — His  Ex.,  Lady  M.,  Francis,  and  I. 
The  two  girls,  Lady  Ruby  and  Lady  Violet,  ride 
astride.  We  galloped  like  blazes  down  the  roads. 
The  girls  made  me,  as  they  go  like  hello.  I  went 
for  a  long  ride  with  Lady  Violet.  She  is  a  master 
on  her  horse  ;  drives  a  coach,  etc.  ;  at  the  same 
time  loves  music,  art,  etc.,  and  hates  men.  There 
is  a  cup  here  for  gymkhanas,  held  weekly,  for  the 
lady  who  wins  most  events.  She  was  second ; 
Lady  Eileen  third.  She  said,  '  Father  was  simply 
beaming  all  over  last  night  after  you  talked  to  him  ; 
he  came  home  and  said,  "  I  must  put  our  boy  in 
that  regiment.'*  .  .  .  His  Ex.  told  us  stories 
of  Indians,  his  trips  in  the  wilds,  cock-fighting, 
prize-fighting,  etc. — how  he  took  Jem  Mace  to 
Harrow  and  backed  him  against  *  Bottles.'  Lady 
M.  begged  me  to  try  and  find  her  some  chaps  for 
their  staff.  It  is  a  pretty  difficult  job,  for  every 
one  falls  in  love  with  the  girls.  ...  I  rode  home 
with  Francis,  and  we  bucked  of  old  days.  We  are 
determined  to  have  you  out,  and  your  books  in  the 
fire.  I  hear  you  have  become  a  sort  of  heavy- 
handed  old  man.  You  had  better  drop  that  when 
I  return.  Well  go  back  three  years  then,  give 
the  books  a  holiday,  and  enjoy  life."  That  visit 

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98    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

to  Simla  was  the  beginning  for  Francis  of  a  close 
friendship  with  Lady  Minto,  who  had  given  him 
a  new  insight  into  the  problems  of  British  rule 
in  India.  He  continued  to  correspond  with  her 
and  to  expound  his  views  on  administration.  "  I 
have  just  written  a  long  letter  to  Lady  Minto, 
begging  her  not  to  worry  what  India  thought  of 
their  rule,  for  it  was  so  difficult  to  judge  a  ruler. 
Time  always  alters  opinions."  And  he  gave  as 
an  example  the  somewhat  disparate  cases  of 
Warren  Hastings,  the  Duke  of  Wellington,  and 
Mrs.  Fitzherbert !  The  life  of  the  last-named  lady 
was  one  of  the  few  lighter  books  which  Rivy  had 
allowed  him. 

Francis  arrived  in  South  Africa  towards  the 
end  of  October,  and  was  presently  settled  with  the 
regiment  at  Potchefstroom.  The  immediate  result 
was  a  fit  of  profound  depression.  Potchefstroom 
is  a  pleasant  little  town  in  a  green,  well- watered 
valley,  but  after  India  it  appeared  comfortless  and 
the  life  dull.  South  Africa  seemed  the  home  of 
senseless  extravagance.  As  he  wrote  to  Lord  Grey  : 
"  You  cannot  realize  the  terrible  expenses  incurred 
here  for  merely  living.  We  spend  four  times  what 
we  spent  in  India,  and  get  no  return  whatever." 
The  country,  too,  at  the  moment  was  suffering 
from  severe  financial  depression,  which  intensi- 
fied the  gloom.  There  were  other  drawbacks. 


A  MEMOIR.  99 

"  We  have  been  given  some  terrible  horses  for 
this  regiment,"  Francis  wrote.  "  They  hardly 
represent  what  the  richest  nation  should  give  its 
best  regiment.  We  are  quite  ashamed,  as  we  own 
all  sorts  except  cavalry  horses."  On  the  last  day 
of  the  year,  in  a  letter  to  Rivy,  he  summarized  his 
annual  record  with  some  melancholy.  "  I  fear  I 
have  done  little  to  advance  myself  and  improve  my 
brain  powers.  A  visit  to  the  frontier,  a  language, 
one  big  polo  tournament,  a  first-class  row,  and  the 
departure  from  India  are  the  main  things  I  have 
done."  He  cheered  up  a  little  after  beating  the 
4th  Hussars  at  polo  by  six  goals  to  two  when  the 
Ninth  had  only  nine  ponies  and  their  six  best 
polo  players  on  leave.  But  the  bright  spot  on 
his  horizon  was  his  leave,  which  was  due  in  the 
beginning  of  the  new  year. 

Meantime  Rivy  had  been  living  a  strenuous 
life.  He  rushed  out  to  South  Africa  in  August 
for  a  short  visit,  and  was  back  again  in  October. 
In  November  he  was  at  Hatfield,  learning  wisdom 
from  Hugh  Cecil,  which  he  duly  recorded  for  his 
brother's  advantage,  and  making  a  speech  at  the 
United  Service  Institution  which  earned  him  a  letter 
of  thanks  from  Sir  Robert  Baden-Powell.  On  the 
1 6th  of  that  month  he  started  with  his  brother 
Arthur  for  Mexico,  the  party  including  Arthur's 
wife,  Lady  Victoria,  and  his  sister,  Mrs.  Bulteel. 


ioo    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

An  assiduous  study  of  Prescott's  Conquest  of 
Mexico  on  the  voyage  was  his  preparation  for  the 
country,  and  in  the  few  weeks  there  he  certainly 
managed  to  achieve  a  considerable  variety  of 
experiences.  His  cousin,  Mr.  Max-Muller,  was 
at  the  Embassy,  and  through  his  agency  the 
party  had  an  interview  with  President  Diaz.  His 
reading  during  his  stay  is  characteristic  in  its 
catholicity — "  Kim,  the  Travels  of  St.  Paul  in  the 
Bible,  and  some  of  Paradise  Lost."  Early  in  Jan- 
uary the  party  were  with  the  Greys  at  Government 
House,  Ottawa,  where  Lady  Victoria  was  sud- 
denly taken  ill  with  typhoid,  contracted  in  Mexico. 
Rivy  was  eager  to  be  home  to  meet  Francis  on  his 
arrival  in  England,  but  felt  bound  to  stay  in 
Ottawa.  "  Without  me  old  Arthur  is  practically 
alone.  Besides  this,  the  Greys  have  no  relations 
here  except  strange  A.D.C.'s,  and  it  is  a  relief,  I 
think,  to  them  to  feel  they  have  some  one  on 
Arthur's  side  to  keep  him  company  and  cheer 
him  up.  Mate,  I  would  give  a  thousand  pounds 
to  have  met  you  on  your  arrival  and  gone  with 
you  and  shown  you  all  the  changes  since  you  left. 
I  feel  fearfully  sick  at  the  idea  of  any  one  meeting 
you  before  me.  ...  Ernest  is  to  be  your  valet 
until  we  get  another  good  one  ;  I  can  get  the 
Bath  Club  valet  to  look  after  me  when  you  take 
him  anywhere.  I  have  told  him  to  get  your  room 


A  MEMOIR.  101 

ready  and  put  flowers  there  and  make  it  comfort- 
able. Tell  him  to  put  some  of  my  pictures  there 
also,  and  to  get  my  sitting-room  straight  for  you. 
Remember  it  is  to  be  your  home.  .  .  .  Don't 
go  and  see  my  office  or  partners  till  I  get  back. 
In  fact,  F.  G.,  I  feel  terribly  sick  at  your  seeing 
any  one  or  being  told  anything  about  the  family 
doings  except  by  R.  G." 

Francis  arrived  on  February  9,  1907,  but  Rivy 
was  not  there  to  meet  him.  Arthur's  young  wife 
did  not  rally  from  her  fever,  and  died  on  3rd 
February.  It  was  the  first  time  for  long  that 
death  had  entered  the  family,  and  it  was  a  sober 
and  saddened  Rivy  that  returned  to  rejoin  his 
brother  in  that  communal  London  life  to  which 
they  had  so  joyfully  looked  forward. 


CHAPTER   V. 


THE  Twins  were  now  twenty-six  years  old,  and,  as 
they  had  grown  more  easily  distinguishable  in 
person,  so  they  had  developed  idiosyncrasies  in 
character.  Francis  remained  of  the  two  the 
younger  in  mind.  He  took  his  soldiering  very 
seriously,  but  for  him  the  Service  was  a  kind  of 
enlarged  Eton  —  a  thing  with  its  own  standards 
and  taboos,  offering  certain  definite  ambitions  in 
work  and  sport,  which  enabled  him  to  lead  a  full 
and  satisfying  life  without  questionings.  He  was 
never  in  doubt  about  the  values  of  things  —  he 
took  them  for  granted  ;  whereas  Rivy  was  for 
ever  at  the  business  of  stock-taking.  Francis  had 
sometimes  an  uncanny  power  of  going  to  the  heart 
of  a  matter,  but  usually  he  accepted  life  as  it 
came.  Rivy  was  a  more  perplexed  soul.  His 
vision  was  wider  than  his  brother's,  but  more 
often  confused.  Both  had  immense  high  spirits, 
but  Rivy  had  moments  of  real  bewilderment  and 
depression.  He  was  apt  to  feel  himself  on  the 


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A  MEMOIR.  103 

fringes  of  life  when  he  longed  to  be  at  the  centre, 
and  since  his  thirst  was  habitually  deeper  than 
his  brother's,  it  was  less  readily  quenched. 

On  another  side  the  two  were  like  the  scrip- 
tural Martha  and  Mary.  Long  ago  Rivy  had 
made  up  his  mind  that  he  was  Francis's  protector 
and  guardian,  and  he  laboured  to  make  money, 
not  for  himself,  but  that  his  brother  might  never 
be  stinted.  That  brother,  as  careless  of  cash  as 
the  lilies  in  the  field,  went  whistling  on  his  cavalier 
course,  while  Rivy  knit  his  brows  and  laboured  to 
increase  their  joint  resources.  In  every  circum- 
stance he  thought  first  of  Francis — his  comfort, 
his  education,  his  career  ;  and,  without  a  touch  of 
priggishness,  subordinated  every  plan  to  this  end. 
He  never  dreamed  that  he  was  doing  anything 
unusual,  so  great  was  his  fraternal  pride.  He  had 
chosen  for  himself  what  seemed  to  him  the  natural 
and  inevitable  r6le  of  the  prosaic  brother  of  a 
phoenix.  He  was  teaching  himself,  a  civilian  in  a 
sedentary  business,  the  first  lesson  of  the  soldier — 
subordination  ;  and  he  learned  it,  I  think,  more 
perfectly  than  Francis.  The  difference  appeared 
in  their  polo.  Rivy  was  one  of  the  steadiest 
players  in  England,  never  working  for  individual 
show  but  only  for  the  game — a  sober  exponent 
of  team-work.  Francis  was  always  incalculable, 
and  sometimes  fantastically  bad ;  but  on  his  day 


104    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

he  could  be  marvellous — a  thunderbolt,  a  tornado, 
a  darting  flame. 

The  year  1907  is  a  lean  one  for  the  Twins' 
biographer.  They  were  both  at  home,  and  so 
free  from  the  necessity  of  correspondence.  Rivy 
came  back  from  Canada  on  i6th  February  to  find 
Francis  in  London,  and  the  two  set  themselves  to 
console  their  brother  Arthur  in  his  bereavement. 
They  collected  an  excellent  lot  of  ponies,  and 
the  whole  summer  was  devoted  to  polo,  except 
for  a  course  which  Francis  went  through  at  the 
Cavalry  School  at  Netheravon,  where  he  began  to 
work  seriously  for  the  Staff  College.  Rivy  took 
enormous  pains  with  his  grooms  and  stablemen. 
He  got  beds  from  Heal  for  them  to  sleep  in,  and 
used  to  provide  sumptuous  teas  for  them  after  a 
successful  match. 

The  brothers  got  together  a  polo  team  known 
as  the  Freebooters,  in  which  Rivy  was  No.  2, 
Francis  No.  3,  and  the  Duke  of  Roxburghe  back. 
Originally  Cecil  Grenfell  was  No.  i,  but  his  place 
was  afterwards  taken  by  Captain  Jenner,  the 
joint  polo  manager  at  Ranelagh.  This  team  won 
the  Hurlingham  Championship  Cup,  beating  Roe- 
hampton  (a  team  mainly  composed  of  the  brothers 
Nickalls)  by  four  goals  to  two.  That  season  estab- 
lished the  fame  of  the  Grenfell  family  on  the  polo 
field.  I  do  not  propose  to  describe  the  details  of 


RIVY  ON  "CINDERELLA." 


A  MEMOIR.  105 

those  old  contests,  but  room  must  be  found  for  a 
letter  of  Rivy's  telling  of  the  greatest  match  of  the 
season,  England  against  Ireland,  played  at  Dublin 
in  Phoenix  Park.  The  Irish  team  was  :  Major 
Rotherham,  the  Hon.  Aubrey  Hastings,  Captain 
Hardress  Lloyd,  and  Mr,  P.  P.  O'Reilly..  For 
England  there  played  Rivy,  Captain  H.  Wilson, 
Mr.  Pat  Nickalls,  and  Captain  Matthew-Lannowe. 
England  won  by  six  goals  to  five,  and  Rivy  had  the 
satisfaction  of  hitting  the  winning  goal.  Here  is 
his  account : — 

"  There  was  a  strong  wind  blowing  down  the  ground  which 
I  think  much  spoilt  the  game.  At  times  it  was  very  slow  and 
sticky — I  think  partly  from  the  polo  being  so  high  class  and 
each  fellow  stopping  the  other  one  hitting  out.  The  ball  con- 
tinually hit  a  pony  in  the  hock  and  bounded  out,  and  we  were 
several  times  stopped  for  accidents. 

"  I  rode  '  Cinderella '  the  first  ten,  and  the  dodger  '  Despair ' 
the  second.  Got  away  on  the  latter  about  mid-field,  and,  evading 
all  opposition,  got  the  first  goal  on  the  near  side  amid  applause 
from  the  Saxons.  Shortly  afterwards  Rotherham  did  a  char- 
acteristic run  down  and  scored  amid  yells  from  the  Irish.  The 
third  ten  I  rode  Roxburghe's  pony,  which  played  fairly  well, 
though  he  wants  to  be  taught  to  jump  off  quicker.  The  fourth 
ten  '  Cinderella/  who  played  magnificently :  I  got  another  goal 
on  her  at  a  difficult  angle,  and  made  two  or  three  good  runs. 
Pat  (Nickalls)  got  two  goals,  and  gave  us  a  lead  of  four  to  two. 
Hardress  then  got  a  very  good  goal ;  the  Irish  threw  their  hats 
in  the  air  all  round  the  ground.  Rotherham  then  got  away 
and  got  another  goal ;  you  never  heard  such  cheering  in  your 
life  !  In  the  fifth  ten  I  got  away  on  '  Despair '  and  went  all  down 
the  ground,  but  somehow  missed  an  absolute  sitter.  I  think 
the  wind  affected  the  flight  of  the  ball,  as  it  only  missed  by 


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inches.  We  then  got  a  fifth  and  sixth :  the  latter  was  not 
allowed,  as  Bertie  Wilson  fell  as  the  ball  was  hit  and  hurt  his 
knee.  The  other  side  then  got  a  fifth,  and  three  minutes 
before  time  in  the  last  chukker,  in  which  I  rode  '  Cinderella/ 
I  got  a  sixth,  and  so  won  the  match.  It  was  a  pretty  uncom- 
fortable moment.  Bertie  Wilson  cantered  into  the  middle  of 
the  ground ;  '  Cinderella '  turned  like  lightning,  and  I  found  my- 
self forty  yards  in  front  of  everybody.  If  I  hit  the  goal,  there 
was  no  glory ;  if  I  missed  it,  probably  fearful  abuse.  Luckily 
I  just  snicked  it  through.  I  enjoyed  the  match  very  much 
indeed ;  it  was  such  fun  hearing  those  Irish  chaps  yelling  the 
whole  time." 


In  August  and  September  Arthur  was  at 
Howick  with  his  children,  and  the  Twins  stayed 
there.  Lord  Hugh  Cecil  was  among  the  visitors, 
and  Rivy  had  the  felicity  of  bringing  Francis  to 
sit  at  his  feet.  The  City  that  year  can  have  seen 
little  of  Rivy,  and  politics  knew  him  not  ;  indeed, 
I  gravely  doubt  whether  his  books  left  their 
shelves.  He  had  his  brother  beside  him,  and  was 
bent  on  enjoying  life.  As  soon  as  the  season 
began  they  hunted  together,  and  early  in  December 
Francis  had  a  smash  and  broke  his  collar  bone. 
The  two  went  to  the  Duke  of  Westminster  at 
Eaton  for  Christmas,  and  while  there  took  part 
in  an  escapade  which  enjoyed  for  a  day  or  two 
a  wide  notoriety.  One  evening  after  dinner 
the  Duke  suggested  motoring,  as  the  weather 
was  clear  and  cold,  and  proposed  going  over  to 
Cholmondeley  Castle,  where  there  had  been  some 


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talk  of  a  dance.  Arrived  at  the  Castle,  they  could 
get  no  reply  to  their  ringing  of  the  bell.  The 
place  stood  silent  and  apparently  untenanted, 
except  that  on  the  ground  floor  a  window  had 
been  left  open  through  which  came  the  reflection 
of  a  bright  fire.  It  was  like  a  scene  in  a  play,  and 
the  spirit  of  melodrama  entered  into  the  party. 
They  crawled  through  the  window,  groped  their 
way  down  a  passage,  and  found  themselves  in 
the  dining-room.  It  was  empty,  but  all  the 
lights  were  still  burning,  the  sideboards  gleamed 
with  plate,  and  in  the  centre  of  the  table  stood 
a  massive  race  cup  which  Lord  Cholmondeley  had 
won  and  which  he  valued  highly.  As  they  had 
come  a  long  way  to  find  no  dancing  or  any  other 
entertainment,  the  devil  of  mischief  possessed 
them,  and  they  resolved  to  carry  off  the  cup  as 
a  token  of  the  visit,  and  return  it  next  day.  So 
they  put  a  bit  of  coal  in  the  cup's  place,  and  de- 
parted as  silently  as  they  had  come.  In  leaving 
the  lodge  gates  the  car  swerved  against  a  pillar, 
thereby  leaving  a  clue  to  the  fugitives. 

There  had  been  many  burglaries  about  that 
time,  and  when  the  owner  discovered  that  the 
cup  had  gone  he  was  naturally  excited,  and  tele- 
phoned at  once  to  Scotland  Yard.  As  bad  luck 
would  have  it,  the  party  turned  up  late  next 
morning  at  the  meet,  and  the  Duke  did  not  get 


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an  opportunity  of  speaking  to  Lord  Cholmondeley. 
But  from  the  rest  of  the  field  they  heard  high- 
coloured  accounts  of  the  outrage — how  Scotland 
Yard  was  hot  on  the  trail  of  the  motor-car  gang, 
who  had  fortunately  damaged  their  car  on  the 
Castle  gate-post.  Somewhat  later  in  the  day  the 
Duke  found  a  chance  of  explaining  the  thing 
to  Lord  Cholmondeley,  who  took  it  in  excellent 
part  and  was  much  relieved  to  know  that  the 
cup  was  safe.  But  the  wheels  of  the  law,  once 
set  in  motion,  could  not  easily  be  stayed.  For 
days  detectives  were  scouring  Cheshire,  examining 
every  garage  for  traces  of  a  maimed  car,  and 
the  popular  press  in  startling  headlines  told  the 
tale  of  the  great  burglary.  It  was  a  sad  blow 
to  lovers  of  sensation  when  the  matter  was  sud- 
denly dropped  and  only  a  scanty  explanation  was 
forthcoming. 

In  April  1908  Francis  returned  to  South  Africa 
after  winning  the  United  Hunts  Point-to-Point 
Race  at  Melton.  He  took  with  him  a  French 
tutor  to  assist  him  in  acquiring  the  French  tongue, 
for  he  was  by  way  of  working  steadily  for  the 
Staff  College.  To  show  his  linguistic  progress 
he  occasionally  sent  Rivy  letters  written  in  a  very 
tolerable  imitation  of  the  language  of  Moliere. 
The  year  in  England  had  enormously  refreshed 


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him  and  prepared  him  to  make  the  best  of  South 
Africa,  and  his  first  letters  from  Potchefstroom 
were  very  contented. 

"  Everything  here  has  improved  beyond  recognition.  I 
never  saw  a  place  so  much  improved  in  a  year.  Every  one 
seems  pleased  to  see  me  again.  In  fact,  R.  G.,  the  regiment  is 
AT,  not  a  single  stiff  here  at  present.  I  quite  forgot  how  happy 
I  am  with  the  regiment.  I  have  so  many  interests,  I  love  the 
soldiering,  like  polo,  and  love  my  books.  I  never  knew  I  had 
so  many — I  have  had  to  have  two  new  bookcases  made." 

His  first  trouble  on  his  return  was  with  a  batch 
of  ponies  which  Rivy  had  bought  in  Canada  the 
previous  year,  and  which  by  some  blunder  had 
been  sent  straight  to  South  Africa  instead  of  to 
England,  where  the  Twins  could  have  seen  them 
and  judged  them.  They  proved  perfectly  useless, 
and  most  of  them  were  sent  home  for  Rivy  to 
sell.  Francis  resumed  his  polo  with  great  energy, 
and  complained  to  his  brother  that  he  was  an  in- 
different member  of  a  very  fine  team.  He  found 
it  hard  to  work  with  his  tutor,  however,  princi- 
pally from  lack  of  time.  "  Some  days  I  do  five 
hours  and  the  next  one.  To-day,  for  instance,  7  to 
12  at  the  range  in  the  hot  sun  ;  12  to  1.30  in 
stables.  I  tried  to  do  one  hour  with  him  after 
lunch,  but  felt  so  knocked  out  I  had  to  stop." 
Both  brothers  had  compiled  elaborate  note-books 
of  polo  tips  in  England  ;  both  had  irretrievably 


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lost  them,  and  each  accused  the  other.  Francis 
records  an  Eton  dinner  on  the  5th  June  with  Lord 
Methuen  in  the  chair,  after  a  football  match  in 
which  Mr.  D.  O.  Malcolm,  Lord  Selborne's 
private  secretary,  distinguished  himself.  He  was 
shown  by  his  colonel  his  confidential  report, 
which  he  paraphrased  as  follows  :  "  This  officer 
is  fit  to  be  an  adjutant.  He  is  a  very  hard-working 
officer  and  has  very  great  application.  He  is 
anxious  to  work  for  the  Staff  College,  for  which 
he  is  well  suited.  He  is  not  fit  at  present,  as  he 
has  been  away  from  his  regiment  at  Netheravon 
for  about  a  year.  He  is  not  brilliant,  but  very 
ambitious.  He  has  tact  and  a  Good  Temper. 
(What  Ho !)  He  lacks  ballast  at  present,  but  this 
will  come,  and  then  I  expect  great  things  of  him." 
At  the  end  of  June  he  went  to  Bloemfontein 
for  a  polo  tournament,  and  the  Qth  Lancers,  who 
for  the  last  six  years  had  either  won  or  been  in 
the  final  of  every  tournament  they  played  in,  were 
soundly  beaten  by  the  4th  Dragoon  Guards.  The 
disaster  sent  Francis  with  renewed  zest  to  his 
books.  "  I  have  been  working  like  an  absolute 
tiger  this  week.  It  is  wonderful  the  amount  one 
can  do  when  one  can  live  for  it  and  has  got 
nothing  else  to  think  of.  I  cannot  stop  thinking 
about  what  I  have  been  reading.  The  result  is 
that  it  affects  my  sleep  a  good  deal,  and  I  take  a 


A  MEMOIR.  in 

long  time  to  go  to  sleep.  I  am  certain  if  I  worked 
like  this  for  six  months  I  should  either  get  into 
Hanwell  or  into  the  Staff  College,  and  not  merely 
qualify.  I  sometimes  feel  worn  out  and  long  to 
chuck  it,  but  in  my  heart  of  hearts  I  really  love 
it."  About  this  time,  too,  he  began  to  acquire 
a  restless  interest  in  Germany.  He  was  always 
asking  his  twin  about  German  finances,  and 
whether  she  could  afford  the  expense  of  a  big  war. 
Meantime  Rivy  had  been  the  target  of  fortune. 
His  disasters  began  almost  as  soon  as  Francis  left. 
On  i6th  April,  while  cantering  his  pony  " Despair," 
she  suddenly  reared  and  fell  back  on  him,  and 
the  pommel  of  the  saddle  caught  him  in  the  pelvis. 
He  was  taken  to  St.  Thomas's  Hospital,  where 
his  pelvis  proved  to  be  intact,  but  a  muscle  was 
badly  lacerated.  In  the  hospital  he  seems  to  have 
enjoyed  himself. 

"  On  Sunday  morning  we  have  Communion  at  6.45  a.m. 
I  could  not  help  being  vastly  amused.  The  old  chaplain  read 
the  prayers  very  quietly  so  as  not  to  be  too  noisy,  whereas  in 
every  cubicle  were  fellows,  some  with  no  insides,  some  with 
insides  that  had  just  been  sewn  up,  and  about  five  groaning  and 
gasping  for  breath.  Throughout  the  service  the  parson  walked 
from  bed  to  bed  on  tiptoe ;  quite  unnecessary,  considering  the 
noise  the  patients  were  making.  .  .  .  There  were  about  ten 
dashed  pretty  nurses,  who  told  me  about  the  patients  they  had 
had  in  the  theatre.  One  of  them  told  me  that  they  had  abso- 
lute proof  that  three  hours'  sleep  before  midnight  was  worth 
four  after.  The  man  who  goes  to  bed  at  9  and  gets  up  at  4.30 


ii2    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

can  work  tremendously  hard  without  any  ill  effects  for  years, 
whereas  late-hour  workers  must  knock  off  after  a  while.  She 
gave  as  an  example  Society  people,  who  always  have  to  go  to 
watering-places  after  the  season,  also  M.P/s ;  whereas  nurses, 
surgeons,  and  lawyers  can  go  plodding  on.  1  shall  try  to  go 
to  bed  early  before  big  polo  matches/' 

He  also  made  friends  with  an  eminent  Lam- 
beth burglar  who  had  two  broken  legs  from 
having  been  pitched  out  of  a  house  by  an  athletic 
curate.  As  Rivy  felt  almost  a  professional  after 
his  experience  at  Cholmondeley  Castle,  the  two 
became  confidential  and  exchanged  reminiscences. 

The  next  piece  of  bad  luck  was  the  sale  of 
Francis's  ponies  at  Tattersall's,  which  fetched  very 
poor  prices.  For  several  weeks  Rivy's  thigh  was 
weak,  and  the  appalling  weather  in  early  May 
made  polo  nearly  impossible.  He  then  went  for 
his  Yeomanry  training  at  Stowe  Park.  He  found 
great  difficulties  in  getting  together  a  good  polo 
team  that  summer,  and  was  persistently  unlucky 
with  his  horse-coping.  On  the  last  Saturday  in 
May  he  was  playing  in  the  match  of  the  Roe- 
hampton  team  against  the  Rest  of  England,  when 
he  had  a  really  bad  accident. 

"  In  the  fourth  ten  I  got  clean  away,  but  did  not  get  my  drive 
quite  straight.  I  therefore  had  to  make  a  hook  drive,  which 
went  straight  in  front  of  goal.  Lloyd  and  I  were  each  going  at 
somewhat  of  an  angle.  In  stretching  out  to  make  a  near-side 
stroke  I  think  he  just  tipped  my  pony's  quarters  ;  anyhow  I 


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lost  my  balance  and  fell  in  front  of  '  Sweetbriar/  who  seemed 
to  peck  over.  She  also  seemed  to  have  eight  legs,  and  all  legs 
struck  various  parts  of  my  body,  two  of  them  on  the  head. 
I  am  not  sure  whether  she  stepped  on  my  ankle  or  twisted  the 
spur.  Anyhow,  it  at  once  hurt  like  blazes." 

At  first  the  accident  was  diagnosed  as  merely 
a  sprained  and  bruised  ankle,  and  treated  with 
massage.  Rivy  was  well  enough  to  dine  out. 


"  In  the  evening  I  dined  with  Mrs.  Ivor  Guest — a  tremendous 
dinner  party  of  about  fifty  people.  I  hobbled  in  on  crutches. 
The  party  was  composed  chiefly  of  pals  of  ours.  I  sat  next  to 
Lady  Castlereagh  and  Walter'  Guinness.  After  dinner  there 
was  a  small  dance,  which,  of  course,  I  could  not  take  part  in. 
However,  I  had  a  good  yarn  with  Mrs.  Asquith,  who  is  a  capital 
lady  and  always  most  interesting.  1  wish  very  much  you  had 
met  her  when  you  were  here.  I  told  her  that  I  intended  going 
to  see  her  with  you,  and  she  told  me  she  had  been  ill  for  the 
last  ten  months.  She  got  on  to  the  Education  question,  which 
was  rather  Greek  to  me,  and  I  could  only  reply  '  Yes '  and 
'  No.'  " 

The  ankle  did  not  get  better  in  spite  of  the 
most  drastic  massage,  and  when  Rivy  got  on  a 
pony  he  found  that  he  could  put  no  weight  at  all 
on  his  left  stirrup.  It  kept  him  awake  at  night, 
and  since  his  doctor  told  him  to  jump  on  it  and 
use  it  as  much  as  possible,  he  suffered  a  good  deal 
of  agony  during  the  day.  Nevertheless  he  went 
down  to  Hatfield  for  Whitsuntide,  going  up  to 
London  daily  for  treatment.  On  the  Tuesday 

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ii4    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

after  Whitsuntide   he    came    up    to    play  in   the 
Champion  Cup  at  Hurlingham. 

"  I  was  unable  to  put  a  boot  on,  and  so  played  in  a  large 
shooting  boot  and  puttee.  1  also  had  my  stirrup  all  padded 
up.  In  the  first  five  minutes  Ted  Miller  caught  me  an  awful 
bump  on  the  ankle,  soon  followed  by  another  from  George 
Miller.  However,  I  stood  it  all  right  that  ten,  and  played  pretty 
well,  considering  that  I  could  not  hit  the  ball  at  all  on  the  near 
side.  I  got  one  fairly  good  goal,  having  gone  half-way  down 
the  ground.  I  thought  that  my  leg  would  get  better  as  I 
warmed  up.  However,  this  was  not  the  case.  The  second  ten 
I  again  played  pretty  well,  but  found  it  difficult  to  stop  the 
ponies,  as  my  grip  was  getting  weaker.  The  third  ten  the  pain 
began  to  be  awful,  and  every  bump  that  I  got  seemed  to  be  on 
my  bad  ankle.  By  the  fourth  ten  it  felt  rather  like  pulp,  and 
to  keep  on  at  all  I  had  to  catch  hold  of  the  breastplate.  We 
were  having  a  tremendous  match.  At  half-time  the  scores 
were  3 — 2.  Gill,  Jenner,  and  Roxburghe  were  playing  like 
trumps.  The  Millers  were  a  little  off,  and  kept  giving  us  open- 
ings ;  but  I  felt  myself  getting  weaker  and  weaker,  and  could 
never  turn  my  ponies  in  time  to  make  use  of  them.  The 
fourth  ten  we  bombarded  their  goal,  but  in  the  fifth  and  sixth 
ten  I  was  an  absolute  passenger  and  did  not  hit  the  ball  at 
all.  My  ankle  hurt  fearfully.  ...  I  never  was  so  glad  of  any- 
thing as  when  that  game  ended,  and  limped  back  very  sore 
to  the  pavilion,  where  I  had  a  very  hot  bath." 

He  went  down  to  Hatfield  that  evening  and 
got  no  sleep.  Two  days  later  he  returned  to 
London  to  have  his  ankle  X-rayed.  "  Now  comes 
the  Waterloo  part,  for  I  found  that  instead  of  a 
sprained  ankle  I  had  a  sprain  on  the  outside  and 
had  broken  the  ankle  bone  on  the  inside.  No 
wonder  that  I  went  through  such  pain.  I  went 


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straight  to  Fripp,  who  told  me  that  all  the  previous 
treatment  had  been  entirely  wrong.  The  worst 
thing  I  could  do,  of  course,  was  twisting  the  ankle 
round,  as  the  two  bones  were  grating  against 
each  other.  It  seems  a  dream  to  me  that  I  could 
have  played  in  the  Champion  Cup  with  a  broken 
ankle.  Every  time  that  any  one  bumped  me  in  the 
polo  match  they  were  pushing  these  broken  bones 
apart.  No  wonder  towards  the  end  of  the  match  I 
squirmed  when  I  saw  anybody  about  to  bump  me." 

That  was  the  end  of  the  polo  season  for  Rivy, 
and  there  was  nothing  for  it  but  to  sell  his  ponies.* 
The  episode  was  properly  commented  on  by 
Francis.  "  It  sounds  a  terrible  experience,  but 
I  am  glad  you  have  been  through  it,  as  it  shows 
we  are  made  of  the  right  stuff,  though  Heaven 
forbid  me  skipping  on  a  bust  ankle  !  ' 

All  that  summer  Francis  was  hard  at  work,  for 
he  proposed  to  take  the  qualifying  examination 
for  the  Staff  College,  in  order  to  gain  experience. 
He  was  constantly  deploring  that  he  was  so  thick- 
headed about  matters  of  military  science,  al- 
though his  whole  heart  was  in  soldiering.  On 
26th  July  he  writes  : — 

"  Our  drill  this  week  has  been  the  greatest  fun  in  the  world. 
Last  Monday  I  commanded  the  scjuadron  on  a  regimental 

*  He  sold  them  most  profitably.     Mr.  August  Belmont,  for  example, 
bought  "  Cinderella  "  for 


n6    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

parade — the  first  time  in  my  life.  It  was  rather  a  high  trial, 
as,  though  we  had  been  drilling  slowly  up  to  the  present,  the 
Colonel  sounded  the  gallop  at  the  start  and  drilled  at  the  gallop 
for  the  rest  of  the  day.  I  got  on  first-class.  It  is  grand  fun, 
as  you  are  moving  too  quick  to  think,  and  if  you  make  a  mis- 
take you  cannot  alter  it.  I  was  pleased,  as  I  thought  I  knew 
no  drill,  but  find  I  know  a  good  deal  more  than  many  who 
have  had  a  squadron  some  time." 

He  meditated  much  about  the  art  of  war  in 
those  days,  and  confided  the  results  to  Rivy,  and 
he  was  perpetually  harassed  by  the  conviction 
that  a  fight  with  Germany  was  imminent.  He 
used  to  plague  his  brother  with  questions  about 
German  politics  and  finance,  and  got  but  scrappy 
answers.  One  of  his  conclusions  was  that  polo 
was  an  essential  part  of  a  soldier's  education. 

"  I  cannot  understand  why  the  infantry  generals  should  be 
anxious  to  abolish  polo — unless  it  be  through  ignorance.  Has 
polo  stopped  John  Vaughan,  De  Lisle,  Haig,  Hubert  Gough, 
or  any  keen  soldier  ?  " 

Rivy  had  told  him  that  Hugh  Cecil's  view  was 
that  it  was  more  important  for  a  country  to  have 
a  good  financial  position  than  to  have  a  good  army 
when  war  broke  out.  This  view  Francis  elab- 
orately controverted,  and  was  rather  nonplussed 
to  find  that  his  uncle  shared  it. 

He  took  the  Staff  College  qualifying  examina- 
tion in  the  first  week  of  August,  and  was  very 
pleased  with  himself.  The  papers  were  far  easier 


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than  he  expected,  and  he  thought  hopefully  of  his 
future  chances.  As  it  turned  out,  it  would  have 
been  impossible  for,  him  to  qualify  unless  he 
bettered  his  languages,  and  it  was  this  fact  which 
made  him  so  eager  to  spend  his  next  leave  in 
Germany.  Immediately  afterwards  he  started  for 
manoeuvres  in  the  country  north  of  Pretoria,  along 
the  Pietersburg  line.  He  enjoyed  himself  im- 
mensely, and  was  especially  proud  of  his  hard 
physical  condition. 

"  I  find  I  stick  hardships  and  discomforts  far  better  than 
most.  I  have  found  my  way  about  in  this  country  by  day 
and  by  night — no  easy  matter.  I  can  outstay  most  of  the 
others  as  regards  fatigue.  I  seem  to  have  got  great  confi- 
dence— far  more  than  before — and  I  look  on  myself  as  as  good 
a  player  as  anybody  else.  Several  chaps  whom  I  used  to  look 
on  as  good  I  now  look  on  as  very  bad/' 

His  keenness  was  so  great  that  in  every  letter  he 
enlarged  upon  the  danger  from  Germany. 

"  I  think  every  serious  person  out  here  is  awakened  by 
Herr  Dernburg's  visit  to  this  country.  He  is  the  Joe  Cham- 
berlain of  Germany.  I  believe  that  the  Dutch  luckily  hate 
the  Germans,  and  will  always  support  us  against  them." 

Early  in  October  Francis  thought  that  he 
deserved  a  rest,  and  went  on  a  short  visit  to 
Johannesburg. 

"  I  wrote  and  asked  a  charming  French  chanteuse  to  come 
to  lunch.  She  is  the  leading  lady  at  the  '  Empire/  at  £200  a 


n8    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

month.  They  are  extraordinary,  those  French  women.  We 
were,  besides  her,  five  men,  two  of  whom  could  not  understand 
a  word  of  French.  She  kept  the  whole  table  in  fits  of  laughter, 
talking  French  all  the  time.  I  never  met  any  one  who  said 
such  things  as  she  did.  She  fairly  cleared  the  Carlton.  Luck- 
ily, no  one  knew  us.  .  .  .In  the  evening  we  went  to  a  dance  at 
the  County  Club.  You  never  saw  such  people — the  elite  of 
Jo 'burg.  The  French  lady  turned  up,  much  to  the  disgust  of 
the  Jo'burg  society.  She  arrived  very  late,  and  only  stayed 
half  an  hour.  In  that  time  she  cleared  out  the  room  all 
right." 

The  autumn  witnessed  the  annexation  of  Bosnia 
and  Herzegovina  by  Austria,  and  Francis  thought 
he  saw  a  chance  of  a  European  war.  He  cabled 
to  Rivy  begging  him  to  arrange  with  Harry  Lawson 
to  have  him  sent  to  Bulgaria  as  the  correspondent 
of  the  Daily  Telegraph.  His  brother  John  arrived 
in  South  Africa  early  in  October,  and  Francis  ac- 
companied him  on  a  visit  to  the  Messina  Mine. 
Most  of  his  letters  at  this  period  are  filled  with 
uncommon  good  sense  on  the  subject  of  the  mine. 
He  was  convinced  of  its  value,  and  anxious  that 
his  brother  should  give  up  all  his  time  to  it  instead 
of  going  home  to  hunt.  "  Up  here  John  seems 
to  be  lord  of  all  he  surveys,  and  yet  he  won't 
survey  it." 

The  visit  to  Messina  thoroughly  unsettled  him, 
and  he  found  it  hard  to  return  to  his  books.  "  I 
am  afraid  you  and  I  are  very  stupid,"  he  wrote  to 
Rivy.  "  I  do  not  seem  to  get  on  at  all  like  others 


A  MEMOIR.  119 

seem  to  at  these  books,  and  I  work  three  times  as 
hard."  He  was  inclined  to  be  captious  about  his 
brother's  attainments.  "  Not  a  very  good  letter 
from  you  this  time.  You  are  relapsing  into  your 
old  tricks.  I  don't  know  how  you  discuss  good 
and  bad  French  when  you  don't  know  French 
at  all.  I  am  not  quite  clear  what  you  are  learning. 
Is  it  the  French  language  or  French  literature  ? 
The  language,  of  course,  is  most  useful,  but  I 
honestly  think  French  literature  is  a  waste  of 
time  to  you.  You  know  very  little  history,  no 
geography — both  subjects  which  arouse  interests, 
form  characters,  and  are  essential  for  everyday 
life  in  London,  and  also  for  politics."  Early  in 
November  he  wrote  :  "  I  am  determined,  R.  G.,  to 
take  my  work  a  little  easier  in  future,  and  then 
work  like  fury  for  the  1910  August  examination, 
and  then  take  a  year's  holiday.  Go  a  real  bust — 
buy  the  best  horse  available,  so  as  to  win  the 
National  and  Grand  Military.  Play  polo  seriously 
in  1911,  and  then  go  up  for  the  exam,  again  the 
following  year.  So  make  a  bit  of  cash,  R.  G.,  as 
my  National  horse  will  cost  £2,000."  But  R.  G. 
did  not  make  a  bit  of  cash  that  year.  He  lost  the 
better  part  of  £5,000  on  their  joint  account, 
though  he  got  most  of  it  back  later. 

Francis  paid  a  short  visit  in  the  early  winter 
to  the  Duke  of  Westminster's  estate  in  the  Orange 


120    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

River  Colony,  and  then  was  seriously  occupied 
with  polo  at  Potchefstroom.  At  Christmas  he 
had  his  usual  solemn  thoughts,  which  in  this  case 
dealt  with  love  and  the  conduct  of  life. 

"  I  think  in  marriage  no  half-way  contracts  ever  are  success- 
ful. You  should  either  be  damnably  in  love,  so  that  there  can 
be  no  doubt,  or  not  propose  at  all.  I  expect  our  name  is 
down  against  some  lady  whom  we  are  to  marry.  .  .  .  Some 
are  married  with  the  same  speed  that  John  tried  to  rush  the 
Government  out  here.  They  then  spend  their  lives  wishing 
they  had  been  refused.  Every  one  wants  a  pal.  I  strongly 
recommend  you  to  make  greater  pals  with  the  Uncle.  Try  to 
live  with  him  ;  his  company  will  improve  your  character,  if 
you  try  to  copy  him,  in  every  way.  No  man  has  more  suc- 
cessfully worked  in  with  other  people,  or  gained  more,  by  his 
generosity  and  bonhomie.  Don't  bury  yourself  with  a  book, 
or  you  become  inhuman,  despondent,  and  narrow.  Mix  your 
books  with  the  Uncle  and  become  a  cheery,  cultivated  English 
gentleman." 

But  Rivy  scarcely  needed  the  advice,  for  he  had 
not  been  troubling  his  books  very  much  that  year. 
He  records  that  he  tried  in  vain  to  read  David 
Copper  field,  always  getting  drowsy  over  it,  so  that 
he  did  not  know  whether  it  put  him  to  sleep  or 
he  read  it  in  his  sleep.  After  his  accident  he 
became  more  or  less  of  a  butterfly,  and  his  letters 
deal  chiefly  with  country-house  parties. 

"  Monday  night  I  dined  with  Lady  Alice  Shaw-Stewart — a 
capital  dinner  party.  I  sat  next  to  Lady  Manners,  and  on  her 
other  side  was  Lord  Cromer,  and  he  talked  most  of  the  time 


A  MEMOIR.  i2i 

to  Lady  Manners  and  me.  He  seemed  a  dear  old  boy.  He 
has  just  gone  on  the  committee  of  the  Vivisection  and  Re- 
search League,  and  showed  us  a  letter  he  had  received  from 
some  woman,  which  abused  him  for  about  two  pages  and  ended 
up,  '  I  had  always  looked  on  you  as  one  of  our  greatest  dic- 
tators, but  now  I  see  you  are  nothing  but  an  inhuman  brute/ 
Lady  Manners  asked  him  if  he  received  many  letters  of  this 
sort,  and  he  said  that  in  Egypt  he  got  letters  all  the  time 
saying  that  he  was  to  be  murdered  next  morning  ;  and  then 
he  added  in  a  kind  of  undertone,  '  Such  damned  rot,  isn't  it  ?  ' 
Last  week  he  went  down  to  stay  near  Winchester.  The  party 
consisted  of  Lord  and  Lady  Cromer,  Lord  Elcho,  and  Lord 
Curzon.  They  went  over  to  see  Winchester  on  Sunday,  when 
Lord  Cromer  overheard  this  from  a  Winchester  boy,  pointing 
at  his  party :  '  There  are  some  regular  'Arries  and  'Arriets 
come  nosing  round  here  on  a  Sunday/  ...  I  told  him  the 
story  about  Windham  when  Teddy  Wood  did  his  Latin  prose 
and  he  failed.  It  made  Lord  Cromer  roar  with  laughter. 
Lady  Manners  asked  him  if  Windham  was  very  clever.  '  Well/ 
said  he,  'he  throws  an  extremely  good  salmon  fly  ' — which 
I  thought  was  rather  characteristic." 


Rivy's  letters  were  full,  too,  of  politics.  He  dis- 
cussed France  with  Miss  Muriel  White,  and  learned 
to  his  horror  that  that  country  was  "  honeycombed 
with  republicanism."  Apparently  he  was  not 
aware  of  the  nature  of  the  French  constitution. 
He  met  the  McKennas  at  Nuneham,  and  con- 
sidered the  then  First  Lord  of  the  Admiralty  a 
'  capital  chap  of  the  hail  and  hearty  sort."  He 
had  frequent  talks  with  Mrs.  Asquith — "  a  mag- 
nificent lady,  as  you  never  have  to  say  a  word." 
From  Mr.  Asquith  he  heard  something  which 


122    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

confirmed  his  growing  unfavourable  opinion  of 
the  City.  "  He  told  me  that  in  talking  with 
financiers  and  asking  their  opinion  he  always 
found  that  they  based  their  argument  on  no 
foundation — in  fact,  had  no  logic.  I  think  this  is 
very  true.  There  is  a  famous  Jew  who,  when 
asked  about  his  partner's  capacity  for  making 
money,  said  he  had  a  wonderful  nose  for  it.  I 
think  that  is  the  only  way  to  put  it."  He  spent  a 
week  with  Lord  Ridley  at  Blagdon,  Northumber- 
land, assisting  him  to  defend  a  case  in  the  police 
courts,  where  he  was  accused  of  furious  driving. 
"  Mat  is  a  landlord  of  the  right  old  English  sort 
— works  very  hard,  and  has  the  right  notion  of 
helping  everybody."  On  that  occasion  he  was 
taken  to  see  the  Roman  Wall,  of  which  he  then 
heard  for  the  first  time. 

In  August  he  went  with  a  company  of  the  . 
Scots  Greys  on  manoeuvres,  and  had  the  time  of 
his  life.  They  were  very  celebrated  manoeuvres, 
and  led  to  furious  disputes  in  military  circles. 
Rivy  was  present  at  all  the  pow-wows,  and  re- 
corded them  with  such  gusto  for  the  benefit  of 
Francis  that  that  exile  was  moved  to  remark,  "  It 
is  an  extraordinary  thing,  but  the  only  two  chaps 
who  seem  to  enjoy  manoeuvres  are  F.  G.  and  R.  G. 
the  banker."  But  the  manoeuvre  letters  contain 
other  things  than  the  tactics  of  General  Scobell. 


A  MEMOIR.  123 

"  On  Thursday  I  dined  with  Cis  Bingham  at 
the  Brigade  Headquarters.  Molly  Crichton  and 
Muriel  Herbert  came  over  from  Wilton ;  the 
Duchess  of  Westminster,  who  was  staying  in  a 
village  two  miles  off,  was  to  have  come  but  didn't. 
We  had  some  capital  chaff.  Afterwards  Hugh 
Grosvenor  and  I  mounted  horses  and  went  across 
the  Plain  to  draw  the  Duchess.  We  nearly  got 
lost,  but  ultimately  found  her  house.  She  had 
gone  to  bed  (Lady  Shaftesbury  was  staying  there 
also),  so  we  yelled  at  her  window  till  finally  the 
owner  of  the  house,  an  old  farmer,  let  us  in.  We 
soon  had  her  down  in  a  glorious  silk  dressing- 
gown,  and  made  her  dig  out  some  supper  for  us. 
I  did  not  get  back  until  about  i  a.m.  ...  On 
Friday  afternoon  I  hacked  over  to  tea  with  Malise 
Graham,  and  dined  with  the  ist  Life  Guards. 
After  dinner  we  suddenly  heard  a  band  approach- 
ing— could  not  think  what  it  was,  so  went  outside, 
when  it  sounded  '  Charge,'  and  about  sixty  fellows 
from  the  ist  Brigade  fell  on  the  old  Households, 
and  we  had  a  desperate  conflict.  I  kept  out  as 
much  as  I  could.  Brother  John  was  dining  with 
the  2 ist,  so  he  accompanied  them.  Suddenly 
some  one  called  out,  *  It's  that  Rivy ! '  and  fell 
on  him,  at  which  about  four  fellows  sat  on  his 
head.  I  returned  to  my  camp  about  n,  to 
find  Allenby's  Brigade  were  attacking  Fanshawe's. 


124    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

They  broke  everything  in  the  Greys'  and  Bays' 
tents.  It  amused  me  awfully ;  but  how  young 
those  fellows  are  to  like  a  sort  of  '  rouge  scrim- 
mage '  still  !  " 

In  the  autumn  Rivy's  mind  turned  to  more 
serious  matters,  and  he  took  to  himself  a  French 
tutor.  Francis  had  advised  him  to  spend  his 
week-ends  in  Oxford  and  study  there  ;  but  he 
found  that  impossible.  Rivy's  letters  about  this 
time  are  little  more  than  a  medley  of  City  gossip, 
mingled  with  notes  of  his  engagements.  On  the 
Eton  Memorial  he  wrote  :  "I  do  not  think  it 
necessary  for  us  to  spend  more  money  on  this.  I 
sent  this  summer  six  boys  and  two  girls  from  the 
Eton  Mission  to  Juanita's  cottage  for  a  fortnight 
each.  I  think  this  is  a  much  better  way  of  spend- 
ing one's  money  than  by  subscribing  to  bricks  and 
mortar  for  rich  Eton  boys  not  to  go  into."  He 
went  to  Hatfield,  where  he  made  friends  with 
Lord  Althorp  (now  Lord  Spencer)  ;  to  the  play 
with  David  Beatty,  and  discussed  war  in  the  East  ; 
to  a  dinner  where  Sir  Hugh  Bell  instructed  him 
in  economics  ;  and  occasionally  to  the  House  of 
Commons.  He  went  shooting  with  Mr.  Pierpont 
Morgan.  "  Jack  made  me  laugh  very  much. 
The  Old  Berkeley  comes  to  his  place  twice  a  year. 
He  made  a  remark  to  me  which  I  thought  wrould 
amuse  you  :  '  I  do  not  mind  boarding  two  or 


A  MEMOIR.  125 

three  foxes  for  them,  but  ten's  too  many.'  In 
December  at  North  Mimms  he  met  Mr.  Spender 
of  the  Westminster  Gazette  and  Lord  Harcourt, 
and  heard  much  political  talk.  "  X.  was  sure 
that  Lloyd  George  was  a  Protectionist  and  would 
one  day  be  found  on  the  Protectionist  side.  If 
the  Liberal  Government  were  defeated  at  the 
next  election,  the  Tories  would  bring  in  Tariff 
Reform  at  once  ;  this  would  split  both  parties, 
and  new  parties  would  be  formed.  Probably 
Lloyd  George,  and  possibly  Winston,  would  take 
the  attitude  that  they  had  fought  for  Free  Trade, 
but  that,  now  the  country  had  accepted  Protection, 
unwillingly  they  must  follow  and  form  a  Protection 
Radical  Party.  The  Government  most  certainly 
would  not  go  out  this  winter,  but  might  after  the 
Budget."  So  much  for  the  prophets  ! 

The  year  1909  was  for  Francis  a  period  of 
intense  activity,  both  of  body  and  mind.  He  was 
in  exuberant  health,  and  something  in  the  diamond 
air  of  South  Africa  so  enlarged  his  vitality  that 
in  everything  he  undertook  he  rejoiced  "  as  a 
young  man  about  to  run  a  race."  He  began  on  the 
first  day  of  the  new  year  by  winning  the  lemon- 
cutting  prize  at  the  South  African  Military  Tourna- 
ment. '  Every  one  was  very  surprised,  as  hon- 
estly I  had  never  tried  it  before.  I  never  dreamed 


126    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

I  could  cut  a  lemon,  but  I  proved  to  be  the  only 
one  who  could  cut  both  twice. "    He  nearly  won 
the  tent-pegging  too,  and  got  into  the  final  of  the 
jumping.    "  I  wish,"  he  laments,  "  Staff  College 
work  came   as   easy   as   sports."    That  week  he 
made   the   acquaintance   of  Lady   Selborne.    "  I 
never  liked  a  lady  more.     She  is  Linkie   [Lord 
Hugh  Cecil]  in  a  comic  mood  in  petticoats."    He 
returned  to  Potchefstroom,  but  found  his  study 
much  interfered  with  by  the  conditions  of  life 
there,  so  at  the  end  of  January  he  went  back 
to  Johannesburg,  hired  a  room,  and  sat  down  to 
his  books.    "  Here  I  have  read  from  6  to  8.30 
geography  ;    10  to  i,  the  Times  and  organization  ; 
2.45  to  4.15  I  have  done  French  lessons  ;  4.30  to  7, 
mathematics  ;    dinner  7.15  ;    then  I  read  till  about 
10.      You   cannot   imagine   what   a   difference    it 
makes    to    my    work    to    work    undisturbed.    At 
Potch.    I   never   sit   down   without   being    inter- 
rupted."    In  February  he  was  back  at  Potchef- 
stroom, where  he  now  took  a  room  in  the  town. 
This  was  his  programme  :    "  About  10.30  I  drive 
at  full  speed  to  my  room  and  work  till  2.15.     I 
gallop  back  to  a  late  lunch  at  2.30  ;   then  practise 
or  play  polo.     Commence  work  again  at  5  in  the 
town,  and  do  not  move  till  9  ;   then  home,  small 
supper,  read  a  little,  and  go  to  bed.     I  thus,  in 
addition  to  polo  and  three  hours  riding,  do  eight 


A  MEMOIR.  127 

hours'  work.  Every  one  thinks  I  am  mad,  but  I 
know  I  am  all  right.  Four  hours  at  a  sitting  make 
the  whole  difference." 

Francis's  letters  are  full  of  the  results  of  his 
new  studiousness.  For  one  thing  he  had  come 
round  to  a  belief  in  novels  as  an  adjunct  to  the 
study  of  history. 

"  Few  stolid  history  books  tell  you  where  Napoleon  was 
wounded,  or  how  Lannes  died,  or  how  Napoleon  gained  in- 
formation of  the  Austrian  position.  Nor  do  they  tell  you  that 
one  of  the  chief  causes  of  the  failure  of  Massena  in  Spain 
was  because  he  had  Mile.  X.  with  him.  He  failed  to  pursue 
Wellington  because  Mile.  X.  was  tired.  Ney  refused  to  obey 
his  orders  since  they  had  quarrelled  because  Ney  found  him- 
self sitting  next  Mile.  X.  at  dinner.  Junot  quarrelled  with 
Massena  because  his  wife,  a  princess,  refused  to  speak  to 
Mile.  X.  or  to  stay  under  the  same  roof.  Such  information 
is  gained  from  novels — in  conjunction  with  history/' 

Sometimes  there  is  military  criticism  : — 

"  I  am  thinking  of  writing  to  Colonel  Repington  to  wake 
up  our  army  about  the  use  of  machine  guns.  The  nation 
which  first  studies  them  and  employs  them  scientifically  in 
the  next  war  will  gain  an  immense  advantage  over  a  nation 
which  neglects  their  use'.  At  present,  I  fear,  we  will  be  in 
the  same  position  as  the  Austrians  in  1866." 

From  March  onward,  plans  for  1910  and  1911 
began  to  be  Francis's  chief  solace  in  his  arduous 
labours.  He  implored  Rivy  not  to  sell  his  ponies, 
for  in  1911  he  meant  to  play  polo  hard,  as  well  as 


128    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

ride  in  the  Grand  National.  In  March  he  was 
again  in  Johannesburg,  recovering  from  a  slight 
attack  of  fever,  where  he  solaced  his  convalescence 
with  Queen  Victoria's  Letters,  dined  with  the 
Selbornes,  and  had  lengthy  talks  with  Mr.  Walter 
Long  about  army  reform.  "  I  prayed  him  never 
to  forget  that  an  army  without  discipline  was  worth 
nothing.  The  American  army  had  drilled  in 
drill  halls,  wore  fine  uniforms,  could  shoulder  a 
musket  ;  they  also  knew  all  the  theory  of  marching. 
In  practice  they  failed  to  march  five  miles,  because 
streams,  blackberry  bushes,  and  tight  boots  took 
more  hold  of  them  than  discipline  and  instinctive 
obedience,  which  is  not  obtained  in  a  few  hours' 
training."  He  was  enthusiastic  about  the  Union 
of  South  Africa,  then  in  process  of  formation. 
"  1  am  bound  to  say,  R.  G.,  that  though  we  damned 
the  Radicals  for  giving  back  this  country,  it  seems 
to  have  been  most  beneficial.  Of  course  things 
have  turned  out  far  better  than  they  had  any  right 
to  expect,  but  the  result  is  the  great  thing." 

For  the  next  month  his  letters  are  more  full 
of  polo  than  of  his  studies.  "  I  school  my  ponies 
every  afternoon  myself.  It  has  made  a  surprising 
difference.  My  thoroughbred  Argentine  is  very 
handy,  kind,  and  speedy.  Two  months  ago  she 
was  unmanageable,  so  I  have  ridden  her  two 
hours  in  the  ranks  every  morning  when  there  was 


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no  parade.  She  does  two  hours'  steady  trotting 
early,  and  at  n  she  goes  to  the  riding  school 
for  one  hour.  Every  afternoon  I  school  her  or 
play  her.  The  great  mass  of  work  at  first  had 
no  effect,  but  by  continuing  it  I  wore  her  down, 
and  now  she  is  like  a  dog,  so  quiet  and  so  kind." 
His  future  plans  were  sorting  themselves  out.  He 
sawr  before  him  a  chance  of  qualifying  for  the 
Staff  College,  but  he  was  aware  that  he  could  not 
enter  it  until  he  improved  in  his  languages  ;  so  a 
long  spell  on  the  Continent  in  1911  or  1912  was 
decided  upon.  But  before  that  there  was  to  be 
a  sporting  annus  mirabilis.  "  You  will  be  kept 
pretty  busy  when  F.  G.  comes  home.  I  intend 
having  the  best  stud  of  ponies  ;  six  hunters 
at  Melton  ;  the  smartest  charger  that  will  win 
at  Olympia,  and  a  GRAND  NATIONAL  WINNER 
and  a  TUTOR.  We  will  kick  off  in  September 
1910." 

In  April  the  gth  Lancers  won  the  South  African 
Polo  Championship,  beating  the  3rd  Hussars  by 
eighteen  goals  to  nil  (of  which  eighteen  Francis 
scored  twelve),  and  the  4th  Hussars  by  nine 
goals  to  three.  To  celebrate  the  result  Francis 
took  a  few  days  off  in  Johannesburg,  staying  with 
Hugh  Wyndham.  In  April  he  had  a  fortnight's 
machine-gun  course  at  Bloemfontein,  and  wras 
suddenly  struck  with  the  diversity  of  his  accom- 


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130    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

plishments.  "  It  often  amuses  me  when  I  sum 
up  the  number  of  things  an  officer  is  supposed 
to  know.  Yet  every  civilian  says  he  does  nothing. 
Here  am  I  working  at  ten  subjects  for  Staff  Col- 
lege, and  supposed  to  be  (and  believe  I  am)  an 
expert  at  riding.  I  am  qualified  for  the  Intelli- 
gence Department,  having  done  a  month's  course  ; 
know  my  regimental  duties  ;  and  am  now  going 
very  technically  into  machine  guns  ;  in  addition 
to  being  a  qualified  veterinary  and  engineering 
instructor.  Yet  this  is  only  about  a  quarter  of 
what  most  chaps  can  do." 

In  May  he  suddenly  grew  sleepless,  and  for  a 
week  or  two  was  worried  about  his  health.  He 
finally  cured  himself  by  drinking  hot  milk  before 
going  to  bed.  Towards  the  end  of  the  month  he 
was  busy  with  squadron  training,  and  was  in- 
spected by  Lord  Methuen.  "  Providence  smiled 
on  us,  and  everything  went  off  so  well  that  the 
General  almost  fell  off  his  horse  with  joy.  His 
address  at  the  end  was  as  follows  :  '  I  congratulate 
the  squadron  leader  on  the  way  you  have  drilled 
and  fought  to-day.  I  think  it  is  the  best  squadron 
I  have  ever  seen  in  my  life/  I  never  saw  a  chap 
so  pleased."  He  proposed  to  take  his  examination 
in  August,  and  then  in  September  either  to  go  on 
a  big-game  expedition  or  to  visit  Madagascar  to 
learn  French.  The  second  alternative  was  soon 


A  MEMOIR.  131 

dismissed,  for  he  discovered  that  it  would  take 
as  long  to  get  to  Madagascar  as  to  get  to  England  ; 
but  he  did  his  best  to  persuade  Rivy  to  join  him 
in  the  big-game  hunt.  In  June  he  was  elected 
Secretary  of  the  South  African  Polo  Association, 
and  at  a  polo  dinner  made  one  of  his  infrequent 
public  speeches.  "  Every  one  said  it  was  good. 
It  was  certainly  a  great  deal  the  longest."  He 
was  very  pleased,  too,  with  the  result  of  the  Brigade 
parades,  where  he  was  congratulated  by  the  in- 
specting General.  "  The  Colonel  showed  me  my 
confidential  report.  It  seemed  rather  flattering: 
'  This  officer  is  a  candidate  for  the  Staff  College, 
and  should  make  an  excellent  Staff  officer  (What 
Ho  !).  His  most  notable  qualities  are  his  ex- 
cessive keenness  and  capacity  for  working  ;  a  very 
good  officer,  a  fine  horseman,  and  a  most  thorough 
sportsman  '  (!  !)." 

There  was  certainly  no  doubt  about  the  ex- 
cessive keenness  of  this  very  good  officer.  In  the 
same  letter  he  informed  Rivy  that  in  1911  he 
intended  to  compete  in  the  following  events  : — 

1.  Army  Point-to-Point. 

2.  Grand  Military. 

3.  Grand  National. 

4.  Champion  Polo  Cup. 

5.  Inter-Regimental  Cup. 

6.  Staff  College. 


132    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

"  It  would,  of  course,  be  a  record  to  win  the  lot," 
he  adds  modestly  ;  "  still,  I  hope  to.  I  have 
written  to  Marcus  Beresford  (talk  to  him  at  the 
Turf,  if  you  see  him)  and  asked  him  for  the  best 
trainer."  A  little  later  he  sketches  the  following 
brilliant  programme : — 

"  Tableau. 

11 1911. — F.  G.  winning  Grand  Military,  Grand  National, 
High  Jump  at  Olympia,  Champion  Cup,  Inter- Regimental, 
Army  P.-to-P.,  Staff  Nomination  for  having  beaten  all  previous 
records !  Cheers  from  R.  G.  in  the  stands  !  Cheers  from 
Bonbright,  who  seizes  the  stakes  ! 

"  I  mean  to  have  the  best  polo  team  and  to  improve  polo, 
and  if  possible  play  for  England  and  challenge  the  Yanks.  I 
mean  to  have  two  shots  at  the  Grand  National  and  Gold 
Cup.  I  mean  to  get  into  the  Staff  College.  I  mean  to  wake 
myself  up  and  remember  Sir  Richard  Grenville's  dying  words 
when  his  one  ship  took  on  fifty-four  Spaniards,  '  Fight  on — 
fight  on ! ' ' 

These  ambitions  did  not  interfere  with  his 
laborious  habits.  On  ist  August  he  notes  that  he 
had  done  over  ten  hours  a  day  for  six  weeks  ! 
Then  came  the  examination.  "  The  flag  dropped 
on  Wednesday,"  he  wrote  to  Rivy,  "  since  when 
I  have  been  up  and  over.  I  think  I  am  still 
going  round,  lying  about  third.  We  have  a  big, 
broad  fence  on  strategy,  six  hours'  writing,  and 
then  a  nasty  strong  one  in  geography  and  French." 
On  the  1 6th  he  wrote :  "It  has  been  a  great  ex- 
perience to  me.  It  is  a  hard  examination,  and 


A  MEMOIR.  133 

requires  numerous  qualities  to  be  successful.  I 
got  a  little  stale  about  the  middle.  I  jumped  some 
fences  too  big,  others  too  low,  and  consequently 
pecked  a  good  deal.  I  never  came  right  off,  and 
finished  the  course  anxious  to  start  again."  The 
result  was  that  in  his  papers  Francis  did  well 
enough  to  qualify  for  the  Staff  College.  It  was 
a  remarkable  performance,  for  he  did  it  entirely 
to  gain  experience,  since  he  was  not  actually 
competing  that  year ;  and  to  undergo  so  drastic  a 
discipline  merely  for  training  argued  a  real  power 
of  self-command. 

For  Rivy  the  first  half  of  1909  was  clouded  by 
misfortunes.  His  Christmas  visit  to  Eaton  had 
fallen  through,  and  he  spent  the  last  week  of  1908 
alone  in  London,  reading  Queen  Victoria's  Letters 
and  Gladstone's  Life.  He  was  glad  of  the  soli- 
tude, for  he  had  been  rather  depressed  of  late, 
reflecting  upon  the  number  of  ragged  ends  in 
his  life.  "  Still,  I  think  if  one  plugs"  so  he  con- 
soled himself,  "  the  horizon  suddenly  clears  and 
you  find  you  have  '  arrived  '  quite  unconsciously. 
It  is  like  polo  :  one  plays  (one  thinks)  badly 
against  Buckmaster,  but  then  go  against  a  weaker 
team  and  you  find  you  are  in  a  class  by  yourself. 
When  you  feel  downhearted,  think  of  Lord 
Beaconsfield.  He  stood  for  Wycombe  four  times 
between  the  ages  of  twenty-eight  and  thirty-four, 


i34    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

and  was  beaten  each  time  by  an  enormous  majority. 
At  last  he  got  in  somewhere  ;  then  made  his  first 
speech  in  the  House,  and  every  one  roared  at  him, 
he  made  such  a  mess  of  it.  But  he  didn't  care 
a  hang." 

The  depression  was  presently  explained.  Early 
in  January  he  was  threatened  with  appendicitis, 
but  seemed  to  recover.  He  went  down  to  stay 
with  his  uncle,  Lord  Grenfell,  at  Butler's  Court, 
where  his  reading  combined  the  Life  of  Jack 
Sheppard  with  the  Life  of  Queen  Victoria.  "  He 
was  a  notorious  criminal  of  the  eighteenth  century, 
who  did  about  twenty-four  murders,  and  escaped 
from  the  condemned  cell  on  four  occasions.  I 
described  some  of  the  details  to  Aline  [Lady 
Grenfell] ,  who  hates  horrors ;  so  the  Uncle  goes 
into  the  next  room  and  takes  out  an  old  scrap- 
book  in  which  there  was  a  picture  of  him  in  1876 
superintending  the  execution  of  three  niggers  in 
Kaffirland,  which  nearly  made  Aline  sick."  Next 
week-end  he  went  to  Lillieshall,  to  the  Duchess  of 
Sutherland,  where  there  was  a  cheerful  party, 
and  on  the  following  Monday  met  Lord  Haldane 
at  dinner  and  discussed  with  him  the  Battle  of 
Jena  and  the  character  of  the  Kaiser.  "  Haldane 
seems  to  me  a  wonderful  cove."  On  the  Wed- 
nesday, while  at  dinner,  he  suddenly  got  ill  ; 
the  doctors  pronounced  it  acute  appendicitis,  and 


A  MEMOIR.  135 

he  was  carried  off  to  a  nursing  home.  He  was 
operated  on  at  nine  in  the  morning  of  6th  Feb- 
ruary by  Sir  Alfred  Fripp.  Not  having  acquired 
the  operations  habit,  he  took  the  matter  very 
seriously,  made  a  new  will  leaving  everything  to 
Francis,  and  composed  a  letter  to  his  brother, 
only  to  be  sent  if  he  should  not  recover.  In 
that  letter  he  wrote  : — 

"  I  do  not  mind  the  idea  of  the  thing  at  all.  I  feel  that 
even  if  it  goes  wrong  it  cannot  be  helped.  I  have  had  a  mighty 
good  life,  and  have  left  nothing  behind  to  be  ashamed  of,  and 
can  face  the  next  world  with  a  clear  conscience,  .  ,  .  Work 
hard  at  your  books.  You  have  a  good  reputation  in  the  army, 
and  only  books  and  seeing  plenty  of  the  world  can  get  you  on  ; 
so  whenever  you  feel  lazy  think  that  R.  G.  would  like  you  to 
be  working.  Best  love,  F.  G.  You  have  been  a  good  friend 
to  me." 

The  operation  was  successful,  and  Rivy,  though 
he  had  an  uncomfortable  fortnight,  was  intensely 
interested  in  his  sensations. 

"  I  can  remember  talking  a  great  deal  of  rot  for  the  next 
hour,  and  having  a  long  discussion  with  the  nurse  as  to  what 
sort  of  cable  should  be  sent  you.  She  was  awfully  amused. 
I  knew  I  was  talking  rot,  and  yet  I  could  not  help  it.  I  said 
such  things  as  this :  '  Please  cable  to  my  brother  at  once  that 
I  have  done  the  operation,  and  that  I  found  it  rather  difficult 
to  jab  the  appendix  out,  but  that  it  was  all  done  successfully/ 
I  said  I  particularly  wanted  to  see  Angus  McDonnell,  but  that 
if  he  came  up  they  must  show  him  on  to  the  roof.  This  went 
on  till  about  one,  when  I  got  more  sane  and  more  uncomfort- 
able. ...  I  have  been  very  surprised  at  the  way  they  feed 


136    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

you  up.  I  have  something  every  two  hours,  and  since  Tuesday 
have  been  on  solid  food  and  having  brandy  three  times  a  day. 
It  is  on  occasions  like  this  that  being  a  teetotaller  pays.  I  am 
quite  sure  the  brandy  benefits  me  three  times  as  much  as  it 
would  the  ordinary  invalid." 

Rivy's  convalescence  was  slow,  and  horses  were 
out  of  the  question  for  a  month  or  two.  He  spent 
a  good  deal  of  his  time  at  Cliveden  with  Waldorf 
Astor,  and  at  the  end  of  March  was  back  at 
business.  About  this  time  he  wrote  to  Francis  : — 

'  You  say  you  are  getting  unsociable.  I  don't  think  this 
matters  a  hang.  In  fact,  it  is  a  good  thing  to  want  to  be  alone — 
it  shows  you  have  other  interests  ;  but  then  you  must  counter- 
act this  by  making  yourself  pleasant  when  you  happen  to  be 
with  your  brother  officers,  and  live  up  or  down  to  the  person 
you  happen  to  be  with.  You  used  to  curse  me  for  liking  to  be 
alone ;  yet  I  never  seem  to  be  alone.  How  much  better  it  is 
to  be  talking  to  Rose  or  Marbot  about  Napoleon  than  to  X. 
about  a  girl  in  Jo'burg.  You  and  I  always  tend  to  be  too 
much  in  Society.  In  fact,  we  are  thick-headed  because  we 
never  have  been  alone,  and  so  never  read  the  ordinary  books 
that  most  boys  know  by  heart." 

By  a  diligent  regime  and  much  dumb-bell 
exercise  Rivy  hoped  to  be  able  to  play  polo  in 
May.  Meantime  he  was  much  perturbed  by 
Francis's  wild  schemes  for  1911,  for  Francis,  in 
almost  every  letter,  urged  the  wholesale  purchase 
of  ponies.  "  You  forget  that  to  have  fifty  ponies 
you  will  want  £20,000  a  year.  Unfortunately, 
some  of  us  have  a  way  of  spending  about  three 


A  MEMOIR.  137 

times  as  much  as  we  have,  and  so  it  becomes 
necessary  now  and  again  to  sell  a  pony.  You 
write  very  foolish  remarks  about  *  you  City  chaps 
always  wanting  to  sell  ponies.'  If  a  mug  happens 
to  bid  me  £300  for  '  Sweetbriar '  I  shall  certainly 
sell  her."  Early  in  April  he  had  a  touch  of  influ- 
enza, and  his  letters  show  it.  "  I  have  bought  you 
the  Empire  typewriter  that  you  asked  for.  Miss 
Friston  says  that  it  will  take  you  some  time  prob- 
ably to  learn  how  to  work  it  at  any  speed,  but  I 
say  it  will  take  you  an  eternity.  I  would  suggest 
your  writing  some  of  your  letters  to  your  friends 
(except  me)  by  it.  I  cannot  think  what  you  have 
bought  it  for,  as  the  time  you  will  be  spending 
learning  this  you  might  have  spent  in  learning 
how  to  outwit  Wilhelm  in  the  next  Anglo- German 
war."  Again  :  "  You  always  laugh  at  me  over 
money,  but  it  is  time  you  realized  that  I  only 
save  because  I  know  far  more  about  it  than  you.  .  .  . 
You  have  about  £16,000  in  the  world,  and  get  on 
it  about  £1,000  a  year.  How  can  you  buy  Na- 
tional horses,  hunters,  and  the  best  polo  ponies 
on  that  ?  You  will,  by  spending  more  capital  on 
horses,  have  less  to  invest,  and  so  will  have  far 
less  income.  The  only  soldiers  who  ride  steeple- 
chases now  are  people  like  McCalmont,  who  has 
about  a  million,  and  George  Paynter,  who  has 
£10,000  a  year.  These  are  facts,  and  cannot  be 


138    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

got  away  from  ;  so  be  content  to  be  the  best  polo 
player  in  the  best  regiment,  not  a  sort  of  mug 
steeplechase  rider  whom  no  one  hears  of,  and  who 
goes  bust/'  In  letter  after  letter  Rivy  laboured 
to  win  Francis  from  his  grandiose  schemes  and 
confine  his  ambitions  to  polo.  He  wanted  to 
make  up  a  first-class  team  in  which  he  should 
play  No.  i  and  Francis  No.  2 ;  but  Francis  was 
obdurate.  "I  am  going  for  the  National, "  he 
wrote,  "the  Grand  Military,  the  Army  P.-to-P., 
and  our  own  Regimental  cups.  I  will  not  hunt." 
In  May  came  the  famous  1909  Budget,  on 
which  Rivy's  comments  show  commendable  mod- 
eration. "  They  have  hit  the  rich  from  every 
corner,  and  so  every  one  is  crying  out.  Personally 
I  think  there  is  a  great  deal  to  be  said  in  favour  of 
these  socialistic  Budgets.  Old  Rothschild  will  not 
eat  any  less  foie  gras  because  he  has  to  pay  a  little 
more  for  his  motor  cars,"  But  books  and  politics 
and  everything  else  were  presently  submerged  by 
the  challenge  of  the  American  team.  For  the 
rest  of  the  summer  Rivy's  letters  contained  little 
besides  polo,  and  even  the  student  at  Potchef- 
stroom  was  stirred  to  enthusiasm.  Rivy  was  tried 
for  the  English  team,  but  did  not  ultimately  get 
a  place  in  it,  for  the  committee  thought  that  his 
operation  had  left  him  too  weak.  He  accepted 
the  decision  loyally,  and  constituted  himself  the 


A  MEMOIR.  139 

whole-hearted  champion  of  the  team  ultimately 
chosen.  The  Americans  greatly  impressed  him. 
"  They  have  taken  the  place  by  storm.  Money  is 
absolutely  no  object  at  all.  They  have  twenty- 
five  ponies — all  English  except  one,  and  all  costing 
about  £500  each.  Instead  of  being  bad  players, 
as  everybody  expected,  they  are  remarkably  good, 
and  their  ponies  are  really  wonderful.  They  not 
only  have  their  own,  but  all  the  ponies  that  other 
millionaires  have  been  buying  during  the  last  three 
years." 

In  May  he  went  for  a  week  to  Holland  with 
Lord  Grenfell  and  his  sister-in-law.  "  He  and  I 
went  out  one  morning  early,  and  were  looking  at 
some  rather  nice  biblical  pictures  in  a  shop  whir 
dow  when  we  suddenly  heard  a  terrific  squealing. 
*  By  Jove/  said  the  Uncle,  '  they  are  killing  a  pig.' 
So  off  we  went  at  top  speed,  to  find  some  wretched 
pigs  not  being  killed,  as  he  had  hoped,  but  being 
dragged  from  a  high  cart  and  being  weighed  for 
market.  '  Most  instructive,'  said  the  Uncle.  '  I 
should  never  have  knowrn  how  to  catch  a  pig.' 
We  went  also  to  a  diamond-cutting  place,  and  saw 
where  the  Cullinan  diamond  was  cut.  It  was 
difficult  to  get  into,  so  I  made  the  Uncle  tell  the 
Jew  boy  at  the  door  that  he  was  '  Gold  Stick  in 
Waiting  '  to  the  King.  You  never  saw  such  a 
wonderful  effect  as  it  had  on  the  nosy  brigade. 


140    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

They  showed  us  a  cup  given  by  the  King,  on 
which  were  inscribed  the  words  :  '  To  Benjamin, 
Joseph,  and  Moses  Asscher,  for  services  to  the 
King  of  England ' — which  amused  us  very  much 
indeed." 

After  that  there  is  nothing  but  polo.  Rivy 
records  how  at  one  match  he  heard  a  lady  in  a 
stand  saying,  "  Why  do  we  not  breed  such  ponies 
as  that  in  this  country  ?  The  Americans  under- 
stand everything  so  much  better  than  we  do." 
"  Whose  was  the  pony  ?  None  but  the  famous 
'  Cinderella/  sold  by  R.  G.  to  the  Americans  at 
the  end  of  last  year.  There  is  a  good  deal  of  rot 
like  this  being  talked."  Rivy  played  very  well 
in  some  of  the  trial  matches,  and  for  long  it  was 
a  nice  question  whether  he  would  not  be  chosen 
for  England.  He  watched  the  performances  of  his 
old  "Cinderella"  with  intense  interest.  "  They 
play  her  in  plain  double  bridle,  but  she  does  not 
seem  quite  so  handy  as  when  I  had  her.  She  has 
her  near  fore  all  wrapped  up  in  cotton  wool.  I 
would  laugh  if  she  broke  down,  for,  as  a  Jew  once 
said,  '  Ze  Christians  have  ze  shares  and  ve  ze 
cash  ' — the  Yankees  have  the  pony  and  I  the  cash, 
with  which  I  bought  two  others." 

His  letters  about  this  time  are  so  technical 
that  they  scarcely  bear  reprinting,  but  they  seem 
to  me  to  contain  the  complete  philosophy  of  polo, 


A  MEMOIR.  141 

and  I  have  no  doubt  that  Francis  greatly  benefited 
by  them.  Rivy  had  made  up  his  mind  that  if 
the  cup  were  lost  he  and  Francis  would  make  up 
a  team  which  would  recover  it,  and  he  studied 
every  detail  of  every  game,  and  especially  the 
American  method  of  pony  management,  with  an 
acumen  which  might  have  made  his  fortune  on 
the  Stock  Exchange.  When  the  disastrous  final 
match  was  played  and  the  cup  was  lost,  Francis 
wrote : — 

"  A  very  good  letter  from  you  full  of  how  we  are  going  to 
beat  the  Yanks,  but  a  telegram  has  appeared  announcing 
England's  defeat  by  18  to  7.  ...  I  await  your  explanations. 
We  must  now  put  our  backs  to  it  and  go  to  America  and  get  the 
cup  back.  It  will  give  us  a  dashed  good  goal  to  work  up  for, 
and  all  England  will  give  us  a  cheer.  We  must  lie  doggo  for 
two  or  three  years  and  practise,  practise,  practise.  Will  you 
take  it  on  ?  I  have  never  really  laid  myself  out  for  polo  as 
I  am  going  to  do  now.  Every  yokel  here  is  discussing  our 
defeat.  I  don't  suppose  in  any  colony  there  is  a  European 
who  has  not  heard  of  it.  So  up,  ye  men,  and  at  'em !  " 

Rivy's  comments  on  the  final  match  seem  to 
me  very  sound.  "  The  American  ponies  are  un- 
doubtedly better  than  ours  :  they  jump  off  quicker 
and  go  in  quicker.  As  for  the  striking  of  the 
Americans,  they  hit  the  polo  ball  as  if  it  were  a 
racquet  ball.  They  are  truly  wonderful.  When- 
ever they  get  away  they  get  a  goal.  This,  as  you 
know,  is  exceedingly  rare  on  English  ground. 


142    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Freake  and  Pat  Nickalls,  whom  I  have  always 
admired  as  fine  hitters,  are  children  compared 
with  the  Yankees.  The  extraordinary  part  is 
that  '  Cinderella '  has  proved  by  far  the  best  pony 
on  the  American  side.  I  do  not  know  what  they 
have  done  with  her,  or  whether  the  English  ponies 
are  worse  than  they  were  last  year,  but  on  all  sides 
yesterday  I  kept  hearing,  *  What  a  wonderful  pony 
that  is  that  Grenfell  sold ! '  All  the  papers  seem 
to  rub  it  in,  and  it  seems  funny  to  think  that  this 
pony  was  hawking  round  London  last  year  for 
six  weeks  and  advertised  in  the  papers  before  the 
Yankees  bought  it.  I  am  now  perpetually  asked, 
'  Why  on  earth  did  you  sell  her  ?  '  My  only 
answer  is,  '  Why  on  earth  did  I  break  my  leg  ?  * ' 
He  was  very  rightly  furious  at  the  attacks  in  the 
papers  on  the  English  team,  especially  before  the 
final — "  I  thought  it  very  unsportsmanlike  of  a 
decent  paper  to  cut  off  the  heads  of  the  English 
players  before  they  had  gone  on  the  field," — and  he 
wrote  an  excellent  letter  in  the  Times  on  this  point. 
He  summed  up  the  situation  thus  to  Francis : — 

"  Whitney  determined  to  try  to  win  this  cup  four  years 
ago.  For  four  years  he  has  been  collecting  all  the  ponies  he 
could,  and  all  his  team  has  been  trained  to  play  together. 
The  Waterburys  are  two  magnificent  players.  Larry  is  the 
champion  racquet  player  of  America.  They  have  played  polo 
since  they  were  ten,,  and  always  together.  To  get  the  cup 
back  we  must  do  likewise/' 


A  MEMOIR.  143 

Among  the  many  entertainments  given  to  the 
American  team  was  a  luncheon  at  the  Pilgrims' 
Club,  with  Lord  Grenfell  in  the  chair.  In  the 
course  of  his  speech  he  expounded  the  habits  of 
his  nephews.  "  I  do  not  know  if  there  is  anybody 
present  who  is  an  uncle.  If  so  I  hope  he  has  not 
been  blessed  with  such  nephews  as  the  two  that 
I  have.  One  of  them  sits  there  ;  the  other,  thank 
Heaven,  is  engaged  in  South  Africa.  I  have  a 
small  estate  in  the  country  where  I  hoped  to 
feed  and  fatten  some  cattle  and  sheep.  On  my 
return  from  abroad  I  found  some  very  thin  cattle, 
some  thinner  sheep,  and  some  extremely  fat  polo 
ponies.  On  making  inquiries,  my  bailiff  told  me 
that  he  had  received  instructions  that  these  ponies 
(sent  down  without  my  permission)  were  to  be 
kept  '  in  the  field  where  the  Uncle  grows  his  hay.' 
The  result  was  that  I  had  no  grass  ;  all  the  bark 
was  torn  from  my  trees  ;  there  was  an  enormous 
hole  in  my  hayrick — which  I  think '  Cinderella'  used 
as  a  bedroom  ;  and  in  addition  one  day  '  Cinderella ' 
got  loose  and  made  a  fine  meal  off  my  geraniums." 

I  think  it  may  fairly  be  said  that  of  all  polo 
players  in  England  Rivy  was  the  first  to  divine 
the  secret  of  the  American  success,  and  to  begin, 
laboriously  and  scientifically,  to  lay  plans  to  win 
back  the  cup.  He  was  very  clear  that  it  was  no 
use  attempting  the  thing  in  1910,  and  that  England 


144    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

must  lie  low  until  she  had  trained  a  team  adequate 
for  the  purpose.  His  own  dream  was  'that  that 
team  should  consist  of  himself  as  No.  i,  Francis 
No.  2,  Hardress  Lloyd  back,  and  either  Bertie 
Wilson  or  Noel  Edwards  as  No.  3.  He  estimated 
that  it  would  take  £15,000  to  collect  ponies.  "  If 
you  and  I  practise  hard  together,"  he  wrote  to 
Francis,  "  and  discuss  the  thing  every  evening,  we 
could,  I  am  sure,  become  as  good  as  the  Water- 
burys.  The  whole  American  combination  was 
due  to  them.  They  used  to  work  out  problems 
on  the  polo  ground  and  then  practise  them. 
...  It  would  be  a  big  thing  to  do,  and  one 
worth  concentrating  on  ;  but  if  you  are  going 
to  work  for  the  Staff  College  and  play  this  sort 
of  polo,  you  must  chuck  all  your  other  foolish 
ideas  of  steeplechasing." 

On  28th  July  he  went  to  America  for  his  firm, 
and  stayed  on  his  arrival  with  Mr.  Devereux 
Milburn.  With  his  host  and  the  Waterburys  he 
went  down  to  Newport  to  see  a  match  for  the 
American  Champion  Cup.  He  was  much  struck  by 
the  hardness  and  fastness  of  the  grounds,  which 
reminded  him  more  of  India  than  of  England. 
His  conclusion  was  that  the  average  American 
player  was  not  good,  and  that  the  Meadowbrook 
team  who  had  won  the  cup  in  England  were  in 
a  class  by  themselves.  He  spent  some  pleasant 


A  MEMOIR.  145 

weeks  in  America,  busy  in  his  American  office  and 
occasionally  spending  a  Sunday  with  Jack  Morgan. 
On  their  joint  birthday  he  wrote  to  Francis :  "  I 
hope  this  is  the  last  birthday  for  some  years  that 
we  shall  be  separated.  Twenty-nine  seems  dashed 
old  to  me  ;  twenty-seven  and  twenty-eight  always 
sounded  young,  but  at  twenty-nine  we  should 
start  and  be  up  and  doing.  I  am  getting  on  very 
well  in  my  firm,  and  have  really  a  great  chance  in 
the  future.  I  made  £1,500  this  year,  but,  like  an 
idiot,  speculated  last  Christmas  and  lost  some 
money  and  also  spent  about  £2,000.  Why  do  we 
spend  such  an  infernal  amount  ?  '  He  varied 
his  business  with  reading  a  good  deal  of  Shake- 
speare, and  Bryce's  American  Commonwealth.  One 
day  he  met  an  old  Eton  friend.  "  He  amused 
me  enormously,  for  he  had,  of  course,  got  in- 
terested in  a  wonderful  invention.  Most  people 
here  are  interested  in  large  development  schemes, 
but,  just  like  a  thin-headed  Englishman,  he  has 
got  a  patent  for  closing  whisky  bottles.  I  did 
not  like  to  suggest  to  him  that  the  majority  of 
people  I  met  were  searching  for  patents  to  open 
them." 

About  the  middle  of  September  he  came  back 
to  England  to  dispose  of  a  new  business  which 
his  firm  had  acquired,  where  he  found  his  groom 
in  despair  over  Francis's  African  ponies,  which 

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146    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

had  just  arrived.  "  He  wants  to  know  what 
language  they  understand,  as  they  don't  seem  to 
answer  to  English."  At  home  he  got  the  news  of 
Francis's  success  in  his  examination.  "  I  never 
was  so  surprised  in  my  life  as  to  find  that  you  had 
qualified  in  everything.  You  must  have  become 
a  sort  of  encyclopaedia,  for  there  was  not  one 
word  in  any  paper  that  I  could  have  answered. 
It  seems  astounding  what  one  can  learn  by  hard 
work,  for  I  have  always  felt  that  you  would  never 
pass  anything  except  possibly  the  entry  exam, 
into  Eton  !  " 

On  1 6th  October  he  left  again  for  America, 
and  in  the  first  week  of  November  attended  a 
dinner  given  to  the  American  polo  team.  There 
he  made  a  speech  which  was  a  huge  success. 

"  These  fellows  have  a  pleasant  way  of  suddenly  calling 
upon  you  for  a  speech ;  so,  as  I  was  anxious  to  do  it  properly, 
I  worked  hard,  not  only  at  the  words  but  at  the  delivery.  At 
the  dinner  there  were  two  hundred  people  collected  from  all 
parts  of  the  U.S.A. — army  officers  from  Wyoming,  Canadian 
officers,  Mr.  Root  (a  member  of  the  Cabinet),  Mr.  Bacon  (Sec- 
retary of  State),  Mr.  Milburn  (head  of  the  Bar),  etc.  I  was  not 
down  to  speak,  and  luckily  the  speeches  were  all  very  bad, 
with  no  jokes.  I  sat  on  the  dais  and  was  several  times  referred 
to,  so  that  I  felt  I  ought  to  say  something.  At  the  beginning 
of  dinner  I  had  told  the  chap  next  to  me  that  Englishmen  were 
very  poor  speakers.  He  said  that  it  came  quite  natural  to 
most  Americans ;  so  I  said  that  nothing  in  the  world  scared  me 
so  much,  and  that  I  could  not  do  it.  Just  before  the  end  of 
the  last  speech  I  told  him  I  felt  I  ought  to  say  something,  but 


A  MEMOIR.  147 

did  not  know  what  to  say.  He  thought  it  a  capital  joke,  and 
sent  a  message  to  Whitney  to  call  on  me.  I  got  up  and,  funnily 
enough,  did  not  feel  a  bit  nervous.  It  is  an  extraordinary 
feeling  when  you  get  hold  of  an  audience.  They  roared  at  my 
jokes,  much  appreciated  my  references  to  Whitney  and  the 
way  we  admired  him,  and  finally,  when  I  sat  down  after  fifteen 
minutes  without  a  check,  they  all  stood  up  and  sang, '  For  he's  a 
jolly  good  fellow.'  Mr.  Root  congratulated  me,  and  Mr.  Bacon 
said  he  had  rarely  heard  a  speech  better  delivered.  I  had  to 
shake  hands  with  everybody  there.  The  Canadians  were  de- 
lighted that  a  Britisher  should  make  a  far  better  speech  than  any 
Yankee.  My  pal  who  sat  next  me  told  every  one  I  had  said 
I  could  not  speak  at  all,  and  that  I  was  quite  unprepared.  He 
thought  me  a  sort  of  Demosthenes.  Wasn't  it  luck  ?  Francis 
Fitzgibbon  was  told  on  the  Cotton  Exchange  next  day '  that  an 
Englishman  had  made  the  best  speech  that  was  ever  heard  of.'  " 

Altogether  Rivy  had  a  very  pleasant  time  in 
America,  getting  through  a  great  deal  of  business 
and  making  innumerable  friends.  Among  his 
recreations  he  rated  high  the  privilege  of  roaming 
through  Mr.  Pierpont  Morgan's  private  library. 
"  Some  of  the  things  simply  took  one's  breath 
away,  and  I  am  surprised  that  the  British  Museum 
allowed  them  to  get  out  of  the  country.  He  has 
all  Macaulay's  original  letters  and  manuscripts, 
also  Walpole's,  Thackeray's,  and  Dickens's,  etc., 
with  scratchings  out  and  alterations  made  with 
their  own  pens.  Mr.  Morgan,  senior,  is  a  jolly 
old  boy  with  a  very  determined  look.  He  has 
told  me  to  go  and  see  his  library  whenever  I  like." 

Meantime  Francis,  having  finished  his  labours, 


148    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

thought  of  relaxation.  He  departed  in  the  end 
of  August  for  Barotseland  in  company  with  M. 
Chevally,  the  French  Consul  at  Johannesburg. 
When  they  got  into  the  lion  country  on  the  Kafue 
his  companion  grew  restless.  "  I  sleep  in  his 
tent.  He  got  up  three  times  in  one  night  and 
asked  my  hunter  if  that  was  a  lion,  as  he  thought 
he  heard  a  moan.  Last  night  I  said,  '  It  is  so  hot ; 
let  us  have  the  tent  open/  '  All  right/  he  said, 
but  the  moment  he  thought  I  was  asleep  he  got 
up  and  laced  the  tent  down."  M.  Chevally,  who 
had  not  come  out  to  hunt,  presently  returned  home, 
and  Francis  went  northward  into  the  thick  bush 
of  the  Kafue  region.  His  letters  to  Rivy  are  filled 
with  the  usual  details  of  African  hunting,  and  in 
deference  to  his  brother's  profession  he  intercalates 
observations  on  trade.  "  The  few  traders  I  have 
seen  are  remarkable  for  their  lack  of  organization. 
I  have  met  four.  All  are  broke,  and  yet  at  times 
make  £5,000  a  year."  He  greatly  admired  his 
hunter,  "  an  old  filibuster  who  used  to  trade  in 
poached  ivory.  He  has  had  over  £30,000  to  his 
credit,  but  is  now,  like  most,  broke.  He  is  a  sort 
of  Starlight  in  Robbery  under  Arms,  and  has  twice 
been  tried  for  murder.  He  began,  as  in  novels, 
by  being  shipwrecked  off  Quilimane  in  1869  or 
thereabouts,  the  Portuguese  being  then  at  war 
with  the  natives.  A  Jew  in  Quilimane  supplied 


A  MEMOIR.  149 

the  natives  with  powder,  which  my  chap  carried 
through  to  them  and  was  paid  £1,000." 

After  leaving  the  Kafue  Flats  he  rejoined  the 
railway  and  went  on  to  Broken  Hill,  whence  he 
intended  to  trek  towards  Lake  Nyassa.  So  far 
he  had  done  fairly  well  with  buck,  having  got 
eland,  lechwe,  roan,  reedbuck,  oribi,  and  wilde- 
beest. At  Broken  Hill  he  was  entertained  by 
Charles  Grey,*  and  had  much  trouble  with  his 
hunter,  who  was  drunk  for  two  days.  "  I  have 
been  in  the  most  awful  places  after  him.  He 
broke  into  my  chest  and  got  rid  of  four  bottles  of 
brandy." 

In  the  beginning  of  October  he  was  on  the 
Loangwa  River.  "  Charming  country,  big  rivers, 
high  hills,  good  trees ;  but  Providence  (Whose 
doings  we  cannot  understand)  has  provided  a 
Tsetse  Fly  that  worries  you  all  day."  There  he 
got  a  charging  rhino  at  about  twenty  yards,  and 
had  a  stiff  hunt  after  that  most  dangerous  of 
quarries,  the  African  buffalo.  "  I  led  the  attack, 
cleared  for  action,  with  a  nigger  behind  me  to 
keep  me  on  the  spoor.  We  went  through  very 
high  thick  grass,  like  that  stuff  we  got  tiger  out  of 
in  India.  The  niggers  at  first  refused  to  go  in. 
After  seven  hours'  pursuit  we  passed  a  tree  up 
which,  luckily,  we  put  a  nigger,  and  so  spied  the 

*  Younger  brother  of  Lord  Grey  of  Fallodon. 


ISO    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

buffalo  lying  down  fifty  yards  ahead.  I  climbed 
the  tree  like  a  monkey  and  killed  him.  The  whole 
hunt  lasted  eight  hours  :  we  started  just  before 
daylight  on  the  spoor,  and  killed  the  buffalo  at 
1.30 — walking  all  the  time  in  the  middle  of  a 
Central  African  summer."  A  little  later  he  tried 
for  an  elephant,  but  had  no  luck,  though  he 
had  four  separate  hunts,  each  taking  about  four 
days'  hard  walking.  Presently  he  came  to  the 
conclusion  that  he  had  had  enough  of  it.  "It 
made  my  mouth  water,"  wrote  Rivy,  "  to  hear 
that  you  were  surrounded  by  about  6,000  big 
game,  while  I  am  surrounded  by  about  6,000  big 
noses  of  the  Jewish  fraternity."  But  hunting,  as 
Francis  found  it,  was  too  monotonous  a  pursuit  to 
satisfy  him  indefinitely.  "  It  is  extraordinary  what 
regular  walking  does.  I  look  on  fifteen  miles  as 
nothing.  Last  week  I  did  twenty  miles  and  shot  a 
hippo  after  it  before  sundown.  That  means  a  walk 
from  Wilton  Park  to  Ascot."  This  is  the  young 
gentleman  who  in  India  had  decided  that  Provi- 
dence did  not  mean  him  to  use  his  legs  otherwise 
than  on  horseback !  On  his  journey  down  country 
he  did  150  miles  on  foot  in  six  and  a  half  days.  On 
the  8th  of  November  he  was  back  in  Potchefstroom. 
"  I  am  exceedingly  glad  I  have  done  the  trip,  but 
somehow  I  do  not  feel  very  anxious  to  do  it  again. 
But  it  has  been  a  most  thorough  mental  rest." 


A  MEMOIR.  151 

The  effects  of  the  mental  rest  and  the  hard 
training  which  Francis  had  enjoyed  were  speedily 
apparent  in  his  letters  home.  He  discovered  in 
himself  a  strong  disinclination  to  turn  his  attention 
to  books.  His  thoughts  were  all  now  on  physical 
culture,  on  polo,  and  on  his  approaching  return 
to  England.  He  pled  with  Rivy  to  buy  ponies, 
all  of  the  best  and  as  many  as  possible.  "  If  you 
will  not  spend  the  money  yourself,  for  Heaven's 
sake  spend  mine."  He  repudiated  with  scorn  the 
suggestion  that  he  should  write  of  his  Central 
African  experiences  in  a  magazine.  "  Don't  you 
become  a  Jew  boy,"  he  told  his  brother,  "  because 
you  live  among  them.  I  will  never,  never  write 
to  a  magazine.  Nothing  does  a  soldier  more 
harm.  Every  person  has  his  own  job,  and  the 
successful  man  is  he  who  knows  what  is  his  and 
sticks  to  it.  Literature  and  money-making  are 
not  mine,  and  I  intend  to  interfere  in  neither.  I 
think  you  are  very  ill-advised  to  be  always  looking 
for  cheap  advertisement."  The  great  sporting 
events  for  which  he  intended  to  enter  monopolized 
his  mind.  At  a  boxing  match,  observing  that  one 
of  the  combatants  sipped  champagne  between 
rounds,  he  came  to  the  conclusion  that  even  a 
teetotaller  like  himself  might  benefit  by  a  little 
dope  before  a  big  match,  so  he  implored  Rivy  to 
get  the  best  medical  opinion  on  the  subject.  He 


152    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

was  not  prepared  to  abate  one  jot  of  his  ambitions. 
"  You  will  be  miserable,"  he  wrote  in  his  Christ- 
mas letter,  "  to  hear  that  I  have  definitely  decided 
to  try  to  win  the  National  in  1911  and  1912.  So 
my  next  few  years  will  be  busy  to  become  (i)  best 
polo  player  at  No.  2  ;  (2)  to  win  the  National  ; 
(3)  to  become  a  p.s.c.  Best  love,  old  boy  ;  don't 
become  too  studious,  or  you  will  become  too  old 
too  soon.  .  .  .  Please  stop  going  to  theatres  until 
I  arrive,  as  it  is  miserable  to  come  home  full  of 
cheer  to  find  a  blase  brother  whose  method  of 
entertainment  is  to  give  you  a  dinner  at  the  Bath 
Club  !  We  are  going  to  have  none  of  that.  We 
will  kick  off  at  the  Ritz,  and  laugh  at  the  Gaiety." 
In  this  mood  of  vaulting  ambition  and  ecstatic 
vitality  Francis's  period  of  soldiering  abroad 
reached  its  close. 


CHAPTER   VI. 
1910-1914. 

THE  next  four  years  saw  the  Twins  together  in 
England — Francis  with  his  regiment  at  various 
stations,  and  Rivy  immersed  in  City  business,  yet 
not  so  immersed  that  he  could  not  spare  time 
for  partnership  in  many  sports.  It  was  a  happy 
period,  for  neither  had  ever  been  quite  at  ease  out 
of  the  other's  sight.  They  had  now  passed  their 
thirtieth  year,  and,  so  far  as  Providence  would 
permit,  had  grown  up.  This  maturity  was  not 
marked  by  any  decline  of  the  high  spirits  of  youth, 
but  by  a  growth  in  placidity  and  a  modest  con- 
tentment with  life.  Rivy,  in  especial,  was  now 
less  of  an  anxious  pilgrim,  less  habitually  tor- 
mented by  a  desire  for  the  moon.  He  seemed  to 
be  on  the  road  to  great  business  prosperity,  for  in 
January  1910  he  joined  his  brother  Arthur's  firm, 
then  at  the  height  of  its  success  ;  his  reputation 
in  ^port  was  solidly  established,  and  he  was  in- 
clined to  acquiesce  in  that  shrinking  of  horizons 
which  is  the  tragedy  of  the  transition  from  youth. 


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154    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Francis,  in  whom  ambition  woke  more  spasmod- 
ically, had  his  hands  full  with  his  Staff  College 
and  regimental  work,  and  his  mind  preoccupied 
with  the  endless  interests  of  the  returned  traveller. 
Merely  to  be  at  home  again  wras  to  him  a  perpetual 
wonder  and  delight. 

I  had  known  the  Twins  off  and  on  for  some 
years,  but  at  this  period  we  became  intimate 
friends.  London  is  a  place  of  many  casual  ac- 
quaintances, much  blurred  in  the  memory,  but  I 
think  that  no  one  who  was  brought  into  contact 
with  Francis  and  Rivy  was  likely  to  forget  them. 
They  had  that  complete  detachment  from  the 
atmosphere  which  we  call  distinction.  If  it  was 
not  always  easy  to  tell  one  from  the  other,  it  was 
impossible  to  confuse  them  with  anybody  else. 
Just  over  six  feet  in  height,  beautifully  propor- 
tioned, and  always  in  hard  training,  they  were 
most  satisfactory  to  behold.  Once  Rivy,  hasten- 
ing away  from  a  ball,  asked  what  he  took  to  be  the 
butler  to  call  him  a  hansom.  "  Indeed,  I  call 
you  handsome,  my  boy,"  said  the  "  butler,"  who 
wras  Mr.  Choate.  Their  clear,  pale  complexions, 
derived  from  a  Spanish  strain,  their  dark  hair  and 
eyes,  and  something  soft  and  gracious  in  their 
manner  gave  them  a  slightly  foreign  air  ;  but 
their  deep  explosive  voices  were  very  English. 
Both  had  a  trick  of  finishing  a  sentence  with  a 


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kind  of  gust  of  deep-breathed  emphasis.  The 
predominant  impression,  I  think,  that  they  made 
on  the  world  was  of  a  great  gentleness  and  an 
inexhaustible  vitality.  Neither  could  be  angry 
for  long,  and  neither  was  capable  of  harshness 
or  rancour.  Their  endearing  grace  of  manner 
made  a  pleasant  warmth  in  any  society  which  they 
entered  ;  and  since  this  gentleness  was  joined  to 
a  perpetual  glow  of  enthusiasm  the  effect  was 
triumphant.  One's  recollection  was  of  something 
lithe,  alert,  eager,  like  a  finely-bred  greyhound. 
Most  people  are  apt  to  be  two-dimensional  in 
the  remembrance  even  of  their  friends,  like  the 
flat  figures  in  a  tapestry  ;  but  Francis  and  Rivy 
stood  out  with  a  startling  vividness.  Even  death 
has  not  made  them  sink  into  the  background  of 
memory.  When  I  think  of  either  it  is  as  of  youth 
incarnate,  with  all  the  colour  and  speed  of  life, 
like  some  Greek  runner  straining  at  the  start  of 
a  race. 

Francis  arrived  in  January  1910,  and  was  at 
once  laid  hold  of  by  politics.  The  Twins  hunted 
in  couples  through  that  unsavoury  Budget  election 
when  the  spirit  of  Limehouse  was  abroad,  and 
spoke  at  many  meetings,  chiefly  of  railwaymen 
and  workmen.  It  is  not  recorded  what  Francis 
said,  though  he  can  have  known  as  much  about 
Eriglish  politics  as  about  the  Ptolemaic  system ;  but 


156    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

he  was  reputed  an  effective  canvasser,  and  it  is 
on  record  that  on  one  occasion  he  looked  after  a 
labourer's  baby  while  the  father  went  to  vote,  and 
afterwards  had  supper  with  the  family.  He  went 
to  the  depot  at  Woolwich  for  some  weeks,  and 
then  joined  his  regiment  at  Canterbury.  He  took 
great  pains  with  his  lectures  to  his  men,  and  such 
specimens  as  I  have  read  are  admirable,  both  for 
their  clear  statement  and  for  the  enthusiasm  with 
which  he  managed  to  invest  his  treatment.  He 
was  a  slow  worker,  and  took  a  long  time  to  under- 
stand a  thing,  but  once  he  had  grasped  it  he 
could  impart  it  vigorously  to  others.  He  laboured 
always  to  inspire  in  his  hearers  a  passion  for  the 
9th  Lancers,  dwelling  on  the  great  episodes  of 
their  past,  and  usually  at  the  end  compelling  his 
audience  to  stand  up  and  cheer  for  the  regiment. 

That  summer  was  devoted  to  polo,  and  for  the 
moment  Francis's  steeplechasing  ambitions  seem 
to  have  been  at  rest.  The  Old  Etonian  team 
in  which  the  Twins  played  carried  everything 
before  it,  and  was  invited  by  the  Hurlingham 
Committee  to  go  to  America  to  try  for  the  cup. 
They  decided  to  be  entirely  independent  of  the 
America  Cup  Recovery  Fund,  which  was  to 
remain  intact  and  provide  the  sinews  of  war  for 
the  great  effort  of  the  following  year.  That 
summer,  I  think,  may  be  taken  as  the  height  of 


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the  Twins'  fame  in  the  polo  world.  It  may  not 
be  out  of  place  to  quote  some  notes  written  by 
Lieutenant-Colonel  E.  D.  Miller  after  their  death. 


r*  The  polo  world  mourns  many  fine  players  and  good 
sportsmen  killed  in  the  war,  but  for  none  is  more  sorrow  and 
regret  expressed  than  for  the  gallant  Twins.  I  knew  Rivy 
intimately  for  a  considerable  time  before  I  met  Francis.  I 
think  it  was  in  1902  that  his  older  brother  Cecil  asked  me  to 
take  him  to  Spring  Hill  and  teach  him  the  rudiments  of  polo. 
He  came  and  spent  a  happy  month,  working  like  a  stable  lad 
and  putting  his  whole  heart  and  soul  into  his  work. 

"  My  first  meeting  with  Francis  was  at  Tattersall's  a  year 
or  two  later,  when,  mistaking  him  for  Rivy,  I  warned  him  not 
to  buy  a  good-looking  pony  that  he  was  inspecting.  It  was 
typical  of  the  Twins'  liking  to  be  mistaken  for  one  another 
that  he  merely  thanked  me  for  my  information,  and  did  not 
divulge  the  fact  that  he  was  not  Rivy,  although  he  spent  some 
time  in  my  company  looking  at  other  ponies  in  the  yard. 
Rivy  was  undoubtedly  the  better  and  stronger  player  of  the 
pair,  but  when  they  were  playing  together  it  was  extraordinarily 
difficult  to  tell  them  apart,  their  horsemanship  and  style  being 
very  similar.  They  were  both  brilliant  players,  and  were  much 
better  when  playing  together  than  separately.  They  studied 
every  detail  of  the  game  and  took  the  most  enormous  trouble 
in  the  purchase  and  training  of  their  ponies.  They  were  great 
advocates  for  speed,  and  were  the  only  players  I  knew  who 
kept  a  trial  pony  and  raced  him  against  anything  they  were 
likely  to  purchase.  They  were  as  hard  as  iron,  and  always 
kept  themselves  very  fit,  and  were  (especially  Rivy)  very  fine 
horsemen.  Rivy  used  to  ride  the  stronger  and  more  difficult 
ponies.  His  pluck  was  phenomenal. 

"  Rivy  played  No.  i  with  Francis  No.  2,  and  their  combina- 
tion and  tactics  were  more  perfect  and  highly  developed  than 
any  pair  in  England.  Had  they  been  spared  they  would 
probably  now  be  chosen  to  represent  their  country  in  the  next 


158    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

International  match.  They  modelled  their  play  on  that  of 
the  Waterbury  brothers,  and  though  they  were  not  quite  as 
brilliant  performers  as  the  Americans,  their  tactics  and  under- 
standing were  just  as  perfect.  The  Twins,  as  at  everything 
else  in  life,  played  polo  with  one  mind.  Francis  held  a  record 
in  that  he  played  in  the  winning  team  of  the  Champion  Cup  in 
England,  India,  Africa,  and  America.  No  one  else  has  done  this. 
"  Good  players  and  fine  sportsmen  as  they  were  in  first- 
class  polo,  where  they  will  be  most  missed  will  be  on  the  social 
side,  for  they  were  always  the  life  and  soul  of  country-house 
polo  tournaments.  As  a  polo  manager  no  one  knew  better 
than  I  did  what  a  wonderful  help  they  were  in  making  a 
success  of  the  kind  of  tournament  that  used  to  take  place  at 
Eaton  and  Madrid.  They  would  always  pull  out  and  play 
on  any  side  with  any  one,  in  order  to  make  a  success  of  the 
entertainment  from  the  host's  point  of  view,  and  neither  of 
them  cared  two  farthings  if  they  won  or  lost  so  long  as  they 
could  help  the  show  and  make  every  one  happy.  .  .  .  The 
Twins  have  left  behind  them  a  reputation  quite  unsurpassed 
for  pluck,  clean  living,  unselfishness,  and  charm." 

The  Old  Etonian  team  as  originally  fixed  was 
made  up  of  Francis  and  Rivy,  Lord  Rocksavage 
and  Lord  Wodehouse.  Lord  Wodehouse  found 
himself  unable  to  go,  so  on  6th  August  Francis 
and  Rivy  started  with  Lord  Hugh  Grosvenor — 
Lord  Rocksavage  and  Mr.  F.  A.  Gill  being  already 
in  America.  The  Twins  took  for  their  reading 
the  following  odd  assortment  :  A  Constitutional 
History  of  the  United  States,  Life  of  Stonewall 
Jackson,  Vanity  Fair,  Jorrocks,  Pickwick  Papers, 
Les  Miserables,  a  primer  of  geography,  The  Life 
of  Nelson,  and  The  Confessions  of  a  Princess. 


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Francis  had  a  bad  arm  when  they  left,  and  when 
they  reached  America  it  was  found  that  he  could 
not  play.  The  side  accordingly  called  itself  Ran- 
elagh,  and  was  made  up  of  Rivy,  Mr.  F.  A.  Gill, 
Lord  Rocksavage,  and  Lord  Hugh  Grosvenor. 
Later  Francis  resumed  his  place,  and  they  be- 
came once  again  the  Old  Etonians.  The  team 
had  a  brilliant  career  at  Narragansett  and  in 
Canada,  winning  nearly  every  match  they  played, 
though,  as  they  were  not  official  challengers,  they 
could  not  compete  for  the  cup.  It  was  essentially 
a  trial  trip,  and  the  players  learned  a  vast  deal 
which  was  of  value  to  later  challengers.  I  find 
a  paper  of  Rivy's  in  which  he  summarized  the 
result  of  his  experience,  expounding  in  the  most 
minute  detail  what  he  had  learned  in  America  on 
the  transport  and  training  of  ponies.  He  went 
into  everything,  including  the  price  of  oats,  but  the 
most  valuable  lesson  is  contained  in  this  passage  : — 

"  In  America  the  game,  owing  to  the  better  grounds  and 
the  '  no  off-side  '  rule,  is  very  much  faster  than  it  is  in  England, 
and  the  pony  requires  to  have  his  lungs  quite  clear.  The  player 
gets  away  much  more  often  than  at  home.  The  game  is  not 
nearly  such  a  rough-and-tumble  one,  and  so  players  do  not 
require  such  staying  power  as  in  England.  What  they  re- 
quire is  to  be  able  to  go  with  these  tremendous  bursts.  A  pony 
should  be  trained  to  play  its  utmost  speed.  A  point  that  we 
learned,  which  improved  our  play  enormously  in  this  somewhat 
scrambling  game,  was  that  instead  of  stopping  a  pony  on  its 
hocks  after  a  run,  it  is  far  quicker  to  turn  it  on  a  circle.  This 


160    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

does  not  tire  the  pony  nearly  so  much,  nor  the  rider,  and  by 
being  able  to  pass  the  ball  forward  the  player  can  often,  even 
if  unable  to  hold  his  pony  properly,  do  a  lot  of  work.  At 
Newport  my  grey  pony,  owing  to  its  being  wrongly  bitted, 
was  quite  out  of  hand ;  but  by  turning  it  on  a  circle  and  the 
others  passing  the  ball  to  me,  I  played  very  well,  and  no  one 
noticed  that  I  did  not  have  proper  control."  * 

While  Rivy  was  busy  with  polo  Francis  thought 
that  he  might  employ  his  leisure  in  visiting  the 
battlefields  of  Virginia.  He  went  first  to  Bull 
Run  and  Manassas  Junction.  At  Winchester  he 
met  Dr.  Graham,  a  Presbyterian  minister  who 
had  known  Stonewall  Jackson,  and  who  told 
Francis  many  details  of  his  hero.  He  then  visited 
Kernstown,  and  at  Richmond  met  Dr.  Jeremy 
Smith,  who  had  been  Jackson's  A.D.C.  after 
Second  Manassas,  from  whom  he  picked  up 
much  information  about  his  singular  kinsman, 
Colonel  St.  Leger  Grenfell,  who  had  served  on 
the  Confederate  side  in  the  war.  He  spent  much 
time  studying  the  field  of  Gaines  Mill,  and  met 
the  eponymous  Mr.  Gaines,  who  had  been  absent 
through  a  fever  from  the  fight.  He  returned  to 
Newport  with  a  Confederate  flag  as  a  relic,  and  a 

*  England  challenged  America  the  following  year  (1911),  when  the 
team  consisted  of  Hardress  Lloyd,  Noel  Edwards,  Bertie  Wilson,  and 
Leslie  Cheape,  the  last  three  of  whom  fell  in  the  Great  War.  It 
failed,  after  a  most  brilliant  effort,  to  defeat  the  American  team, 
which  was  composed  of  the  Waterburys,  Mr.  Whitney,  and  Mr. 
Milburn.  In  1914  a  team  organized  by  Lord  Wimborne,  composed  of 
F.  W.  Barrett,  Leslie  Cheape,  Vivian  Lockett,  and  H.  A.  Tomkinson, 
recovered  the  cup  for  England. 


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A  MEMOIR.  161 

new  appreciation  of  the  great  campaign  and  the 
great  leader,  who  for  years  had  filled  the  first 
place  in  his  affections. 

There  is  little  to  record  for  the  rest  of  1910. 
At  Christmas  the  Twins  went  with  a  tutor  to 
Brussels  and  made  an  elaborate  study  of  the  field 
of  Waterloo.  Throughout  the  early  months  of 
1911  Francis  was  busy  with  his  work  for  the 
Staff  College,  and  embarked  on  authorship  with 
a  letter  in  the  Times  on  the  Sydney  Street  affair,  in 
which  he  stoutly  defended  Mr.  Churchill's  action 
in  employing  soldiers  and  machine  guns. 

In  April,  on  the  invitation  of  King  Alfonso, 
the  two  brothers  went  to  Madrid  to  play  polo. 
On  their  way  they  paid  a  visit  to  their  favourite 
statue,  that  of  Hercules  and  the  Wild  Boar  in  the 
Louvre,  which  Rivy  had  had  copied  as  a  memento 
of  his  Kadir  Cup  victory.  They  arrived  at  Madrid 
on  gth  April,  and  stayed  with  the  Duke  of  Alba, 
where  Francis  was  so  much  impressed  with  the 
pictures  and  tapestry  that  his  diary  reads  like  an 
auction  catalogue.  Next  day  they  left  for  Moratalla, 
the  Marquis  of  Viana's  house,  where  the  polo 
party  was  assembled,  which  included  the  King, 
the  Duke  and  Duchess  of  Santonia,  the  Marquis 
Villarieja,  and  the  two  Millers.  That  fortnight  in 
Spain  was  one  of  the  best  holidays  in  the  Twins' 

(8,187)  11 


162    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

experience.  Francis  records  at  length  his  con- 
versations with  the  King,  which  covered  every 
subject  from  polo  to  high  politics.  "  He  told  me 
that  one  of  the  ambitions  of  his  life  was  to  play 
with  his  regiment,  the  i6th  Lancers,  in  the  Inter- 
Regimental.  He  would  undertake  to  provide  them 
with  the  best  ponies.  He  understood  they  were 
going  to  India  for  eight  years.  By  that  time  he 
would  be  thirty-two  and  at  his  prime,  and  hoped 
by  then  to  be  good  enough.  He  had  great  diffi- 
culty in  playing  polo  in  England,  as  King  Edward 
said  it  was  too  dangerous  ;  so  he  thought  it  best 
to  ask  nobody's  advice,  and  just  went  and  played 
at  Rugby.  He  could  not  understand  why  a  king 
should  be  brought  up  like  a  hothouse  plant. 
The  only  occasions  on  which  he  had  been  nearly 
killed  were  (i)  when  he  was  driving  in  a  carriage 
where  the  horses  were  led  by  men  on  foot,  and 
(2)  when  driving  very  slowly  in  Paris.  X.  re- 
marked that  he  had  had  a  letter  from  the  Crown 
Prince  of  Germany  to  say  he  wanted  to  play  polo 
when  he  came  over  this  summer.  c  Good/  said 
the  King ;  '  then  that  will  make  it  easier  for  me 
when  I  go  over/  We  suggested  a  match  against 
the  Crown  Prince ;  at  which  he  said,  *  Ah  yes,  I 
think  I  will  win.  The  Germans  are  very  slow.' " 

The  polo  consisted  of  matches  between  the 
King's  side  and  Alba's  side,  Rivy  playing  with 


A  MEMOIR.  163 

the  first  and  Francis  with  the  second.  The 
weather  was  abominable,  and  the  Twins  seem  to 
have  had  more  walking  about  in  wet  gardens  than 
polo.  On  i3th  April  the  party  returned  to  Madrid, 
where  Francis  and  Rivy  stayed  again  with  Alba, 
and  found  there  the  Duchess  of  Westminster  and 
Lady  Helen  Grosvenor.  That  day  being  Maundy 
Thursday,  they  went  to  the  Palace  to  see  the 
function  of  the  Lavatorio,  when  the  King  and 
Queen  wash  the  feet  of  twelve  beggars.  Francis's 
diary  contains  a  spirited  description  of  this  curious 
function,  and  pages  and  pages  about  the  pictures 
in  the  Prado  Museum,  which  impressed  him  more 
than  anything  else  in  Spain.  In  Madrid  they 
played  polo  on  the  King's  private  ground,  but 
the  weather  was  unpropitious  and  the  games  poor. 
The  King  gave  instructions  that  Francis  should 
be  shown  all  over  the  cavalry  and  infantry  bar- 
racks, and  when  he  expressed  a  desire  to  see  the 
tapestries,  ordered  every  one  in  the  Palace  to  be 
specially  hung  up  for  him.  Various  bull  fights 
and  a  short  visit  to  Seville,  where  they  saw  part 
of  the  Easter  Feria,  brought  to  an  end  a  trip  which 
both  regarded  as  one  of  the  most  crowded  and 
delightful  experiences  of  their  lives. 

In  June  Rivy  attended  the  Coronation  with  his 
uncle's  children,  who  were  much  excited  to  see 
the  Field-Marshal  in  the  procession.  He  wrote 


164    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

an  account  of  it  to  Lady  Grenfell,  and,  knowing 
her  dislike  of  horrors,  wickedly  described  at  some 
length  an  hour  he  passed  in  the  Scotland  Yard 
Museum.  "  I  wish  you  had  been  with  us.  I 
am  sure  you  would  have  loved  seeing  the  finger 
of  a  burglar  that  was  pulled  off  as  he  tried  to  get 
over  a  gate  and  was  caught  up.  It  is  preserved 
in  spirits  of  wine."  In  July  the  King  of  Spain 
came  to  England  and  lunched  at  their  brother 
Arthur'^  house  at  Roehampton,  going  with  the 
Twins  afterwards  to  a  polo  match. 

That  summer  saw  the  Agadir  crisis,  and  Francis 
naturally  decided  to  be  present  at  the  French 
manoeuvres.  It  does  not  appear  that  he  ever 
received  the  permission  of  the  French  Staff,  but 
a  small  thing  of  that  kind  was  not  likely  to  stop 
him.  He  attended  the  manoeuvres  of  the  VI. 
Corps  in  the  Verdun  area  during  September, 
living  with  the  6th  Cuirassiers,  and  sent  an  ex- 
cellent report  to  the  War  Office.  He  was  much 
struck  by  the  horses  of  the  cavalry.  "  They  are 
bought  from  three  and  a  half  years  old  and  sent 
to  the  Remounts  until  four  and  a  half.  They 
are,,  then  sent  to  a  regiment  and  trained  for  two 
years  before  being  put  into  the  ranks.  This 
system  of  teaching  the  horse  to  carry  the  man  is 
a  great  improvement  on  ours  of  teaching  the  man 
to  ride  a  partly-trained  horse. "  He  thought  that 


A  MEMOIR.  165 

the  cavalry  did  not  realize  the  value  of  the  rifle  and 
had  no  notion  of  mounted  infantry  work.  This 
was  not  unnatural  in  the  case  of  the  Cuirassiers, 
who,  owing  to  their  cuirasses,  could  not,  of 
course,  aim  with  a  carbine.  "  I  put  on  a  cuirass 
myself  and  made  certain  of  this,"  adds  Francis. 
He  was  not  greatly  impressed  by  the  system 
of  reconnaissance.  "  The  men  returning  from 
patrols  deliver  their  messages  very  clearly,  but 
invariably  get  the  names  of  the  villages  mixed  up, 
and  it  seems  to  me  that  by  far  the  best,  simplest, 
and  quickest  method  of  sending  in  reports  is  for 
each  man  to  have  a  map  and  to  mark  on  it  all  he 
sees."  The  French  horsemastership  he  thought 
poor.  !  The  saddles,  weighing  when  loaded  up 
about  eight  or  nine  stone,  are  never  taken  off. 
They  are  put  on  sometimes  an  hour  before  start- 
ing, and  often  left  on  an  hour  or  so  after  the  troops 
have  got  in.  One  night  the  cavalry  division  I 
was  with  marched  at  10  p.m.,  halted  from  2  a.m. 
to  6.30  a.m.,  during  which  time  the  horses  were 
not  fed  or  the  girths  even  loosened,  and  the  horses 
received  no  food  or  water  until  3  o'clock  the  follow- 
ing afternoon."  He  thought,  however,  highly  of 
the  French  infantry,  and  loved  their  habit  of 
singing  on  the  march.  He  was  impressed  by  the 
mechanical-transport  arrangements,  and  most  pro- 
foundly by  the  use  of  airplanes.  He  went  up — 


166    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

his  first  attempt  of  the  kind — in  a  Farman  bi- 
plane, and  became  a  whole-hearted  convert  to 
the  value  of  air  reconnaissance.  Most  of  the 
officers  he  thought  too  old  for  their  jobs.  "  Regi- 
mental commanders  vary  from  fifty-five  to  sixty, 
squadron  leaders  from  forty  to  fifty,  and  brigadiers 
from  sixty  onward." 

These  are  quotations  from  his  official  report. 
His  diary  contains  more  interesting  matter.  He 
found  that  the  French  Army  expected  war,  and 
awaited  it  with  calm  and  confidence.  Even  if  it 
did  not  come  that  year,  they  considered  that  it 
was  certain  to  come  within  three  years.  He  gives 
amusing  descriptions  of  cavalry  charging  cavalry 
and  pulling  up  facing  each  other.  "  Imagine  two 
divisions  charging  in  England,  stopping  head  to 
head  and  no  accident."  He  declares  that  he 
never  saw  a  single  horse  out  of  hand.  On  the 
other  hand,  the  cavalry  seemed  to  him  to  have  a 
passion  for  charging  and  little  else — to  know 
nothing  about  reconnaissance  or  dismounted 
action.  "  I  spoke  to  a  Staff  officer,  who  said  that 
the  French  would  lose  heavily  in  war.  He  gave  as 
an  instance  a  cavalry  division  passing  in  front 
of  an  infantry  battalion  in  column  of  route,  when 
it  ought  to  have  dismounted  two  squadrons  and 
made  a  detour."  Francis's  general  comments  are, 
as  usual,  very  shrewd.  He  saw  that  the  danger  of 


A  MEMOIR.  167 

the  French  Army  was  its  passion  for  persistent 
and  often  unconsidered  offensives,  and  that  it  had 
no  adequate  training  in  defensive  warfare.  An 
almost  mystical  belief  in  the  attack  at  all  times 
and  in  all  circumstances  was  being  preached  in 
the  schools  of  war  and  practised  on  manoeuvres. 
For  the  rest,  he  received  great  kindness  and  made 
many  friends.  Among  these  was  General  Joffre, 
and  on  one  occasion,  being  stranded  far  from  his 
quarters,  he  cadged  a  lift  in  a  car  from  a  gentle- 
man who  turned  out  to  be  M.  Humbert. 

In  October  we  hear  of  Rivy  staying  at  Glamis 
Castle,  where  he  laboured  earnestly  to  discover 
the  celebrated  mystery.  "  Old  Beardy  has  so  far 
eluded  us,  but  we  are  on  his  track.  I  found  that 
my  room  was  next  door  to  the  Hangman's  room, 
where  no  one  has  slept  for  fifty  years.  Last  night 
when  all  was  quiet,  with  the  assistance  of  my  next- 
door  neighbour,  I  moved  my  mattress  and  blankets 
into  the  Hangman's,  and  slept  there  happily  on 
the  floor  till  6  a.m.,  when  I  woke  up  and  found 
my  door  ajar,  though  it  was  shut  last  night.  We 
may  not  have  banged  it  enough,  so  we  are  going 
to  experiment  again  to-night.  It  is  great  fun 
here  ;  all  the  ladies  and  some  of  the  men  are  in 
a  blue  funk."  This  is  not  quite  the  whole  of 
that  story.  Rivy  woke  at  midnight  to  find  the 
door  open,  and  to  his  consternation  it  refused  to 


168    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

close.  He  prepared  his  soul  for  horrors,  when 
he  discovered  that  the  reason  of  the  door's  refrac- 
toriness was  the  presence  of  one  of  his  slippers. 
After  that  he  fell  asleep,  and  awoke,  as  he  says,  at 
6  a.m.  to  find  the  door  again  open. 

Some  time  that  year  he  became  interested  in 
the  Invalid  Children's  Aid  Association,  and  the 
following  year  became  Treasurer  and  Chairman. 
He  enabled  Islington,  St.  Pancras,  and  Holloway 
to  become  a  separate  branch  by  guaranteeing 
expenses.  Early  in  the  morning  before  going  to 
the  City,  or  after  a  long  day  full  of  engagements, 
he  would  go  and  see  some  of  the  "  cases  "  in  their 
homes.  Both  the  Twins  kept  up  this  interest  to 
the  end  ;  the  Islington  branch  now  bears  their 
name  ;  and  it  is  in  aid  of  a  memorial  fund  to 
carry  on  their  work  that  this  little  memoir  has 
been  written. 

After  returning  from  the  French  manoeuvres 
Francis  went  through  a  musketry  course  at  Hythe, 
and  presently  took  up  racing  on  a  modest  scale. 
A  bad  fall  in  November  in  a  steeplechase  at 
Sandown  gave  him  concussion,  the  effects  of 
which  lasted  for  nearly  six  months.  At  Christmas 
he  was  in  bed,  and  early  in  the  New  Year  he  went 
to  Dr.  Crouch's  open-air  cure.  Meantime,  at  the 
end  of  January,  Rivy  departed  for  Mexico  on 
business.  The  great  event  of  his  trip  was  that 


A  MEMOIR.  169 

he  got  mixed  up  in  a  battle  about  sixty  miles  from 
Mexico  City,  where  the  Zapatistas  were  giving 
trouble.  It  was  a  small  affair,  but  it  was  his  first 
experience  under  fire,  and  he  wrote  a  lengthy 
account  to  Francis.  The  Twins  liked  to  have  all 
their  experiences  in  common,  and  it  had  always 
been  a  regret  to  Rivy  that  Francis  had  been  in 
action  and  he  had  not.  "  Everybody  in  this 
country  appears  to  have  a  predisposition  to  let 
the  enemy  know  their  exact  movements.  The 
operations  of  the  following  day  were  discussed  all 
Sunday  in  Cuernavaca,  and  I  suppose  the  Zapa- 
tistas were  told  exactly  what  our  general  proposed 
to  do — with  the  result  that  we  went  to  the  battle 
and  the  Zapatistas  didn't/' 

Francis  was  far  from  well  all  summer,  still 
suffering  from  the  effects  of  his  accident ;  so  he 
went  to  Berlin  in  June,  partly  for  the  change  and 
partly  to  learn  the  German  language,  without 
which  he  could  not  hope  to  qualify  for  the  Staff 
College.  He  stayed  with  a  retired  German  officer 
called  Hamann,  a  friend  of  Mr.  Austen  Chamber- 
lain, and  a  godson  of  Professor  Max-Muller,  who 
had  married  a  Grenfell  cousin.  His  first  letter 
to  Rivy  is  worthy  of  full  quotation,  for  it  shows 
the  eagerness  with  which  he  plunged  into  a 
new  life. 


iyo    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

"  I  have  fallen  on  my  feet  better  than  any  cat,  however  low 
you  dropped  him.  I  went  to  stay  with  the  Plesses,  who  are 
most  kind.  Princess  Daisy  has  gone  to  London  to  Sunderland 
House,  and  you  must  go  and  see  her.  I  said  you  would  go  and 
see  her  and  help  in  anything  she  wanted.  She  is  full  of  foreign 
politics,  Anglo-German  feeling,  etc.,  and  she  is  going  to  enter- 
tain and  help  Baron  Marschall.  She  is  a  sort  of  Mrs.  Astor 
over  here,  and  makes  me  roar  the  way  she  gingers  up  the 
Deutschers.  I  stayed  several  days  at  Fiirstenstein,  a  fine  schloss 
with  few  valuable  things  in  it,  but  an  enormous  place  with 
lovely  scenery.  They  are  very  rich,  and  everything  is  done 
in  great  style — outriders,  postillions,  etc.  They  have  fifty 
carriage  horses,  sixty  riding  horses,  forty  mares,  three  stallions, 
a  lot  of  yearlings  at  Fiirstenstein,  and  another  stud  at  Pless. 

"  Unfortunately  I  did  not  see  very  much  of  Princess  Daisy, 
as  some  Germans  were  there — the  Governor  of  Silesia,  a 
future  Chancellor,  they  say.  He  talked  French  to  me,  and 
neither  his  French  nor  his  looks  impressed  me  very  much.  Then 
we  all  came  back  to  Berlin  to  the  Esplanade  Hotel,  where  I 
have  become  a  great  swell  through  being  of  the  Pless  party. 
Here  I  have  met  two  or  three  princes,  the  Foreign  Minister 
under  Bethmann-Hollweg,  and  many  others. 

"  Pless,  who  ranks  here  as  a  sort  of  Duke  of  Devonshire, 
put  me  up  at  this  Club  [the  Union],  which  is  the  best  in  Berlin. 
It  is  exactly  like  the  Turf,  except  that  every  one  talks  to  you, 
and  at  dinner  every  one  dines  at  one  table  and  there  is  a 
general  conversation,  all  in  German.  To-night  I  sat  next  to 
Count  von  Billow,  the  general  in  command  of  the  Guard 
Cuirassiers.  He  asked  me  to  go  and  see  his  cavalry  brigade, 
and  said  he  would  show  me  everything.  '  Such  a  pity  I  did 
not  meet  you  yesterday,  as  my  brigade  was  inspected,  and 
you  would  have  seen  a  good  show/  The  servants,  food,  and 
customs  are  the  same  as  at  the  Turf,  except  that  all  the  Eng- 
lish papers  are  on  the  table,  though  I  am  the  only  English- 
man here. 

"  From  the  above  you  will  think  I  am  living  only  in  high 
life,  but  I  am  not.  I  found  that  the  best  university  in  Ger- 


A  MEMOIR.  171 

many  is  here,  so,  though  it  was  not  allowed,  I  plunged  into 
it.  I  do  everything  by  myself,  and  have  some  amusing  expe- 
riences through  going  to  the  wrong  place  at  the  wrong  time. 
I  found  there  were  lectures  on  every  subject  in  the  world, 
and  determined  to  attend.  There  are  5,000  undergraduates. 
First  I  attended  a  lecture  on  the  Saxon  Invasion  ol  England. 
I  heard  a  lot  of  German,  but  did  not  understand  anything. 
I  then  thought  to  myself,  '  Well,  as  I  do  not  understand  a 
word,  it  doesn't  much  matter  what  the  subject  is ;  so,  instead 
of  taking  much  trouble  to  find  certain  lecture  rooms,  I  will  go 
into  the  first  I  come  to.'  1  then  followed  about  fifty  students 
into  a  room.  The  lecturer  seemed  to  talk  a  bit  different,  and 
on  looking  over  the  notes  of  the  fellow  next  to  me  I  found  he 
was  talking  Modern  Greek  !  To-day  I  went  to  a  geography 
lecture,  arrived  very  late,  plunged  in  and  found  a  dead  silence 
and  every  one  drawing.  A  professor  came  and  spoke  to  me, 
but  neither  could  understand  a  word  the  other  said.  I  went 
to  another  lecture,  but  could  not  find  out  what  it  was  about 
from  any  source.  In  one  hour  I  only  caught  the  meaning  of 
one  word,  '  Pope  Innocent/  Yesterday  I  stopped  a  student 
in  the  passage  and  asked  him  to  lunch  with  me,  and  begged 
him  to  spout  German,  which  he  did.  I  said,  '  I  would  like 
to  lunch  where  you  usually  go/  I  found  he  was  a  vegetarian, 
and  we  could  only  get  carrots,  etc.  My  bill,  which  I  am  going 
to  frame,  was  : — 

Soup  .  .  .  .id. 
Carrots  and  green  peas  3d. 
Sour  Bulgarian  milk  .  2d. 
Soda  water  £d. 

6Jd. 

I  could  not  eat  half  the  amount  of  carrots  I  was  offered  for  3d. 
Students  don't  look  half  as  smart  as  Porter  [his  servant],  so  I 
now  take  him  with  me  to  the  lectures.  .  .  . 

"  Unfortunately  I  fall  a  little  between  two  stools  here,  as 
(i)  if  I  am  to  learn  the  language,  I  must  talk  German ;  if  I  talk 


172    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

German,  1  can  neither  make  myself  understood  nor  understand 
anything  the  people  say.  (2)  I  can  learn  a  good  deal  about 
Germany  and  go  everywhere  by  talking  English,  as  every  one 
speaks  English,  and  the  few  that  don't,  speak  French.  I 
cannot,  therefore,  learn  the  language  and  learn  about  Germany 
at  the  same  time,  so  I  am  going  to  work  hard  at  the  language 
(I  have  every  incentive  to,  as  it  is  maddening  not  to  understand 
a  single  word)  and  then  go  out  again  and  mix  in  society,  of 
which  T  am  beginning  to  know  the  ropes.  Every  one  has  been 
extraordinarily  kind  and  nice.  The  students,  to  whom  I  am 
an  absolute  stranger,  go  out  of  their  way  to  show  me  what  to 
do  and  where  to  go,  and  they  do  not  even  know  my  name." 

From   later  letters  I  take  some  comments  on 
German  life  and  character. 


"  The  opinion  one  gets  of  the  Germans  in  England  is  a 
very  wrong  one.  I  expected  to  see  a  nation  of  magnificent 
physique,  the  Army  superbly  turned  out,  big  soldiers  and 
mighty  clever  men.  The  opposite  is  the  case.  These  people 
are  very  ordinary,  very  much  like  us  in  character,  with  a 
great  many  good  qualities  and  a  large  proportion  of  bad.  The 
Guards  I  see  are  neither  as  smart  nor  as  well  turned  out,  nor 
to  be  compared  physically  with  our  Guards.  Forty-five  per 
cent,  of  the  nation  are  rejected  as  soldiers  through  being  too 
narrow  or  too  blind.  The  shops  give  no  credit  to  any  one. 
They  are  unmethodically  run,  and  are  open  for  six  and  a 
half  days  without  doing  as  much  business  as  we  do  in  five. 
The  upper  classes  are  narrow-minded  and  despotic  ;  the  lower 
inclined  to  be  boorish.  They  are  by  nature  a  rather  sus- 
picious people,  but  awful  rot  is  talked  about  them  in  England. 
You  travel  just  as  easily  as  you  do  at  home,  and  can  see  any- 
thing except  inside  a  fort.  They  seem  to  be  exactly  opposed 
to  the  French,  who  appear  excited  but  act  coolly.  These 
people  appear  very  stolid,  but  get  desperately  excited  the 
moment  anything  occurs.  A  row  in  the  street  and  ten  police 


A  MEMOIR.  173 

will  yell  without  any  leadership  ;  a  row  in  a  train  and  every 
one  starts  screaming.  .  .  . 

"  I  am  living  fairly  comfortably  here,  but  getting  rather 
sick  of  cold  pork  and  sausage.  The  table-cloth,  too,  is  becom- 
ing a  very  intimate  friend — it  turns  up  so  often.  .  .  . 

"  I  am  not  going  to  form  any  opinion  until  October,  when 
I  will  have  had  time  for  reflection.  The  Germans  certainly 
beat  us,  even  our  private  soldiers,  at  drinking  beer.  I  sat 
next  to  a  gentleman  yesterday  who  drank  five  pints  before  I 
drank  one  glass  of  water.  He  would  have  had  a  sixth,  but 
when  the  sixth  was  brought  his  wife  took  the  glass  and  downed 
it  before  him.  The  result  is  that  a  great  many  men  and  most 
women  are  as  fat  as  cattle.  .  .  . 

"  I  am  enjoying  every  minute,  as  I  rarely  waste  one.  I 
talk  with  tramcar  drivers  and  conductors,  taxi  men,  officers, 
tennis  pros,  students,  demi-mondaines,  Berlitz  teachers  and 
professors.  Of  course  I  lose  a  lot  of  what  is  said,  but  I  have 
picked  up  a  good  deal,  and  have  as  yet  never  received  any- 
thing but  the  utmost  courtesy  and  hospitality.  I  find  I  get 
most  out  of  taxi-drivers.  They  are  either  old  soldiers,  sailors, 
invalids,  or  Socialists.  I  met  one  who  had  been  in  the  German 
South- West  African  war.  He  told  me  400  men  died  in  his 
regiment,  and  the  loss  in  the  army  was  terrific  through  bad 
water  arrangements.  Another  was  in  the  navy.  He  told  me 
many  of  the  men  are  not  half  trained  ;  they  bring  men  from 
Wiirtemberg  as  conscripts  who  have  never  heard  of  or  seen 
the  sea,  and  have  in  three  years  to  be  taught  everything.  I 
personally  cannot  see  how  three  years'  service  can  make  sol- 
diers or  sailors.  .  .  . 

'  These  people  are  very  methodical  but  terribly  slow. 
They  take  ten  hours  to  do  what  we  do  in  six.  I  have  not  yet 
seen  much  of  the  wonderful  education  of  which  we  hear,  and 
have  met  a  good  many  thick  heads.  Several  officers  have  told 
me  they  have  not  read  a  book  for  ten  years.  Germany,  to 
my  mind,  is  not  half  what  we  think  it  is  in  England.  Some 
things  are  done  very  well,  but  I  have  seen  a  great  many  done 
far  better,  and  I  am  not  half  as  impressed  as  I  was  with 


174    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

America.  Nevertheless,  I  like  these  people.  The  women — 
Heaven  save  us  from  ever  copying  them  !  They  are  not 
beautiful.  .  .  . 

"  Berlin  is  one  mass  of  demi-mondaines,  cafes,  restaurants — 
one  mass.  The  great  entertainment  place  is  the  Palais  de 
Dance.  It  is  most  luxurious,  and  you  might,  if  you  did  not 
look  at  the  women,  think  you  were  at  a  London  ball.  The 
women  are  most  respectable-looking,  but  you  can  see  that  if 
you  want  to  dance  you  will  get  plenty  of  exercise,  as  once 
round  any  of  the  dancers  is  equal  to  about  twice  round 
Liverpool." 

Germany  revived  Francis's  interest  in  politics 
and  soldiering.  In  July  he  wrote  a  long  letter  to 
Mr.  Churchill  congratulating  him  on  a  speech 
he  had  made. 

"  All  the  people  I  have  seen  appreciated  very  much  its 
straightforwardness.  The  German  character  seems  both  to 
understand  and  prefer  plain  speech  to  diplomacy.  They  are 
a  very  suspicious  people.  They  openly  say  that  though  they 
understand  that  you  spoke  earnestly,  they  think  you  are  un- 
friendly. They  want  to  be  very  friendly,  but  on  equal  and 
not  on  inferior  terms  as  at  present.  They  openly  talk  of 
going  to  war  in  the  near  future  with  France,  partly  from  arro- 
gance and  partly  from  a  craze  so  to  weaken  France  that  they 
can  diminish  their  military  forces  and  increase  their  naval. 
It  does  not  look  as  if  they  would  take  on  both  France  and 
England  together,  and  therein  lies  the  hope  of  peace.  They 
want  to  crush  France  on  land  and  to  be  strong  enough  on  the 
sea  to  detain  or  delay  a  British  army  from  landing  on  the  Con- 
tinent, so  as  to  discourage  British  participation  in  a  war  be- 
tween France  and  Germany.  My  opinion  of  the  Germans  has 
greatly  declined  since  I  came  out  here.  They  are  not  as  good 
in  quantity  or  quality  as  they  represent  themselves.  Their 
character  is  to  shake  hands  warmly  and  openly,  but  to  keep 


A  MEMOIR.  175 

the  other  fist  doubled  in  their  pocket.  ...  I  am  as  certain 
that  the  Germans  are  riding  for  a  fall  as  I  am  that  you  are 
riding  to  win." 

In  September  came  the  Imperial  manoeuvres, 
that  year  held  in  Saxony,  and  Francis  was  deter- 
mined to  be  present.  The  English  representa- 
tives had  already  been  appointed,  so  he  was  unable 
to  go  officially.  Accordingly  he  hired  a  motor  car 
and  went  as  a  spectator,  giving  a  lift  to  a  journalistic 
friend.  When  he  arrived  at  the  Bellevue  Hotel 
in  Dresden,  he  had  a  bad  sick  headache  and  went 
straight  to  bed  ;  so  his  friend  filled  up  the  police 
paper  in  which  Francis's  name  was  entered  without 
his  military  rank.  Unaware  of  this  Francis  sent 
a  note  to  the  cavalry  barracks,  saying  he  had  a  car 
and  asking  if  any  officer  would  like  to  go  with 
him.  This  discovered  to  the  police  the  fact  that 
he  was  an  English  officer,  and  they  promptly 
decided  that  he  was  a  spy.  The  result  was  that 
a  few  days  later,  when  he  came  back  from  watching 
the  manoeuvres,  he  found  a  police  inspector  in 
his  room,  who  presented  him  with  a  letter  saying 
that  he  must  leave  Dresden  in  twelve  hours  and 
Saxony  in  twenty-four.  Francis  was  in  a  sad 
quandary,  and,  as  was  his  practice  on  such  occa- 
sions, he  appealed  straight  to  Caesar.  He  re- 
membered that  he  and  Rivy  the  year  before  in 
London  had  shown  some  kindness  to  a  son  of 


176    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

the  Saxon  Chancellor,  Baron  Metzsch.  Off  went 
Francis  to  the  Chancellor's  house.  The  great 
man  was  not  at  home,  but  the  Baroness  received 
him  warmly  and  asked  him  to  breakfast  the  next 
morning.  The  matter  was  immediately  straight- 
ened out.  The  police  authorities  laughed  and 
shook  hands,  and  Francis  roamed  throughout  the 
rest  of  the  manoeuvres  at  his  own  sweet  will. 

In  October  he  returned  to  England  and  put 
the  result  of  his  German  experiences  into  a  little 
pamphlet,  which  he  printed  privately  and  circu- 
lated to  a  number  of  friends.  He  returned  to 
Germany  for  a  short  visit  in  December,  and  real- 
ized that  his  pamphlet,  if  it  got  about,  might  do 
him  serious  harm.  On  Mr.  Churchill's  advice  he 
accordingly  recalled  all  the  copies.  Its  contents 
were  simply  an  elaboration  of  what  he  had  written 
in  his  letters.  As  it  turned  out,  he  had  rightly 
diagnosed  the  trend  of  German  feeling.  "  They 
are  conscious  of  having  attained  such  a  position 
in  the  world  that  they  resent  being  second  to  any, 
and  they  feel  that  the  English  block  their  way  ; 
consequently  they  are  not  only  jealous  at  heart, 
but  can  scarcely  conceal  their  jealousy.  No 
amount  of  pacific  and  philanthropic  talk  either 
in  England  or  in  Germany  will  prevent  the  latter 
from  trying  to  get  stronger  and  stronger,  with  a 
hope  of  some  day  being  the  foremost  Power  of 


A  MEMOIR.  177 

the  world.  Even  the  Socialists  would  favour  a 
war  against  France,  because  once  France  is 
crushed  there  is  a  chance  of  military  service  being 
less  rigorous  in  Germany.  .  .  .  Careful  observa- 
tions convince  me  that  if  we  wish  to  preserve 
peace  it  is  necessary  for  us  to  be  so  strong  that 
it  will  be  impossible  for  the  Germans  to  make 
war,  as  they  would  jump  at  any  opportunity 
should  they  find  us  weak  and  isolated." 

While  Francis  was  in  Berlin  Rivy  had  been 
deep  in  polo,  and  had  got  badly  bitten  with 
ballooning.  The  year  before  he  had  made  an 
airplane  reconnaissance  with  Loraine  during  his 
yeomanry  training,  and  in  June  Captain  Mait- 
land* took  him  up  at  Hurlingham  in  one  of  the 
new  military  balloons.  They  passed  over  Middle- 
sex, Hertfordshire,  Huntingdon,  and  Lincoln- 
shire, and  made  an  exciting  landing  six  miles 
from  Hull  at  11.35  that  night.  A  little  later  I 
find  him  writing  to  Francis  suggesting  that  they 
should  enter  with  Maitland  for  the  long-distance 
ballooning  record,  at  that  moment  held  by  the 
French.  The  year  before  Maitland  had  travelled 
1,1 1 8  miles  into  the  middle  of  Russia,  and  he 
now  wanted  to  break  the  French  record  of  1,200 
miles,  starting  in  November  when  the  westerly 
gales  began.  Nothing  came  of  the  scheme. 

*  Now  Brig.-General  Maitland,  C.M.G.,  D.S.O. 

(2.187)  12 


178    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Business  took  Rivy  to  Canada  with  his  brother 
Arthur  on  i6th  August.  They  travelled  in  a 
large  party,  and  made  a  stately  progress  through 
the  Dominion.  I  can  only  find  one  letter  from 
Rivy  during  the  tour,  describing  Sir  Arthur 
Lawley's  speech.  "  Joe  Lawley  made  a  speech 
on  the  responsibilities  of  Canada  at  Ottawa 
which  brought  tears  to  people's  eyes,  and  made  a 
very  great  impression.  I  will  bring  back  a  copy 
of  it.  It  was  by  far  the  best  speech  that  any  of 
us  had  ever  heard  in  our  lives.  I  never  realized 
he  could  do  such  a  thing,  and  it  made  us  very 
proud  to  think  that  we  had  an  Englishman  who 
could  make  such  a  speech,  especially  after  Sir 
Wilfrid  Laurier's  very  moderate  effort. " 

In  December  of  1912  Arthur  Grenfell  had  a 
bad  horse  accident,  and  Rivy  found  himself  in 
consequence  more  closely  tied  to  his  office.  In 
January  1913  the  9th  Lancers  went  to  Tidworth 
on  Salisbury  Plain,  and  in  order  that  the  brothers 
might  spend  their  week-ends  together,  Rivy  took 
the  Red  House  in  the  neighbourhood,  where  he 
marked  out  a  training  ground  for  his  polo  ponies. 
In  September  1912  Francis  had  been  gazetted 
captain,  and  a  little  later  was  appointed  adjutant. 
In  the  summer  of  1913  he  was  working  for  the 
Staff  College  examination,  and  finally  entered  for 
it  in  great  pain  from  a  sprained  ankle,  which, 


A  MEMOIR.  179 

taken  in  conjunction  with  the  variety  of  his 
recent  pursuits,  made  his  success  in  qualifying  the 
more  remarkable.  I  find  Francis  writing  to  the 
King  of  Spain  in  January  begging  him  to  visit 
the  Qth  Lancers  at  Tidworth,  and  in  any  case 
to  let  his  Military  Attache  come  and  stay  with 
them.  "  I  can  always  give  him  horses  or  ponies 
to  ride  and  introduce  him  to  other  officers  of  the 
garrison,  including  general  officers,  of  which  there 
are  almost  as  many  here  as  private  soldiers.  .  .  . 
Should  you  manage  to  come  over  to  England  for 
Cowes,  my  regiment  is  stationed  only  about  forty 
miles  from  Southampton,  and  we  could  give  you 
a  good  game  of  polo  every  day.  You  could  motor 
over  quietly  and  privately,  and  no  one  need  know 
anything  about  it.  Please  keep  this  in  mind,  as 
a  match  between  the  i6th  Lancers,  with  your 
Majesty  playing,  and  the  Qth  Lancers,  would 
make  a  fine  combat.  We  have  read  with  great 
interest  about  the  reforms  you  have  introduced 
in  Spain,  and  the  courage  you  have  shown.  It 
might  well  be  said  of  Spain  what  Frederick  the 
Great  once  said  of  England  about  Pitt,  *  England^ 
at  any  rate,  has  now  a  man  at  the  head  of  affairs.' 
I  am  afraid  it  will  not  be  possible  for  me  to  come 
over  to  Spain  in  the  spring  and  enjoy  the  good 
sport  we  had  two  years  ago.  I  am  now  adjutant, 
and  find  it  hard  to  get  away.  We  are  very  busy 


180    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

in  case  of  a  war,  which  we  are  quite  ready  for 
and  looking  forward  to.  If  we  go  to  war,  as 
many  Spanish  officers  as  want  to  see  it  should 
join  the  Qth  Lancers,  for  our  one  hope  is  to  be 
in  the  advanced  guard." 

The  year  1913  was  passed  pleasantly  by  both 
Twins  in  London  and  Tidworth,  with  such  breaks 
as  a  trip  to  Paris  with  the  Duke  of  Westminster 
at  Christmas.  Their  real  home  was  at  Roe- 
hampton  with  their  brother  Arthur,  for  whom 
they  had  a  deep  affection.  There  among  his 
children  they  seemed  to  be  children  themselves 
again.  It  was  a  period  of  that  close  companion- 
ship which  for  both  was  the  main  secret  of  hap- 
piness. I  have  never  seen  anything  like  their 
fidelity  to  each  other.  They  had  their  own 
secret  whistles  and  calls,  and  if  either  heard  the 
other's  summons  it  was  his  duty  at  once  to  leave 
whatever  he  was  doing  and  obey  it.  In  ordinary 
company  they  were  just  like  two  dogs.  Francis 
would  rise  and  leave  the  room,  and  Rivy  would  be 
apparently  unconscious  for  some  minutes  of  his 
departure.  Then  he  would  grow  restless,  and 
presently  get  up  and  saunter  out  to  find  his  twin. 

At  this  time  they  were  most  conspicuous 
figures  in  English  society.  They  knew  every  one 
and  went  everywhere ;  and  I  fear  that  Rivy's 
devotion  to  letters  must  have  declined,  for  with 


A  MEMOIR.  181 

his  quicksilver  brother  at  home  he  had  small 
opportunity  for  the  studious  life.  But  he  did  a 
remarkable  thing,  which  I  think  must  be  almost 
unprecedented.  To  help  Francis  in  his  Staff 
College  work  he  took  many  of  his  classes  with 
him,  read  the  same  text-books,  and  went  through 
the  same  coaching.  This  must  have  been  a  real 
effort,  since  at  the  time  he  was  deeply  engaged  in 
his  brother  Arthur's  business  and  carrying  many 
new  responsibilities.  For  the  rest,  both  led  the 
varied  and  comfortable  life  which  used  to  be  the 
perquisite  of  well-credentialled,  reasonably  rich, 
and  socially  agreeable  young  men  in  England. 
Each  had  the  gift  of  oxygenating  the  atmosphere 
in  which  he  moved  and  waking  a  sense  of  life 
in  the  flattest  place.  This  was  partly  due,  I 
think,  to  the  curious  charm  of  their  appearance  : 
they  seemed  always  to  be  moving,  or  poised  for 
movement ;  the  ardour  in  their  eyes  was  an  anti- 
dote for  ennui;  they  gave  the  impression  of 
never  in  their  lives  having  been  bored  or  idle. 
Partly  it  sprang  from  their  real  ingenuousness. 
They  were  acutely  interested  in  everything  in 
the  world,  and  refused  to  hide  their  interest  after 
the  conventional  English  fashion.  Often  the 
results  were  comic.  They  had  vast  stores  of 
ignorance,  and  would  ask  questions  of  an  un- 
believable naivete.  But  comic  or  not  it  was  a 


i8a    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

most  endearing  trait,  for  it  was  perfectly  natural, 
without  pose  or  premeditation.  It  was  this  habit 
that  especially  attracted  older  men.  Francis  and 
Rivy  were  at  their  best  with  their  seniors.  Al- 
ways respectful,  they  yet  managed  to  treat  an 
elder  as  if  he  were  only  a  much  wiser  contempo- 
rary— one  in  whom  the  fires  of  youth  were  by  no 
means  dead.  Their  attitude  was  deferential  in  that 
it  recognized  superior  wisdom,  familiar  since  it 
assumed  a  comradeship  in  everything  else.  Also 
they  revelled  in  "  shop,"  and  welcomed  anybody 
who  would  tell  them  anything  new.  I  have  seen 
Rivy,  with  bright  eyes,  hanging  on  the  words  of 
an  aged  general,  or  banker,  or  professor,  or 
quondam  master  of  hounds,  cross-examining  him 
in  an  earnest  quest  for  knowledge  ;  and  the 
flattered  face  of  the  examinee  showed  how  he 
relished  the  compliment. 

To  most  of  us  the  dividing  line  between  the 
old  and  the  new  world  was  drawn  in  the  first 
week  of  August  1914.  But  for  the  Twins  it 
came  earlier.  Three  months  before  the  cataclysm 
of  the  nations  they  felt  their  own  foundations 
crumbling.  .  .  .  Their  brother  Arthur's  firm, 
in  which  Rivy  was  a  partner,  had  had  a  career  of 
meteoric  brilliance,  and  had  naturally  aroused 
much  jealousy  among  others  who  had  entered  for 


A  MEMOIR.  183 

the  same  stakes.  From  1912  onward  it  had  been 
riding  high  speculative  tides,  where  the  hand  of  a 
skilled  helmsman  was  badly  needed.  But  Arthur's 
accident  in  the  winter  of  that  year  kept  him  away 
from  business  for  a  considerable  time,  and  when 
he  returned  it  seemed  to  many  of  his  friends  that 
he  was  not  the  man  he  had  been.  Rivy  had  to 
deal  on  his  own  initiative  with  intricate  matters 
which  he  probably  never  understood,  for  his 
business  training  had  always  been  sketchy  and 
inadequate.  The  affairs  of  the  firm  grew  more 
and  more  involved,  with  the  result  that  in  the 
early  months  of  1914  a  crash  was  imminent.  In 
May  the  blow  fell.  The  downfall  of  their  brother's 
business  involved  every  penny  of  the  Twins' 
fortune. 

This  was  the  true  tragedy  of  their  lives,  for 
the  war  brought  no  such  bitterness.  It  meant 
that  Rivy  was  a  broken  man  in  his  profession, 
and  that  Francis  must  give  up  most  of  his  am- 
bitions. It  made  one's  heart  ache  to  see 
them,  stunned,  puzzled,  yet  struggling  to  keep 
a  brave  front,  and  clamouring  to  take  other 
people's  loads  on  their  backs.  Uncomplainingly 
they  played  what  they  decided  was  their  last 
game  of  polo,  and  sold  their  ponies.  Rivy  was 
like  one  in  a  dream,  trying  to  make  out  landmarks 
in  an  unfamiliar  universe.  Some  terrible  thing 


184    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

had  happened,  and  by  his  fault — for  his  quixotic 
loyalty  made  him  ready  to  shoulder  all  the  blame 
— but  he  could  not  understand  how  or  why. 
He  was  full  of  schemes  to  restore  their  fortunes, 
and  I  have  rarely  known  anything  so  tragic  as 
to  listen  to  his  schemes  and  endeavour  to  ex- 
plain their  bottomless  futility.  ...  It  was  a  time 
when  a  man's  friends  are  tested,  and  nobly 
most  of  their  friends  stood  the  trial.  But  there 
were  others  who,  in  the  noonday  of  prosperity, 
had  been  ready  to  lick  their  boots,  and  who  now 
invented  slanders  and  gloated  over  the  downfall. 
In  my  haste  I  considered  that  a  public  thrash- 
ing would  have  best  met  such  cases  ;  but  the 
brothers  seemed  to  be  incapable  of  anger.  It  was 
their  gentleness  that  was  so  difficult  to  watch 
unmoved.  They  neither  broke  nor  bent  under 
calamity,  but  simply  stood  still  and  wondered. 
All  that  for  fourteen  years  they  had  planned  to- 
gether had  gone  by  the  board,  but  they  grieved 
about  everybody's  loss  more  than  their  own.  It 
was  the  same  with  both  :  in  that  bad  time  they 
spoke  and  felt  and  thought  with  one  spirit. 

In  the  late  summer  of  1914  those  of  us  who 
were  trying  against  heavy  odds  to  reach  a  settle- 
ment of  the  brothers'  affairs  were  aware  of  a 
mysterious  current  moving  throughout  the  world's 


A  MEMOIR.  185 

finance,  which  thwarted  all  our  efforts.  Though 
we  did  not  know  it  at  the  time,  it  was  the  first 
muttering  of  the  great  storm.  By  the  middle  of 
July  it  was  clear  that  nothing  could  be  done,  and 
then  suddenly  that  happened  which  submerged 
all  personal  disasters  in  a  universal  downfall.  On 
Tuesday,  4th  August,  Britain  sent  an  ultimatum 
to  Germany,  and  at  midnight  entered  upon  war. 
What  to  most  people  was  like  the  drawing  in  of 
a  dark  curtain  was  to  the  Twins  an  opening  of 
barred  doors  into  the  daylight.  For  Francis  the 
career  which  seemed  at  an  end  was  to  be  resumed 
upon  an  august  stage,  and  for  Rivy  the  chance 
had  come  to  redeem  private  failure  in  public 
service. 


CHAPTER  VII. 


IN  1909,  when  Francis  went  hunting  north  of 
the  Zambezi,  he  travelled  to  the  Victoria  Falls 
with  Colonel  Marling,  V.C.,  then  Brigadier-Gen- 
eral commanding  the  Potchefstroom  district.  He 
used  to  stare  across  the  veld  for  hours  at  a  time 
out  of  the  window  of  the  observation  car,  and 
once  Colonel  Marling  asked  what  he  was  think- 
ing about.  "  I  was  thinking  how  beautiful  all 
this  is,"  was  the  answer.  "  It  makes  me  long  to 
do  something  great/'  What  makes  the  hero  ? 
Emerson  asks,  and  replies, 

"  He  must  be  musical, 
Tremulous,  impressional." 

I  never  heard  that  Francis  was  musical,  and  he  was 
about  as  tremulous  as  a  brick  wall.  But  he  was 
always  most  sensitive  to  impressions,  and  in  both 
the  Twins  a  vein  lay  hidden  of  unspoken  poetry. 
They  now  entered  upon  the  struggle  with  a  kind 
of  awed  and  hushed  expectation.  It  had  long  been 
at  the  back  of  their  minds,  and  consciously  and 


186 


A  MEMOIR.  187 

unconsciously  they  Tiad  been  preparing  for  it. 
This  little  book  is  not  a  war  memoir,  for  only  a 
fraction  of  the  Twins'  lives  fell  under  the  great 
shadow— for  Rivy  about  five  weeks,  and  for 
Francis  less  than  ten  months.  But,  looking  back, 
the  war  seems  to  have  been  always  a  part  of  their 
outlook.  Both  had  the  standpoint  of  the  regular 
soldier ;  neither  suffered  the  hesitations  and 
divided  impulses  of  the  less  fortunate  civilian. 
But  their  outlook  in  one  sense  was  not  the  common 
professional  one — of  the  man  who  looks  forward 
to  the  practice  of  an  art  in  which  he  has  been 
trained.  Coming,  as  it  did,  to  relieve  them  from 
their  perplexities,  the  crisis  seemed  to  them  to 
carry  with  it  a  solemn  trust,  which  they  undertook 
with  willingness,  indeed,  but  with  something  of 
the  gravity  of  those  who  feel  themselves  in  the 
hands  of  destiny. 

The  declaration  of  war  found  them  together 
at  Tidworth.  Rivy  was  determined  to  go  out 
with  Francis,  so  he  managed  to  get  himself  trans- 
ferred from  his  proper  unit,  the  Bucks  Hussars, 
as  a  reserve  officer  of  the  Qth  Lancers.  Every 
moment  of  his  time  was  devoted  to  sitting  at 
his  brother's  feet  and  learning  what  he  could 
teach  him  of  the  art  of  war,  and  to  buying  his 
equipment  with  feverish  haste.  The  Twins  de- 
cided to  take  six  horses  between  them,  and  they 


i88    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

borrowed  an  additional  groom  from  the  Duke  of 
Westminster.  "I  am  to  take  command  of  a 
squadron,"  wrote  Francis  in  glee  to  Lord  Grenfell. 
"  My  regiment  was  never  better  or  more  prepared 
in  its  history.  .  .  .  My  dear  old  Uncle,  you 
have  been  so  kind  to  us  that  words  to  thank  you 
fail  me.  If  we  survive  you,  we  will  look  after 
your  children  and  see  that  they  get  jolly  well 
swished  at  Eton."  On  Thursday,  I3th  August, 
I  find  this  note  in  his  diary  : — 

"  The  Colonel  [David  Campbell]  had  dismounted  parade 
at  two  o'clock.  He  made  a  splendid  speech  in  which  he 
recalled  all  the  great  deeds  of  the  past  which  had  been  per- 
formed by  the  gth :  how  in  the  Mutiny  the  regiment  had 
carried  out  its  duties  and  several  officers  obtained  V.C.'s, 
with  such  distinction  that  when  it  left  India  the  Viceroy  gave 
orders  that  it  should  be  saluted  by  forty-one  guns.  This 
had  never  been  done  before,  and  has  never  been  done  since. 
In  Afghanistan  it  had  been  greatly  praised  by  Lord  Roberts  ; 
in  South  Africa  it  fought  for  two  years  with  the  greatest 
distinction,  and  received  the  highest  compliments  from  all  its 
commanders.  He  also  reminded  us  that  Lieutenant  Mac- 
donald  had  on  one  occasion  fought  till  every  man  and  himself 
had  been  killed.  He  told  us  that  we  were  going  forth  to  the 
war  with  the  greatest  traditions  to  uphold.  Nothing  could  be 
finer  than  his  speech,  or  could  possibly  have  appealed  more 
to  the  officers  and  men." 

The  regiment  embarked  on  the  i5th.  That 
morning  Francis  wrote  to  Lord  Grenfell  : — 

"  You  will  receive  this  when  we  have  gone  forth  to  war. 
We  entrain  to-day  at  i  p.m.,  and  hope  to  reach  France  to- 


A  MEMOIR.  189 

night.  We  leave  very  quietly  as  if  marching  to  manoeuvres, 
but  a  more  magnificent  regiment  never  moved  out  of  barracks 
for  war.  Every  one  is  full  of  enthusiasm.  Rivy  goes  with 
me,  and  it  is  a  great  thing  having  him.  Good-bye,  my  dear 
Uncle.  You  have  all  my  affection,  and  no  one  has  ever  been 
kinder  than  you  have  been  to  me  during  my  lifetime.  So  far 
I  have  been  the  luckiest  man  alive.  I  have  had  the  happiest 
possible  life,  and  have  always  been  working  for  war,  and  have 
now  got  into  the  biggest  in  the  prime  of  life  for  a  soldier. 
We  will  tell  you  some  fine  tales  when  we  return  with  a  bottle 
of  the  best  from  the  Rhine/' 

That  same  day  Rivy  wrote  to  me — the  last 
letter  I  had  from  him.  "  I  cannot  leave  the 
country  without  writing  to  thank  you,  my  dear 
John,  for  all  you  have  done  for  me  in  our  troubles. 
.  .  .  Thank  God,  we  are  off  in  an  hour.  Such 
a  magnificent  regiment  !  Such  men,  such  horses  ! 
Within  ten  days  I  hope  Francis  and  I  will  be 
riding  side  by  side  straight  at  the  Germans.  We 
will  think  of  you,  old  boy." 

They  got  to  Boulogne  late  on  the  evening  of 
the  1 6th,  and,  passing  through  Amiens  and  Mau- 
beuge,  detrained  at  Jeunot  in  the  afternoon  of  the 
i  yth.  The  letters  home  from  both  during  those 
days  were  very  scrappy,  consisting  chiefly  of 
references  to  the  hard  game  of  polo  which  they 
expected  to  play  at  any  moment,  and  the  close 
touch  which  they  had  established  with  the  other 
players.  Francis,  however,  kept  a  careful  diary, 


190    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

and  it  is  curious,  considering  what  was  to  happen, 
that  his  main  object  seems  to  have  been  to  record 
every  moment  which  he  spent  with  Rivy,  and  all 
that  Rivy  said  or  did.  He  was  in  command  of 
"  B  "  Squadron,  and  was  determined  to  keep  it  up 
to  the  mark.  Take,  for  example,  this  entry  on 
1 8th  August :  "  I  had  reason  to  find  fault  with 
the  turn-out  of  the  men,  boots  and  spurs  having 
been  allowed  to  get  rusty ;  so  I  formed  up  the 
squadron  and  told  them  I  insisted  on  the  turn-out 
being  good  throughout  the  campaign,  as  it  was 
proverbial  that  the  best  turned-out  troop  was 
nine  times  out  of  ten  the  best  fighting  one.  I 
said  that  because  the  men  were  on  active  service 
there  was  no  reason  why  they  should  imagine 
that  they  had  ceased  to  be  the  Ninth  and  become 
colonials.  I  ordered  the  few  men  whose  turn-out 
was  very  bad  to  march  two  miles  on  foot  on  the 
way  home,  and  I  told  them  in  future  that  any 
man  who  was  reported  to  me  badly  turned  out 
would  have  his  horse  taken  away  from  him  and 
be  made  to  tramp.  I  am  certain  that  this  had  a 
great  effect  on  the  squadron." 

From  Jeunot  the  Ninth  moved  to  Obrechies. 
"  B  >:  Squadron  was  the  first  cavalry  unit  to 
arrive,  and  naturally  had  a  great  reception  from 
both  French  and  Belgians.  On  the  igth  and  2oth 
it  did  a  reconnaissance  into  Belgian  territory. 


A  MEMOIR.  191 

and  on  Friday  the  2ist  marched  to  Harmignies. 
There  Sir  John  French,  it  will  be  remembered, 
was  taking  up  position  in  advance  of  the  left  flank 
of  the  French  Fifth  Army,  preparatory  to  a  move 
against  the  German  flank  in  Belgium.  The  pres- 
ence of  von  Billow's  Second  Army  was  fairly  well 
known,  but  there  was  more  or  less  a  mystery 
about  the  whereabouts  of  von  Kluck.  He  was 
believed  to  be  somewhere  in  the  neighbourhood 
of  Waterloo,  but  neither  the  French  nor  the  British 
Staff  had  any  guess  at  the  strength  of  his  forces, 
or  the  great  wheel  which  he  was  to  undertake. 
That  Friday  night  the  Twins  were  billeted  in 
Harmignies,  and  on  Saturday  the  22nd  they 
remained  there  till  the  evening,  when  the  Ninth 
were  sent  out  to  Thulin,  where  they  arrived  early 
in  the  morning  0f  the  23rd.  They  were  now 
behind  the  left  flank  of  the  British  3rd  Division. 

Francis  and  Rivy  were  much  perplexed  by 
this  strange  kind  of  battlefield.  As  cavalrymen 
they  had  hoped  for  the  wide  rolling  downs  which 
had  been  predicted  as  the  terrain  of  any  con- 
tinental war.  Instead  they  found  themselves  in 
a  land  full  of  little  smoky  villages,  coal  mines, 
railway  embankments,  endless  wire,  and  a  popu- 
lation that  seemed  a$  dense  as  that  of  a  London 
suburb.  They  were  puzzled  to  know  how  cavalry 
could  operate,  and  they  were  still  more  puzzled 


192    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

to  understand  what  was  the  plan  of  campaign — 
an  uncertainty  they  shared  with  a  million  or  so 
other  soldiers.  On  that  hot  Sunday  morning 
firing  began  early  to  the  north-east  and  grew 
heavier  as  the  day  advanced.  In  the  afternoon 
the  Colonel  sent  for  the  squadron  leaders  and 
told  them  that  six  German  cavalry  and  three 
infantry  divisions  were  advancing,  and  that  their 
business  was  to  retire  slowly,  fighting  a  rearguard 
action.  The  rest  of  the  day  was  spent  in  deep 
mystification,  with  no  knowledge  of  the  fall  of 
Namur,  or  of  Lanrezac's  defeat  at  Charleroi,  or 
the  other  calamities  which  were  to  compel  Sir 
John  French  to  retreat.  But  at  1 1 .30  came  definite 
orders.  They  were  instructed  to  entrench  at  the 
railway  station  south  of  Thulin  for  an  attack  at 
dawn.  Spades  were  procured  with  difficulty,  and 
they  were  about  to  begin  when  another  order 
came  not  to  entrench  but  to  barricade,  and  to 
hold  Thulin  station  and  the  road  to  the  south  of 
it.  This  was  done,  and  the  position  was  occupied 
during  the  darkness,  while  the  wretched  inhabit- 
ants straggled  down  the  south  road,  and  the  guns 
in  the  north  grew  steadily  nearer. 

Monday  the  24th  saw  the  beginning  of  the 
retreat  from  Mons.  This  is  not  the  place  to 
repeat  an  oft-told  tale.  Our  concern  is  only  with 
one  cavalry  unit  engaged  in  acting  as  a  rear- 


A  MEMOIR.  193 

guard.  At  four  o'clock  that  morning  Francis, 
who  had  retired  from  Thulin  at  10.30  the  night 
before,  was  ordered  to  reconnoitre  the  town  at 
dawn.  He  had  gone  only  a  little  way  through  its 
streets  when  he  came  under  heavy  fire  at  short 
range,  and  in  withdrawing  had  his  horse  "  Ginger  " 
shot  down.  Presently  from  his  position  at  the 
railway  station  he  saw  a  mass  of  German  troops 
advancing.  A  sharp  fight  ensued  of  which  he 
records,  "  Rivy  and  I  found  ourselves  for  the 
first  time  standing  together  under  fire,  and  not 
much  disconcerted."  He  had  a  bullet  through 
his  boot,  and  as  the  enemy  was  advancing  in 
considerable  numbers  and  outflanking  the  little 
post,  "  B  "  Squadron  fell  back  upon  the  regiment, 
and  was  sent  into  reserve.  The  Qth  Lancers 
then  retired  to  a  ridge  more  to  the  south,  where 
they  came  under  a  heavy  shell-fire. 

It  was  now  about  midday.  The  2nd  Cavalry 
Brigade  was  south  of  Audregnies,  with  the  excep- 
tion of  the  1 8th  Hussars  holding  the  high  ground 
north  of  that  village.  The  5th  Division  was  mov- 
ing along  the  Eloges- Audregnies  road.  General 
De  Lisle  ordered  the  Qth  Lancers  to  a  position 
on  the  north-west  of  Audregnies,  in  order  to 
support  the  i8th  Hussars.  There  they  assembled 
on  a  low  hill  where  some  shelter  was  obtained 
from  buildings.  The  men  were  dismounted,  and 

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194    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

firing  at  i  ,200  yards  against  the  German  infantry, 
who  were  advancing  deployed.  Presently  the 
retiring  5th  Division,  which  had  now  been  in 
action  for  some  twenty-four  hours,  was  threatened 
with  an  enemy  envelopment,  and  Sir  Charles 
Fergusson  asked  for  protection  from  the  cavalry 
for  his  western  flank.  De  Lisle  decided  to  charge 
the  flank  of  the  advancing  masses,  the  4th  Dragoon 
Guards  on  the  left  and  the  Qth  Lancers  on  the 
right. 

That  charge  was  as  futile  and  as  gallant  as 
any  other  like  attempt  in  history  on  unbroken 
infantry  and  guns  in  position.  But  it  proved  to 
the  world  that  the  spirit  which  inspired  the  Light 
Brigade  at  Balaclava  and  von  Bredow's  Todtenritt 
at  Mars-la-Tour  was  still  alive  in  the  cavalry  of 
to-day.  .  .  .  Francis  formed  his  squadron  in 
line  of  troops  column,  and  they  galloped  into  a 
tornado  of  rifle  and  machine-gun  fire  and  the 
artillery  fire  of  at  least  three  batteries.  No  ob- 
jective could  be  discerned,  for  the  Germans  at 
once  took  cover  among  the  corn  stooks.  The 
ground  had  not  been  reconnoitred,  and  long 
before  they  came  near  the  enemy  the  Lancers 
found  themselves  brought  up  by  double  lines 
of  wire.  In  that  nightmare  place  Francis's  first 
job  was  to  get  his  squadron  in  hand.  He  could 
not  find  his  trumpeter,  so  he  blew  his  whistle 


A  MEMOIR.  195 

and  cursed  with  vehemence  anybody  he  found 
out  of  place.  The  charge  had  swung  somewhat  to 
the  right.  Captain  Lucas-Tooth,  commanding 
"  A  "  Squadron,  reached  a  high  mound  of  cinders, 
and  behind  it  and  in  a  donga  running  eastward 
found  shelter,  and  was  presently  joined  by  some 
of  the  4th  Dragoon  Guards.  Meantime  Francis 
found  a  certain  amount  of  cover  behind  a  house. 
"  We  had  simply  galloped  about  like  rabbits  in 
front  of  a  line  of  guns,"  he  wrote,  "  men  and 
horses  falling  in  all  directions.  Most  of  one's 
time  was  spent  in  dodging  the  horses." 

Very  soon  the  house  was  blown  to  pieces,  so 
the  squadron  moved  off  to  the  shelter  of  a  railway 
embankment.  Francis  remembered  that  on  one 
occasion  the  regiment  had  been  ordered  to  trot 
in  South  Africa  under  a  heavy  fire,  and  he  now 
adopted  this  method  of  keeping  his  men  together. 
Under  the  embankment  he  collected  the  remnant. 
He  found  a  number  of  odd  Qth  Lancers  besides 
his  own  squadron,  and  as  senior  officer  he  took 
command  and  attempted  to  sort  the  troops  out. 

South  of  the  embankment  was  the  iiQth 
Battery,  R.F.A.,  under  Major  G.  H.  Alexander, 
who  for  this  day's  work  was  to  receive  the  Vic- 
toria Cross.  It  was  under  a  desperate  fire  from 
three  of  the  enemy's  batteries,  one  of  which 
completely  enfiladed  it,  and  most  of  its  gunners 


196    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

had  been  killed.  Seeing  the  position,  Francis 
offered  his  services.  At  that  moment  he  was  hit 
by  shrapnel.  "  It  felt  as  if  a  whip  had  hit  me  in 
the  leg  and  hand.  I  think  an  artery  was  affected, 
as  the  blood  spurted  out,  and  my  observer,  Stead- 
man,  and  young  Whitehead  very  kindly  bound  me 
up.  We  also  had  to  put  on  a  tourniquet,  and 
referred  to  the  Field  Service  Regulations  to  find 
out  how  it  had  to  be  put  on.  This  would  have 
amused  you.  Of  course,  we  found  out  how  to 
stop  blood  in  every  other  part  of  one's  body  except 
one's  hand,  but  eventually  came  upon  this  useful 
information.  Things  began  to  go  round  and 
round,  and  I  luckily  remembered  that  in  the  wallets 
of  the  horse  I  had  borrowed  I  had  noticed  a 
flask.  This  proved  to  contain  a  bottle  of  the  best 
old  brandy,  and  my  observer  and  I  at  once  drank 
the  lot.  I  now  felt  like  Jack  Johnson,  instead  of 
an  old  cripple." 

Major  Alexander  asked  Francis  to  find  if 
there  was  an  exit  for  his  guns.  The  diary  con- 
tinues the  story. 

"  It  was  not  a  very  nice  job,  I  am  bound  to  say,  and  I  was 
relieved  when  it  was  finished.  It  meant  leaving  my  regiment 
under  the  embankment  and  riding  out  alone  through  the  guns, 
which  were  now  out  of  action  and  being  heavily  shelled  all 
the  time,  to  some  distance  behind,  where  I  found  myself  out 
of  range  of  the  shells.  It  was  necessary  to  go  back  through 
the  inferno  as  slowly  as  possible,  so  as  to  pretend  to  the  men 


A  MEMOIR.  197 

that  there  was  no  danger  and  that  the  shells  were  more  noisy 
than  effective.  I  reported  to  the  Battery  Commander  that 
there  was  an  exit ;  he  then  told  me  that  the  only  way  to  save 
his  guns  was  to  man-handle  them  out  to  some  cover.  My 
experience  a  few  minutes  before  filled  me  with  confidence, 
so  I  ordered  the  regiment  to  dismount  in  front  of  their  horses, 
and  then  called  for  volunteers.  I  reminded  them  that  the 
9th  Lancers  had  saved  the  guns  at  Maiwand,  and  had  gained 
the  eternal  friendship  of  the  gunners  by  always  standing  by 
the  guns  in  South  Africa;  and  that  we  had  great  traditions 
to  live  up  to,  as  the  Colonel  had  reminded  us  before  we  started. 
Every  single  man  and  officer  declared  they  were  ready  to  go 
to  what  looked  like  certain  destruction.  We  ran  forward  and 
started  pushing  the  guns  out.  Providence  intervened,  for 
although  this  was  carried  out  under  a  very  heavy  fire  and  the 
guns  had  to  be  slowly  turned  round  before  we  could  guide 
them,  we  accomplished  our  task.  We  pushed  out  one  over 
dead  gunners.  I  do  not  think  we  lost  more  than  three  or 
four  men,  though  it  required  more  than  one  journey  to  get 
everything  out.  It  is  on  occasions  like  this  that  good  dis- 
cipline tells.  The  men  were  so  wonderful  and  so  steady  that 
words  fail  me  to  say  what  I  think  of  them,  and  how  much  is 
due  to  my  Colonel  for  the  high  standard  to  which  he  had  raised 
this  magnificent  regiment." 

According  to  Major  Alexander,  the  enemy 
infantry  were  within  500  yards  before  the  last 
gun  was  got  out  of  shell  range.  Meantime  Cap- 
tain Lucas-Tooth  had  arrived,  and  being  the 
senior  officer  took  command  of  the  regiment. 
"  B  "  Squadron  waited  till  all  the  battery  had 
gone,  and  then,  wrote  Francis,  "  wandered  about 
for  some  time  looking  for  some  one  to  give  us 
orders. "  Eventually  they  halted  by  a  main  road 


198    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

along  which  an  infantry  column  was  marching. 
Here  Francis  was  overcome  by  his  wounds,  and 
was  forced  to  leave  the  squadron.  It  was  now 
about  seven  o'clock.  "  The  N.C.O.'s  and  the 
men  came  and  shook  me  by  the  hand  and  gave 
me  water  from  their  water-bottles.  I  cannot  tell 
you  how  much  this  day  has  increased  the  feeling 
of  confidence  and  comradeship  between  me  and 
my  squadron.  My  fingers  were  nastily  gashed, 
but  the  bone  was  not  damaged  ;  a  bit  of  shrapnel 
had  taken  a  piece  out  of  my  thigh  ;  I  had  a  bullet 
through  my  boot  and  another  through  my  sleeve, 
and  had  been  knocked  down  by  a  shell  ;  my  horse 
had  also  been  shot,  so  no  one  can  say  I  had  an 
idle  day." 

Room  could  not  be  found  in  any  ambulance, 
so  he  was  left  by  the  roadside.  Luckily  a  French 
Staff  officer  came  by  in  a  motor  car  and  took  him 
to  Bavai.  There  he  fell  in  with  the  Duke  of 
Westminster,  who  took  charge  of  him  ;  and  he 
also  found  Rivy,  who  had  been  doing  galloper  to 
De  Lisle.  I  quote  again  from  the  diary. 

"  They  took  me  to  a  French  convent,  which  was  under  the 
Red  Cross  and  was  full  of  wounded.  A  civilian  doctor  and 
six  nurses  attended  me,  each  lady  trying  to  outdo  the  others 
in  kindness,  which  was  rather  alarming.  There  was  a  chorus 
of  '  Pauvre  garcon  !  Comme  il  est  brave  !  Comme  il  est  beau  !  ' 
The  difficulty  arose  as  to  how  my  leg  should  be  treated.  I 
suggested  my  breeches  should  be  taken  off,  but  the  senior 


A  MEMOIR.  199 

Red  Cross  lady  said  that  that  was  impossible — '  Car  il  y  a  trop 
de  jeunes  filles.'  So  my  breeches  were  cut  down  the  leg.  The 
doctor  took  me  to  his  house  and  put  me  to  bed.  I  am  bound 
to  say  I  felt  rather  done.  I  got  into  bed  at  ten  o'clock.  At 
midnight  Rivy  told  me  to  get  up,  as  the  town  was  to  be  evacu- 
ated. The  doctor  gave  me  some  raw  eggs  and  coffee,  and  I 
left  Bavai  at  1.15  a.m.  in  Bend  Or's  motor.  I  cannot  say  how 
nice  it  was  to  find  such  a  friend  at  such  a  time.  It  is  wonderful 
what  Bend  Or  has  done  for  Rivy  and  me.  He  took  me  to  Le 
Cateau,  which  we  reached  about  four  in  the  morning,  where 
I  slept  that  day  heavily  in  his  bed.  Next  morning  I  heard  of 
the  arrival  of  the  4th  Division,  and  I  also  met  Hugh  Dawnay. 
I  left  Le  Cateau  at  9  a.m.  on  the  26th  in  a  cattle  truck  with 
five  other  wounded.  A  very  amusing  thing  happened  in  the 
railway  station.  About  500  refugees  were  there,  all  in  a  great 
state  of  distress  and  alarm,  and  a  few  gendarmes  and  soldiers. 
Suddenly  a  German  aeroplane  came  over.  You  would  have 
roared  with  laughter  as  all  the  refugees  started  yelling  and 
rushing  about  the  station.  Every  gendarme  or  stray  soldier 
who  possessed  any  sort  of  firearm  loosed  it  off  into  the  air, 
which  made  the  women  yell  all  the  more.  A  very  fat  officer 
seized  a  rifle  and  rushed  forward  to  shoot  the  aeroplane,  which 
was  about  five  miles  away.  The  bolt  jammed,  so  he  put  it  on 
the  ground,  gave  it  a  kick,  and  it  went  off  through  the  roof." 

He  reached  Amiens  safely  that  day,  whence 
he  was  transferred  by  way  of  Rouen  to  hospital 
in  England.  He  arrived  very  chastely  dressed 
in  his  regimental  tunic  and  a  pair  of  pyjamas, 
his  breeches  having  been  sacrificed  to  the  modesty 
of  the  French  nuns.  I  well  remember  how,  out 
of  the  confused  gossip  of  those  first  weeks  of  war, 
the  exploit  of  the  gth  Lancers  emerged  as  a  clear 
achievement  on  which  the  mind  of  the  nation 


200    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

could  seize  and  so  comfort  itself.  For  his  work 
on  that  grim  day  Francis  was  recommended  by 
Sir  Charles  Fergusson,  the  General  commanding 
the  5th  Division,  for  the  Victoria  Cross.  The 
award  was  gazetted  early  in  November,  and  so 
to  Francis  fell  the  distinction  of  being  the  first 
man  in  the  campaign  to  win  the  highest  honour 
which  can  fall  to  a  subject  of  the  King. 

He  was  taken  to  Sister  Agnes's  hospital,  and 
then  to  Mr.  Pandeli  Ralli's  house  in  Belgrave 
Square.  There  he  stayed  a  week,  and  after- 
wards went  down  to  Lord  Grenfell  at  Overstone. 
On  8th  September  he  wrote  to  Rivy  that  he 
hoped  to  start  back  in  a  week  for  the  front, 
though  the  doctors  pretended  that  it  might  be  a 
fortnight.  He  was  desperately  restless.  "  I  am 
wondering  what  has  happened  to  you  in  the  mean- 
while, and  also  to  my  squadron,  as  I  am  afraid 
you  will  have  been  having  incessant  fighting  ever 
since  I  departed,  and  the  strain  must  be  very 
great.  Even  the  little  I  went  through  practically 
knocked  me  up,  and  I  have  been  in  bed  ever  since." 
He  was  greatly  embarrassed  by  his  sudden  fame, 
and  he  could  not  believe  that  he  had  done  any- 
thing worth  speaking  about.  "  What  a  muddle 
it  all  was  !  How  I  should  have  liked  to  see  some- 
body who  knew  what  was  going  on  !  I  have  not 
yet  discovered  what  we  charged.  All  I  saw  was 


A  MEMOIR.  201 

some  infantry  nearly  a  mile  off."  He  had  for  the 
moment  no  pride  in  his  exploit,  only  vexation  at 
the  fuss  made  about  it.  "  Some  infernal  corre- 
spondents from  France  have  written  a  lot  of  rot 
which  makes  me  feel  very  uncomfortable.  I  have 
been  bombarded  with  letters  and  telegrams  from 
all  over  the  place,  and  every  sort  of  person  has 
called  to  see  me  in  hospital.  I  never  felt  such  a 
fool  in  my  life.  After  all,  I  only  did  wrhat  every 
other  man  and  officer  did  who  was  with  me.  .  .  . 
The  King  came  to  see  me  in  hospital,  and  was 
extraordinarily  nice ;  also  Prince  Arthur,  who 
stayed  an  hour  with  me.  Lord  Roberts  came  and 
asked  rather  direct  questions  as  to  why  we  charged 
and  whom  we  charged,  and  who  gave  the  order 
to  charge.  .  .  .  Mrs.  Asquith  came  too,  and 
asked  after  you.  There  is  every  sort  of  wild 
story  about  us,  and  a  poem  was  even  written  in 
the  Times  on  how  we  captured  the  guns.  .  .  .  Tell 
the  officers  to  write  on  receipt  of  this,  and  I  will 
bring  out  anything  they  want  to  them.  Cable  if 
you  are  all  right." 

That  brief  meeting  in  Bavai  was  the  last  time 
Francis  saw  his  brother.  During  the  afternoon 
of  24th  August,  when  Francis  and  his  squadron 
were  charging  the  remote  German  infantry,  Rivy 
had  been  acting  as  galloper  for  De  Lisle.  "  A 


202    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

rather  heavy  job  on  a  weary  horse/'  he  wrote. 
"  He  sent  me  to  find  General  Gough,  which  I 
did ;  and  the  latter  told  me  he  had  received  no 
orders,  and  could  not  find  Allenby,  but  since  he 
had  heard  heavy  guns  in  the  direction  of  Eloges 
he  intended  to  stay  where  he  wras.  .  .  .  We 
found  Allenby  about  11.30.  He  told  De  Lisle 
to  go  back  and  take  the  ridge  from  which  we  had 
been  firing  in  the  morning,  but  not  to  get  too 
heavily  engaged.  De  Lisle  took  his  brigade  back 
and  sent  the  i8th  Hussars  about  a  mile  north  to 
a  sugar  factory,  and  followed  himself,  with  me. 
Then  I  was  sent  to  tell  the  Qth  to  wait  north  of 
Audregnies.  As  I  gave  the  message  an  awful  fire 
burst  out  from  Quiveran.  The  Colonel  told 
Abadie  to  hold  the  ridge.  I  had  to  gallop  back 
across  the  line  of  fire  to  De  Lisle,  but  when  I  had 
got  there  he  had  gone.  The  guns  took  up  a 
hurried  position  behind  the  railway,  but  as  they 
galloped  to  position  a  very  heavy  enemy  fire  was 
opened  on  them,  the  Germans  soon  finding  the 
range.  I  went  to  the  railway  to  look  for  De  Lisle, 
and  on  approaching  the  ridge  saw  four  artillerymen 
destroyed  by  shell.  I  then  went  round  by  the 
south  bridge  to  find  the  Qth  ;  but  they,  I  was 
informed,  had  just  charged.  Meanwhile  riderless 
and  wounded  horses  were  galloping  everywhere, 
and  bullets  and  shells  were  falling  like  hailstones. 


A  MEMOIR.  203 

...  At  last  I  found  Colonel  Campbell  looking 
for  the  Brigadier  to  try  and  get  some  reinforce- 
ments. We  found  the  Brigadier,  but  he  had  no 
troops  with  him.  Colonel  Campbell  told  me  to 
stay  with  him.  He  had  been  ordered  to  charge 
towards  Quiveran.  Why,  he  did  not  know,  as 
there  was  an  open  space  for  about  a  mile,  and 
he  had  lost  nearly  all  his  regiment.  ...  I  was 
told  to  rally  what  force  I  could  at  Wiheries.  I 
found  some  4th  Dragoon  Guards,  and  then  retired 
towards  Athis  with  the  Colonel.  Afterwards  we 
fell  back,  a  very  dejected  force,  to  Bavai.  I 
wondered  how  the  devil  I  could  get  news  of 
Francis. " 

Rivy's  day's  work,  though  he  was  the  last  man 
to  admit  it,  was  a  very  remarkable  and  courageous 
performance.  Francis  used  to  say  that  that  soli- 
tary bit  of  reconnaissance,  all  alone,  was  braver 
than  anything  he  ever  did — a  raw  civilian  riding 
for  hours  under  heavy  fire  on  a  tired  horse  on 
missions  of  vital  importance.  That  day  estab- 
lished Rivy's  reputation  with  the  regiment.  For 
the  next  ten  days  he  was  busy  with  the  great 
retreat,  and  had  very  little  time  for  letter- writing. 
On  29th  August  there  was  a  short  note  to  Francis 
telling  him  that  both  had  lost  all  their  belongings 
and  begging  him  to  bring  out  a  new  outfit.  "  An 
infernal  trooper  has  bagged  my  horse  with  all  my 


204    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

kit  on  it,  and  has  got  lost  himself."  There  was 
a  letter  to  one  of  his  sisters,  dated  2nd  September, 
and  a  postcard  to  Francis  the  next  day,  and  after 
that  the  next  news  was  his  death.  In  that  feverish 
fortnight  David  Campbell  wrote  :  "  Rivy  was  with 
me  as  galloper  and  general  utility  officer  up  to  the 
time  I  left.  He  was  of  the  very  greatest  help,  and 
carried  out  a  very  good  reconnaissance  with  two 
scouts  the  day  before  I  was  hit.  He  was  always 
splendid,  and  I  shall  miss  him  fearfully."  On 
5th  September  came  the  turn  of  the  tide  on  the 
Marne,  and  the  Cavalry  Corps  moved  northward 
again.  On  the  yth  the  2nd  Brigade  was  acting 
as  flank  guard  to  the  division,  with  the  gth 
Lancers  as  the  advance  guard  ;  and  at  Moncel 
the  Ninth,  a  troop  and  a  half  strong,  led  by  David 
Campbell  himself,  brilliantly  charged  with  the 
lance  and  dispersed  a  German  squadron. 

On  nth  September  the  2nd  Brigade  was  on 
the  left  bank  of  the  Vesle  river,  and  on  the  i3th 
began  the  crossing  of  the  Aisne  by  the  British 
infantry.  The  Qth  Lancers,  with  the  4th  Dragoon 
Guards  and  the  i8th  Hussars,  crossed  the  river 
in  advance  near  Bourg,  and  pushed  up  the  heights 
towards  Vendresse.  There  they  were  relieved  by 
a  battalion  of  the  infantry  advance  guard,  the 
6oth  Rifles,  and  retired  for  the  night  to  Pargnan. 
On  the  morning  of  the  I4th  the  Ninth  again 


A  MEMOIR.  205 

formed  the  advance  guard,  and  leaving  at  3  a.m. 
marched  north  by  Vendresse  and  Troy  on.  They 
had  been  given  an  objective  which  turned  out  to 
be  about  a  mile  behind  the  German  trenches. 
Pushing  fast  through  the  dark  up  a  winding  road 
towards  the  Chemin  des  Dames,  they  passed  the 
pickets  of  the  6oth,  and  presently  ran  into  a 
German  picket.  The  regiment  dismounted,  while 
Rivy,  with  a  section,  dashed  forward  to  a  position 
near  a  haystack.  He  engaged  the  enemy  picket, 
and  enabled  the  regiment  to  regain  its  direction. 

He  seems  to  have  been  in  wild  spirits,  and  to 
have  encouraged  his  little  band  with  jokes,  and 
with  that  peculiarly  cheery  hallo  of  which  he  had 
the  secret.  But,  in  his  anxiety  to  see  the  effects 
of  the  shots,  he  exposed  himself,  and  a  German 
bullet  cut  his  revolver  in  two  and  passed  through 
the  roof  of  his  mouth.  He  died  instantaneously. 
The  last  words  which  his  men  remember  were 
his  shout,  "  Steady  your  firing,  boys.  We  have 
got  them  beaten." 

The  Ninth  fell  back,  leaving  his  body  in  the 
enemy  hands,  but  that  afternoon  the  6oth  ad- 
vanced and  recovered  it.  Rivy  had  been  in  the 
field  twenty-five  days — days  of  such  crowded 
endeavour  and  endurance  as  few  campaigns  in 
history  can  show.  From  the  first  hour  he  had 
been  supremely  happy,  for  he  had  found  his 


206    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

true  calling.  He  had  seen  his  brother  safe  out 
of  danger  and  covered  with  glory,  and  with  the 
removal  of  any  anxiety  about  Francis  had  gone 
the  one  thing  which  could  dim  his  cheerfulness. 
From  what  I  have  been  told  by  his  men  and  his 
brother  officers,  I  am  certain  that  that  last  fort- 
night of  his  life  had  washed  clean  from  his  mind 
all  the  weary  sense  of  reproach  and  futility  which 
had  been  clouding  it,  and  that  he  went  to  death 
as  one  who  "  finds  again  his  twentieth  year/' 


CHAPTER  VIII. 
1914-1915. 

"  Tarry,  dear  cousin  Suffolk  ! 
My  soul  shall  thine  keep  company  to  heaven ; 
Tarry,  sweet  soul,  for  mine,  then  fly  abreast, 
As  in  this  glorious  and  well-foughten  field 
We  kept  together  in  our  chivalry ! " 

IT  took  Francis  a  long  time  to  realize  that  Rivy 
was  dead.  He  was  about  to  return  to  the  battle 
line  ;  death  was  everywhere  ;  already  many  of 
his  friends  had  fallen  ;  he  himself  might  follow  at 
any  moment  ;  his  mind  was  a  little  dulled  to  the 
meaning  of  mortality.  He  did  not  think  of  the 
blankness  of  his  future  without  Rivy,  for  there 
was  no  reason  to  expect  that  it  would  be  long. 
His  predominant  thought  was  how  splendid  his 
brother  had  been  in  life  and  how  glorious  in 
death,  and  he  wanted  every  one  to  realize  this. 
But  the  acute  personal  loss  had  not  yet  come  home 
to  him.  Of  the  many  letters  which  he  received, 
I  think  he  was  most  touched  by  that  of  the  King 
of  Spain  : — 


207 


2o8    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

"  DEAR  FRANCIS, — I  never  knew  that  Rivy  had  joined  the 
Ninth.  I  thought  he  belonged  to  the  Yeomanry.  You  can- 
not imagine  what  a  blow  it  has  been  to  me,  and  I  can  guess 
what  you  must  feel.  We  followed  all  the  fine  work  you  did, 
and  Bend  Or's  coming  to  your  rescue,  and  I  was  sure  that  I 
would  be  able  to  drink  with  you  both  on  your  V.C.  I  never 
would  have  believed  that  Rivy  would  have  died  before  me, 
and  he  a  civilian.  Do  write  when  you  can,  old  man,  and 
tell  me  everything.  Please  give  your  brothers  and  sisters 
all  my  sympathies.  I  have  lost  a  friend,  and  I  can  only 
tell  you  that  he  has  found  the  finest  of  deaths :  he  died  for 
his  country  on  the  battlefield.  You  are  a  soldier,  and  know 
what  I  mean.  You  know  that  I  am  no  good  at  making 
phrases,  so  good-bye,  old  man.  I  hope  you  will  recover  soon. 
Believe  me  always  your  devoted  friend,  ALFONSO." 

To  Lord  Grey  Francis  wrote  : — 

"  I  wired  to  you  on  Saturday  when  I  heard  the  news,  for 
you  were  one  of  his  best  friends.  Rivy  died  for  old  England, 
and  no  Englishman  could  do  more.  We  won  the  Champion 
Cup  together,  and  I  bought  him  the  horse  on  which  he  won 
the  Kadir,  and  we  have  been  through  good  times  and  bad, 
and  on  the  24th  of  August  we  went  into  action  together  and 
faced  the  bullets  side  by  side.  We  have  worked,  played, 
and  fought  together,  and  always  shared  everything.  After 
thirty-four  years  of  inseparableness  it  was  on  the  battlefield 
that  we  parted,  and  only  death — the  most  glorious  death  of 
all — has  now  compelled  us  to  separate  for  ever,  at  any  rate 
in  this  world. 

"  My  dear  Lord  Grey,  you  were  a  very,  very  good  friend 
to  Rivy,  and  you  and  your  family  have  done  all  you  could  to 
enrich  and  ennoble  his  life.  He  dearly  loved  you  all,  and 
valued  nothing  more  in  the  world  than  your  friendship,  and 
admired  nothing  more  than  your  character.  I  hope  that  since 
we  can  no  more  talk  of  the  '  Twins  '  you  will  always  remember 
Rivy  and  accept  the  gratitude  of  your  broken-hearted  friend/' 


A  MEMOIR.  209 

And  to  me  : — 

"  Rivy's  death  will  hit  you  as  hard  as  it  has  hit  me.  He 
was  so  very  fond  of  you.  You  were  his  most  loyal  friend,  my 
dear  John,  and  I  hope  you  will  accept  the  great  gratitude  of 
his  twin,  and  whenever  you  think  of  Rivy  I  hope  you  will  say 
to  yourself,  *  He  knew  I  always  stood  by  him  through  thick 
and  thin.'  ' 

Rivy  for  him  was  still  a  living  personality,  sepa- 
rated only  by  the  exigencies  of  warfare ;  and  he 
wanted  all  their  friends  to  think  of  him  and  talk 
about  him,  and  not  merely  hold  him  in  pious 
memory,  as  if  by  some  such  affectionate  concen- 
tration of  thought  he  could  be  recaptured  from 
the  pale  shades. 

Meantime  he  was  on  tenterhooks  to  be  back 
at  the  front,  and  on  the  evening  of  8th  October 
he  left  England  to  rejoin  his  regiment.  At  the 
moment  the  British  army  was  moving  to  the 
extreme  left  of  the  Allied  line,  in  the  hope  of 
turning  the  German  northern  flank.  He  travelled 
with  his  Colonel,  David  Campbell,  who  had  now 
recovered  from  his  wound  got  on  the  Marne. 
On  the  1 2th  he  found  the  regiment  at  Strazeele, 
and  to  his  delight  discovered  that  it  was  on  the 
verge  of  going  into  action.  To  be  among  his  old 
friends  again  both  soothed  and  cheered  him. 
'  Several  still  call  me  Rivy,"  he  wrote  to  his 
uncle.  "  I  am  so  glad  it  goes  on." 

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2io    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

The  ist  Cavalry  Division,  now  under  De 
Lisle,  to  which  the  2nd  Brigade  belonged,  was 
engaged  in  reconnoitring  the  ground  in  front  of 
General- Pulteney's  3rd  Corps.  Pulteney's  busi- 
ness was  to  get  east  of  Armentieres,  astride  the 
Lys,  and  to  link  up  Smith-Dorrien  at  La  Bassee 
and  Haig  at  Ypres.  The  enemy  was  in  Merris 
and  Meteren,  and  the  Qth  Lancers  were  drawn 
up  at  Strazeele,  while  the  4th  and  6th  Infantry 
Divisions  attacked.  It  was  a  day  of  heavy  rain 
and  thick  steamy  fog,  the  fields  were  water- 
logged, aircraft  were  useless,  and  the  countryside 
was  too  much  enclosed  for  cavalry.  The  infantry 
succeeded  in  their  task,  and  by  the  morning  of 
the  1 4th  Pulteney  held  the  line  Bailleul-St.  Jans 
Cappelle.  Francis  notes  in  his  diary  :  "I  could 
not  help  observing  on  my  return  that  the  war  was 
affecting  the  spirits  of  all  a  little  :  there  was  much 
more  seriousness  than  when  I  left." 

The  stage  was  now  set  for  that  First  Battle  of 
Ypres  which  was  to  last  for  three  weeks  between 
Dixmude  and  La  Bassee, — which  will  live  in  his- 
tory as  one  of  the  greatest  military  achievements 
of  Britain,  and  which  was  at  once  the  end  and 
the  apotheosis  of  the  old  British  regular  army. 
On  the  1 5th  Francis  took  over  "  B  "  Squadron 
again,  and  told  the  men  how  glad  he  was  to  get 
back  to  them,  and  how  proud  he  was  to  hear  of 


A  MEMOIR.  211 

the  way  in  which  they  had  behaved  since  he  last 
saw  them.  He  told  them  that  the  war  would  be 
long,  and  that  this  was  not  the  time  for  any  man 
to  count  his  losses.  That  day  he  marched  through 
a  steady  rain  to  Locre.  The  next  day,  starting 
very  early,  he  marched  through  Ploegsteert  village 
and  Ploegsteert  Wood  ;  and  at  Le  Gheir  was  in- 
structed to  attack  and  carry  the  Lys  crossing  at  the 
bend  of  Pont  Rouge.  The  squadron  took  the  vil- 
lage, but  found  the  bridge  strongly  barricaded,  and 
the  enemy  entrenched  on  the  far  side  of  the  stream. 
Francis  asked  permission  to  swim  the  river,  and 
when  this  was  refused  he  begged  for  reinforce- 
ments so  as  to  carry  the  barricade.  To  his  dis- 
gust, however,  he  received  orders  to  retire.  "  Be- 
fore leaving  we  buried  Private  Lake  at  a  farm  800 
yards  south  of  the  Pont  Rouge.  Owing  to  our 
nearness  to  the  enemy  we  had  to  carry  on  the 
burial  service  in  the  dark,  which  was  not  nice. 
At  the  service  I  said,  '  Here  lies  a  brave  British 
soldier  who  has  died  for  England  and  the  Qth 
Lancers,  and  no  man  could  do  more.'  Then  I 
said  the  Lord's  Prayer,  and  afterwards  thought 
of  the  poem  to  Sir  John  Moore/' 

Next  day  "  B  "  Squadron  was  in  reserve,  and 
was  consistently  shelled  all  day ;  very  disquieting 
for  cavalry,  who  had  to  think  of  their  horses. 
On  the  1 8th  Francis  was  at  Le  Gheir  again, 


2i2    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

and  "  B  "  Squadron  was  once  more  instructed 
to  attack  Pont  Rouge  with  infantry  support. 
The  aim  was  to  clear  the  right  bank  of  the  Lys, 
for  Pulteney  was  still  doubtful  about  the  strength 
of  the  enemy,  and  had  some  ground  for  assum- 
ing that  the  only  Germans  there  were  the  mixed 
cavalry  and  infantry  he  had  been  pressing  back 
for  a  week.  As  a  matter  of  fact  the  3rd  Corps 
was  now  approaching  the  main  German  position, 
and  in  spite  of  the  brilliant  work  of  the  cavalry 
could  not  win  the  right  bank  of  the  river.  Pul- 
teney was  firmly  held  at  all  points  from  Le  Gheir 
to  Radinghem,  and  his  position  on  the  night  of  the 
1 8th  represented  the  furthest  line  held  during  the 
battle  by  this  section  of  our  front.  Francis's  fight 
on  the  1 8th  was  much  the  same  as  that  on  the 
1 6th.  "  B  "  Squadron  could  not  get  near  its 
objective  because  of  the  machine-gun  fire,  and 
was  only  extricated  by  the  aid  of  two  companies 
of  Inniskilling  Fusiliers. 

It  was  now  necessary  to  connect  Pulteney  with 
the  infantry  further  north,  and  a  link  was  provided 
by  the  whole  Cavalry  Corps  under  Allenby.  On 
the  night  of  the  iQth  Allenby  was  generally  east 
of  Messines  on  a  line  drawn  from  Le  Gheir  to 
Hollebeke.  On  the  aoth  Francis  found  himself 
on  the  Messines  Ridge  supporting  the  4th 
Dragoon  Guards,  who  were  holding  St.  Ives. 


A  MEMOIR.  213 

Here  they  had  another  ugly  scrap,  and  late  in  the 
evening  had  to  support  the  Household  Cavalry 
at  Warneton.  The  day  before  he  had  written 
to  his  uncle  :  "  This  war  is  damnable.  We  have 
such  nasty  jobs  to  do,  and  are  always  under  fire ; 
but  the  spirit  of  the  men  is  splendid.  Our  in- 
fantry and  cavalry  outclass  the  German,  but  their 
artillery  is  excellent.  Our  present  job  is  pretty 
disheartening.  We  go  forward  and  capture  posi- 
tions for  the  infantry,  who  are  entrenched  four 
miles  behind  and  move  terribly  slow.  We  are 
then  withdrawn,  and  have  again  to  recapture  the 
same  position  next  day.  Eventually  the  infantry 
come  up  and  take  the  place,  assisted  by  divisional 
artillery — the  same  place  we  took  three  days  before 
with  a  squadron." 

The  Qth  Lancers  were  gradually  being  trans- 
formed from  cavalry  to  infantry,  and  a  passage  in 
Francis's  diary  shows  how  severe  were  the  duties. 
'  We  have  started  the  same  old  game  as  at  the 
Aisne,  and  we  have  had  five  of  the  hardest  days 
of  the  war  in  trenches  repelling  German  attacks. 
It  has  become  such  a  recognized  idea  to  use  us 
for  this  work  as  soon  as  we  get  in  touch  with  the 
enemy  that  I  am  afraid  all  the  cavalry  traditions 
are  for  ever  ended,  and  we  have  become  mounted 
infantry  pure  and  simple,  with  very  little  of  the 
mounted  about  it.  Our  men  look  funny  sights 


214    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

trudging  along  with  spades  and  things  on  their 
backs,  and  when  they  are  mounted  they  look 
funnier  still  :  if  you  see  a  man  carrying  lance, 
sword,  rifle,  spade  and  pick,  he  looks  just  like  a 
hedgehog.  But  it  is  a  jolly  hard  life  for  them  to 
have  to  fight  their  way  up  to  the  line,  then  make 
the  line,  then  hold  it,  and  all  the  time  cleaning 
and  trying  to  look  after  their  horses."  "  Do  you 
know  any  one  who  would  send  me  an  armoured 
motor  car  with  a  Maxim  ?  "  he  wrote  to  his  uncle. 
"  I  have  written  to  Winston  that  the  thing  would 
be  invaluable  now." 

On  the  2ist  and  22nd  the  regiment  was  en- 
gaged on  the  Messines  Ridge  in  support  of  the 
5th  Cavalry  Brigade.  On  the  23rd  they  were 
actually  at  Messines,  then  still  the  semblance  of 
a  village,  with  its  church  still  a  church  and  not 
yet  a  ragged  tooth  of  masonry.  The  cavalry 
were  holding  a  trench  line  to  the  east  of  the  place, 
where  they  were  most  completely  and  continu- 
ously shelled.  On  the  26th  they  were  sent  south 
to  support  Smith-Dorrien's  2nd  Corps  in  the 
fighting  around  Neuve  Chapelle.  It  was  a  critical 
moment,  for  the  yth  Infantry  Brigade,  which  had 
been  in  action  for  eighteen  days,  had  been  forced 
back  west  of  Neuve  Chapelle  and  had  almost 
ceased  to  exist  as  a  fighting  force.  That  day  an 
attempt  was  made  to  recapture  the  village.  The 


A  MEMOIR.  215 

attack  was  too  weak  to  succeed,  and  the  most  that 
could  be  done  with  the  assistance  of  the  cavalry 
was  to  take  up  a  good  defensive  position  on  the 
west.  On  the  29th  the  Qth  Lancers  were  back 
at  Neuve  Eglise,  behind  the  Messines  position. 
That  experience  gave  Francis  his  first  notion  of 
the  real  seriousness  of  the  German  attack.  Before, 
he  had  been  confident,  and  had  credited  every 
optimistic  rumour  ;  now  he  saw  that  the  enemy 
was  indeed  flinging  the  dice  for  victory,  and  that 
the  scanty  British  forces  were  faced  with  pre- 
posterous odds. 

On  2Qth  October,  as  we  know,  began  the  criti- 
cal stage  of  the  First  Battle  of  Ypres.  The  chief 
danger  points  were  at  the  apex  of  the  salient 
around  Gheluvelt  and  on  its  southern  flank  about 
Zillebeke.  But  there  was  also  an  attack  at  the 
southern  re-entrant,  and  heavy  fighting  along  the 
whole  Messines  Ridge.  On  the  3<Dth  the  ist 
Cavalry  Brigade  was  holding  the  line  before 
Messines,  and  the  Qth  Lancers  were  sent  up  in 
support.  Francis's  squadron,  however,  was  de- 
tached to  assist  the  4th  Cavalry  Brigade  at  Wyt- 
schaete.  Allenby,  it  must  be  remembered,  at  the 
time  was  holding  the  whole  line  from  Klein  Zille- 
beke to  the  south  of  Messines,  and  he  had  no  rein- 
forcements except  two  much-exhausted  battalions 
of  an  Indian  brigade  from  the  2nd  Corps.  The 


2i6    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

British  public,  who  compared  a  cavalry  regiment 
to  an  infantry  battalion  and  a  cavalry  squadron 
to  an  infantry  company,  forgot  the  disparity  in 
numbers.  A  cavalry  regiment  was  only  300  strong 
as  against  1,000  men  of  an  infantry  battalion,  and 
a  squadron  only  46  as  against  200  of  an  infantry 
company. 

That  day  Francis's  work  lay  in  entrenching  a 
position  in  the  Wytschaete  neighbourhood.  In 
the  evening  he  was  sent  for  to  report  to  his  Colonel 
at  Messines.  He  arrived  there  to  find  the  situation 
growing  desperate.  The  front  north  of  the  vil- 
lage was  becoming  untenable.  He  took  his  squad- 
ron to  the  old  trenches  east  of  Messines  which  it 
had  occupied  two  days  before.  It  was  now  only 
40  men  strong — far  too  few  to  hold  the  ground. 
All  the  night  of  the  3Oth  he  was  heavily  fired  on, 
and  the  enemy  could  be  seen  moving  about  on  his 
left  flank.  He  found  his  Colonel,  and  showed  him 
the  danger  of  the  position.  The  most  that  could 
be  done,  however,  was  to  throw  back  a  trench  on 
the  left  at  a  sharp  angle  to  prevent  outflanking. 

Saturday,  3ist  October,  was  the  crisis  of  the 
battle.  It  saw  the  menace  to  the  Salient  itself 
repelled  by  one  of  the  most  heroic  exploits  in  our 
record,  but  it  also  saw  the  end  of  Messines.  The 
events  of  that  day  are  best  told  in  an  extract  from 
Francis's  diary. 


A  MEMOIR.  217 

"  After  an  anxious  night,  in  which  I  did  not  sleep  at  all,  we 
stood  to  arms,  and  were  ready  for  the  attack  which  came  in 
due  course  at  daybreak.  At  about  five  a.m.,  quite  close  to  us, 
I  heard  horns  blowing  and  German  words  of  command  and 
cheering,  and  I  knew  that  the  Germans  had  attacked  the 
Indians  on  our  right.  Basil  Blackwood  came  and  told  me 
the  Colonel  wished  me  to  send  two  troops  to  support  the  right 
at  once,  and  I  sent  Mather  Jackson  and  Sergeant  Davids.  The 
latter  I  consider  to  be  one  of  the  bravest  men  in  the  British 
army,  and  regarded  him  as  the  backbone  of  my  squadron.  I 
regret  to  say  that  was  the  last  time  I  saw  him,  as  during  the 
attack  he  was  badly  wounded  and  captured  by  the  Germans. 
During  the  night,  when  I  felt  anxious,  he  was  so  calm  that  I 
went  and  consoled  myself  by  a  talk  with  him.  We  discussed 
the  principles  of  fighting,  and  he  said  that  the  principles  on 
which  he  acted  were  that  if  you  were  killed  by  a  shell  it  was 
just  bad  luck,  but  that  in  an  attack  he  considered  himself 
as  good  as  any  German,  and  it  was  only  a  question  who  got 
the  first  shot  in.  He  was  very  quiet  throughout  the  night — 
in  fact  at  one  moment  I  had  to  do  a  lot  of  kicking  at  him  to 
wake  him  when  I  thought  the  position  serious. 

"  I  was  now  left  with  two  very  weak  troops — that  is,  from  15 
to  20  men  and  a  machine  gun.  Suddenly,  about  twenty  yards 
to  our  rear  at  daybreak  there  was  a  rush  of  men  from  some 
houses.  To  my  utter  astonishment  they  appeared  to  be 
Germans.  Apparently  the  enemy  had  done  what  we  thought 
he  would  do  during  the  night  :  he  had  got  round  my  extreme 
left,  and  unfortunately,  instead  of  attacking  me  he  had  attacked 
the  troops  on  my  left,  who  had  given  way.  The  Germans 
were  therefore  round  us  at  a  distance  of  100  yards.  They  took 
a  house,  ran  up  to  the  top  storeys  and  fired  straight  into  my 
trench.  Poor  Payne-Gallwey,  who  had  only  joined  two  nights 
before  and  was  in  action  for  the  first  time,  was  shot  in  the  head 
from  behind  and  killed.  Reynolds  was  shot  through  the  head, 
and  several  more  Vere  wounded.  I  was  on  the  extreme  right 
of  the  trench  when  this  was  reported  to  me.  I  had  decided 
to  hang  on  when  I  became  aware  that '  C '  Squadron,  who  were 


2i 8    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

in  front  and  could  protect  my  front,  had  received  orders  to 
withdraw.  At  this  moment  heavy  fire  was  directed  on  our 
trench,  not  only  from  the  rear  but  also  from  the  left  flank, 
where  the  Germans  had  brought  up  a  machine  gun.  Luckily 
the  bullets  went  a  bit  high.  I  ordered  the  men  to  retire  from 
the  right  and  crawl  out  of  the  trench  to  the  houses  that  were 
on  their  right  in  the  brickfield.  When  I  got  there  I  met  Major 
Abadie,  who  said  to  me, '  Well,  Francis,  what  do  you  think  of 
the  situation  ?  '  I  cannot  remember  exactly  what  I  said,  but 
I  think  I  told  him  that  I  thought  the  Germans  were  attacking 
from  front  and  left,  and  that  I  had  no  trench  facing  that  way 
to  meet  the  attack,  the  troops  on  my  left  having  gone  away. 
This  was  the  last  I  saw  of  him.  He  looked  exactly  the  same 
as  usual  and  was  in  the  same  cheery  mood,  taking  everything 
light-heartedly,  as  was  his  custom. 

"  I  now  waited  in  a  ruined  house  in  the  rear  of  the  first 
barricade,  and  am  bound  to  say  I  felt  in  a  quandary  as  to 
what  to  do.  I  felt  very  guilty  at  leaving  my  trench,  but  at 
the  same  time  I  felt  it  was  useless  to  hold  it.  ...  Suddenly 
I  heard  a  machine  gun  still  firing  at  the  extreme  end  of  our 
old  trench.  It  had  been  left  behind,  so  I  left  the  squadron 
at  the  house  and  went  back  along  the  trench  until  I  reached 
the  gun,  where  I  found  Corporal  Seaton  with  another  man  in 
action,  the  Germans  being  from  20  to  40  yards  off.  I  told 
him  I  thought  he  had  better  retire,  and  that  I  would  help 
him  out  with  his  gun  ;  but  he  said  that  as  the  man  with 
him  was  wounded,  and  something  had  gone  wrong  with  the 
gun,  he  thought  it  best  to  leave  it  behind  and  completely 
disable  it.  He  retired  along  the  trench.  I  remained  there 
awhile,  firing  at  Germans  with  my  revolver.  My  firing  was 
not  very  steady,  and  although  I  could  see  Germans  lying  down 
quite  close  I  could  not  take  careful  aim,  as  I  was  being  shot 
at  from  front,  flank,  and  rear.  I  picked  up  one  or  two  rifles 
to  fire  with,  but  they  jammed.  I  then  realized  that  this  was 
no  place  for  the  squadron  leader,  so  crawled  along  the  trench 
and  rejoined  my  squadron  near  the  ruined  house. 

"  Here  I  received  orders  to  hang  on,  and  was  told  that 


A  MEMOIR.  219 

'  C '  Squadron,  under  Major  Abadie,  had  been  ordered  to 
attack  the  house  in  our  rear  with  the  bayonet.  I  was  again 
in  a  dilemma  what  to  do,  but  pulled  myself  together,  hoping 
I  should  be  inspired  to  do  the  right  thing.  The  only  inspira- 
tion I  got  was  a  sort  of  feeling  within  me  to  go  back  and  hold 
my  trench,  so  I  assembled  the  squadron  and  told  Mather 
Jackson  and  Frank  Crossley  that  I  proposed  to  reoccupy  the 
trench.  They  thought  this  might  be  difficult,  as  the  Germans 
seemed  to  have  got  into  the  end  of  it.  However,  feeling  that 
it  was  the  right  thing  to  do,  and  confident  that  we  should  get 
from  traverse  to  traverse  as  quickly  as  the  Germans,  and  that 
I  could  fire  in  front  quicker  with  my  revolver  than  they  could 
with  their  rifles,  we  went  back  to  the  trench  and  reached  the 
extreme  end  of  it.  After  being  there  a  few  moments  the 
officers  reported  that  we  were  being  shot  at  from  front  and 
rear.  I  ordered  them  to  tell  the  odd  numbers  to  fire  to  the 
front  and  the  even  numbers  to  fire  to  the  rear  and  to  hang  on. 
I  went  to  the  extreme  left  of  the  trench,  where  I  could  see  the 
left  flank.  There  I  could  see  some  Germans  running  back, 
but  about  a  thousand  yards  off  one  or  two  German  companies 
advancing,  covered  by  skirmishers  in  excellent  order.  We 
picked  up  at  least  six  rifles  to  fire  at  them,  but  they  all 
jammed. 

"  I  again  felt  uncertain  what  to  do.  Our  position  seemed 
really  ridiculous — most  of  our  rifles  having  jammed,  and  the 
Germans  all  round.  I  sent  word  back  to  '  C  '  Squadron  to 
advance  as  quickly  as  they  could  against  the  house,  saying 
we  should  cover  their  advance  from  where  I  was ;  but  they 
replied  that  it  was  impossible  for  them  to  move.  As  the  only 
use  I  could  be  at  this  time  in  my  trench  was  to  cover  the 
advance  of  '  C '  Squadron,  I  decided  to  leave  it  again,  and 
assembled  the  squadron  under  heavy  artillery  and  machine- 
gun  fire  near  the  ruined  house.  I  found  the  Colonel,  and  told 
him  the  situation.  He  told  me  we  were  to  hold  on  at  all 
costs.  He  said  that  infantry  were  advancing  to  support  us, 
but  could  not  be  up  for  some  time — I  think  he  said  two 
o'clock.  He  told  me  to  hold  the  small  ridge  facing  north, 


220    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

and  reinforced  me  with  two  troops  of  the  5th  Dragoon  Guards. 
I  went  back,  and  on  the  way  spoke  to  Lennie  Harvey,  who 
was  standing  with  his  troop  in  the  road.  I  also  passed  Ray- 
mond Greene.  I  told  Lennie  Harvey  I  had  had  orders  to 
hold  the  ridge,  which  I  pointed  out  to  him,  and  told  him  to 
hold  the  ridge  on  my  left.  This,  I  believe,  is  the  last  that  was 
seen  of  that  officer.  .  .  .  We  were  now  being  very  heavily 
shelled  by  coal-boxes,  and  it  really  seemed  as  hot  as  any  one 
could  wish  for.  There  seemed  to  be  nothing  in  the  air  but 
shells,  and  the  bursting  of  the  coal-boxes  made  a  most  terrific 
noise.  Personally,  I  had  the  feeling  which  I  have  had  before, 
the  same  as  one  gets  at  the  start  of  a  steeplechase,  when  the 
starter  says  '  Off/ 

"  At  this  moment  a  shell  pitched  right  into  the  middle  of 
my  squadron  and  blew  it  to  the  winds.  Several  of  the  men 
were  very  badly  wounded — especially  Corporal  Newman,  to 
whom  I  gave  some  morphia.  I  myself  was  hit  through  the  leg, 
and  felt  I  could  not  move.  Luckily  for  me  Mather  Jackson 
and  another  man  took  hold  of  me  and  carried  me  back.  On 
the  way  we  passed  Beale  Brown  and  told  him  what  had  hap- 
pened— that  the  front  of  the  town  was  untenable  owing  to 
the  shells,  and  that  all  that  could  be  done  was  to  attack  the 
Germans  on  our  left.  I  was  then  carried  back  to  the  second 
barricade,  where  I  met  Charles  Mulholland  and  also  General 
Briggs,  to  whom  I  explained  the  situation.  Mulholland  took 
me  to  a  house  where  the  nth  Hussars'  doctor  was,  and  I  was 
taken  down  to  the  cellar,  where  there  were  a  lot  of  wounded. 
After  I  had  had  some  rum  and  my  wound  dressed  I  was 
sent  through  the  town  to  an  ambulance,  which  took  me  to 
Bailleul. 

"  On  arrival  at  Bailleul  a  terrible  fire  suddenly  opened  in 
the  streets,  which  was  very  alarming  to  us  caged  in  the  ambu- 
lance.- Luckily  it  proved  only  to  be  firing  at  an  aeroplane. 
We  were  taken  to  a  convent,  and  my  stretcher  was  put  down, 
curiously  enough,  alongside  Basil  Blackwood  and  Jack  Wode- 
house.  Basil  Blackwood  and  I,  I  have  since  heard,  were  the 
only  two  to  escape  that  day  from  Messines." 


A  MEMOIR.  221 

Francis's  second  wound  was  a  serious  one  in 
the  thigh.  He  was  sent  to  Dublin,  and  complained 
that  after  a  journey  of  two  nights  he  was  farther 
from  England  than  when  he  started.  "  I  am  in  a 
home,"  he  told  his  uncle  ;  "  very  comfortable, 
indeed,  in  a  room  with  two  others.  The  nurses 
are  quite  splendid.  The  surgeon  has  done  our 
dressings  much  better  than  anything  before  and 
made  us  all  comfortable.  In  addition  to  this 
every  one  in  Ireland  has  been  to  see  us.  Our 
room  is  so  thick  with  flowers  it  is  hard  to 
breathe.  Ivor  Wimborne  has  fitted  us  all  out 
with  glorious  pillows,  razors,  brushes,  etc.  I  could 
not  possibly  be  more  comfortable  or  in  better 
hands." 

On  the  i  yth  he  read  in  the  Gazette  the  news 
of  his  Victoria  Cross.  "  I  have  been  through  so 
much  since  June,"  he  wrote  to  his  uncle,  "  that 
what  would  and  should  have  made  me  yell  with 
joy  nearly  causes  tears.  It  gave  me  no  great 
feeling  of  having  achieved  anything.  I  feel  that 
I  know  so  many  who  have  done  and  are  doing 
so  much  more  than  I  have  been  able  to  do  for 
England.  I  also  feel  very  strongly  that  any 
honour  belongs  to  my  regiment  and  not  to  me. 
They  have  paid  the  toll,  and  will  go  on  paying 
until  the  road  is  clear.  .  .  .  My  dear  uncle, 
without  the  help  of  Providence  how  futile  our 


222    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

efforts  are  ;  but  with  it  even  humbugs  like  myself 
can  masquerade  as  brave.  It  will  be  a  lifelong 
pleasure  and  honour  to  your  nephew  to  know  that 
you,  one  of  the  greatest  soldiers  of  our  time,  who 
have  done  so  much  for  our  name  and  have  been 
so  kind  to  Rivy  and  me,  should  have  lived  to  see 
this  day.  Indeed,  the  greatest  joy  of  all  is  that 
it  will  please  you." 

For  five  months  he  remained  in  England,  and 
the  first  three  were,  I  think,  the  hardest  trial  of 
his  life.  He  was  slow  to  get  well,  and  limped 
about  London  with  a  thin  face  and  haggard  eyes, 
looking  like  a  man  searching  for  something  which 
he  could  not  find.  Now  he  realized  what  his 
brother's  death  meant  to  him.  The  alliance  of 
thirty  years  was  broken  for  ever,  and  he  had  lost 
half  of  himself.  His  looks  at  that  time  used  to 
frighten  me  :  he  had  the  air  which  in  Scotland 
we  call  "  fey/'  as  if  the  "  waft  of  death  "  had  gone 
out  against  him.  He  forced  himself  to  be  cheer- 
ful, but  his  gaiety  was  feverish  and  his  old  alacrity 
had  died.  I  remember  that  he  tried  to  interest 
himself  in  the  general  conduct  of  the  war  and 
would  argue  eagerly  for  a  little — and  then  sud- 
denly fall  silent.  For  things  more  poignant  than 
tactics  and  strategy  crowded  his  mind.  He  never 
doubted  our  ultimate  victory,  but  meantime  Rivy 
was  dead  and  every  day  his  friends  were  dying, 


A  MEMOIR.  223 

and  it  seemed  as  if  the  price  of  victory  would  be 
the  loss  of  all  that  he  had  loved. 

He  was  miserable,  too,  at  being  away  from  his 
regiment  and  his  squadron.  No  man  who  has 
not  served  in  a  unit  in  the  field  can  understand 
the  intimate  ties  which  bind  together  its  members. 
It  is  so  small  and  so  forlorn — a  little  clan  islanded 
amid  great  seas  of  pain  and  death.  The  regi- 
mental tradition  becomes  a  living  thing  like  a 
personal  memory.  Old  comradeships  in  sport 
and  play  and  the  easy  friendliness  of  peace-time 
are  transformed  into  something  closer  even  than 
friendship.  Every  communal  success  becomes  an 
individual  triumph,  every  loss  an  individual  sor- 
row. More  than  most  regular  officers  Francis  had 
this  aching  affection  for  his  regiment — the  devo- 
tion of  "  a  lover  or  a  child/'  At  Christmas  he 
sent  this  message  to  his  squadron  : — 

"  I  wish  you  all  the  very  best  of  luck  and  good  wishes  for 
Christmas  and  the  New  Year.  I  am  always  thinking  of  you, 
and  hope  very  soon  to  return.  Sir  John  French  said  the 
regiment  had  exceeded  the  greatest  traditions  of  the  army, 
and  in  this  '  B  '  Squadron  has  played  the  leading  part.  You 
were  the  first  squadron  of  the  regiment  in  action  at  the  begin- 
ning on  24th  August,  and  have  since  always  given  the  lead. 
Remember  the  brave  that  have  fallen,  and  be  determined  to 
serve  England  as  faithfully  as  they. 

'  You  have  all  my  very,  very  best  wishes  and  thoughts.  God 
bless  you  and  keep  you,  and  help  you  to  remain  the  finest 
squadron  in  the  world — the  only  squadron  that  has  got  for 


224    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

itself  already  a  D.C.M.,  a  Legion  d'Honneur,  a  commission, 
and  a  V.C.,  for  what  is  won  by  the  leaders  belongs  to  the  men. 
God  bless  you  all.'* 

Slowly,  very  slowly,  his  wound  mended,  and 
he  began  to  look  more  steadily  upon  the  world. 
Old  friends,  such  as  Mrs.  Asquith  and  Lord  Hugh 
Cecil,  did  much  to  restore  his  balance  ;  and  when 
he  went  to  spend  Christmas  with  his  brother 
Arthur,  who  was  training  with  the  Bucks  Yeo- 
manry in  Norfolk,  he  was  beginning  to  be  himself 
again.  In  January  1915  he  took  up  shooting, 
for  which  he  had  never  greatly  cared,  and  dis- 
covered that  on  occasion  he  could  be  a  brilliant 
shot.  Then  he  advanced  to  hunting  at  Oakham 
on  Harry  Whitney's  horses,  and  in  March  he 
reported  to  his  uncle  that  he  was  "  a  fighting 
man  once  more."  "  It  is  glorious  to  feel  strong 
and  well,  but  I  am  bound  to  say  the  stronger 
and  better  I  get  the  more  I  seem  to  realize  what 
it  means  to  have  lost  Rivy."  And  he  adds  a 
characteristic  note  :  "I  am  glad  to  say  my  nerve 
has  gone — in  the  right  direction.  Fences  are 
not  as  frightening  as  bullets.  It  is  a  joke  to  be 
afraid  of  things  that  are  there  to  shelter  cattle 
and  not  to  kill  you."  He  had  been  suffering 
from  too  clear  a  perspective,  seeing  human  effort 
too  constantly  against  the  cold  background  of 
eternity.  Now  he  could  look  upon  life  in  parti- 


A  MEMOIR.  225 

tions,  and  accept  the  kindly  conventions  which 
humanity  has  devised  to  shelter  it  from  the  outer 
winds.  Therefore,  as  he  put  it,  he  became 
"  keen  "  again  ;  for  keenness  means  that  the  mind 
is  fixed  on  the  various  stadia  of  the  game  of  life, 
and  not  on  the  horizon. 

When  he  was  passed  fit  for  foreign  service  he 
made  a  new  will,  appointing  the  late  Lord  Grey 
and  myself  his  executors  and  trustees.  His  affairs 
were  very  complicated,  and  it  was  by  no  means 
certain  that  he  had  much  or  anything  to  leave ; 
but  with  characteristic  optimism  he  made  elaborate 
dispositions  among  various  members  of  his  family. 
He  left  his  medals  to  his  regiment,  "  to  whom  the 
honour  of  my  gaining  the  Victoria  Cross  was  en- 
tirely due,  thanks  to  its  splendid  discipline  and 
traditions."  I  quote  the  last  two  clauses. 

"  I  wish  to  express  my  regret  that  my  financial  position 
does  not  permit  me  to  leave  anything  to  the  children  of  my 
uncle,  Francis,  Lord  Grenfell,  as  I  had  hoped  to  do,  but  I 
should  like  to  express  to  him  my  deep  gratitude  for  his  kindness 
to  me  during  my  lifetime.  Ever  since  the  day  when  he  decided 
that  I  should  go  into  the  army  at  his  expense  I  have  endeav- 
oured to  base  my  career  on  his  example.  He  has,  since  the 
death  of  my  father,  done  everything  that  a  father  could  do 
for  me.  I  should  also  like  to  thank  all  my  brothers  and  sisters 
for  their  kindness,  generosity,  and  hospitality  to  me.  No 
junior  member  of  a  family  could  have  been  blessed  with  more 
happy  relations. 

"  I  should  like  everything  possible  done  at  all  times  for  mine 
and  Rivy's  friends,  notably  the  Hon.  Mrs.  Arthur  Crichton, 

(2,187)  15 


226    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Mrs.  Duggan,  the  Countess  of  Erne,  the  Countess  of  Dudley, 
Lord  Francis  Scott,  Lord  Grey,  the  Hon.  Angus  McDonnell, 
Mr.  and  Mrs.  Waldorf  Astor,  Mrs.  Brooks,  the  officers  of  my 
regiment,  including  Brig.-General  Campbell  (who  has  stood 
by  me  in  peace  and  war  on  every  single  occasion),  Mr.  and 
Mrs.  Strawbridge,  Captain  Clowes,  the  Earl  of  Rocksavage, 
and  the  many  others  who  have  on  all  occasions  stood  by  me 
and  to  whom  I  am  deeply  grateful.  My  special  thanks  are 
due  to  the  Duke  of  Westminster  for  his  great  generosity  and 
kindness  to  me  on  many  occasions.  No  man  ever  had  a 
better  friend.  I  owe  a  great  deal  of  gratitude  to  my  servants, 
who  have  served  both  my  brother  and  myself  most  loyally 
for  a  long  time.  Without  making  any  legal  obligations,  I 
would  like  my  family  to  do  what  they  can  to  assist  the  Invalid 
Children's  Aid  Association,  as  my  brother  Rivy  asked  me." 

On  7th  April  he  gave  a  farewell  dinner  at 
Claridge's.  It  is  an  occasion  I  can  never  forget, 
for  it  was  the  last  time  I  saw  him,  and  it  seemed  to 
me  that  he  had  recovered  and  more  than  recovered 
all  his  old  ardour  and  youthfulness.  The  party 
were  his  brother  Arthur,  Lord  Grenfell,  Reggie 
Barnes,  Mr.  Arthur  Balfour,  Mr.  Winston 
Churchill,  Mr.  Andrew  Weir  (now  Lord  Inver- 
forth),  and  myself.  It  was  on  that  occasion,  I 
remember,  that  Mr.  Churchill  first  expounded 
his  views  about  those  instruments  of  war  which 
were  to  develop  into  the  Tanks.  The  discussion 
roamed  over  the  whole  field  of  military  and  naval 
policy,  and  I  have  rarely  heard  better  talk.  Some 
of  the  best  of  it  came  from  Francis,  and  I  realized 
how  immensely  his  mind  had  ripened  and  broad- 


A  MEMOIR.  227 

ened  in  the  past  months.  I  began  to  think  that 
if  he  were  spared  he  would  be  not  merely  a  gallant 
leader  of  troops  but  a  great  soldier. 

Francis  rejoined  his  regiment  on  Wednesday, 
2ist  April.  He  found  the  Qth  Lancers  in  billets 
at  Meteren,  where  they  had  been  training  on  and 
off  for  several  months.  "  I  must  say,"  he  wrote, 
"  I  am  mighty  glad  to  get  back  here,  for  this  life 
is  made  for  me.  ...  I  find  pals  everywhere.  I 
somehow  never  seem  to  go  anywhere  out  here 
without  finding  friends."  Next  evening  orders 
suddenly  came  to  saddle  up  and  support  the 
French  north-east  of  Ypres.  In  the  April  twi- 
light a  strange  green  vapour  had  appeared,  mov- 
ing over  the  French  trenches.  It  was  the  first 
German  gas  attack,  and  with  it  the  Second  Battle 
of  Ypres  began. 

The  ist  Cavalry  Division  marched  through 
Poperinghe  to  the  canal,  and  for  two  days  sup- 
ported the  French  on  the  extreme  left  of  the 
battlefield.  The  Ninth  were  lucky  enough  to 
have  no  casualties,  and  on  the  Sunday  they  re- 
turned to  their  quarters  at  Meteren.  A  week 
later,  on  2nd  May,  when  the  second  great  German 
attack  was  delivered,  they  were  moved  into  reserve 
behind  the  Salient.  On  the  6th  they  were  in 
Ypres  itself,  and  on  the  yth  they  were  back  in 


228    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

Meteren,  under  the  impression   that  their  share 
in  the  fight  was  over. 

Those  who  remember  the  Salient  only  in  the 
last  years  of  the  campaign,  when  it  had  become 
a  sodden  and  corrugated  brickyard,  can  scarcely 
conceive  what  the  place  was  like  during  the  throes 
of  the  Second  Battle.  The  city  of  Ypres  was 
dying,  but  not  yet  dead,  and  its  solemn  towers 
still  stood,  mute  protestants  against  the  outrage 
of  war.  To  the  east  of  it  the  meadows  were  still 
lush  and  green,  and  every  hedgerow  and  garden 
bright  with  lilac,  laburnum,  and  guelder-rose.  It 
was  a  place  of  terror,  but  also  a  place  of  blossom. 
The  sickly  smell  of  gas  struggled  with  the  scent  of 
hawthorn;  great  riven  limbs  of  flowering  chest- 
nuts lay  athwart  the  roads ;  the  cuckoo  called 
continually  from  the  thickets.  The  horror  of  war 
seemed  increased  a  thousandfold  when  shells 
burst  among  flowers,  and  men  died  in  torture 
amid  the  sounds  and  odours  of  spring. 

On  3rd  May  the  British  line  had  been  short- 
ened, and  on  the  iath  it  was  possible  to  relieve 
the  28 th  Division,  which  had  been  fighting  con- 
tinuously for  twenty  days.  Its  place  was  taken 
by  a  cavalry  detachment — the  ist  and  3rd  Cavalry 
Divisions  under  De  Lisle.  Their  front  ran  from 
the  Frezenberg  ridge  southward  across  the  Roulers 
railway  to  the  Bellewaarde  Lake  north  of  Hooge. 


A  MEMOIR.  229 

Francis,  who  had  been  uneasy  waiting  behind 
the  line,  welcomed  the  change.  "  Here  we  are," 
he  had  written,  "  sitting  peacefully  behind  like 
the  next  man  to  go  in  to  a  fast  bowler.  You  don't 
want  to  go  in,  and  yet  you  would  like  to  be  knock- 
ing about  the  bowling."  His  brigade  took  up 
position  in  the  front  line  late  on  the  evening  of 
the  1 2th.  The  trenches  had  been  much  damaged, 
and  it  was  necessary  to  reconstruct  the  parapets 
and  traverses. 

Thursday,  i3th  May,  a  day  of  biting  north 
winds  and  drenching  rains,  saw  one  of  the  severest 
actions  of  the  battle.  The  German  bombardment 
began  at  three  a.m.,  and  in  half  an  hour  parapets 
were  blown  to  pieces,  and  the  whole  front  was  a 
morass  of  blood  and  mire.  The  heaviest  blow 
fell  on  the  3rd  Cavalry  Division  south  of  the 
Roulers  railway,  but  the  ist  Division  did  not 
escape.  Its  two  brigades  in  line,  the  ist  and  2nd, 
were  able  to  maintain  their  ground,  but  it  was  by 
the  skin  of  their  teeth.  The  Qth  Lancers'  front 
was  held  by  "  C  '  Squadron,  under  Captain 
Graham,  on  the  left,  and  "  B  "  Squadron,  under 
Francis,  on  the  right.  On  the  left  were  the  i8th 
Hussars,  whose  trenches  were  utterly  blown  to 
pieces.  A  gap  presently  appeared  there,  but  the 
advancing  enemy  was  stopped  by  machine-gun 
fire  from  a  fortified  post  which  Captain  Graham 


230    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

managed  to  create  in  the  nick  of  time.  All  day 
the  battle  lasted,  and  by  the  evening  the  right 
of  the  cavalry  front  towards  the  Bellewaarde 
Lake  sagged  backward.  During  the  early  night 
the  bombardment  revived,  and  it  was  the  turn 
of  "  B  "  squadron  to  have  their  right  flank  exposed. 
The  situation,  however,  was  saved  by  the  oppor- 
tune arrival  of  the  nth  Hussars.  At  one  a.m. 
on  the  morning  of  the  i4th  the  Ninth  were  relieved, 
and  went  back  to  water-logged  trenches  in  front 
of  Ypres,  whence  late  that  evening  they  were 
withdrawn  to  Vlamertinghe.  They  had  lost  17 
killed  and  65  wounded,  and  "  B  "  Squadron  16 
killed  and  30  wounded,  including  all  troop  leaders 
and  sergeants. 

Francis's  part  in  the  great  fight  is  only  hinted 
at  in  his  diary.  "  The  most  fearful  bombardment 
lasted  for  fifteen  hours.  It  is  wonderful  how  one 
escapes.  These  cursed  coal-boxes  burst  all  down 
the  trench,  but  often  missed  us,  often  only  by  two 
or  three  yards,  but  that  makes  all  the  difference. 
Whatever  is  in  store  for  the  future,  I  shall  never 
be  nearer  death  than  I  was  on  the  I3th.  The 
spirit  of  the  men  was  simply  splendid.  No  one 
dreamed  of  retiring,  and  when  some  Huns  began 
advancing  there  was  a  cheer  of  *  Hurrah !  at  last  we 
shall  get  our  own  back  !  '  Unfortunately  one  of 
our  own  shells  pitched  near  them,  and  they  ran  like 


A  MEMOIR.  231 

hares.  Oh,  dear !  What  a  lot  of  friends  I  have 
lost."  He  mentions  casually  that  during  the  whole 
battle  he  "  felt  keen  and  never  lost  confidence." 
Indeed  he  seems  to  have  behaved  throughout  as 
if  he  were  having  a  good  day  in  the  Shires.  Francis 
in  war  had  much  of  Lord  Falkland's  quality,  as 
recorded  by  Clarendon.  "  He  had  a  courage  of  the 
most  cleere  and  keene  temper,  and  soe  farre  from  feare 
that  he  was  not  without  appetite  of  daunger,  and 
therfore  upon  any  occasyon  of  action  he  alwayess  en- 
gaged his  person  in  those  troopes  which  he  thought 
by  the  forwardnesse  of  the  Commanders  to  be  most 
like  to  be  farthest  engaged,  and  in  all  such  encounters 
he  had  aboute  him  a  strange  cheerefulnesse  and  com- 
paniablenesse"  These  last  words  are  most  apt 
to  his  case.  During  the  I3th,  when  generals  and 
staffs  were  in  utter  perplexity  as  to  where  the 
line  stood,  and  were  receiving  scarcely  varying 
messages  of  disaster,  the  report  which  Francis 
sent  back  to  General  Greenly  was  a  welcome 
relief.  He  concluded  thus  :  "  What  a  bloody 
day  !  Hounds  are  fairly  running  !  " 

On  the  1 6th  General  De  Lisle  addressed 
the  regiment.  "  I  have  to  congratulate  your 
squadron  as  usual,"  he  told  Francis.  "  I  hope 
you  will  tell  the  men  how  very  grateful  and 
proud  I  am  of  the  way  they  helped  me  to  hold 
the  line."  The  Ninth  were  given  two  days'  rest, 


232    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

and  on  i8th  May  moved  again  into  the  Salient. 
There  they  remained  in  support  till  the  night  of 
Sunday  the  23rd,  when  they  took  over  the  front 
line  from  the  i5th  and  iQth  Hussars  at  Hooge. 
Colonel  Beale-Browne  had  under  his  command, 
in  addition  to  the  Ninth,  400  of  the  Yorkshire 
Regiment  and  120  of  the  Durham  Light  Infantry. 
His  front  was  divided  into  two  sections — the  right 
being  held  by  "  A "  Squadron  under  Captain 
Noel  Edwards,  with  120  Yorkshires  and  120 
Durhams  ;  the  left  by  "  B  '  Squadron  under 
Francis,  with  the  two  regimental  machine  guns 
and  about  200  Yorkshires.  "  C  "  Squadron,  under 
Rex  Benson,  was  in  support.  Raymond  Greene, 
acting  as  second-in-command,  was  in  general 
charge  of  the  left  section. 

On  the  morning  of  Sunday  the  23rd  Francis, 
along  with  his  Colonel,  attended  early  Communion. 
I  have  said  little  of  that  religion  which  was  so 
strong  a  feature  of  his  character,  for  it  was  of  the 
simple  and  vital  type  which  is  revealed  more  in 
deeds  than  in  phrases.  He  was  never  at  ease  in 
Sion,  and  shunned  the  professions  of  facile  piety. 
But  he  did  not  lose  his  childlike  trust  in  God,  and 
drew  strong  and  abiding  comfort  from  a  creed 
which  was  as  forthright  and  unquestioning  as  a 
mediaeval  crusader's.  He  and  Rivy  during  their 
brief  campaign  together  read  the  I2ist  Psalm 


A  MEMOIR.  233 

every  morning.  Francis  never  went  into  a  match, 
much  less  a  battle,  without  prayer.  For  men  like 
Bishop  Furse  he  had  a  profound  regard,  and 
whenever  he  got  the  chance  would  bring  him  to 
talk  to  his  squadron.  His  Colonel,  who  knew 
him  in  those  last  hours  when  men's  hearts  are 
bared,  has  borne  witness  how  much  his  religion 
meant  to  him. 

The  dawn  of  Monday,  24th  May,  promised  a 
perfect  summer  day  with  cloudless  skies  and  a 
light  north-easterly  breeze.  About  three  a.m. 
the  cavalry  in  the  trenches  saw  a  thick  yellow 
haze,  thirty  feet  high,  rolling  down  from  the 
ridge  a  hundred  yards  before  them,  and  the  air 
was  filled  with  a  curious  pungent  smell.  They 
had  had  no  previous  experience  of  gas,  and  in 
twenty  seconds  the  cloud  was  upon  them.  Then 
came  the  German  guns,  making  a  barrage  behind 
to  keep  back  reinforcements.  Though  our  res- 
pirators at  the  time  were  elementary  the  cavalry 
managed  to  weather  the  gas,  and  held  their 
ground  through  the  seventeen  long  hours  of 
daylight  that  followed.  It  was  the  last  phase  of 
the  battle,  and  the  German  assault  broke  for 
good  on  that  splendid  steadfastness. 

But  a  high  price  was  paid  for  victory.  In  the 
small  hours  of  the  25th  a  little  party  of  some  forty 
men  stumbled  in  the  half  light  along  the  Menin 


234    FRANCIS  AND  RIVERSDALE  GRENFELL. 

road,  through  the  crumbling  streets  of  Ypres, 
and  out  into  the  open  country  towards  Vlamer- 
tinghe.  Those  who  passed  them  saw  figures  like 
spectres,  clothes  caked  with  dirt,  faces  yellow 
from  the  poison  gas.  They  were  all  that  re- 
mained of  the  Qth  Lancers.  Their  Brigadier, 
General  Mullens,  met  them  on  the  road,  but 
dared  not  trust  himself  to  speak  to  them.  "  Tell 
them,"  he  told  the  Colonel,  "  that  no  words  of 
mine  can  express  my  reverence  for  the  Ninth." 
Next  day  General  Byng,  who  commanded  the 
Cavalry  Corps,  visited  the  remnant.  "  Put  any- 
thing in  orders  you  like,"  he  said.  "  Nothing 
you  can  say  will  be  adequate  to  my  feelings  for 
the  old  Ninth.  Of  course  I  knew  you  would 
stick  it,  but  that  doesn't  lessen  my  unbounded 
admiration  of  you  all." 

With  them  they  brought  the  body  of  Francis 
Grenfell.  When  the  attack  opened  and  the  in- 
fantry on  the  left  fell  back,  he  was  busy  converting 
a  communication  trench  into  a  fire  trench,  and 
shouting  out  in  his  old  cheery  way,  "  Who's 
afraid  of  a  few  dashed  Huns  ?  '  He  stood  on 
rising  ground  behind  the  trench  when  he  was 
shot  through  the  back.  He  managed  to  send  a 
message  to  his  squadron,  the  true  testament  of 
the  regimental  officer  :  "  Tell  them  I  died  happy, 
loving  them  all."  Then  he  who  had  once  lived 


A  MEMOIR.  235 

cheerfully  in  the  sun,  but  for  months  had  been 
among  the  fogs  and  shadows,  went  back  to  the 
sunlight. 

He  was  buried  in  the  churchyard  of  Vlamer- 
tinghe,  and  beside  him  was  laid  Sergeant  Hussey, 
one  of  the  most  gallant  N.C.O.'s  in  the  Ninth. 
Some  one  said  at  the  graveside,  "  How  happy 
old  Hussey  would  have  been  to  know  he  died 
with  Francis." 

I  have  quoted  already  from  Clarendon's  char- 
acter of  Falkland,  and  if  it  be  permitted  to  construe 
knowledge  in  terms  not  of  academic  learning  but 
of  self-understanding  and  self-mastery,  the  closing 
words  of  the  tribute  to  the  young  Marcellus  of  the 
Civil  War  may  be  Francis's  epitaph  :  "  Thus  fell 
that  incomparable  younge  man  in  the  fowre-and- 
thirtieth  yeere  of  his  Age,  havinge  so  much  dispatched 
the  businesse  of  life  that  the  oldest  rarely  attayne  to 
that  immense  knowledge,  and  the  youngest  enter  not 
into  the  world  with  more  innocence.  Whosoever 
leads  such  a  life  neede  not  care  upon  how  shorte  a 
warninge  it  be  taken  from  him" 


INDEX. 


ABADIE,  Major,  218,  219. 
Alba,  Duke  of,  161,  162,  163. 
Alexander,  Major  G.  H.,  195,  196, 

197. 
Alfonso,  His  Majesty  King,  xix,  74, 

161,  162,  163,  164,  179,  208. 
Allenby,  General  Lord,  202,  212, 

215- 

American  Polo  Team,  The,  138, 
139,  140-144. 

Ascot,  28. 

Ashby  St.  Ledgers,  75. 

Asquith,  Mr.  H.  H.,  35,  74,  78-79, 
121  ;  Mrs.,  74,  78-79,  113,  121, 
201,  224  ;  Miss  Violet  (Lady 
Bonham-Carter),  78 ;  Ray- 
mond, 46,  73. 

Astor,  Waldorf  (Lord  Astor),  16, 
28,  41,  58,  136,  226. 

Audregnies,  193,  202. 

BADEN-POWELL,  Sir  Robert,  99. 

Balfour,  Mr.  Arthur,  38,  39,  75, 
80,  226. 

Baring,  Hon.  Windham,  23,  121. 

Barnes,  Major-General  Sir  Regi- 
nald, 68,  69,  92,  226. 

Beale-Browne,  Colonel,  xx,  232. 

Beatty,  Admiral  Lord,  124. 

Bell,  Sir  Hugh,  124. 

Benson,  Mr.  Arthur,  10. 

Benson,  Captain  Rex,  232. 

Beresford,  Lord  Marcus,  132. 

Bingham,  Major-General  Hon.  Sir 
Cecil,  123. 

Birkenhead,  Lord.  See  Smith,  F.E. 

Blackwood,  Lord  Basil,  217,  220  ; 
Lord  Frederick  (Marquis  of 
Dufferin),  66,  69,  86. 

Blagdon,  122. 


Blood,  General  Sir  Bindon,  96 ; 
Lady,  86. 

Bonbright,  Mr.,  40,  93,  132. 

Books  read  by  the  Twins  :  Hux- 
ley's Science  and  Education, 
29 ;  Rose's  Napoleon,  35  ; 
Macaulay's  Essays,  35,  Life, 
36,  73,  94  ;  Lecky's  Map  of 
Life,  35,  History,  57  ;  Bacon's 
Essays,  35,  73 ;  Rosebery's 
The  Last  Phase,  36;  Shakes- 
peare's Plays,  36,  73,  96, 
Venus  and  Adonis,  72;  Moltke's 
Life,  36 ;  Pickwick  Papers, 
36,  94,  158  ;  Oliver  Twist,  73  ; 
David  Copper  field,  120  ;  Alice 
in  Wonderland,  39  ;  Creevey 
Papers,  46  ;  Burke,  72  ;  Mor- 
ley's  Burke,  57,  73,  Life  of 
Gladstone,  73,  91,  133  ;  Butler's 
Sermons,  57 ;  Vanity  Fair, 

72,  73,  158  ;    Pope's  Iliad,  72, 

73,  Odyssey,    91  ;       Grenville 
Papers,  73  ;    Townsend's  Eu- 
rope   and    Asia,     73 ;     Childe 
Harold,    73  ;     Disraeli's    Lord 
George    Bentinck,    91  ;     Quin- 
tilian's  Education  of  an  Orator, 
91  ;    Mile,   de    Maupin,     94  ; 
The    Jungle,     94 ;      Boswell's 
Life  of  Johnson,  94  ;  Walpole's 
Letters,    94,    96 ;     Plato's   Re- 
public, 96  ;    Denison's  History 
of    Cavalry,     95  ;      Prescott's 
Conquest  of  Mexico,  100  ;  Kim, 
100 ;      Paradise      Lost,     100 ; 
Queen  Victoria's  Letters,   133, 
134  ;      Jack     Sheppard,     134 ; 
Bryce's     American     Common- 
wealth, 145;  Henderson's  Stone- 


INDEX. 


237 


wall  Jackson,    158  ;    Jorrocks, 

158 ;      Les    Miserables,     158  ; 

Life  of  Nelson,  158. 
Brassey,  Leonard,  95. 
Broken  Hill,  149. 
Brooke,  Victor,  69,  85. 
Buckhurst,  74. 
Bucks    Hussars,    The,     64,     187, 

224. 

Biilow,  Count  von,  170. 
Bulteel,    Miss,    13  ;     Mrs.    Lionel, 

see  Grenfell,  Juanita. 
Burnham,  Lord,  xiii,  86. 
Butler's  Court,  134.     . 
Byng,  General  Lord,  234. 

CAIRO,  23. 

Campbell,  Major-General  Sir  Da- 
vid, 42,  84,  202,  203,  204,  209, 
226. 

Campbell-Bannerman,  Sir  Henry, 
29,  46- 

Cecil,  Lord  Hugh,  48,  57,  70,  71, 
75,  76,  78,  79,  80,  99,  106,  126, 
224  ;  Lord  Robert,  49. 

Chamberlain,  Mr.  Austen,  80,  169; 
Joseph,  23,  47,  71. 

Charter  Trust,  The,  28,  55,  56. 

Cholmondeley,  Lord,  107,  108. 

Churchill,  Mr.  Winston,  48,  76, 
161,  174,  176,  214,  226. 

Cliveden,  28,  136. 

Compton,  Lord  Douglas,  86. 

Cooch  Behar,  58,  63. 

Crawley,  Eustace,  59. 

Cromer,  Lord,  23,  120,  121. 

Curzon,  Lord,  54,  69,  121. 

DALMENY,  Lord,  29,  49,  74,  84. 
Davids,  Sergeant,  217. 
Dawnay,  Hugh,  199. 
Dawkins,  Sir  Clinton,  50,  56,  76. 
De  Lisle,   Lieutenant-General  Sir 

B.,    116,    194,    198,    201,    202, 

210,  228,  231. 
Desborough,  Lord,  3. 
Disraeli,  8,  133. 
Dragoon   Guards,    The   4th,    no, 

J94,  195,  204,  212. 
Dudley,  Lord,  34  ;   Lady,  226. 
Dufferin,   Lord.      See  Blackwood, 

Lord  Frederick. 


Du  Pre,  George,  8. 

Durnford,  Mr.  Walter,  10,  14,  15. 

EATON  HALL,  72,  75,  81,  106,  133. 

Edward  VII.,  His  Majesty  King, 
30-31,  74. 

Edwards,  Noel,  144,  232. 

Elliot,  Lady  Eileen  (Lady  Francis 
Scott),  86,  97  ;  Lady  Ruby 
(Lady  Cromer),  97 ;  Lady 
Violet  (Lady  V.  Astor),  97. 

Eton,  x-xi,  10-16,  18,  35,  44,  53, 
55,  66,  102,  145  ;  Eton  Beagles, 
10  ;  Eton  Eleven,  n. 

FARQUHAR,  Lord,  30. 

Fergusson,  Lieutenant-General  Sir 

Charles,  194,  200. 
Fitzmaurice,  Lord  Charles,  60. 
Fripp,  Sir  Alfred,  115,  135. 
Furse,  Bishop,  233. 
Fiirstenstein,  170. 

GAEKWAR  OF  BARODA,  The,  21 

George  V.,  His  Majesty  King,  xiv- 
xvii,  xix,  201. 

Germany,  in,  116,  117,  169-177; 
the  Crown  Prince  of,  162  ;  the 
Empress-Dowager  of,  14. 

Glamis  Castle,  167-168. 

Gordon-Lennox,  Lord  Esme,  16. 

Gough,  General  Sir  Hubert,  116, 
202. 

Graham,  Captain,  229 ;  Lord 
Malise,  123. 

Grand  Military,  The,  42,  92,  119, 
131,  132,  138. 

Grand  National,  The,  42,  51,  60, 
119, 128, 129, 131, 132,  138, 152. 

Greene,  Lieutenant-Colonel  Ray- 
mond, 220,  232. 

Greenly,  Major-General  W.  H.,  231. 

Grenfell,  Aline,  Lady,  134,  164  ; 
Arthur,  3,  14,  28,  37,  51,  56, 
64,  99,  100,  101,  104,  106,  153, 
164,  178,  180,  181,  182,  224, 
226  ;  Cecil,  17,  51,  70,  92,  104, 
157  ;  Claude,  3  ;  Dolores,  39. 

Field-Marshal  Francis,  Lord, 

3,  16,  17,  23,  24,  70,  75,  84, 
120,  134,  139,  143,  188,  200, 

221,  225,  226. 


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INDEX. 


Grenfell,  Francis  Octavius,  birth, 
2  ;  childhood,  5-9  ;  at  Temple 
Grove  School,  9—10  ;  at  Eton, 
10-16  ;  Master  of  Beagles,  10  ; 
Eton  Eleven,  n  ;  joins  Sea- 
forth  Militia,  18 ;  in  Cape 
Colony,  20-21  ;  at  Loch  Car- 
ron,  22  ;  in  Egypt,  23  ;  joins 
6oth  Rifles,  23  ;  with  Lord 
Grenfell  at  Malta,  23-24  ;  at 
Harrismith,  25-28,  33,  34 ; 
with  column  in  W.  Transvaal, 
31-32  ;  with  6oth  in  India, 
41-46,  50-52,  58-65  ;  wins 
Hog-hunter's  Cup,  63 ;  joins 
9th  Lancers,  65  ;  at  special 
manoeuvres,  84-85  ;  visit  to 
frontier,  87-88  ;  in  Kashmir, 
89 ;  stays  with  the  Mintos, 
96-98  ;  goes  to  Potchefstroom, 
98  ;  return  to  England,  101  ; 
at  Cavalry  School,  Netheravon, 
104  ;  life  in  South  Africa,  108- 
iii,  115-120,  105-133  ;  big- 
game  hunting,  148-150 ;  in 
America,  158-161  ;  visit  to 
King  Alfonso,  161-163  ;  at 
French  manoeuvres,  164—167  ; 
in  Germany,  169-177  ;  at  Ger- 
man manoeuvres,  175-176 ; 
goes  to  Tidworth,  178  ;  to  the 
front  with  9th  Lancers,  189 ; 
wins  V.C.,  194-198  ;  return  to 
Flanders,  209 ;  in  action  at 
Messines,  215-220  ;  invalided 
home,  223-225  ;  his  will,  225- 
226  ;  his  farewell  dinner,  236  ; 
return  to  front,  227  ;  his  part 
in  Second  Battle  of  Ypres, 
229-234  ;  his  death,  234-235. 

Harold,  3,  14,  21,  31,  32,  51, 

70  ;  Admiral  Sir  Harry,  4,  5  ; 
Admiral  John,  3  ;  John,  21, 
56,  118,  120 ;  Julian,  3,  4 ; 
Juanita  (Mrs.  Lionel  Bulteel), 
99,  124 ;  Pascoe,  x,  3 ;  Pascoe 
Du  Pre,  2,  3,  4,  5,  16,  17. 

Riversdale  Nonus,  birth,  2  ; 

childhood,  5-9 ;  at  Temple 
Grove,  9-10 ;  Eton,  10-16 ; 
whip  of  Eton  Beagles,  10  ; 
clerk  in  Bank  of  England,  19  ; 


at  Malta,  24 ;  in  Charter 
Trust,  28  ;  at  Terling,  38  ;  in 
America,  40-41  ;  in  South 
Africa,  54-56 ;  at  Hatfield, 
57-58  ;  visit  to  India,  59-64  ; 
wins  Kadir  Cup,  61—63  ;  first 
attempt  at  public  speaking, 
77  ;  visit  to  Hatfield,  78-80  ; 
in  1906  election,  82-84  ;  joins 
Bonbrights,  93  ;  in  South 
Africa,  99 ;  in  Mexico  and 
Canada,  99-101  ;  character 
compared  with  Francis,  102- 
103  ;  plays  polo  for  England 
against  Ireland,  105-106;  bad 
accident,  111-115  >  a^  1908 
manoeuvres,  122-124 ;  oper- 
ated on  for  appendicitis,  134- 
136;  in  Holland,  139—140; 
visit  of  American  polo  team, 
140-144 ;  in  America,  144- 
147  ;  joins  his  brother  Arthur's 
firm,  153 ;  with  Old  Etonian 
team  in  America,  158-160  ; 
visit  to  King  Alfonso,  161- 
163  ;  at  Glamis,  167-168  ; 
ballooning,  177 ;  in  Canada, 
178  ;  goes  to  front  with  9th 
Lancers,  187 ;  last  sight  of 
Francis,  198  ;  galloper  for  De 
Lisle,  201-203  ;  in  retreat  from 
Mons,  203-204 ;  at  First  Battle 
of  the  Aisne,  204-205 ;  his 
death,  205-206. 

Grenfell,  Robert,  x,  3,  14,  17 ; 
Admiral  Sidney,  3 ;  Sofia,  2, 
6,  9,  1 6,  17  ;  Lady  Victoria, 
99,  100,  101. 

Grenville,  Sir  Richard,  2,  132. 

Grey,  Lord  (Albert),  28,  98,  100, 
208,  225  ;  Charles,  149  ;  Lady 
Sibyl,  74. 

Grosvenor,  Lady  Helen  (Lady 
Helen  Seymour),  163  ;  Lord 
Hugh,  123,  158,  159. 

Guest,  Hon.  Frederick,  31 ;  Henry, 
59,  60 ;  Ivor,  see  Wimborne, 
Lord. 

HAIG,  Field-Marshal  Lord,  50,  61, 

84. 
Haldane,  Lord,  38,  79,  134. 


INDEX. 


239 


Halle,  Professor  von,  47. 
Harrismith,  25,  26,  27,  33,  34,  36. 
Hatchlands,  2,  5,  6. 
Hatfield,  57,  78-79,  99,  H3,  "4, 

124. 

Hog-hunter's  Cup,  The,  62-63. 
Hood,    Rear-Admiral    H.    L.    A., 

58. 
Howell,  Brigadier-General  Philip, 

87. 

Howick,  1 06. 
Humbert,  M.,  167. 
Hurlingham,  64,  95,  104,  114,  177. 
Hussars,  The  4th,  99;    the  nth, 

230  ;    the  i4th,  26  ;    the  i5th, 

232 ;  the  i8th,   193,  202,  204, 

229  ;  the  igth,  232. 
Hussey,  Sergeant,  235. 
Hythe  Musketry  School,  235. 

INVALID   CHILDREN'S  AID   ASSO- 
CIATION, The,  1 68,  226. 

JOFFRE,  Marshal,  167. 
Johannesburg,  32,  117,  118. 

KADIR  CUP,  The,  60-63,  161,  208. 
Kafue  Flats,  The,  148,  149. 
Kitchener,  Lord,   37,   38,   52,  58, 

68,  69,  84,  85,  90. 

LANCERS,  The  9th,  43,  45,  50,  65, 

69,  88,  90,  99,  156,  179,  180, 
187,    188,    190-198,    199,   204, 
205,   209—220,   223,   227,   228— 
235  ;   the  i6th,  162,  179  ;   the 
1 7th,  41. 

Lawley,  Hon.  Sir  Arthur,  178. 
Lloyd,     Brigadier-General      Har- 

dress,  144,  160. 
Loangwa  River,  The,  149. 
Loch  Carron,  18,  22,  66. 
Long,  Mr.  Walter,  128. 
Longman,   Lieutenant-Colonel  H. 

K,  n,  47. 
Lucas-Tooth,  Captain,  195,  197. 

MCDONNELL,    Hon.    Angus,    135, 

226. 

McKenna,  Mr.  Reginald,  121. 
Mackinder,  Sir  H.  J.,  47. 
Maguire,  Dr.  Miller,  73. 


Mahon,  Lieutenant-General  Sir  B., 

61,  62. 

Maitland,  Brigadier-General,  177. 
Malcolm,  Mr.  D.  O.,  no. 
Manoeuvres,  British,  122  ;  French, 

164-167  ;    German,  175-176. 
Marling,  Colonel  P.  S.,  186. 
Maxwell,  General  Sir  John,  70. 
Melton,  12,  23,  24,  27,  31. 
Messina,  54,  118. 
Messines,  214-220. 
Methuen,  Field-Marshal  Lord,  31, 

no,  130. 

Metzsch,  Baron,  176. 
Mexico,  99,  100,  168-169. 
Midleton,     Lord    (Mr.    St.     John 

Brodrick),  49,  79. 

Milburn,  Mr.  Devereux,  144,  160  n. 
Miller,  Lieutenant-Colonel  E.  D., 

"4»  I57- 

Milner,  Lord,  38,  70,  76,  91. 
Minto,  Lord,  69,  85,  96,  97  ;  Lady, 

97,  98. 
Moedwil,  32. 
Moratalla,  161. 
Morgan,  Mr.  J.  Pierpont  (senior), 

147  ;   (junior),  48,  124,  145. 
Mullens,  Major-General  R.  L.,  234. 
Murray,  of  Loch  Carron,  Alasdair, 

1 8  ;    Mr.   Charles,   xxi  ;    Lady 

Anne,   22  ;    Miss   Sybil   (Hon. 

Mrs.  C.  Willoughby),  22,  26. 

NETHERAVON,  92,  104. 
North  Mimms,  125. 
Nuneham.  121. 

OAKHAM,  224. 

Overstone,  200.  * 

PALMER,  Lady  Mabel  (Lady  Grey), 

48,  57- 

Paris,  37,  47. 
Phipps,  Mr.  Paul,  16,  74. 
Pless,  Princess,  31,  170. 
Polesden  Lacey,  76. 
Politics,  The  Twins  in,  71,  76-77, 

81,  82-84,  115,  138,  155-156. 
Polo    matches,    65,    92,    104-106, 

112,  114,  156-159,  162-163. 
Ponies:  "  Kitty,"  7,   8;  "Snipe," 

51 ;    "  Barmaid,"   59,  61,  62  ; 


240 


INDEX. 


"  Cocos,"  61,  63  ;  "  Recluse," 
62  ;"  Despair,"  in  ;  "  Sweet- 
briar,"  113,  137  ;  "  Cinder- 
ella," 115,  140,  142,  143. 

RANELAGH,  37,  104,  105. 
Rawlinson,  General  Lord,  25,  42, 

48,  64,  85,  89. 
Rayleigh,  Lord,  38,  39. 
Repington,  Colonel,  127. 
Rhodes,  Colonel  Frank,  12. 
Rhodesia,  55. 
Ribblesdale,  Lord,  38. 
Ricardo,  Wilfred,  82. 
Ridley,  Lord,  122. 
Roberts,  Lord,  201. 
Rocksavage,  Lord,  158,  159,  226. 
Roehampton,    37,    64,    104,    164, 

180. 

Rosebery,  Lord,  29,  47,  49. 
Roxburghe,  Duke  of,  104,  114. 

SALISBURY,  Lord,  48,  49,  58. 

Santonia,  Duke  of,  161. 

Scots  Greys,  The,  122. 

Scott,   Lord  Francis,   16,   26,   35, 

85,  86,  96,  97,  226. 
Seaforth  Militia,  The,  18,  23. 
Seaton,  Corporal,  218. 
Selborne,  Lord,  no,  128  ;    Lady, 

126. 
Smith,  Mr.  F.  E.   (Lord  Birken- 

head),  91. 

Somerset,  Duke  of,  21. 
Spencer,  Lord,  124. 
Stonewall  Jackson,  48,  160. 
Stuart- Wortley,  Jack,  31. 
Sutherland,  Millicent,  Duchess  of, 

134- 


TEMPLE  GROVE,  9. 

Terling,  38,  46. 

Thulin,  192,  193. 

Tibet  Expedition,  The,  43. 

Tidworth,  178,  179,  180,  187. 

VIANA,  Marquis  of,  161. 
Virginia,  160. 

WAKE,  Sir  Hereward,  34. 

Warre,  Dr.,  13. 

Webb,  Mrs.  Sidney,  48. 

Weir,   Mr.   Andrew   (Lord   Inver- 

forth),  226. 

West,  Mrs.  Cornwallis,  72. 
Westminster,    Duke    of     ("  Bend 

Or"),    75,   81,    106,    107,    108, 

119,  180,   188,   198,   199,  226; 

Duchess  of,  123,  163. 
Westonbirt,  28. 
White,  Miss  Muriel,  121. 
Whitelaw  Reid,  Miss  (Hon.  Mrs. 

John  Ward),  74. 
Whitney,  Mr.  Harry,  147,  160  n., 

224. 
Willoughby,     Lieutenant-Colonel 

Hon.  Claude,  xx,  66. 
Wilson,  Captain  H.,  105,  106,  144, 

160. 

Wilton  Park,  8,  u,  29. 
Wimborne,  Lord  (Ivor  Guest),  75, 

76,  160  n.,  221  ;    Lady,  113. 
Wodehouse,  Lord,  158,  220. 
Wyndham,     George,     75  ;      Hon. 

Hugh,  129  ;    Mrs.  (Miss  Maud 

Lyttelton),  38,  57. 

YPRES,  First  Battle  of,  210-220 ; 
Second,  227-235. 


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